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Anonymous
the order of importance as far as qualities go, can flip flop for a girl. women are just as shallow as men, in that we want a good looking guy. so in the animal sense, physical attraction would be first, while everything else would fall behind it. but if a girl spends time with someone who is charming and fun, and isnt a pussy(confidence), with less than desireable looks, she can look past that and actually like him for his personality. keep in mind, OP, in order for this scenario to take place, you cant go ask a random girl that you dont know on a date. she's going to judge you the way any woman judges a guy she first meets: "would i have sex with him?..hmm,no" and therefore you get a big fat no, because she's judging you based on the only thing she knows about you: your physical appearance. try finding a common interest first, and center a friendship around that. you'll have much better chances with a girl when she knows your personality, and starts second-guessing on wether or not sex with you would really be such a bad thing, as previously thought. this is a good average-guy method, just dont get caught in the friend zone, and dont just pick a hobby cause your out scouting; the girl you'll be attracted to, isnt stupid, and will sense wether your genuinely interested or just "in it for the chicks."
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