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So what really goes through you girls' heads when a guy orgasms in less than a minute?

I've got some problems with it, but then again I've only ever had sex about 5 times, and never with a regular partner. I've been doing all those Kegel exercises and stuff, but I figure that the only thing that's really make me finish so fast is because I'm so insanely turned on whenever I'm finally getting some. Which I'm assuming goes away with time if you have someone you actually have sex with on a regular basis. Which is about to happen to me.

But girls don't go all like, "OH GOD YOU'RE NOT A REAL MAN GTFO" when this happens, right? Cause that would suck.
>> Anonymous
No, they're just disappointed. If you don't improve the sex your relationship is fucked though.
>> play !3rZQiXcf5A
Think about baseball.
>> Anonymous
Just wait 10 mins and go for a second round.
>> Anonymous
I wish I could have an orgasm in less than 30 minutes..
>> Anonymous
sauce of this pic?
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
>>70483
whenever i do that i end up thinking about how i'm scoring a homerun. that just turns me on more.
>> Anonymous
>>70505
the artist is Charly White.
he's doing these shocker-pictures.
>> Anonymous
>>70474
>>But girls don't go all like, "OH GOD YOU'RE NOT A REAL MAN GTFO" when this happens, right?

most don't, and the few that do are whores who you don't want to be in a relationship with anyway just be happy that you got yours. I on the other hand have the exact opposite problem sometimes i go for almost an hour before i can finish, im not sure which is worse
>> Anonymous
>>70498
Same here.
>> Anonymous
Be happy you don't have delayed ejaculation. I go for around 30 min then just lose the hard on and it doesn't come back. very frustrating.
>> Anonymous
>>70538
JEREMY?
>> Anonymous
shit
>> Anonymous
>>70540
FRED?!
>> Anonymous
>>70600
No its Andy.

Wrong person I guess.
>> Anonymous
>>70540
>>70600
At least one of you is gay.
>> Ian Curtis !f0VMpnwSCQ
>>70602
>>70600
>>70540
STELLLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
>> Anonymous
>>70474
Ironically the more sex you have with a girl, the longer you will last.

Try getting a real relationship and work through it.
>> Anonymous
>>70744
how is that ironic?
>> Anonymous
>>70485

First nut is usually the easiest. Just give it 10-15 minutes and you'll easily be able to go like 30-45 minutes more.
>> Anonymous
It takes me anywhere from 20-40 minutes to get off.

=[ ITS LIKE DOING PUSHUPS AFTER A WHILE.
>> Anonymous
>>70526
>i go for almost an hour before i can finish, im not sure which is worse

You sir are made for porn, go go go!
>> Anonymous
the fastest i've ever been able to cum was just under 5 minutes. we were rawdogging it and she turned me on an absolutely ridiculous amount (she fulfilled 2 of my fetishes), so i kept it hard and pumped her for another 20 minutes before i came again. she came twice during my second round.

i have had the problem of taking too long. i think that it;s due to overthinking it. it's like sex is only a big deal until you get it, then it can be like 'oh now i have to finish or she'll think i don't like her or something'.

the girl i'm with now is hot but not fetishy like the one that made me cum buckets in minutes. the sex always lasts 10-15 minutes, and this seems to both of us like too long. there's just not that much to do. different positions, different places in the house, oral, anal, then done. i think it's a healthy medium.

those of you that cum too fast, calm down. it proves that you're too excited and that you don't think you're worthy of the girl you're fucking, which makes you less masculine and less attractive to her. people fuck all the time. why not you too?

guys that take too long: try to remember that there was a point in your life when pussy was just a dream. ou had to jerk off imagining what it might feel like and look like because you didn't really know. now you're actually getting to DICK one. remember what it was like to dream of being able to fuck a real girl. i know you've all been there. if you can keep that mindset, the sex will become sort of more amazing and gratifying.
>> Anonymous
I'm pretty fucking disappointed, but it happens. Sometimes the sex lasts for like...30 minutes, sometimes it lasts for 30 seconds. It depends on the guy, the day, everything.

