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Fit Failures with women. Anonymous
Anyone else here ever in shape but failed with girls horribly regardless?

I did. I was 5'7" 105 lbs naturally. Yes I ate. I am just a skinny fuck naturally. I got up to 145 lbs -150 at 8% body fat or so. Looked good. Took 2 years or so. I was still unable to get a girl. Had a cut light weight MMA fighter build. Have no game. Boring dull etc... Never even got a hug from a girl.

I got injured, and never started lifting again after because I got sick of getting no benefits. I do drafting work for a job, and don't do any sports. I got nothing from working out except a thinner wallet from buying protein shakes.

I just spend the money on prostitutes now. I reverted back to my old ways of doing drugs and playing video games all day. Happier now actually.
>> telltelltell !fScTfea2rc
Along with working out, you should have done things to improve your dull personality. Reading books, getting a hobby, and finding a girl with similar interests.
>> Anonymous
I'm 20 and I've never been on a date. Thankfully I quit WoW and most other video games about a year ago(started since November 2004). I honestly think I will get killed or die without one girl reaching into my pants.

Every time a girl acts nice to me, she either wants to sell me something, wants/needs money, requires me for services(computer fixing, boring shit, etc) or we have to be nice to each other since we work together. I have yet to have one girl ever flirt with me.

It's weird though, whenever I start feeling real lonely and I desperately want to ask a girl out or start flirting, be it she's at the gym, In-n-out, or some party, my mind plays a trick on me and tells me how financially better I am off by not supporting another person or buying random crap, which then just sort of turns off my "emotional" drive to be with a girl(not the lust part, I can't figure out how that turns off).

I cannot fucking wait until I turn 21 and can hit up some bars and find a desperate chick that is drunk enough to experiment with.

Sometimes I think it might be a confidence issue due to my lack of any experience, since the last girl I kissed was back in the fourth grade, and I've never touched a girl sexually.
>> Anonymous
>>424934

Like tonight I was supposed to go over to this girls house and bring with me board games as she's organizing a get-together with friends, and this is a girl I could see myself with. It sort of sucks, once we talk about the party and I say I will go, she calls back 2 minutes later and asks if I can bring over the board games. I hate that feeling that I'm being used, whether it's all in my head or not. It's pretty depressing. Sometimes I wish I could cry to let it all out and not have depression for a whole day about it.
Then again, after all this I realize I honestly don't give a fuck about having a relationship, and would rather have an awesome life riding my motorcycle and enjoying life. I think it's more my body wanting/needing to have sex that spurs on the stupid thought that I MUST have sexy time with a girl, as well as build a stable relationship.
>> Anonymous
>>424934

HOLY SHIT THE LAST GIRL I KISSED WAS IN FOURTH GRADE TOO!

HELLO MY CLONE!
>> Anonymous
>>424940
>>424934
Oh for fucks sake take this shit to /r9k/ you fucking loser.
>> Anonymous
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maybe going to college is the answer, I hear that is the last place to lose your virginity and a great place to somehow score alcohol.
>> Anonymous
"I just spend the money on prostitutes now. I reverted back to my old ways of doing drugs and playing video games all day. Happier now actually."

>Happier now actually

Thats all that matters
>> Anonymous
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in fact my standards could be considered low for someone who lurks /f/it, like this girl for instance, I wouldn't mind being with. Ignore the fact that she's sleeping and that she doesn't realize I'm taking a picture of her.
>> Anonymous
>>424934
You probably walk past girls every day who would be interested in you. Even if you're overweight and walk around with hunched shoulders, forward thrust head, and a bizarre look in your eyes, in your better moments you can't be repulsive to everyone. There's someone interested in every weirdo—you have only to remove your head from your ass and notice her. Your problem: poor choice of women (and crippling confidence issues, obviously).
>> Anonymous
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in fact, being depressed lead me a lot to eating food like this. thank god I've been able to channel that energy towards something better like gym
>> Anonymous
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>>424954

how to fix con/f/idence?
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
wow, nothing at all? Fine then, OP, sauce on pic now!
>> Anonymous
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>>424934
>> Anonymous
pr0 tip: women like men, not boys. You need to become a man.

