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Anonymous
>>199223 With media portrayal nowadays, people are accepting bisexual women more often. According to psychology: media (along with family, school, peers) is one of the agents of socialization. You claim to be 19? You would have grown up during the age where people begin doing lesbian stunts (T.A.T.U., Britney + Madonna, etc.) for publicity/popularity. This may be ingrained in your social upbringing, and you may come to accept this as normal, hence being bisexual. There is also option two where you were somehow born to like both male and female genders, though I, myself, believe that that would be extraordinarily rare (people aren't hardwired to like something in particular, you have to develop a want for things). As for the wanting to be alone, that could be explained by a large number of things. Could be past experiences (the 'damaged goods syndrome', as one of my friends calls it), could be from an overwhelming want for independence, could be from butthurt that you can't get anyone (well, we can't rule that out from your post alone). I close with this: I am not a psychologist. I can't answer your questions for you. If you believe you need help, see someone who is. If this information has helped you, glad to be of help. If it hasn't, then know that I at least tried.
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