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Anonymous
Alright, I might be a fat lonely whore, but at least I know what I'm talkin about. I've been masturbating for 11 years with a variety of toys. I know the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasm, and I've even managed to have both at the same time on rare occasion. The penis doesn't actually need to be thrust hard, fast, or deep. What matters much more is stimulation of the g-spot, which is really just part of the clitoris (it's the same organ, just a different direction). Thing is, one strong thrust feels great once, but in repetition it doesn't last. What feels best for a woman for a longer period of time is a good pace (about one thrust per second I'd say). Not too fast, not too slow. You'll have to have her figure that part out with you. It requires a lot of patience and there may be a long time where it seems like nothing is happening, but if it's going well you'll find she'll be compulsively thrusting back. And, of course, stimulating the clit from the outside while penetrating at the same time is the best way. Basically two things happen during a female orgasm. The clit throbs and the vagina contracts. The more it can throb against, and the more it can contract against, the better. A real vaginal orgasm causes the vagina to contract like a fucking vice grip, but in a rhythmic way, and more than once. When that starts happening, it's important to go slower and to thrust inbetween contractions. Timing is very important. I've had vaginal orgasms during intercourse but ONLY when I'm on top because then I can actually get the timing right. Masturbating on my own I frequently get multiple orgasms and I can't even keep track of how many sometimes. Another thing that matters more than anything else is how relaxed the girl actually is. The more relaxed she is, the more loose, wet, and responsive her vagina will be. It helps if she's in a trance-like state of mind.
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