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Anonymous
/fit/, what the fuck is wrong with me? I'm fairly smart, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, yet I can't get a girlfriend, nor have I ever gotten so much as a hug.

I stay polite to people, but my weakness is that I have a hard time looking at people in the eyes. Whenever I walk, I either look dead ahead with a fixed stare, or keep my eyes to the pavement. It really pains me to look people in the eyes, when I do, their image stays with me all day and it fucking sucks.

Does my inability to stare at someone play the main role in keeping from me getting a girlfriend? Other than a geographic tongue, I'm in great shape and help out anyone who asks. What the fuck is wrong with me guys?
>> well fuck your shit !SvVHiVQG4I
Look people in the eye, jackass. This isn't prison, you wont get raped for it.

Just start doing it. After a while you'll realize there's no reason to be afraid of doing it. It's actually a great tool if you're good at reading people.
>> Anonymous
>>323660what the fuck is wrong with me
>It really pains me to look people in the eyes
>> Anonymous
>>323660
Just look in to people's eyes. Practice doing it on people you know well. If you're not making eye contact with people you meet, they'll think you're hiding something and/or think you're an asshole.
>> Anonymous
Step 1. Wear sunglasses all the time, hot girls will think you have coke.
Step 2. Get an 8 ball and a bottle of grey goose. Even Amish girls like to party.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>I'm fairly smart, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, yet I can't get a girlfriend, nor have I ever gotten so much as a hug.
HA HA. Oh man how cliche.
>my weakness is that I have a hard time looking at people in the eyes. Whenever I walk, I either look dead ahead with a fixed stare, or keep my eyes to the pavement. It really pains me to look people in the eyes, when I do, their image stays with me all day and it fucking sucks.
Your inability to look people in your eyes is a symptom of your lack of confidence. Work on your social skills.
>> Anonymous
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what the fuck
fucking idiot
be a fucking man
stare in the fucking eyes
be bold motherfucker
fuck you
god this world needs a fucking world war to clear the gen pool
>> Anonymous
>>323694
I bet you're hot. Let's do coke sometime.
>> Anonymous
Try looking right inbetween their eyes above the nose, like focus on a freckle if there is one. It'll look like you're making eye contact but not!
>> Anonymous
what the fuck? are you me? seriously this is fucking creepy.
>> Anonymous
>>323724
I'm a girl but I have the same problem, unless it's someone I'm close to.

It's social anxiety, most likely.
>> Anonymous
>>323723

Wrong, Anonymous. Doing that will make people think you're looking through them.

Start drinking, not a lot, socially. Depending on the situation not having a drink will make you look like a stiff, and that fact, combined with your manner, WILL make you a stiff. On top of that, it will intrinsically raise your confidence slightly by lowering your social inhibitions.
>> Anonymous
ronery thread
>> Anonymous
>>323738
this anon is wrong. you don't need to drink. I don't dring, smoke, do drugs or anything. and I have no problems with people thinking i'm a stiff. btw, have GF too ;). just be yourself. if that's not good enough, the people you meet aren't either *thumbs up*
>> Anonymous
>>323738
Jesus christ, this is so true, I don't have any trouble looking people in the eyes or making conversation, never did, even when I was disgustingly fat, but goddamn get some alcohol into me and I'm a social god. I come out of most parties with a shitload of new friends. But one time I did attempt to chat up a 13 year old in front of her mother. A small price to pay.
>> Anonymous
>>323750
>>323753
FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!
>> Anonymous
>>323750
didn't suggest it in the first place, but it can help some loosen up.

Alcohol: the social lubricant
>> Anonymous
>>323750
Everyone thinks that you're a stiff but are too embarassed to tell you.
>> Anonymous
>>323717
I am hot. a/s/l?
>> Anonymous
You sound like a really boring, uptight, under-confident man, OP.

Loosen up a bit. Go out with your friends and have a beer or two. Talk casually and tell jokes.

You sound like my friend David Schmidt. Doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs. He has a permanent stick up his ass and then he wonders why he can't get women. . . meanwhile, I'm that loud obnoxious guy who's always drunk, usually offensive but I can talk to anybody about most anything. He's a clearly better looking guy than I am, yet I'm the one that gets the women.

It's all confidence (and having decent enough looks that you're not hideous at first sight) and how you portray yourself. You sound boring.
>> Anonymous
The answer is simple; you're a straight edge faggot.
>> Anonymous
staring somewhere else when you're talking to someone can make them think you're interested in something else or hiding something from them

Plus, if you're not relaxed enough to do this, that probably isn't you're only problem.
>> Anonymous
You have no confidence.

Girls only care about confidence. And money.
>> Anonymous
>>323897
THIS
You can get away with confidence, but a good job helps man.

Spend some of that money on your appearance and presto.

Oh wait. You still have to look in their eyes. The trick is to do it just a split second longer than a normal social interaction would dictate. This sends the message you enjoy looking at them/think they are great/want to fuck them. If they reciprocate, proceed to get drunk enough that you inhibitions fall away. Recommend 2-4 beers
>> Anonymous
I'm a lot like you but with sub-par intellect. I always feel like I'm being rude by staring at someone directly in the face just like I feel like a bear trying to act threatening if I stand up completely straight.
>> Anonymous
>>323940
try laughing and smiling.
>> Anonymous
at funerals.
>> Anonymous
>>323773
40/m/cali
>> sasuke !glx4hQo1OM
Social incompetence is totally related to health and fitness.
>> Anonymous
>>323954
I'm a dude, dude.

Even if I was gay I'm half your age, if I'm gonna be a boy toy I'd need you to pay my rent and buy me presents. If it gets serious I'd need an appropriate bitch ride, 3 series beemer or c class Benz.
>> Anonymous
you sound really fucking creepy, op. you probably slouch and cross your arms etc. all the body signs that show you are closed and not open to other people.
>> Anonymous
>>323694
3 blow so much snow up your nose you look permanently glassy eyed and no one normal takes you seriously

>>323660
op, google "confidence classes/courses"
i sense abuse all over you
i notice you didnt say youre fit, either...exercise and don't stop until youre a machine. this does loads for confidence when youre fit and everyone around you is weak and fat.