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Hey /fit/. My girlfriend and I have been talking about having sex without a condom. She's been on birth control for 4 or 5 months, we both are free of stds and frankly, having a baby wouldn't be the end of the world for us. Is there anything I should know or consider before we do this. ie does she have to do anything or clean up differently after we finish?
>> Anonymous
yes. the man must ALWAYS urinate when finished. !!THIS IS IMPORTANT!!
>> Anonymous
Birth control is pretty darn effective, so I would say go ahead and screw each others brains out.

If you're worried about her catching pregnancy, you can pull out before cumming, go by the menstrual cycle plan (don't fuck when she has the best chance of ovulating) or do what my roomate does: Throw on a condom before cumming.
>> Anonymous
>>23716
keep in mind that pulling out and the like are by no means highly effective ways of preventing pregnancy. just because you pull out doesn't mean your golden and nothing bad can happen
>> Anonymous
>>23716
>or do what my roomate does: Throw on a condom before cumming.

That would kill my libido straight off.
>> koji150 !COj0ATNiLw
If she's on the pill don't worry about it. Just make sure she takes it every day. One thing though, wipe your penis off with a baby wipe when you're done or with washcloth. The pH level in the vagina can irritate the penis.
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
Make sure (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD) that she's not on antibiotics for anything.
Antibiotics neutralize birth control pills.
That's how I was born ^_^ Tee hee
>> Anonymous
>>23733
I'm so fucking sorry. D:

I wish I could give you a hug.
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
>>23735
Pff, I'm not sore about it. I'm alive, well fed, spoiled with what I want, unbeaten, and warm. I wasn't intended, but I'm loved and taken care of.
And I learned a valuable lesson about antibiotics/birth control for the future.
>> Anonymous
>>23733
Same here. "Happiest accidents" (yeah, whatever Mom.) reunite!
>> Anonymous
lame
>> !!Lh1ZDGORzRg !!Lh1ZDGORzRg
My parents were trying to get pregnant for me, but wanted a girl instead. Oh well.
>> Anonymous
>>23752
lolniggerbutt
>> Anonymous
I've been having uncondomed sex with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. No pregnancies. I'd say the pill is very effective. She is also very, very good about taking it every day (and at the same hour every day, that makes a difference) and always checking medicine to see if there will be an interaction.

Ejaculating in your lover is freaking awesome, especially when you don't have any worries before, during, or after.
>> Anonymous
i was wanted ^^ two miscarriages before me so i was a god send
>> Love_Handles !xf4elShL76
>>23714

For those of you who don't know, DO NOT DO THIS. It makes the tip of the penis burn like fire. It doesn't necessarily happen EVERY time, but anecdotal evidence is enough to avoid the experience. Trust me. Not pleasant.
>> Anonymous
yeah i only waited one month to start with out condoms, but i was a bit wary cause i do forget to take it alot, just make sure she doesnt fudge it ^^
>> Anonymous
>>23780
Oh, you're definitely going to make some poor sap a VERY lucky guy, aren't you.
>> ectomorpheus !GiTprp9DSI
>>23778
why?
i thought for ages i had an infection.
>> Anonymous
>>23733
This. ***Do not forget*** that antibiotics will make pills invalid until she gets her period again.

Also, for her sake, make sure that you clean your penis really well in the shower. If you aren't super clean she can get a UTI much easier now. Making sure that she pees after sex reduces this risk for her (as well as you).
>> Anonymous
>>23710
> having a baby wouldn't be the end of the world for us.
having a baby is quite possibly the worst thing that can happen on someone's life
get a vasectomy done
>> Anonymous
>>23774
>Ejaculating in your lover is freaking awesome, especially when you don't have any worries before, during, or after.

A++++++++++++ WOULD DO AGAIN
>> Anonymous
Eh, it's nice. I've never used a condom on any of my previous hookups. I fucked my girlfriend without a condom the first time we had sex.

In fact, it was also the first day we had met, before we even went on a date.

That probably wasn't a good idea, in retrospect.
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
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>>23802
>> Juggy
>>23762
fucking I lol'd so fucking hard
>> Anonymous
>>23808
LLOYD?!?!!
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
Post-sex shower is usually a good idea.
>> Anonymous
>>23847
Nope.
>> Anonymous
my boyfriend and i have sex without condoms.. although i kinda want him to so he can come inside me
just need to convince him :(
>> Anonymous
>>23716
Pulling out doesn't help. Men have a little something called pre-ejaculation.
>> BOwen !i7E4yRzZEQ
Sex without condoms is fantastic. Girlfriend is on birth control (Nuva Ring, actually...can't feel it except for very rare occasions.)

