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Has /trv/ ever had a long distance relationship? How did you meet, in person or on the internet? Was it someone from another country? Did you ever visit each other? Internationally? Intercontinentally? Do share.
>> Anonymous
>Has /trv/ ever had a long distance relationship?
A few.
>How did you meet, in person or on the internet?
Both.
>Was it someone from another country?
No.
>Did you ever visit each other?
Yes.
>Internationally?
No.
>Intercontinentally?
No.
>> Anonymous
long-distance relationships don't work. they kind of contrast with what the point of a relationship actually is.
>> Anonymous
>>77564
Unless they have an end point in sight (when they stop being long distance).
>> Anonymous
I had a Hong Kong girl for a while, she left for home and insisted we carry on the relationship. She later dumped me after I put up with her bullshit for months, I fail for being too unassertive.

I think it all depends on the parties involved, but I wouldnt be optimistic about it personally.
>> Anonymous
the girl is always fat.

ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>> Anonymous
>>Has /trv/ ever had a long distance relationship?
I'm in one now.
>>How did you meet, in person or on the internet?
Internet
>>Was it someone from another country?
She's in Canada, I'm in the UK
>>Did you ever visit each other?
I've visited her once; last September. I've already booked my next ticket.
>>Internationally?
Yes.
>>Intercontinentally?
Yes.


I'm doing a 2 year computing course in the UK, for the second year she's moving to England to live, then after I've finished we're both going back to Canada where I'll live, and we can work on her education, then move back to HK, where we both want to be.

That's the plan, anyway. We shall see.
>> Anonymous
i lived in beijing for a year up until this april. i never planned on it, since i was mostly there for fun, but i fell for a beautiful and really smart local girl while i was there. i came back home to finish my last year of university and we're going to stay together until i finish school and rejoin her next summer to help her with her own business. it's been 7 months since i've left but we still talk every day. hopefully it'll work out cuz she is an amazing gf. oh and the secret? open relationship. don't ask and don't tell, but when i get back there we will be exclusive again.
>> Anonymous
They may work, but they are never are based in reality. During your times apart you idealize and romanticize the other person. Then in the short periods together, you do not have enough time to allow the multidimensional character come to fruition.

tl;dr enjoy your fantasy
>> Anonymous
Yes.

She was studying Uni here, and we hooked up, we were together for a year before her visa ran out and she went home. We were still together for a year, and during that time I went to Malaysia for two weeks for her graduation with her and her family, and to Indonesia (her country) for 5 weeks.

Three weeks before I was going over to see her again, she broke up with me. I went anyway, because fuck it, it's a holiday, and indo chicks give me a hard on.

A couple of days before I leave she askes me to move there, tells me that she still loves me, and she thought she didn't which is why she broke up with me, but still loves me more than anything and wants me to be with her.

We're on a 'break' now, but if I move over, we'll end up together.

I'm looking on how to move there.
>> Anonymous
>>77622
Just to translate your experience from "girlish" to English: She ditched you because she wanted to have a relationship with someone else she thought was "better". It didn't work out, so she came crawling back with some bullshit emotional line. Don't fall for it man.
>> Anonymous
>>77627

>Don't fall for it man.

Or better yet, string her along, say you'll find a nice place to move in together, then dump her at the last minute without any explanation.

Turnabout is fair play.

Either way, yeah you're getting used. Don't be a sucker.
>> Anonymous
>>77627
I had been 5 months since we'd seen each other, and that's a fuck load of a long time. We stopped talking to each other as much as well, due to time differences, and her working late.

I'm still madly in love with her, so I still want to give her that chance
>> Anonymous
>>77633

>I'm still a big chump who's thinking with his penis, so I still want to give her that chance
>> Anonymous
i'm in one right now, and i just hope that her feelings cool off soon,cause she's madly in love with me and i don't have the money or the time to travel around the world to meet her.

>>77614
for your sake i hope she dosen't play you,sounds kinda fishy to me.
>> Anonymous
Went to university, entered a relationship, transferred to a different school 4 hours away, remained in relationship.
Sucks, but we still want to be together, so we try.
We're doing okay.
>> Anonymous
ITT men being used by typical female whores
>> Anonymous
there is no such thing as a long distance relationship.


get over it.
>> Anonymous
In one now. Going to see her and stay with her for a month. From there I have to figure out what to do. Somehow extend my visa and stay with her until she graduates. Or return. Either way it's gonna be rough. I guess we're just two optimists hopelessly in love. Love will find a way though.
>> Anonymous
>>77659
>Love will find a way though.

She's fucking other men.
>> Anonymous
>>77664
Ahhhh 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>Has /trv/ ever had a long distance relationship?
Im in one now.
>How did you meet, in person or on the internet?
As an exchange student in Taiwan.
>Was it someone from another country?
Yes. Im Australian, she is French.
>Did you ever visit each other?
Yes.
>Internationally?
Yes.
>Intercontinentally?
Yes.
>> Anonymous
>>77677
Don't you Australians consider France on the same continent than themselves?
- if you count that, your respective antarctic zones touch
- if not, New Caledonia is just near mainland Australia
>> Anonymous
>>77674
werd to this. It finds a way to kick you even when you're down.
>> Anonymous
>>77635
if anything it's the other way around. don't forget i was living in that city with her for a while. she's got enough funds to buy me a plane ticket to beijing this christmas to stay with her. im broke as fuck right now with student loans. i know its always suspicious with some 2nd or 3rd world girls but i have enough experience around woman to know if im being played.
>> Anonymous
>>77980

okey cool,was just saying. But you probably knows best, btw where you studying in Bejing for one year or just living?
>> Uh huh Ml
Sort of in 1 now, talk to her every night, exchange pics etc, am going to go visit in December, not sure what will follow after that

I'm in Australia, she's in America, it's a fantasy for now
>> Anonymous
odnoklassniki.ru

Meet Russian girls its great just pretend like you are on there for a real reason and you are set. No need to pay for shit. And it isn't specifically a dating website. Like a Russian facebook kinda.