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OP here. Thanks for the feedback anon. I don't really know about masturbation addiction. I am making a difference between masturbation and collecting porn. I still masturbate (but less) and I think it's not unhealthy even though I am sure masturbation addiction exists and it can lead to porn addict. or the other way around. This his a compulsive behaviour and any individual would normaly be subject to more than one kind of addiction.
I don't want to bring the subject of feminism. But. There are different kind of porn: rape simulation, loli hentai, ifm, bondage, softcore, non-nude etc. All picturing differnt images of women. Depending on your background you are looking at some categories of porn for some reasons or another. Some of these clearly are not in favor of woman, are twisted, or perfectly fine. Respect for another human being or self-respect. It depends if porn (and not masturbation) has become a problem in your life or not. Unfortunately, once you want to get rid of the porn habit in your life one of the best way to do that is to completely get rid of ANY porn. You can't mix this new way of thinking (because it is) with thoughts such as 'porn is healthy because some of these women like it/are okay/ it's artsy soft core'. Not because it's true but because in the end it's still porn you are wasting time to look for and collect. It's not about porn nature, it's about you.
If you feel guilty to look at porn because you think it's degrading human beings just don't look at that kind of porn. It's much easier to quit porn because of that than because your life is fucked up, you are depressed, you have mental illness, etc. But then if you believe in what you think is respect or not and still can't give up porn.. that's when the real issue shows up, right ? And it has nothing to do with morale.
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