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Anonymous
im not a virgin but i still ejaculate prematurely sometimes.
if my girlfriend and i dont have sex for awhile and then we do it, i bust a nut under 5 minutes.
any tips on how to prevent this?
and also, doing it doggy style makes me cum really fast, does anyone else here have the same problem when you fuck doggy style?
>> Anonymous
guys seriously i need help with this :(
>> Anonymous
It's all about your breathing.
1) Control your breathing
A good way to control your breathing is to think about something else. Try to remember what was happening in a book you're reading or what happened at work (not who you did at work). If that doesnt work, try pulling out to calm down before continuing instead of plowing through til the end.

To answer your question: I used to have this problem, but now my wife gets mad when I take longer than 30 minutes.
>> Anonymous
Best thing to do? Calm yourself down during sex, think of other things. Try not to get too caught up in it. Something that helps me last ages is thinking of football cause it bores me.
>> Anonymous
I never understood the idea of thinking about something else during sex. What the hell - I'm in the moment, it feels fucking amazing, my heart is racing, why should I think about baseball and Margaret Thatcher?

If I cum too quickly the first time, I just wait a bit and then start up again.

My problem is that I'm out of shape, and I get winded too easily - but that's for another post.
>> Anonymous
>>212800

Yeah but it feels fucking great for you, but does it for her? and if it doesn't feel great for her will she hang around??

Remember fuck her till she cums, then u cum, it feels just as gid, and u'll get more of it if its better for her.
>> Anonymous
>>212800
i agree. where's the pleasure for me during sex if im thinking about other things? wouldn't thinking about something else while doing something seem like a chore?
I can cum real quick and continue to fuck my girl afterwards, and i cant come as quick afterwards, but that kinda ruins the whole experience.

to op, i think the best thing to do is to masturbate right before you do the deed, that way you get a bulk of the spunk out of your system, so you wont cum as fast.
>> Anonymous
>>212804
>>212800

Fair enough, but will you get repeat sex if she thinks she's getting nothing out of it?
>> Anonymous
>>212811

Why the fuck are you giving her nothing then? I can think of tons of ways to make my girlfriend moan and groan besides having my cock in her.

If you're kissing her, sticking your dick in, bumping and grinding for 2 seconds, shooting your load, and then rolling ever, fine, let her dump your ass.

But if you cum too quickly, go to plan B. Or do a bunch of plan A before you get to that.

Jesus, if you have to think about sports while you fuck, you've got other issues. You're supposed to cum during sex. And so is she. Now go make it happen.
>> Anonymous
>>212811

Also, going on for hours is fun sometimes, but you run the risk of getting caught up in the idea that sex MUST take hours. Sometimes, you have 30 minutes, sometimes, you have 10. There's different kids of sex for every season under the sun.
>> Anonymous
In this thread: helpful sex advice? On my 4chan?
>> Anonymous
>>212826
in this thread: Guy's caring about the satisfaction of women? On my 4chan?
>> Anonymous
Take antidepressants. It will take you forever to pop. And sometimes you just won't.
>> Anonymous
1. Fuck here, cum and then stick it back in?
2. ???
3. Problem solved.
>> Anonymous
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yeah, i get way too close to cumming when do fuck doggystyle. i just take it easy and then let her back on top for some cowgirl... she cums that way and if i haven't cummed yet, it go back to doggy and cum on her back.

this is a pic of us....
>> Anonymous
>>213355

nice ass pimples
>> Anonymous
>>213355

nice deletion of post
>> Anonymous
1. learn to control your ejaculation, especially learn to work the kegel muscles.
2. learn to play until your get another hardon.
3. if you make her cum several times while building up to it, comming fast in doggy won't be such a big deal.
4. if you have sex often enough, then sometimes it's fast and sometimes it's slow and then cumming fast some of the time won't be a big deal either.
>> Anonymous
>>212767
I have the same problem OP, the thing with doggy style is that I feel her ass bangin against the insides of my thighs and pelvis and feels fucking amazing not to mention the aspect of domination etc.

As other anons said try relaxing and pausing, I've noticed that after a little while of doing this you get to what a I call 'the zone', it feels like your semen goes back to your nuts, I can't really explain it well but it allows me to get going for more than 20 minutes sometimes.
>> Anonymous
>>212918
Depressed anon is correct. After I started taking Paxil, my ejaculations are MUCH harder to reach.

