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Anonymous
Relationship help

I'm in a relationship with this wonderful girl. She's awesome, we were both virgins before we met, she's funny, beautiful... basically the perfect girl to me.

A week before we started dating she made out with one of my friends and almost gave him a blowjob, but got walked in on so they stopped. She told me this after dating for about a month, and I didn't really care at that point because it was before we even knew each other.

Flash forward 7 months. My friend and I were drunk yesterday and he brought it up and told me the whole story. I'm happy she didn't leave any details out, because the story he told me was the same. He hasn't talked to her since, but he did say that the only reason she made out with him was because she said she was "very very desperate".

Still, the conversation dredged up some crappy feelings in me, partially because I haven't seen her in a month before of a european vacation she went on with her family. She gets backs in a couple weeks.

What can I do to get past the fact that she made out with my friend and almost blew him?
>> Anonymous
Dump her. She's obviously some type of slut. She almost blows some guy just a week before she gets with you? You're telling me she's desperate.
>> Anonymous
shit was so cash
>> Ultranic
Feeling Jealous is probably normal, even if it happened before you both met.

However, shes already admitted it to you, and the detail of her story was exactly the same as the one your friend explained, so she obviously wasnt trying to hide anything. So really there is nothing you can “do” to get over the thought of it happening. All you can do is trust her. Relationship is built on trust after all. If you can’t trust her you shouldn’t be in a relationship with her. If you trust her than this shouldn’t bother you anymore.

Personally I think if she admitted it to you, its probably because of two things

1) She was scared your friend would tell you first and make it seem like she was hiding something from you

2) She wanted you to know because she hoped being honest with you would help increase the trust between you two.


But whatever. If she does it again, just curb stomp her into cement. Thats what I did...
Brb parole officer is here.
>> Anonymous
kill them both, rape her, eat him.
>> Anonymous
Maybe if she had blown him, she'd have learned some technique and been that much better a girlfriend, huh? I'm all for future girlfriends honing their skills before I know them, just so long as they aren't amassing diseases and bastard children.

You're such a bitch. Girls fuck guys. They aren't all waiting with bated breath for you. Get over it.
>> Anonymous
She didn't fuck him, stop QQing, MAN UP
>> Anonymous
What the fuck is this in /fit/ for. Theres not even a fucking veil of "LULZ IM DEPRESSED HELP ME FIX IT BY GETTUNG GURL"

It's just straight up BAWWWWW
>> Anonymous
This sounds very familiar. Once you know you will not be able to forget, even if you talk about it with her, it will always be in the back of your mind. You can either let it go or learn to recognize the pattern of behavior, it WILL come up again. Sure, it might have been a one time thing, and it's ridiculous to punish her for something she only did once. If it persists, break up with her, you can do so much better than someone who will repeatedly cheat on you when your back is turned.
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
>>258108

/b/ is down.
>> Anonymous
what the hell does this have to do w/ health and fitness
>> Anonymous
>>258116
/b/ may be down, but this is neither health or fitness, and can be cured with a good case of BWAAAAAAAAAA.

OP just get over it and be happy you're in an 8 month relationship.
>> Anonymous
go back 2 /b/
>> Anonymous
lol just be glad shes fucking you
>> Anonymous
Good advice is good.
>> Anonymous
>>258204
This anon makes a good point.
>> Anonymous
BAWWWWWWWW.....

....

BAWWWWWWWWWWWW
>> Anonymous
do you happen to live in flordia? You sound familiar to someone I know.
>> Anonymous
>>258044
Shes gonna fuck alot of dudes.
>> Anonymous
A week BEFORE we started dating she made out with one of my friends and almost gave him a blowjob

boohoo
>> Anonymous
Please tell me you're getting pussy out of this fagfest.