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>>14940 Clubbing in tokyo or Osaka can get you laid fairly easy if the right girl happens to be there, you'll do better if you are with friends too because she will certainly be. Then eventually you can break off from the group and go for a walk... But most of the women at clubs are just there to go out with their friends. As a previous post mentioned, sign up for Mixi! It is like myspace, and is popular with all ages-- you can meet online, which makes a lot of women more comfortable, especially if they are already married, or don't want friends to see them going out and getting picked up. I ended up sleeping with way more gaijin girls during my two years in tokyo. I only wish I had discovered mixi sooner, because the two times it worked for me were way great. The minute you start texting back and forth and flirting (clumsily) you're almost there because you already have so much more to go on. If into swinging or group "activity", adult friend finder has a category for Japan. Really only useful if you are a single woman or a couple. While I had a girlfriend there, though, we were invited to plenty of "events", and there are plenty of other gaijin couples looking for fun too (vacation mentality) not to mention japanese couples who are curious.
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