Easily the best part is ejaculating inside of her. Nothing is better than that. Nothing. Ever.
>> Anonymous
iv never had sex without a condom tbh..
>> Anonymous
>>23911

I think this is a myth perpetuated by the chastity brigade, precum contains fuck all sperm compared with proper jizz. Even in ideal conditions, the chance of a chick getting pregnant with a vagoo full of spunk is only 10% or so.
>> Anonymous
This thread flares my virgin rage.
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
>>23947
Doesn't matter. It takes 1 sperm to knock-up a chick.
And you're full of shit.
>> Anonymous
>>23716
1. Pulling out before cumming isn't effective. You can either get carried away or your pre-cum can get her pregnant.
2. Menstrual cycle doesn't always work because you have to watch it for so many months. It is not even close to 95% effective.
3. Same as pull out method. Not effective.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>23911
the sperm in precum is actually only the sperm left in your urethra after the last time you've ejaculated. If you have urinated since then, there is no live sperm left. So just make sure you've pissed once, and you're fine
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>23952

On a partially related note, I was at a clinic today and perused a magazine.

There was a detailed article about how to impregnate yourself with a sperm sample. Apparently you just move into a certain position, pour it in, and do some muscle contractions.

I make sure to personally dispose of my used condoms now.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
also, pulling out totally works. You just have to make sure you actually pull out. It turns out that this isn't nearly as difficult as people would lead you to believe
>> Anonymous
>>23970
Have you ever had sex? Pull out method doesn't work in the least.
>> Anonymous
It's a trap bro, she's off the pill.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>23983
uh, yes I've had sex... and I used to employ the pullout method all of the time - that is how I know.

I explained in two posts why it's not a problem (precum isn't a factor and actually removing your penis from her vagina before you ejaculate is easy to do). If your only response is to suggest that I haven't had sex, please stop. You are just perpetuating misinformation. Pull out works fine, provided you are not an idiot with no self-control
>> asuka
pulling out is pretty fucking counter-intuitive, good luck
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
>>24041
Enjoy your bastard children.
>> Anonymous
Cool for you, just don't' go telling children and your little sister it works.
>> Anonymous
>>24041
i didnt realize that this was the place to get advice from ignorant third graders. what are you going to tell us next? viagra prevents AIDS? semen is made from unicorns, rainbows and dreams? if i wanted piss, i'd go to the sea of piss. (/b/) thats where you belong. take your trip(fag)code with you, and have some SAGE for the road.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24052
I am smart, and I have self-control

seriously, I have to educate you people about the truth concerning sper in precum, and you think you're going to tell me something?

enjoy your not knowing what the hell you're talking about
>> sage
>>24069
THERES SPER IN PRECUM!!!!!
WAIT, WHAT THE FUCKING BATSHIT IS SPER????
WHY DON'T YOU JUST KILL YOURSELF????
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24058
lol
you have said nothing except for insisting that it doesn't work. You have clearly never tried it, nor do you konw what you're talking about.

Now you're jsut setting up ridiculous things that I might say (which I would obviously never say) and completely ignoring the basis that I gave you behind what I have said. And you have the fucking nerve to accuse ME of trolling. Look, if you don't know what you're talking about, that's fine, but don't get all pissy with me when I correct you and you look stupid
>> Anonymous
>>24069
>>24041

Stop posting to this topic, plz. You're spreading ignorance. Anyone who's had any kind of sex-ed knows that the pull out method is one of the worst methods to use.
Ahem, also, precum is actually a factor because it contains sperm.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24084
lol
I'm the only one who is backing up what I've said with actual knowledge

about precum, read:
>>23964

you didn't konw this. Why do you think you know anything? You are the one spreading misinformation; I am trying to set people straight about what is safe to do if you're reasonably intelligent and have basic self-control
>> Anonymous
>>24095
Quit being a troll. LOL. Now we see you for what you are. :-D

Just for fun: Take what you said, put it into Google. You know what I get?
"No. Urine is not a spermicide, and urinating before having sex will not "flush out" sperm. This is because ejaculate and pre-ejaculate are stored in the seminal vesicles — not in the urethra or bladder where the urine is."
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24102
what do you think the point of precum is, you dumb shit? It's to flush out the urine because it kills sperm.

look, you are obviously trolling, because I put the same shit in google and the first thing I got was
>it is safe to assume that urine does kill sperm

look, you don't know shit; you never knew shit. Just stop. It's embarrassing
>> Anonymous
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>>24112