I don't mind, however, as long as he makes up for it by going down.
>> Anonymous
So what about girls who cum very quickly? Are men at all disappointed in this?
I'm one of those people that can think their way nearly to orgasm. Just a little bit of touching can send me over the edge if I fantasize enough first. I can, if I want, drag the whole thing out- and I usually do if I'm masturbating- but is it necessary with a guy?
>> Anonymous
It can take me up to 30-50 minutes to orgasm once. That's the first time too, every one after that takes longer. It doesn't help that I do not get limp at all after orgasming. It keeps going and doesn't start to get soft until around the 3rd or 4th orgasm.

You would think this would be great right? Not when your partner wants it quick and you just cannot pop, or going at it and she tires out but you're not satisfied yet. It can cause a lot of problems.

You cant win. You're either too fast or too fucking slow! I'm too slow.

...Ive actually seen a doctor about this too. I am not exaggerating here.
>> Anonymous
The first few times, the girl may be flattered she gets you off so easily. Don't sweat it if you only do it once or twice.
>> Anonymous
>>70526

I certainly as fuck do. I'm not a whore either, I'm just a girl who needs her guy to last at least ten minutes or the job just won't get done.

And honestly, if you're with a chick who's all "Oh no, that's okay..." SHE'S LYING. She thinks you're a failure and she's going to tell her friends not to get with you in the morning.

Your only chance at turning it around if you do with with me is giving me amazing multiple orgasm head. Then I might forgive you and think you're not just in it to blow your load and then fuck off without satisfying me.
>> Anonymous
>>70899
does it matter if the guy "finishes" but is able to keep going until female is also done? or is it the principle of the matter that he went first?

inb4 not possible
>> Anonymous
beat off before you go into a situation that will end in sex.

Also, find long term partner that will put up with you until you get better/last longer. It's all about how long you've been going.

I had a bunch of girlfriends in high school, to the point where i was lasting 20-45 minutes if it wasn't a quickie. I fucked a girl 3 weeks ago, and it had been only about month and I came within 10 minutes, and i was really trying to control my breathing.

ALSO

just as general advice, along with keeping your breathing even, don't think about cumming. You'r e focussing too much on the end goal and not enough on the experience. Think about what your doing, think about things other than "i wanna cum"

Things like...i want to suck on her nipples. Pull out your cock for a few minutes and eat her out when shes already nice and wet. mix it up.
>> notsoanonomys
>>70474
"Man, Dad NEVER cums this quick!"
>> Anonymous
>>70847
I think somebody is projecting, good sir. It is YOU who thinks he isn't good enough, otherwise why would it take you so long. YOU are overthinking it. You're worrying too much about finishing and whether shes gonna think its good.
Guys who cum to fast are just living in the moment and wanna blow hard, guys who take forever are worried "AMIDOINITRITE?!"
>> Anonymous
>>70899
Yes, you are a whore who has stupid expectations about sex and will never find true love. Enjoy your dirty slut life.

Shallow cunt, gtfo off the internet
>> Anonymous
>>70903
Nah, I've came and kept hard after the orgasm, kept pounding them until they cum too. It's whatever. Cumming is a nice end but jesus you're all acting like sex is this:


BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH WE BOTH CUM YESSSSSS

The blah blah blah is like...the best fucking part. Just slow down and enjoy everything up till you cum. If the bitch doesn't cum, then fuck it. Ask her how you can help, what she likes and doesn't like, but honestly some girls are just too up tight to cum.
>> Anonymous
>>70899
lol dumb bitch maybe one night stands aren't such a good idea then. Doubt many normal guys last more than 10 minutes unless they are getting consistent pussy.
>> Anonymous
>>70859Ive actually seen a doctor about this too. I am not exaggerating here.
What'd the doctor say? I've thought about seeing one for the same reason since I last 1-2 hours.
>> Anonymous
>>70910
GIRL MUST CUM aka SPICE MUST FLOW
>> Anonymous
>>70953
I lol'd.

Ya know what's sad? With the amount of newfags....someday dune related humor will die completely on 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>>71048
>newfags
Go back to /b/ with that bullshit.
>> Anonymous
For you guys that complain for lasting an hour, I deal with the same process. BUT I find that more foreplay makes it easier to decide when you come.
>> Anonymous
>>71085
Aww newfags get so pissy.

protip: the oldfags actually hang out in r9k
>> Guil
>>71093
He's quite right. This word, "newfag", is used by "newfags". "Oldfags" don't actually care that someone is new if they follow a very important rule: lurk moar.

And every post on /r9k/ is some idiot trying to sound funny

Also, you faggot, learn how to PRO TIP.