I suggest you read "How to be a man" http://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-John-Birmingham/dp/1875989285

Also, the fist few pages of pimpology.doc are pretty good imo.
>> Anonymous
>>424934
You're actually gay. Enjoy being /fa/bulous!
>> Anonymous
>>424941
>>424934
Now neither of you will be virgins!
>> Anonymous
>>424967

dick don't interest me though.
>> Anonymous
holly shit /fit/ i was just at a bar with some friends and we started talking with these hot milfs...i mean, they started talking one of them tried to talk with me but i made a stupid joke about what she said and i dont think she found it funny cause i spent the rest of the night watching evil dead on a tv at this bar.

and you know what, i start to think that this "you need to score a chick" is all just in my head, i see people getting with chicks and i want it too...but thats not what i really want, you know? im not gay but i can live without a woman just fine.
>> Anonymous
Why cant woman be sexy instead of sheep.
>> Anonymous
4chan needs a sex/relationship board.
>> Anonymous
Use all your pain and agony and loneliness and divert it into every workout.

If youre so worthless, then let your life center around getting big strong and lean.

DO IT FAGGOT
>> Anonymous
>>424920
try finding a girl through video games, you'd be surprised how many cockstarved geeky perverted female WoW players there are out there.
>> Anonymous
>>425198
You'd better be trolling nigger.
>> Anonymous
anonidate .(dot). com
>> Anonymous
>>425199
it's fucking true.
>> Anonymous
Holy fuck, why do you retards think every girl will drop at your feet because you have the body of an Adonis?

All the SQUATZ and CURLZ in the world won't resolve your issues and make you a great person to be around.
>> Anonymous
same story for me, im a handsome bastard but i never got a girl, i still wanted sex so i spend my money on prostitutes... so far so good but i think there will come a point when i'll get tired of it or my family will find out or something.
>> ­gay
>>425209
>im a handsome bastard

that's your reason right there Narcissus
>> Anonymous
I have no social skills whatsoever, and my physique is average to good, but I get girls pretty regularly.

You guys probably just have ugly faces.
>> Anonymous
>>425206
>All the SQUATZ and CURLZ in the world won't resolve your issues and make you a great person to be around.

lol, it's true. And for a lot of you, you'll just be /fit/ virgins for the rest of your lives. The question is: does posting it in there make it so, or is it already your fate when you decided to whine about it on 4chan?
>> Anonymous
Get some confidence, women care about looks MUCH less than men do. It's all about confindence and charisma, which can only be gained by practice. Go out and try and score with 300 women, and I can guarantee you will be good at it by the time you finish.
>> Anonymous
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Vegitto here.

Here's an original thought, OP: Stop giving a fuck. Yes, it'd probably help your chances to land a chick if you improved your fitness, but the main point is to not give a shit.

It's not really about being an asshole, it's more along the lines of doing what you want to do w/ your own time. You Make time for these bitches, so they know they can count on you to listen to all their problems...and they're going to take advantage of that = friendzone.

Don't be an asshole, but don't exactly go out of your way for them either. Do what you want to do, if pussy wants to come along, fine. If not, tell her to get lost and keep doing shit that will make you successful in the long run.

The second you start getting "compliments" like "you're like a brother/great friend/whatever", it's time to move on. They may find you "cute", but they don't find you attractive.

Make yourself more emotionally unavailable. They don't need to know you, the REAL you, or how you think/operate. Create mysteriousness, don't let them figure you out, don't help them know who you are. That's something for them to discover by themselves.
>> Anonymous
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>>425182
>> Anonymous
>>425245

Actually, scratch that...this was meant moar for>>424934
>> Shawn Eater !DboU7yuujg
I live my life on my will alone. I knew of one girl strong enough to take me down. I betrayed her. I know walk the streets in the valley of death to find my own calling.
>> Anonymous
you gotta be your own man, stop acting like hormone addled teenagers
>> Anonymous
My biggest fuck up with a girl happened around august of last year.

I was dating the woman who is now my wife, when the girl I dated for 3 years in high school came back into town. We hadn't talked for years, but having a lot of the same friends we somehow connected on myspace and sorta rekindled the friendship.
Anyways...she shows back up, we have lunch one day which turned into this like 8 hour hangout all over town and walking around the park and shit like that. Anyways...it was great. Well, she needed a ride from our town to a bigger city that was like 7 hours away, so my best friend her and I all went.
Long story short, we all had some drink and ended up having like half of a threesome..and I'm still all fucked up about it and I miss her TONS even though I'm married.
>> Anonymous
>>425272

tl;dr: I had a threesome with my ex-from highschool...and even though I'm married, I'm effed up about it.

