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The real problem that you as a smaller endowed man face is not that you can't satisfy your partner, but that you can't accept the fact that your penis is too small and that you are less adequate. What you as a man who suffers from penile inadequacy anxiety are dealing with, is that your self-esteem is usually as low as the esteem you have for your penis, zero. Somehow you have to get your self-esteem back by learning to accept yourself as you are. Sticking your head in the sand and not facing reality won't do you any good. Reality is what you have hanging (or sticking out) between your legs and that the size of it does play a big role in the sexual pleasure you can give to a woman. Now, having said that, there is a lot you can do to get out of the rot, as for instance taking note of the ton of advice following below.
>> Anonymous
go on
>> Anonymous
not /hc/ material but may be interesting
>> Anonymous
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Years went by and eventually he stumbled upon the key principles of male to female attraction, one of them being that females will not mate with non-aggressive males. These principles led him to discover the natural law of the Dominant High Status Male, the type of man whose behavior invokes primal mating triggers in a woman. Through trial and error he developed seduction techniques based on this theory. When he finally realized that he had solved the puzzle, he felt the need to share the knowledge and decided to write a book.
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A guy who agrees that the currently available information does not suffice had an interesting solution to the problem and I am presenting his entire text as is. His advice comes down to this: if you are plagued by a small penis then give up the idea that you have to satisfy women at all cost. Accept that you are not made for that. Get back to basics and see sex as what it was meant to be, a gift to enjoy tremendous physical pleasure, not a quest to perform, not a race to satisfy the woman you are with. Think of your own pleasure and let her be responsible for her pleasure. Satisfy yourself and her satisfaction might WILL follow.
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"I am not saying that you have to accept your penis, there is a big chance you never will. Now, ...you have to see reality as it is. First, forget about ever giving ultimate penetration pleasure to your woman. That's reality. Another reality is that there are two parties involved here: there is your penis, and there is you. You are not the same thing. You will learn to separate between the two. Maybe you will never find confidence in your penis to satisfy a woman. But that's ok. You will find confidence in yourself, not to satisfy her, but to satisfy yourself. That's right. It's your pleasure that counts. Know and be aware that you are limited and just go out there and have fun for yourself. Whatever you do, think about your excitement and don't just concentrate on hers. If you think about her excitement you will fail, because you will start thinking about how much better you could do if only you were bigger. Don't think about how much you want to satisfy a woman. Reality is that you can't satisfy her with penetration the way she would like to. So why break your head over that. Think selfish. Just think that no matter how small your penis, it will always give you pleasure.
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If you penetrate her then concentrate on your sensations, stroke it the way it feels good for you. If you meet a girl whose vagina feels just too loose for you, then experiment and use your imagination. Have fun! That is what you have to concentrate on. You can have your emotions for the girl while you are having sex, but don't ever try to feel or analyze how much she is enjoying things, because that will always lead you to want to satisfy her. If you feel love and intimacy, fine, but don't let it make you feel like you owe her total satisfaction. Keep your head cool and just think about your own pleasure for now. Don't feel like you have to do anything. You don't owe her satisfaction. It is not your job. Not with your penis and not with anything else either. No matter how good you might be in oral sex or finger play, don't concentrate on it because it will make you only feel how much more you would want to satisfy her with your penis if only you could. Do it if you really feel like it. But don't do it just for her. Don't do it just to give her orgasms. Don't think you have to give a woman an orgasm. Let the sex do the talking, not your head. If you decide to penetrate her, do it because you feel like it, not because she asks you. Of course, don't do anything against her will. Mutual consent is always important. Just enjoy her body for your pleasure, not hers." (continues...)
>> Anonymous
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"That doesn't mean you should just get your rocks off real fast and go to sleep. Sometimes that's ok though. You are the man; it's your pumping energy that's at stake. You decide how long the pumping will last. But when you feel like it, take your time exploring and enjoying her body for your satisfaction. Don't be self-conscious, but be SELF-CENTERED. You don't have to worry anymore about maybe not giving her maximum vaginal pleasure, because you won't. Problem is solved. You are left to enjoy the party by yourself. Look at your penis and say how much fun he is going to give you. Not her, you. Don't listen to other's advice that you should concentrate on good technique and other ways to satisfy your girl. That will only confirm in your head that you are not good enough. Don't ruin your pleasure by trying to pleasure her. Let your animal instinct do the talking. If you have a small penis then that's reality. It's a selfish world and that's reality as well. Don't let your mind get insecure. You might sometimes think about what big penises she has been penetrated with before. You wonder if she liked it better. Reality is that she probably has had much bigger ones than yours, and she probably liked it. But you don't care. Her pleasure is not your concern anymore.
>> Anonymous
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Do you think the big guy worried that much about her pleasure? So why of all people should you! Tell yourself that she really liked that big penis. You know that for a fact. Don't ever lower yourself by asking her about it. Reality is also that she might think of being with a bigger guy again sometimes. Realize that your small penis freed you of all your obligations to pleasure women. Live your fun for yourself. And you know what, while you are having your fun, as a side-effect she will get some real fun as well. And as a side-effect of that, she might want to have sex with you more than you can handle. There you go, you are getting your confidence back. If you are not in a relationship and your small penis inhibits your dating then think about this. You can stop worrying and go enjoy life out there.
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There are many girls who want affection and sex, and you and your
penis are going to have some real fun all along. And if you happen to fall in love along the way, good for you, but don't forget to enjoy yourself. Life is only as complicated as you make it. If you are making it your task to be able to satisfy the women of the world then you are making your life complicated for nothing. Even if you never truly learn how to accept your penis, just respect it for one thing, that is for all the fun and orgasms that you had and will have."
>> Anonymous
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"This talk is all about that you have to get that "obligation to satisfy" out of your head. Looking out after your own fun doesn't mean however that you should in any way disrespect the woman you are with. On the contrary, respect her as you respect yourself now. Respect her especially for her right to prefer any size penis she wants. Don't hold her somehow responsible for that. She didn't even choose for that preference. Just like you didn't choose one day to prefer fast cars to slow ones or whatever. Things are the way they are. And stop being so afraid to be turned down. Most women will never turn down a man for his penis size, whether average or small. It is not because they prefer big that they are obsessing about it as you are.
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Many women are lacking sex in their life and they would surely accept any penis. And maybe some would rather prefer no penis than a small one but then don't get hung up on that and go to the next girl. Just realize that there is still an awful lot of fun for you. Stop being so afraid that you won't satisfy her. You already know that you won't satisfy her the same way a big penis could, so what are you so afraid about. Afraid maybe that she will be disappointed upon your penetration. Look, when she sees you naked she already knows that she probably won't have spine-shattering orgasms that day. Stop feeling that you have to make her day or her week or something. Just do what you want to do and have fun at it. If she enjoys it, the better for her. Don't worry about that part. You are here to explore and indulge in your own fun. If you get that simple idea in your head, you should feel a lot less insecure already. Of course, some women might throw you a nasty comment or chuckle when they unwrap your little stub. It's rare but it happens. There are enough stories from men who experienced it to mention it here. But then, is it the end of the world? You too can say anything back you want. Besides, there is a good chance that women will much more appreciate a man who defends himself than one who just takes an insult without resistance." (continues...)
>> Anonymous
c-c-c-c-combo breaker?