Ok guys, I have this problem...I met this girl, and shes a little over 2 years older than me, but the age isn't really the problem. The problem is that she is rather...wide. I know that you are 'not supposed to judge' and all that...but I saw a picture of her from 2005-2006...she looked totally different, you could tell she was the same, but she was smoking hot before she gained all the weight....is there any way that I can somehow get her to return to her former greatness, or am I just flogging a dead horse? Is it not proper for me to mention it...as in say something to the tune of "wow, you look completely different in that picture" (while showing her that one".....????? Pic Unrelated
If you mention it to her, she'll never talk to you again, and then lose weight.If you don't mention it to her and accept her as is, she'll never drop the pounds.Either way, you're not going to have her be hot again.
>>413597be discretemaybe ask her to workout with you. i dunno lol
Invite her to go to the gym with you.
OP here, anyone else in my situation? Another note...she seems like she wants to loose the pounds...she mentioned something to me the other day about how much bigger her suit felt since the last time she had worn it....
>>413604jump on any opportunity she might provide to get her to follow through with those thoughts.
When yo take her out, take her to do physical stuff like hiking. If you take her to a restaurant, take her to healthy places where you're forced to eat well.
>>413603not to the gym, it's too obvious. Try cycling or running instead.
OP again...i'll try using every opportunity i have to get her to follow through...but...is it okay to just outright tell her "i would really like to date you...but...." or is that just going to end in fail?
dead whorse.
start a feeder/feedee relationship. Up her calorie intake to 4,000 per day. Encourage her to be a glutton. Tell her how pretty she'll look when her breasts get bigger and her thighs thicker. Weigh her every week.Good luck bro