Also...on a side note, my friend's ex and I keep having lunch lately...we haven't done anything yet, but she's bad ass. Bah.
>> Anonymous
>>425267
>>425245

They know what the fuck is up.
>> Shawn Eater !DboU7yuujg
Being a man is a lot harder than being a women. Men are out there on their own. You're supposed to be strong enough to get women to come your way rather than go fishing for them. Life isn't a chick flik.
>> Anonymous
>>425274

Sounds like you shouldn't have gotten married.
>> Anonymous
First of all, stop crying you fag!

Secondly

>>425245

read that, he knows what he's talking about. There is a fine like between a boy a girl would like to sit next to and talk throughtout the lesson, because she feels that you are talkable.

and a boy that she would like to know more, but he never speaks much, makes enough jokes to make her laugh, but not too much.
>> Anonymous
BECOME AN ASSHOLE, IF YOU BECOME AN ASSHOLE AND YOU DON'T GET WOMEN THEN YOU WON'T GIVE A SHIT.. if you're going to be miserable, might as well make others around you miserable as well (not your actual friends, but others you know..).. if you have no friends, then fuck.. even I have friends.
>> Anonymous
Its all about confidence!
I wouldn't say I'm ugly, but I sure as hell ain't no brad pit looking guy. And lately I have even started to have a weight problem as well, which is why I'm lurking on fit for inspiration.
And still I can honestly say I have had my fair share of pussy, it all depends on you're act.
If you're confident in yourself you could probably score with a chick you never thought would even look you're way.
>> Anonymous
I did. I was 5'10" 260lbs . Yes I ate. I was just a fat fuck . I got down to 170 lbs -175 at 15% body fat or so. Looked good. Took 3 months or so. I was still unable to get a girl. i looked like a claen bulked bodybuilder. Girls looked at me but they didnt wanted to Hang with me. Never even got a hug from a girl.

now im arround 200lbs im planning to cut to 180.
Probably will look sexy as fuck but i doubt i will get a girl.
The other thing is that im socially retarded.
I dont know how to aproach a girl without scaring her or make her bored.
>> Anonymous
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use all of your pain and angst to write shitty acoustic songs. Be pensive but don't be emo. Buy yourself a real camera and start taking alot of black and white pictures of shadows and empty hallways and other b.s. like that.

That way you can score tons of artsy chicks. They might not be the prettiest but they try sooo hard to make up for their lack of natural sexiness. they'll be more quircky, cute and funny.

But be forwarned: these bitches is crazy and more emotional than the average girl.

ah, back in college when all it took was some lame ass poetry to get a fucking art major with big tits into my bed.
>> Anonymous
BTW, i'm the guy advocating be a pensive twat.

Also, i would suggest you learn to manipulate.

by that, i mean learn how to be make a girl feel like she has to work for your attention and affection.

You can do this very sublte wise.

Best way is to look like such a nice guy, soneone that will really listen and be there for them. The first time they cross you or do something to irritate you, just get a lil serious and act like that shit isnt cool with you. Use an uninterested approach when you act lik you're going to cut off all contact, or that you're not pleased with them. The girl instinct to be accepted and kick in and once she sees your not some pussy whipped bitch dying for her affection, she'll do anything she can to make sure you pay attention to her.

It's great to see a girl go to great lengths to plaese you simply because she needs the attention.
>> Anonymous
>>425324
>The other thing is that im socially retarded.
it's not "the other thing", it's the only thing.
>> Anonymous
>>425355
>>425355
>>425355
how do i fix it?
>> Anonymous
Now the biggest error here is that you all devote too much time and effort into thinking about having chicks, planning how to kidnap one,murder her bf...et cetera.

What you really need to is not to give a fuck about if you have or don't have a chick.

Improve yourself for the sake of self improvement or maybe you have some infernal plan. Go forth with it. In movies the girls are usually just sidekicks. And the hero's don't care about them unless it is in their plan to have pussy today. Feminists may say very bad words but oh right we don't care, screw them.
>> Anonymous
>>425398
>>425398
>>425398
>>425398
>>425398
>>425398
>> Anonymous
train for yourself, not for a vagina. Be egoist, you will be happier.
>> Anonymous
>>425398

