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Anonymous
How does /fit/ go about talking to ladies at the gym, I'm an outgoing good-looking guy but when I see a woman with her father or older brother working out, I don't really know how to make small talk

what does /fit/ do?

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>> Anonymous
Talk to them all. Telegraph no interest in the girl whatsoever for the first 3 minutes. Once you've softened the protective instinct of the father/brother/friend and won their approval, treat them all as you would friends. Attempt to isolate female later.
In case of boyfriend, exit conversation politely. Attempt to isolate female later.
>> sasuke
why small talk when you can do big actions?

rip her off her silly stairmaster, put her on your back and then..oh forget it you need atleast 8 pairs of testicles to do something like that.

say 'hi, i see that youre working hard, youre dedicated, etc.. my name is David..'
>> Anonymous
Don't let a douche named sasuke tell you what to do.
>> Anonymous
I don't talk to them. I usually go on the machine behind them and stare at their ass to pass the time.
>> Anonymous
femanon here.
i hate it when dudes talk to me in the gym. if they're sincere, that's cool, but it never feels like it. it always feels like they're making fun of me. and i'm not a whale.
>> Anonymous
You don't do anything.

Especially not when she has her brother and father at the gym with her.

Unless her father and brother are completely spineless and totally stupid, they will smell the attempted pick-up no matter how you go about it. Then, if they're anything like me and my pops (read: totally rad and probably overprotective of sister/daughter), the closest you'll ever get to the girl is an hour of stinkeye followed by a knuckle sandwhich or two.

Seriously do not hit on girls at the gym when they are with their family.

If she's alone, throw her some eye contact as you move past, smile... if she's at all interested she'll keep throwing you back eye contact and you can rest assured that she'll take time out of her workout to talk with you. Then you just go over and say Hi... ask her out for a drink after she's finished, or later in the week or whatever and go from there.

If you just walk right up to some pretty thing, who is half way through her "cardio" session and try to talk to her... expect more stink-eye followed by pepper-spray and a restraining order.

The good thing about talking to women at the gym is that you can avoid too much small-talk if you're crap at it. If she's interested, you can get right in, get a name, set a date and get right back to working out.

You still have to worry about what to say when you go out for a drink or whatever so good fun with that.

More to the point: WHY ARE YOU PICKING UP WOMEN AT THE GYM?!?! GET BACK TO WORKING OUT YOU FATTEH!!! FFFFFFFFF
>> Anonymous
>>258958

Virgin giving advice lmao.///
>> Anonymous
Lol OP here, thanks for the advice, I took into consideration the possibilty of over-protective family members so I just let continued my workout, especially as her father was guiding her through workouts as they alternated.

And 10% bodyfat, wouldn't call myself a fatty = /
>> Anonymous
>>258983
it's me again.

if you're gonna do it, don't do it while she's in the middle of her routine.
>> Anonymous
white earbuds = fuck off
>> Anonymous
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just go up and talk to her man!

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>> Anonymous
>>259046
agreed.
>> Anonymous
>>259015
Let her finish her workout before you talk to her, for sure.
>> Anonymous
>>259015

Good work.

Family members at best will cock-block you into oblivion and at worst, will kick the shit out of you.

At my gym, the women tend to walk around inbetween sets of whatever the fuck they're pretending to do... quite obviously checking everyone out in there. Unless you're a hideous mope, they'll check you out at some point.

If you spot this, just check them out in return... eye contact etc.

Then go over and arrange for sex.

Still though, there are better places to score. For me, the gym is where I go to lift heavy weights... I don't actively look out for hotties. I mean, if one was obviously checking me out I'd go over for sure, but I rarely look around the weights room because I'm too busy cursing and sweating and hurling obscenities around the place.
>> Anonymous
>>259048
fucking LOL at this pic
>> Anonymous
>>259046
Black earbuds = fuck me?
>> Anonymous
>>259084

I was wondering that as I am wearing black earbuds ATM
>> Anonymous
>>259048
hahahahah funny shit
Especially because it's not even remotely possible
>> Anonymous
>>259084


black plugs = fuck you I've got a .45 in my purse.
>> Anonymous
>>259046
What does it matter what color ear buds people wear?
>> Anonymous
>>259094


It matters for the same reason that skin colour matters.

White is right
Drown the browns?!?!
>> Anonymous
>>259094
My dad is a crane operator and the guys at his work are always trying to find skin tone coloured earbuds so they can listen to music without getting caught. It is against the rules for them to wear headphones while working.
>> Anonymous
>>259143

And that has..... what to do with girls in gyms.

I thought so.
>> Anonymous
OP here again, thanks again, I've taken your advice into consideration, and I will continue my workout and just wait for the right time
>> Anonymous
wtf is your problem op. hitting on girls in front of their family? what a douche
>> Anonymous
>>259160
If you would follow the quote trail you would see it is related to the person asking about why it matters what colour earbuds are.
>> Anonymous
>>258986
when you do things right, people won't be sure you've done anything at all