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Well after I realized my feelings I brought it up in a very round about way, and we talked and evetually I told him. But he was really cool about it. He said he could identify with a lot of what I was saying and that he had no problem with it. Anyway I didn't want to actually start anything because I know that while in the short term it would be...interesting... people's feelings can get hurt and confused. Like me, he has a long term girlfriend, so even though my partner is okay with such things... with four people involved someone is going to get hurt in the long term. And his girl isn't that hot on the idea either, though she and I are good friends (and he and my girl are close too, as you can guess we all hang out together a lot). So yeah, beyond not wanting to cause drama, I turned down my girlfriend's advice because I more just want to hug the guy or something out of wanting closeness. I don't feel like "DUDE I want to fuck your ass!" although she's definitely like "Oh and THEN you guys could use these handcuffs!"... um, no thanks -_- Anyway it's still confusing, but I don't worry too much about it.
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