I'm the guy that said be an asshole, but I agree with this guy.
>> Anonymous
>>424920
Yep, i'm like you OP. I'm 23, 6'2", 190lbs, in good shape (been lifting weights for about 6 months now), and a complete fucking retard when it comes to women. I used to really stress about it when i was in my teens, but now i honestly don't give a fuck. I'm perfectly content with fapping and have lost all will to pursue the opposite sex. Just fap a few times a day and the desperation will be gone :)
>> Anonymous
am I the only one who thinks sex is overrated nowadays?
>> Anonymous
>>425441
you're only saying that because you don't get any.
>> Anonymous
I had three girlfriends in my life so far (I'm 25) and the thing I've noticed is that its really expensive. Sure, having regular sex and a great friend is awesome, but going on dates and doing things costs money. I found its better to pay for a hooker or if I want to splurge go for an escort
>> Anonymous
>>425444
dude, that's called life...

what are yoi planning to do? Save every fucking penny you earn?

It's good to save and be frugal dude but don't deny simple pleasures in life because you're afraid of spending a lil cash.

Now if you're going broke because of girls than its not the girls and the relationships that are making you broke. It's the fact that you're a pussy who feels he has to whine and dine a girl that he barely knows and has to buy her things all the time.

Nothing wrong with going dutch with a girl dude...any smart, honest girl wouldn't mind doing it either.
>> Anonymous
>>425451
The guy has a point though. It'd be alot cheaper to buy a hooker once in a while and spend the money you have left over on a new corvette or something :)
>> Anonymous
What is this, basement dweller time on /fit/?

Go outside and actually TRY to get a girl. A lot of them still expect men to make the first move.
>> Anonymous
>>425465
Fuck that. I'd rather fap to JB.
>> Anonymous
>>425443
ignorant fool
>> Anonymous
>>425467
lol stfu you faggot
>> Anonymous
>>425475
eat my cornhole worthless human waste
>> Anonymous
>>425477
>>425475
>>425467
>>425443
>>425441
ITT: Faggots
>> Shawn Eater !DboU7yuujg
>>425398
Self improvement is masturbation, ti's free at the cost of nothing more than you're own will and determination. Go for it. You're on /fit/ anyways so it's a great place to start.
>> Anonymous
>>425444
I'm a committed friend with benefits. Best relationship I've ever been in.
>> Anonymous
>>425451

It's not like I threw money at them like a pussy. My life situation hasn't been stable for a while now. Among getting laid off from my higher paying job and being forced to work a crap job to pay bills, gas, student loans, and basic living expenses, having a girlfriend simply isn't feasible anymore. I'm at work right now, and most my free time is devoted to searching and applying for new jobs (and getting XBOX HUEG). I don't think its fair to a potential GF or for me to be in a relationship right now. And yet I'm still a man with manly needs. Going to a bar? No way, beer costs money and health. Clubs? Not my scene. Hookers? Practical and exciting.
>> Anonymous
>>425540
solution: live in your car
>> Anonymous
>>425552

Lol I'm not homeless, yet.
>> Anonymous
>>425540
You didn't ask her if you could just fuck every once in a while?
>> Anonymous
op is a fag
>> Anonymous
Man why does getting laid have to be so fucking confusing, I wish I was gay because women confuse the shit out of me.
>> Anonymous
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>>425690
>> Anonymous
>>425690
I actually wish I was gay quite often too, unfortunately you can't just change what you're attracted too, or I'd be rutting a lil faggot boy right now.
>> Anonymous
>>425255
dwight?
>> Anonymous
>>425183

Thats what I'm saying! Theres no shame in being a badass loner. Besides, if I've learned anything about attracting women it's that being desperate doesn't impress them much
>> Anonymous
>>425748

now you're getting smart. in fact, women start to lose interest in you the second they think you're interested in them
>> Anonymous
>>425754
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
>> Anonymous
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you all are suffering from Chronic Bitch Dependency or CBD
>> Anonymous
>>425183
FUCK YEAR!
>> Anonymous
Ditch your conception of love that you've gained from movies and literature. What we call love between unrelated people is just a business transaction.

She's looking for someone who can protect her, who can take her up a rung or two on the social ladder, and elevate her standard of living. This is why most women like guys who are strong and fit, confident and popular, and rich. Women are validated by possessing a man with these qualities. Trust me, women wouldn't find Brad Pitt attractive if he was broke, awkward, and working at a gas station.

You're presumably looking for someone attractive to stick your dick in, perhaps an extremely attractive one so you can make other guys jealous. It's a lot simpler with us guys. But this is really business, and you have to treat it as such.

