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Anonymous
I have a real problem. I have had a huge bondage fetish since I can remember and I feel that because I fap so often to bondage that it kills my ability to enjoy being with a woman in any other way. To add to the fail of the situation I have also been unable to tell 99.9% of the women I have ever been with because I assume they would just go "omg what a sick fuck u are" and run.
So /b/ the question is what the hell do I do about this? Since I can't seem to get over this fetish but I would like to have a successfully sexual relationship with a woman at some point in my life.
Also I know that I could just tell them that I like bondage and see what they do, but I am going under the assumption that they would not. But if anyone has any suggestions for how to pose this to a woman successfully without it ending it with some abbreviation of the above quoted text I would be all ears.

Pic very related.
>> Anonymous
Tie her with some excuse... once you have her tied, it doesn't matter what she says.
>> Anonymous
>>286046

ITT : excuses for tying a woman up
>> Anonymous
>>286041
Wow OP is awesome. He's been with at least 1,000 women!
>> Anonymous
start out with a innocent suggestion, like handcuffs, and see what she does. don't just start out by going all out.

and /b/ is -> way
>> Anonymous
op most women want to be beaten, and they prolly wouldn't mind beating you . . . just ask
>> Anonymous
start with really harmless stuff, "can we try handcuffs?"
"let me blind fold you"

then ease them to into spanking, gagging, and finally shitting into the one airhole of their full-face leather gimp mask!
>> Anonymous
At some point, tell her "I feel like holding hands.... Your hands. Over your head..." Put on your best charming grin when you say that.

Or watch <i>Starship Troopers</i> with her and afterwards tell her you think the scene where Dizzy has her tshirt half off over her head and Johnny traps her like that for a bit is hella erotic.

That sort of thing. Work it from there.

Seduction. What a concept.
>> Anonymous
Every girl I've ever been with has liked being tied up to at least some degree. Start with handcuffs, then tie down her legs, work your way up.
>> Anonymous
>>286067
No its not you fucking idiot.
>> Anonymous
start with chokin
>> Anonymous
Find and start attending BDSM potlucks, Ren fairs, etc. They'll all be fat chicks but into plenty of freaky shit. Occasionally a kinky hottie will sneak in, but you're posting on /b/ so nothing for you to worry about.
>> Anonymous
Trust me. There are MANY more women into BDSM than you realize. Most women really enjoy giving up control.

BUT, the last thing you want to do is talk to them about it. The first part of being in control is TAKING control. Start by being playful and holding their hands down and build up from there. Very, very few women will tell you they're not into it.

Once you've built up to it, you can end up spanking them over 100 times in a row (my favorite!)
>> Anonymous
>>286041

This is Calico, who in her day life? Is just a kinky NYC girl working as a temp. She's an average person. :) Her photoshoots should be quite inspirational. :)
>> Anonymous
I'm totally into bondage and S&M and every girl I've been with I've just asked and all of them have been totally up for it and subsequently totally into it once we've done it.

Pro Tips:
a) Talk about it first, ideally in a lighthearted conversation when you're telling each other about stuff you've done in bed.
b) Present it as a positive fun thing. If you present it as this total hang up, that they'll never like because you're a freak - then that's how they'll take it. If you present it as something a bit kinky that will be totally hot and fun then just about everyone will be up for trying something that is totally hot and fun.
c) Don't be a douche and just take over in bed. Even if they enjoy it at the time, some will resent you afterwards and feel you forced them into it. Plus you'll be that totally asshole that forces women to do stuff in bed without asking
>> Anonymous
oh I forgot this last one
d) learn to have sex the usual ways too because it's pretty rare to find anyone, kinky or otherwise, that only ever wants to have kinky sex. So you need to get over that
>> Anonymous
>>286041
I used to be afraid of the same thing but it's just not the case.
Coming from someone who only faps to bondage porn.
Also>>286607made some very good points.