Plus I'm not BAAWWWWing anymore! Win/win situation!
>> Anonymous
well what about my problem of not even being able to get a boner again after sex? seriously, my refractory period is like at least a few hours, probably more.

oh, and about the anti-depressants thing: the med i take (wellbutrin) makes it ten times harder to get a boner, so just watch out with the anti-depressants thing. sometimes they help and sometimes they don't.
>> Anonymous
wtf is wrong with you guys? i can get a boner like 1-2 minutes after *RAAAWR IM CUMMING* Yeah, it gets sore if I keep going like 4-5x in a row but it'll still get hard
>> Anonymous
>>213611
that's b/c you're a fucking fifteen year old. wait a few years
>> Anonymous
i took 10mg of vicodin once and fucked an hour later. i lasted a long timeeeee
>> Anonymous
FAil you be virgin you know it
stfu
>> Anonymous
you could try using a condom if you dont.

there are also lubricants that you could get that are supposed to numb you a bit to allow you to go longer.
>> Anonymous
>>212802
Mythanon is being an ignorant douche. So long as you both cum most of the time, order just isn't that important. Just relax: if you don't sweat it, she won't. She'll feel better about it if you stop beating yourself up, and she'll probably cum better and easier as a result.

If you're not using condoms, you could also try just powering through and keep going.

>>213600
I think you just answered your own question.

PS. Five minutes is just two minutes off the average, so really nothing to be ashamed of.
>> Anonymous
3 brandy and cokes = 3 times for her and one for me
>> Anonymous
>>212767

Use a condom. It's so uncomfortable that the first (and only) time I had sex, I lasted a half hour before I could get it up enough to cum.
>> Anonymous
It definitely helps to be drunk. Get a fleshlight to practice your endurance.
>> Anonymous
When taking a piss, try to stop during.
Masterbate.
Get circumsized.
>> Anonymous
smoke weed. when smoking regularly, you'll take longer to cum. since i quit smoking, ive become a "minute man" and it sucks. time to start smoking again
>> Anonymous
when u are about to cum get out and start licking her pussy until u recover without she finding what u were doing
>> Anonymous
Jesus, what is the world coming to? Decent advice on how to please a woman on slashdot? Dogs and cats, LIVING TOGETHER! I found that if you get drunk enough, but not to the point of sleepiness, you can fuck for hours. I've unfortunately had the adverse effect of not being able to get off myself if you hit this zone too well. Personally, I'd rather this happen than the minuteman scenario. Breathing right helps, but that's just an extension of your mental control over your orgasm. If you get too excited I've found that minimizing flesh contact helps. Less surface area connecting the better. (as far as longevity is concerned) However, I've rarely gotten complaints about getting a girl off too quickly. Eat her out and finger her a lot before penetrating her. Foreplay isn't always necessary, but trust me, you are IN CONTROL if you do so.
>> Anonymous
>>213572

Listen to this guy OP. Feeling a bit too excited during sex? Slow down for 30 seconds. Catch your breath.

For me, I just drive REALLY deep and hold it there for a bit. It's pleasurable for her, and lets me calm myself a bit.
>> Anonymous
>>212767
Yep, doggy style knocked me out twice as fast.
>> Anonymous
>>213686
slashdot?! GTFO. now.
>> Anonymous
OP pic is Meggan Malone, the new vivid contract girl
and yes, she does HC

Meggan & Hanna Love Manuel -Vivid New Contract Girl SPLIT
http://topas.altervista.org/phpbb3/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=30482

Meggan A. aka Meggan Malone
http://topas.altervista.org/phpbb3/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=13885&hilit=meggan
>> Anonymous
Drink heavily beforehand if you can. I've found that if my bladder is full, I can fuck for hours if desired. In contrast, the difference is very noticeable.. I'm sure the alcohol doesn't hurt either.. it numbs you just enough to keep you from blowing your load too quick, but the drawback is that you don't remeber much of the great sex you had.

Hope that helps.
>> Anonymous
I can keep going no problem lol
you guys suck
>> Anonymous
Just don't start with Viagra. It's expensive and your girl won't let you drop it again.
>> Anonymous
hips dont lie... figure it out
>> Anonymous
Use a rubber or jerk off beforehand.
>> Anonymous
>>213734
ummm im pretty sure its lenka.. unless she changed her name?
>> Anonymous
Anon what if she wont cum during sex? Only a finger does it for her. We only do missionary or her on top though she doesn't want to do anything else.
>> Anonymous
>>213833
you are right anon, its lenka Gaborova
http://images1.filecloud.com/611117/01.jpg

I ve found 22 vids on that site
http://topas.altervista.org/phpbb3/search.php?keywords=lenka&terms=all&author=&sc=1&
sf=all&sk=t&sd=d&sr=posts&st=0&ch=300&t=0&submit=Search
>> Anonymous
>>213621
I'm a lot older than 15, and my refractory period is about 5 min... and if she starts sucking me after I cum, less.

Though that is longer than it used to be... I do remember being able to cum 2-3 times without losing wood.
>> Anonymous
>>213835
>>213835
Some women can't cum from just penetration. Tell her to rub her clit while you fuck her.