(cont)
>> Anonymous
Desperation is a turnoff to women, more than anything else. I know it's in your nature to fall head over heels for the first attractive girl to show interest in you. I've been there, I did it. But once your get your first taste of pussy, you'll feel like an idiot for having devoted so much energy to chasing tail. Be confident, and don't make it easy for them. Don't show too much interest. Don't be afraid to let her see you with other girls. Don't be afraid to stand her up on a date. They love a challenge. Make it clear to her that you are the one in charge. Let me give you this for reference:

http://achewood.com/index.php?date=08132002

Don't be Roast Beef. Be Ray. Never let her know you're trying to earn her affection - make her earn yours.

Above all, never lose your dignity. There will be times when a girl disses on you, and you have to choose to either sacrifice your dignity and be a virgin, or be her dog and get laid. The choice is yours, but everyone I know who acted as a doormat for some slut ended up regretting it, including myself. Don't be afraid to scratch her number out of your telephone book and move on. And odds are if you act like enough of a pussy they won't even fuck you anyway, so you're out of dignity and you're still a virgin.
>> Anonymous
>Had a cut light weight MMA fighter build
When did "light weight MMA fighter" become a build for a body?
>> Anonymous
Fuck, if you're happy without the relationship, paying for a little pussy, and happier gaming and shit, I don't see what's wrong with doing what makes you the happiest.

You'll probably want to move on after a couple years, but it's better to be happy than depressed, I've lost too much time to it.
>> Anonymous
>>425768
Mmmhmm
>> Anonymous
Having a /fit/ body is only good for that initial grab, you need a personality to take it all the way
>> Anonymous
looks =/= solution to getting a decent woman.
Personality will get it. Your just a boring fuck OP.
>> timbo timbo
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YO GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE SON

btw TOO MANY UNNECESARY POSTS YO
so lemme filter some shit son

timbo filter ON
check it:
>>working out, done things to improve your dull personality. Reading books, getting a hobby, and finding a girl with similar interests.

this sums all shit up except the last part about same interests though is not needed, it can be more exciting if u both got different skillz u know for example u got mad dancin skills and she got mad language skills and u learn from eachotha na mean it's boring if u both do same shit been to same places etc etc SUCKEEEEEERS

tl;dr: get out of your house
u need 2 hit da club
it's like a meat factory, u advertise yo meat

u gotta learn da moves
and u then get da pussy
that's just da basics
u can just stand around with ur drink but u betta know how 2 talk and have mussle, i prefer to bust some moves up in some hoes if u kno what i mean son

basically u dry hump some hoes and get their phone numba

after that 's done u are golden my friend they will call u up 'n shit

if u can't dance

u should A) stay home instead of clubbin
B) die

what do u think?
-timbo

ps my friends call me timbo
cause i was in one of justin timberlake's videos
bustin some moves
in case u wanna say i can't dance n shit

TIMBOOOOOOOOO
(for international solidarity, social justice, democracy and PEACE)
>> Anonymous
You're better off without a stable woman in your life.

I've COMPLETELY lost my body because of my current girlfriend. I didn't have much spare time to begin with between work and school, so the gym was my only thing outside of it.

When a girl enters your life, you start skipping work outs, slowly. Till you wake up one day and realize you are out of shape and don't care.

Settling down is what leads men to because obese cubical workers. My advice, dodge that shit.
>> Anonymous !ErY2TknG0w
>>426141
I lol'd.
>> timbo timbo
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>>426152
>>My advice, dodge that shit.

no, dodge this

TIMBOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHAHA bitches
>> timbo timbo
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So u want to be like me and hit the clubs 'n shit.
I imagine that right now you're feeling a bit like Alice. Tumbling down the rabbit hole?
I can see it in your eyes. You have the look of a man who accepts what he sees because he's expecting to wake up. Ironically, this is not far from the truth. Do you believe in fate?
Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know, you can't explain. But you feel it. You felt it your entire life. That there's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there. Like a splinter in your mind -- driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me. Do you know what I'm talking about?
You can see it when you look out your window, or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work, or when go to church or when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth. You are a slave. Like everyone else, you were born into bondage, born inside a prison that you cannot smell, taste, or touch. A prison for your mind.
You have to see it for yourself. This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back.
You take the blue pill and the story ends. You wake in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill and you stay in Wonderland and I show you what's up @ da CLuB. Remember -- all I am offering is the truth, nothing more.

