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Ecchi-chan
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Speaking as a female, yes, using a finger first is a wonderful idea.
The main problem that most people have with anal is twofold:
1) Not douching. 2) Not enough lubercation.
Douching about 30 mins before hand will remove all poop related problems. Some guys will want to use a condom, but according to my doctor, if the guy takes a shower after anal sex and cleans his cock all good, then the chance of odor/germ problems is almost zero.
That being said, you can never use enough lub. Serious, use as much as you think you need and add like, 50% more.
My boyfriend got me started with by using a finger, and I eventually worked up to being able to take his cock. He's quite thick however, so he only gets it once every week or so(don't want to blow my o-ring). My girlfriend uses a smaller strap-on for anal that I can take easily, and that my doctor assures me can do no permanent damage, as long as I use enough lub.
The benefits of anal play tend to be stronger orgasms. At least, I have much stronger orgasms; I can't talk for all women.
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