This brief review describes a case study of an
11-year-old boy who had been enuretic on a nightly basis since the age
of five. According to the boy’s mother, the onset followed a beating by
the boy’s father. Apparently, the son awakened the father when he got up
to use the toilet, and was subsequently beaten. Nightly bed-wetting had
resulted over the ensuing six years despite several attempts by
professionals to resolve the problematic occurrences. The father and
mother have been divorced for the past two and a half years. The son and
his sister, and two half-sisters, reside with the mother. The father has
had no contact with his children since the divorce.
The boy’s mother was in therapy with me and, thereby,
familiar with the therapeutic effects derived with Evolving Thought
Field Therapy (EvTFT) methods. The son was in treatment with another
psychologist who practices more traditional psychoanalytic therapy.
During one of her therapy sessions, the mother began sharing her
concerns about her son’s ongoing problem and asked if I could help him.
I reminded her that he already had a therapist and that I was not
interested in disrupting that relationship. The mother, frustrated with
the lack of change in her son’s bed-wetting problem, related to me that
the current focus of her son’s therapy was failing to address this
concern. The mother conveyed that her son suffered much anguish about
his problem and wanted it to end. Recognizing the validity of my
patient’s reasoning respective to the problem, I offered to try an
energy psychology intervention that would possibly address her issues
yet not interfere with the son-therapist relationship. I proposed that
the mother serve as a surrogate for her son regarding the treatment of
his chronic bed-wetting problem. I had used surrogates in the past, but
only with the patient actually present during the diagnosis and
treatment of the problem. In this case, in order to maintain a neutral
relation to the son, I explained to the mother that her son need not be
present, and that she would serve as his surrogate for both diagnosis
and treatment of her son’s problem. The mother readily agreed. What
follows is an account of what transpired.
Using muscle-testing procedures (energy checks)
involving the arm (deltoid muscle), permission was verified that the
mother was willing to serve as her son’s surrogate and that the son gave
permission for his mother to serve as his surrogate. While this may
appear a "leap of energetic faith," the important part is that
permission to proceed was acquired at the non-verbal energetic level.
Treatment efforts would have immediately ceased if either party denied
permission. In like fashion, confirmation to release each another in the
surrogate role is verified when treatment is completed.
The first Thought Field (TF) the mother attuned,
which was diagnosed and treated[1],
was the beating her son experienced when at age five he went to the
toilet and awakened his father. While the mother thought about the
beating incident, energy checks of individual meridian alarm points
revealed disturbances in 4 major meridian pathways as well as in central
and governing. There was also one psychological reversal. After the
pathways were stimulated at designated treatment sites using the Touch
and Breathe method, and the psychological reversal corrected, subsequent
energy checks showed that each meridian now maintained its coherence
when the mother thought of the beating. However, at the following
session, the mother reported that there was no change in her son’s
problem. At this point, I wondered if there were additional issues that
needed to be addressed or if this form of surrogate work just did not
work. The mother, incidentally, never said a word to her son about the
surrogate work she had done.
Three weeks after the initial treatment of the TF
related to the beating, another attempt was made using the same
surrogate model. The targeted TF this time was the bed-wetting problem.
Permission was again obtained and diagnosis and treatment of this TF was
completed. While the mother thought about the bed-wetting, energy checks
of individual meridian alarm points revealed disturbances in 6 major
meridians as well as central and governing, with 2 meridians requiring
more than one treatment. There was also one deep level psychological
reversal. Upon completion of the treatment, the mother described a
"spacey" feeling along with an increase of energy, tingling in her hands
and feet, cognitive clarity, and a lack of inhibition. I therefore had
the mother complete a neuro-energetic organizing procedure to stabilize
and ground her. Upon performing this procedure, the mother’s reported
symptoms subsided.
The following week the mother reported that her son
wet himself for two days when he fell asleep on the couch. He did not
wet in the bed. During the subsequent five days, he was reported to be
completely dry in bed and on the couch. The mother said that her son had
never been dry for five days in a row before. However, a third TF was
identified and treated, which pertained to any remaining problems
connected to wetting or staying dry in any situation or location.
Permission was again obtained and diagnosis and treatment of this TF was
completed. While the mother thought about this TF, energy checks of
individual meridian alarm points revealed disturbances in 2 meridians.
There was also one psychological reversal. Upon completion of treatment,
the mother stated "I feel a release of independence for my son".
At the time of this writing, the boy has maintained a
dry bed for nearly three months. As might be expected, the mother
observed that her son has been more cheerful in the morning and
seemingly gaining more self-confidence. I find the observation that the
mother never said a word to her son about the surrogate work she did for
him regarding his problem, and that her son never said a word to her
about the sudden elimination of his problem, to be most intriguing.
Perhaps the cessation of the bed-wetting, which
directly followed the surrogate treatments, was entirely coincidental.
However, the fact that a 6-year problem which had not responded to other
interventions suddenly abated suggests that the surrogate treatments may
have been instrumental. If so, this outcome is very challenging to
explain. It was a single-blind situation; the boy did not know a new
form of treatment had been introduced. Current hypotheses about the
mechanisms that are involved in the use of energy psychology methods do
not adequately explain such results from an "at a distance" surrogate
treatment. While I have written elsewhere[2]
offering a hypothetical model that successful outcomes using
meridian based psychotherapy results from attainment of "Frequency
Resonance Coherence" between and among meridians as they resonate with
the thought field, an expanded paradigm is clearly needed to account for
the intriguing type of outcome described in this paper and,
incidentally, also reported with some frequency by other practitioners
of energy-based psychotherapy methods.