TIMBO
(for international solidarity, social justice, democracy and PEACE)
>> Anonymous
>>426152

VERY much seconded. You just have less time for yourself all around, not to mention the bickering and illogical bullshittery they manage to pull off.
>> Anonymous
>>426152
only fucking pussy whipped attention starved losers say this. real men can have a woman in his life and not have his life ruined.

learn to take control of your life and quit blaming other people for your short comings.

fucking pathetic.
>> Anonymous
I feel vilified as a young man and don't even bother dating or flirting and act pretty much asexual because I'm constantly suspected or accused of rape, molestation, peeping, "stealing" some girl or some other sexual no-no. I stay the fuck away from parents of teenage daughters and children especially. I'm confident I'll be imprisoned for some sex crime I had nothing to do with.
>> Anonymous
ITT: Virgins giving virgins advice about how to get laid.
>> Anonymous
>>426274
Welcome to 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>>426267
you know, these type of false accusation occur few and far in between. if you're being accused of these deeds over and over again than perhaps YOU are the problem and not misguided views of society.

fucking pedo
>> Anonymous
>>426282
Way to prove my point dude.
>> Anonymous
Tell women you're from the future, and that you need her for the survival of the human race

fucking worked one time, now im a father

on second thought dont do that, kids are like 50 protein shakes a day

fuck my life
>> Anonymous
>>426295
stfu go cry and blame women for your lakc of social skills
>> Anonymous
This thread is pathetic.
>> Anonymous
Alright /fit/, tomorrow, I will flirt with as many girls as I can and get some digits.

What do I have to lose besides my dignity and gain some XP and numbers?
>> Anonymous
>>426331

the fact that girls can kick you in the balls if you say the wrong thing, blame it on the fact that you "sexually" touched her and everyone would believe her.
>> Anonymous
Well yea, I don't expect my workout to get a whole lot of women knocking on my door. I generally don't go out much and I can be a bit difficult to get close to (because I've grown sceptical towards most people, 90% of everyone are just dumb fucks).

Aside from some random sex (believe me, it was random and nothing I was looking for) on three occasions I haven't really gotten any for the last 2 years now, it's bothersome.

Atm I'm so skinny that I'd even pass down a relationship if I was offered one because I'm simply not comfortable with myself (got really skinny arms and legs and I ain't much fatter than the guy in the machinist). I otherwise look pretty good, so I do get noticed by girls when I'm all covered up with clothes.. but I just avert my eyes nowdays.. Mweh...

So right now I've started to train, just so I wouldn't have to pass down the chance if it'd come. Because that'd suck, starting to get lonely again.
>> Anonymous
>>426344
no, that only happens if you are a creep. saying "i wanna lick your asshole" is not innocent flirting you creepy fuck.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>426398

>90% of everyone are just dumb fucks

including you, dipshit.
>> Anonymous
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>>426455
>> Anonymous
You guys all suck. You're not gonna get a woman until you realize that the only way to get one is to act like you don't need one.

As some previous posters have so eloquently put, it's all about social status. Women crave nothing more than to be with men of higher social value than themselves. If you want a woman, and she knows this, she also immediately concludes that you're of lower or equal social value as her, and thus loses interest. If you seem disinterested, she takes your lack of interest as a sign of higher social value, and will be interested.

Either way, you can read as much about this shit as you want and you aint gonna get anywhere so get the fuck out of your basement you stupid /fit/fags or you'll never get anywhere.
>> Anonymous
>>426455
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stalker
Definition #2, that's you
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
I find guys pathetic who think getting in shape will solve all their not-being-able-to-find-a-girlfriend problems. It's usually just that these guys' personality sucks and that is why they can't get any.
>> Anonymous
>>426511
Men are of higher social value then women anyways, so it should be a no brainer that any woman should want me.
>> Anonymous
I got into working out for myself, and part of the reason was so I'd be more sexually attractive to the opposite gender, but I knew it wouldn't be as simple as that.

Girls love a fit man, but most girls won't fall into your lap just on the basis of your looks. It has to be a combination of things, and you never can wait on them.

If your hitting up clubs with your tight fitting t-shirt and your guido haircut and you just sort of stand and pose waiting for some bitch to step up to you then you've got another thing coming.

Girls are raised to believe they have to be the ones pursued and won't bust their asses chasing after a guy.

You have to have charm, wit, humour, these three will get you further then looks alone... Although if your pig disgusting you'll have to be really fucking charming, funny, and witty.

