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Anonymous
Hay guise! a sort of bedroom performance issue.

I've never seen a guy like my current bf. when we're having sex he never stops before i do. He gets hard very easily and seems he doesn't even notice when he comes.
Only way to kill his erection is to sit away from him for a while XD.
And also, he only wants to actually have sex when i do too. He's just so zen and calm. almost like he only does it for me.
I'm his first girl, he lost his virginity to me when he was 20.
I am very not complaining but
my question is:

how normal is that?? what do u guys know.

sometimes i think back at times when i used to sleep with regular guys who come with an actually obvious "i caaame" expression and stop banging after that, not when i'm totally and absolutely through with having sex.
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>> Anonymous
I dont know how normal it is. I am similar to that, but I cannot get it down for a long time, even with no stimulation. You get me going and I'm up for hours on end. I can orgasm multiple times and not slow down. Orgasm tends to just give me more energy and turn me on more.

I know of one other guy who is like this too, but that's it. So maybe it's not that rare.
>> Anonymous
He just wants more, thats why he doesn't want to stop. Just kick him in the nuts and I'm sure he will stop ;wink;wink;
>> Anonymous
Watch him carefully, his taking VIAGRA!!
>> Anonymous
Probably a result of the supplements he's taking. Not necessarily Viagra. Could be a number of things. It is not possible to be like that normally.
>> Anonymous
he surely aint taking any medication or such but..
he drinks a lot of coffee
eats very little
smokes weed occasionally
also recently learned that he faps alot.

but thats all
>> Anonymous
>>107104
probably

unless he ejaculates without feeling anything or stops before he ejcaultes so he wont but the sperm comes out but you said he doesnt stop even after he cums so who knows. probably on viagra or cialis no guy can keep going after he comes for a while with a hard dick, unless its flacid & hes going then i can understand but not fully erect no way can that happen youre lying.
>> Anonymous
>>107123
Who let the 13 yo boy in here? GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION MOTHERFUCKER, DO YOU USE IT?
>> Anonymous
It would seem that you are not pleasing him enough. If he only wants the sex when you do means he doesn't have healthy motivation. This would explain his "doesn't even notice when he comes" and his "zen and calm" attitude.

Coming generally follows the conclusion of climax. If he isn't enjoying you and enjoying his "climax" then there is a serious problem.

I would let him have sexual experiences outside of you. If you are all he has had then how is he to know if he even enjoys the sexual atmosphere you create.

Give it some thought. Give him oral sex and see if he comes and is satisfied. If he can do it that way and not vaginally induced then you guys have a problem of attraction.
>> Anonymous
>>107123
no lies ö_ö

and no drugs
xept ones i mentioned here>>107122
>> Anonymous
>>107129
Sorry. Would to like for me to type properly? What should I use British or American English?

stfu i can type however i want to
>> Anonymous
Some men just have a lower sex drive and don't get off easily.
>> Anonymous
Don't listen to these fags, OP.

I used to have a friend who was exactly like this when he was really new at sex- in as much as he had to ask us if it was normal too. That was years ago, and as it turns out he was just not very used to it yet; it changed as he got more experienced. Be thankful you're getting this treatment while you can- it's not every guy that can last forever.
>> Anonymous
>>107141

does come, wont stop
also faps much >_>
>> Anonymous
>>107137

Well, just try to see what's normal for him. Like I said, give him oral and see if he has a more pronounced climax. If he's faping all the time then he probably feels unsatisfied. It's not that you're doing anything wrong, but sex is like a relationship in itself and it takes time to learn about the other person to be able to fully satisfy them.

Good Luck!
>> Anonymous
>>107142

:3 aww..
i'll be real good to him tonight, keeping in mind what>>107130said too
>> Anonymous
>>107144

excellent advice
>> Anonymous
you go girl!
>> Anonymous
i think i was the same to my first gf, though i'd always be the one to start things up. he probably loves you a great deal and is so focused in your pleasure that his seems unimportant. after all, he can fap tomorrow.

i bet you have long, long sessions of foreplay. does he usually finger or go down on you for long stretches of time?

the oral sex advice seems sound. tell him that his and only his pleasure will be important tonight and go wild on him. my girl did this to me and ordered me to grab the bars on the bedhead and close my eyes. she would stop if i did otherwise. this lasted hours and when i finished my fucking knees were trembling.

that was good. but a few months later she dumped me :(
>> Anonymous
>XD
>> Anonymous
>>107181
ya all the part about long foreplay and fingers and tongue is 100% true. he is an absolute delight.
i guess the his-pleasure-only funtime is long overdue.
Now that i think of it he has hinted that he'd like me to be a bit more active and even dominant.

hurr, all i've been doing is enjoying myself D:
>> Anonymous
>>107247
time to dump him for some asshole, who'll treat you like shit and won't care for you at all
>> Anonymous
>>107279

/agree
>> Anonymous
>>107279
>>107290
lol bitter