Troll needs to try harder. :D
>> Anonymous
OP here. If the pride I feel for having created this monstrosity is anything like fathering a child then I say fuck the birth control. I'm gonna be a daddy!
>> Anonymous
>>24095
Actual knowledge? More like actual bullshit! HAHAHA So i went to wiki and found this "Observed failure rates of withdrawal vary depending on the population being studied: studies have found actual failure rates of 15-28% per year."
so 1 in three people get preggers from that shit. doesnt sound like its something i should rely on...
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24133
well, since I said "reasonably intelligent with basic self-control," it probably isn't for you

but for those of us who aren't retarded - go for it
>> Anonymous
Dunno if this is helpful or not but here goes:

I'm on the pill, and even though I don't take it PERFECTLY (though I try to) my boyfriend and I have had absolutely no problems or freakouts despite the fact that most of our sex is sans-condom. We do find he lasts longer with a condom, though typically having sex for more than 15+ minutes not counting foreplay is painful for me, but that is neither here nor there.

We ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS use a condom if I think that I might have skipped a pill, forgotten a pill, or taken it a few hours after I should have. Furthermore, we generally don't have sex around the middle of my cycle (happy egg time)--dunno why, we just never feel like it.

Basically, make sure you have an emergency stash of condoms for those "Just in case" times, always be willing to talk about what decisions you will make IF a pregnancy occurs (you should be doing this if you're having sex now, honestly), etc.

Basically be smart about sex.

And no, clean up procedures are the same, though she might want to pee soon after sex to prevent a UTI.
>> Anonymous
Could always ask your girl to go on the Depo-Provera shot, or the implant. No way to forget a pill with those. Added bonus, there's a decent chance she'll stop having a period.
>> Anonymous
>>24155
that sounds like a good way to fuck with jesus.
>>24137
i think that you are the retard here. i wish that your parents hadn't stopped using birth control. fuck you
>> Anonymous
Shove one of those new plastic things in her snatch
>> Anonymous
>>24170

Well, fuck jesus. What has his ass ever done for me?
>> Anonymous
>>24155
I know girls who've had baaad results with those things.

At least with the pill you can stop if you need to.
>> Anonymous
>>24173
probably the same thing that your ass has done for you. whatever that means.
>> Anonymous
Huh, they seemed like the miracle solution to me. Too bad
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24170
lol I guess

I'm just trying to tell normal people what they can do from the perspective of someone who hasn't been scared into stupidity and ignorance. If you have urinated since your last ejactulation, and you can actually pull out (again, much easier than you have undoubtedly been led to believe), you will be fine.

If you don't think you're capable of this, so be it. I'm just telling people the truth about precum, and the truth about pulling out - and hopefully setting some of you people straight
>> Anonymous
>>24180

Jesus poops for me, and accommodates the occasional penis?
>> Anonymous
>>24191
i dont mind hearing about anal sex, but please dont mention pooping in the same post. i still have 2girls1cup nightmares
>> Anonymous
>>24155
I'm on the depo shot and it takes a while before your periods completely go away. You end up spotting for weeks. But yeah, if your not scared of needles, it's a great way to not get preggers.
>> Anonymous
>>24194

But I poop from there!
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
>>24198
Not now you don't!
>> Anonymous
>>24198
not during sex acts, i hope. please do not ever mention this again
>> Anonymous
See, wat u gotta do is screw her in the pooper, then use your shlit coverd dick to finish off in her Vag cuz the poo will increase friction and thereby pleasure.
>> Anonymous
>>24204
WHAT DID I JUST SAY???
you gunna get raped
>> wash !hn0hG3e85A
wow, fashion diva, i can't believe you're defending the pull-out method.

the all-knowing internets has differing opinions on whether urine flushes out live sperm or not, but the bottom line is that this method is statistically ineffective. end of story

troll elsewhere
>> Anonymous
I haven't read the thread but let me sum it up:
If your girlfriend gets pregnant while on birth control, it'll be the second coming of the Lord.
The pullout method does not work. There's a significant amount of pre-ejaculate that contains just as much if not more sperm that's secreted before climax. Likewise, putting on a condom right before climax is not effective for this reason.
Don't have a baby until you're both married and financially stable with 1+ years of savings in the bank. A BABY WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE, I AM SERIOUS.
>> Anonymous
>>24297
Addendum: if you want to be 100% sure that there won't be any pregnancy you can also get the morning after pill. It is -not- RU486 or the abortion pill, nothing is killed. It just keeps the egg from implanting.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24272
well, urine does kill them. And that is the purpose of precum

but that aside, I was merely trying to explain the facts about the pullout method. I understand that, statistically it is worse than other mehtods, but I think that is due to the fact that it's harder to do right (despite the fact that it is extremely easy to do right). I never said it was more effective than other methods. I simply said that it is fine if you do it right. I think the ones that do it wrong are probably somewhat stupid, and I thought I would clear up misunderstandings for the not-stupid among us.