Also if you're affluent then you have another edge. We want to use them, well guess what, they want to use us.

tl;dr
don't put all your eggs in one basket.
>> Anonymous
>>424940
>I hate that feeling that I'm being used, whether it's all in my head or not. It's pretty depressing. Sometimes I wish I could cry to let it all out and not have depression for a whole day about it.
I think that that is a difference between the PEOPLE (male or female) who PURSUE other people socially, and the people who do not.
>> Anonymous
     File :-(, x)
>>426542
Barracudas and minnows bro, that's what it all boils down too.
>> Anonymous
>>425754
>women start to lose interest in you the second they think you're interested in them
I will fix that for you
>People start to lose interest in you the second they think you're interested in them. This is because most people aren't constantly sizing up potential mates, they have other lives. Some people already have boyfriends/griflriends, or are more committed to another area of their life. They may flirt with you a bit, but the effort it takes to develop, and sustain a relationship is just too much nowadays. It's better to just focus on something else in life and be open to the idea of finding someone permanent/semi-permanent (if that's your goal).
>> Anonymous
>>425754
YES YES YES YES YES

YES.

THIS IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH.

The minute you tell them you like them, love them, or think they look nice, their interest in you goes down 100-fold.

PRO TIP: EVERY FUCKING CHUMP ON THE STREET WILL TELL THEM THESE THINGS.

HAving your own life and never revealing your attachment is the ONLY way to keep a woman attracted to you.
>> Anonymous
should have tried to do some modeling who gives a fuck about wether women like you or not cause your body dumb fuck lol
>> Anonymous
You faggots fail at thinking logically, like a man is supposed to think.

You refuse to lower your standards and just bang an ugly chick. Why do you think they would lower their standards for you? Just like you, women want a partner who is better than them. The trick is that women are dumb, so acting like you're better is half the battle.

It's not even a matter of lying. If you pretend to be who you want to be long enough, you will become that person.

Smile, strut around like you're the shit, speak loud and clear and expressively. Don't be an utter dick, but don't just agree with them and sympathize with everything they whine about.

You faggots are smart enough to make the standard bitch feel stupid, and you're obviously stronger and possess more character. Basically the only thing they have on you is your biological need for their affection. If you can make THEM want YOU, then you, my friend, are a winrar.

tl;dr be superior to women, and women will want you.
>> Anonymous
Dont forget squatz.
>> Anonymous
Just get fuckin drunk

thats like confidence +100
>> Anonymous
>>426704
I personally don't respond to getting drunk the way most people do. It doesn't give me a foolish sense of confidence nor does it act like a truth serum.
>> Anonymous
>>426739
drink more
>> Anonymous
I thought most people on /fit/ were at least good looking. Anyone willing to post pics of themselves?
>> Anonymous
>>426746
I have. It's just not pleasurable to me
This leaves me out of 99% of social situations which more or less involve alcohol. I have to pretend to act all rowdy and shit to fit in.
>> Anonymous
>>426739
My father becomes very melancholy when he is drunk, but also very friendly and generous.
>> Anonymous
>>426760
PLEASURABLE? you fucking retard.
>> Anonymous
CURLZ FOR THA GURLZ BRAH
>> Anonymous
I'm very fit and over 6 foot but girls still ignore me. I do talk to girls though an hang out in groups with girls in them. Its pretty hopeless brah
>> Anonymous
>>426769
Drunk poster
>> Anonymous
>>426751
being good looking as male wont get you laid, ive seen tv shows about male underwear models who were still virgins past 23.

if you're a female and good looking you could act like a retarded monkey, have no job and license, and think clouds are made of flying globs of sperm, and still get laid easily.
>> Anonymous
     File :-(, x)
Here's my plan:

I'm lifting weights and learning to fight. Studying for medical school as well. I also read often and love music although I haven't learned to play an instrument yet.

I got a job recently for the first time. I'm saving for school but I'm also planning on buying a dirtbike/motorbike. Maybe a guitar as well.

So if things go as planned in 5-10 years (Late twenties) I'll be an asskicking, huge, biker, doctor, musician.

Now once I achieve that women will become much more important to me. With my success already solidified I'll be chasing women like never before and enjoy bachelorhood.

I have the focus and means to succeed. I'm sure many of you do as well. Just try and see what happens.
>> Anonymous
>>426828
tl:dr -- You will fail miserably as a doctor.

Sorry. I know tons of docs. Only by the time they get out, is the time they start to enjoy life. You go into a hole for about 10 years if you are a doc. Full fucking time hole, 10 years.

