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Advice time /fit/. Sorry for posting it here but i didn't want to post it on /b/ and i think /fit/ has more people who could help me on the subject. I'm going to a party tonight for the first time. I know the girl who's making it so she invited me but i don't know who's going to be there. She said there would'nt be more than 30 persons. I'm going to sleep there (we can bring our sleeping bags and stuff for camping). The problem is i'm kind of stressed a little because of the "i don't know anyone" aspect. I'm not shy, not even a little but it's just that after like 1 minutes of conversation i go out of subjects and don't know what to say. After the usual stuff and what school do you go. What could i say? I'm 17 and virgin but not ugly/fat/emo/...
>> kiddicat
ask questions about them.
most girls will talk at length about themselves, so you should definitely fuel the fire, and only half pay attention. unless it's something useful like "well i'm suffering an outbreak of herpes.."
in which you simply snap out of your trance and say 'wow, look at the time! i've got to go get some more alcohol and less std's."
hopefully that won't happen, but it pays off to be prepared.

are you looking to get laid or something?
>> Anonymous
slip her a roofie.
>> Anonymous
>>356736
would be awesome but not an obligation. What i'm aiming for is just not to look like a retard who don't say a word.
>> Anonymous
get your shady uncle to buy you a keg to take to the party....you'll be the coolest guy there
>> Anonymous
if said party has a specific magic liquid just drink up and flow with it. you'll be fine
>> Anonymous
>>356745

It's better to be silent then to run your mouth like a faggot.

Just ask questions and give answers when questions are asked of you. Smile and laugh when appropriate.
>> Anonymous
>>356761
i know it's pretty faggy-ish but could you give me some examples of questions. That's all i need. It's not like i'm shy or something. I just run out of subjects and topics so the conversation don't last very long.
>> Anonymous
There is one solution to this problem if you are a shy person. it has worked for me several times. get drunk and come out of your shell. this is how i meet people. dont get drunk to the point where you cant talk. get drunk to the point where you dont care what you say.

this will let you be yourself because your drunk and you dont know anybetter. so if you are trying to develope a relationship they only know YOU not the bullshit you made up to get with a girl.

DRINK DRINK DRINK socialize DRINK screw passout.
>> Anonymous
however i forgot to mention that this works for certain people only. if you arent one of these people... BAD things could happen at your expense...
>> kiddicat
"so what'd you do all summer?"
"how do you know (girl who is throwing party)?"
"do you want me to get you a drink?"
"do you want me to hold your hair while you puke?"

it's simple really.
like the other guys are sayin, drink, and just go with the flow like a dead fish.
>> Anonymous
>>356784
yeah i though about that and i don't think it's a really good plan. But as i said the only problem is not long enough conversations
>> Anonymous
Social god here,
Start the conversations with the same old generic questions, who, where, how, are you. If the subject is willing to talk to you, they will, 9000% of the time, drop in a little hint of what they want to talk about (often themselves) almost subconciously. Simple shit, change the subject to that and talk for hours.

i.e.

at work today some bitch comes in:

"sup brah"
"sup"
"Pack my bags evenly pls"
"Oh have you hurt your back?"
"yeh I went to see a chiropractor"
"Oh me too eh's a pretty cool guy"
"blah blah blah blah blah blah blah"
"mm hmm"
"blah blah blah blah blah blah blah"
"yeh I know"
"blah blah blah blah blah blah blah"
"right"
"blah blah blah blah blah blah blah...."

simple shit. Looong conversations.
>> Anonymous
After talking for 2-3 mins to a group. You ask "so how do you guys know each other?" It's brilliant. And then just talk about whatever the hell you want. A cool challenge I do with my friend is try to talk about the most non-cool thing, and make it sound like the best thing ever. It's all in your tone of voice and body language. What you say doesn't matter.
>> Anonymous
>>356730
underage b&
reported.