In any case, I think it is extremely intellectually lazy to call me a troll, simply because I'm saying something you disagree with and you don't know how to object rationally. especially when I am the only one providing anything that resembles a justification for what I'm saying

but whatever
>> Anonymous
Seriously, I would not rely on the pullout method with any amount of seriousness at all.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24314
That's because you have been brainwashed by fear. You read statistics and you think "unreliable" so you don't want to do it. That is fine by me. I'm just telling you that it isn't some murky roll of the dice thing that you have no control over. There are reasons why it fails, and there is a way to do it right. I'm just trying to put facts out there

I have used it countless times to great success... not that that means anything or anything
>> Anonymous
>>24327
Most people won't be doing it right though, you understand? It has a failure rate of around 30%, maybe 1 in 3. That isn't good odds. It's a lot easier to just put on a rubber or use birth control. The only reason to not use birth control or a condom is if you have some bullshit religious belief thinking god is going to fuck your shit up if you try to have sex without any horrible consequences. The pullout method is the -LAST- method I would recommend to anyone, that's all.
>> fashion diva !3wJfpCMhKc
>>24350
and I'm trying to clear up misconceptions so that people don't think it's all luck, do you understand?

And again you say "odds" as if it's some sort of dice roll. That is exactly the type of misunderstanding that I want to clear up.

I'm not saying that anyone should choose one method over another. I'm just trying to give the actual facts (as opposed to the ridiculous shit that was being posted) about precum and pulling out.

I don't care what method you people use
>> Anonymous
my girlfriend is infertile and clean, we have sex without condoms every time and never have to worry about anything

i just thought i'd share that
>> Anonymous
>>23716

If not for the fact that she's not on the pill, that's the dumbest contraceptive advice I've ever heard.

>>23710
How long have you known her/been together? Just be sure that you don't have a sliver of doubt or mistrust in her, nor she in you. In my opinion, this isn't something you do with just anyone.

Also, be prepared for the bar to be set much higher. If you ever have to go back to condoms, you'll miss this ever so much. Oh, those were the days... ;_;
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
+1 on the sex without condoms being bestu. Never use condoms.

Relevant to that: I have only had sex with two type of girls

1) Girls who did not know my real name or where i lived (has dropped off at the whole std thing is still a risk I'd rather avoid)

2) Girls who are on BC AND who I really wouldn't be terribly bothered if I got pregnant (ie someone who I am very compatible with and who I am dating exclusively.)

Remember guys, the pill is like 99.8% effective IF your girlfriend is religious about taking it. That means a 1 in 500 chance of knocking her up anyway.

Its great, but its certainly not impossible to get preggers on it. My honest advice is to only have sex with girls who you are mad for and who you really wouldn't get TOO upset over if you knocked her up.

Or a girl who doesn't mind the concept of abortion - but this is tricky. I have seen girls who get cold feet at the last minute because BAWWW ITS MAH BABY. Not saying there's anything wrong with that, but "Yeah, sure, I'll get an abortion" isn't assurances.
>> Anonymous
>>24613

Stairs, clothes hangers, falcon punch, probably some drugs that will cause miscarriage, etc.
>> Anonymous
Morning after pill is now available at your local pharmacy.
>> Anonymous
>>24621
Please. Don't prove those religious retards right and use emergency contraceptives as your standard contraception method.
>> Anonymous
>>23778
my husband goes pee pretty soon after we are done I don't know what you are talking about
>> Anonymous
>>24629

Who said he/she did? Anon was only advising that it's there if you need it. Accidents do happen. Condoms do break.
>> Anonymous
Just so you guys no, actual SCIENCE has proven that pre-ejaculate contains no sperm unless the person has ejaculated recently, but peing will clear it out.
>> Anonymous
>>24635
Maybe they are talking about peeing inside the woman??? I'm not sure they were not clear. If so, that's just gross. Unless that's your fetish. I think that would just push the sperm up higher though. Condoms are best when it comes to keeping baby free. Just have him urinate at least 3 times after his last ejaculation and then have sex without the condom until he feel like he's getting close to cuming and then have him put on a condom and have him blow his load in that instead of you.
>> Anonymous
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she's lying to you. She has an STD.
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
>>24657

But is it lupus?
>> Anonymous
>>24642
It's not actual SCIENCE until you post a link on 4chan.

I'll be waiting.
>> Anonymous
>>24585
thats good if you only want to have sex.
hopefully she isnt upset about it.
>> Anonymous
>>24690

no she's fine, we're going to adopt in our late twenties