There is no way on earth you are in med school right now. Nobody in medschool has ever posted on 4chan. Ever.
>> Anonymous
>>426839
wrong. I'm in medschool, 4 years left until I finish. But I agree to some extend, I usually don't have much free time to spend and seldom visit here.
>> Anonymous
>>426828
>>426868
>lifting weights, learning to fight, medical school, read often, love music, instrument YET, got a job, saving, dirtbike, guitar,
>I have the focus and means to succeed. I'm sure many of you do as well. Just try and see what happens.

I LOVE YOU.
>> Anonymous
>>426873

OP and>>426868aren't the same person.
>> Anonymous
Well, I'm a woman, age 18, never even held hands with a guy. I think I COULD get a boyfriend, not the most popular one in the town since I'm not hot, but maybe some nice nerd guy. I don't know if I'll ever get a boyfriend because I live pretty isolated life lol. So I may not be the best person to give advice, but here's my two cents anyway....

I think the biggest problems with people approaching opposite gender are caused by unrealistic expectations and viewing the opposite sex as a some kind of an alien race. If you don't have a problem with the first one, then it's probably the latter.

Women aren't homogeneous group, they don't have same ideals when it comes to a partner, so forget the stuff about "becoming a man" or becoming a different person, it wont work. A nerd doesn't become a jock and he doesn't need to. You'd just find yourself miserable becouse you'd live against your real ideals, interestes, etc.
>> Anonymous
>>426899
(continues)I know it sucks the way the whole dating thing goes, men are still the only ones who are expected to make the first move (some women do this and get pretty easily marked as "sluts", so it's going to take a while for this to change). That puts you in a situation where you HAVE TO approach women if you ever wish to have a girlfriend. Put don't let this build a horrible pressure: being turned down isn't the end of the world. Men who do well with women aren't neccisarily the best looking ones, they may not have the greatest personality, but they have amazing confidence (ego?) and don't care if they get turned down, even if it happens most of the time. Of course it isn't nice, but they know that it isn't a personal insult from the women, most of them just probably already have someone, aren't looking for company, or just don't care much about your looks/talks/acting. It doesn't mean that they'll laugh at you in disgust: most women have as big (or even bigger) problems with insecurity as you do. If you act polite, then most likely so will she, and if she won't, then screw that. Assholes don't deserve your attention, good riddance.

If you meet a girl that you like, try to get to know her a little. No pressures here either, just chat about universal topics, or even better, if you share something then of course that's the subject. Ask her if she would like to meet again, have a coffee, etc. Just ask it like it's no big deal (and don't MAKE it into one, keep your feet on the ground) and if she turns you down, still act like it's no big deal. Of course, if you're desperatily in love, this is hard, but that's another story.
>> Anonymous
>>426900
(maybe I should just write a book)
tl;dr: Relax. As long as you don't completely isolate yourself from the world or become a bitter asshole, you'll find someone. But meanwhile, waiting for your girl, you'll stay alive and well without a partner. Not having experience in relationships wont make you or me a lesser human being. It's always good to try and get out more, maybe find hobbies, socialize. Most of all, work with the way you think, let go of your insane expectations (wheter aimed to yourself or others), read few self-esteem books. It's okay.
>> Anonymous
>>426873

I appreciate it. Sincerely.
>> Anonymous
     File :-(, x)
Women aren't worth it. If you're lustful, get a whore. One phone call, and in thirty minutes she (or he, if you know what I mean) arrives at your door, hot and fresh like a pizza.
>> Anonymous
>>426909

Diseased and fake like plastic pizza covered in bacteria.
>> Anonymous
>>426901
>>426900
>>426899
You have it right on the money. For some reason Anonymous thinks that the opposite gender is another species. What the fuck?
>> Anonymous
>>426909
99% of people in this world aren't able to satisfy their needs entirely on whores. Some of us want relationships, love, not someone who takes our money and leaves.
>> Anonymous
I work out religiously, I look great, I'm always told I look great (by ppls that aren't my mom etc. trolls), but I fail hard with women, because i'm creepy/psycho.
>> Anonymous
i'm pretty good looking and in shape but i suck at conversating when i meet new people. think it's making me seem very arrogant and uptight because i "ignore" people, but i'm down to earth, i don't talk behind people's back etc.... everytime i meet a girl i could be interrested in i end up having nothing to talk with them about and little by little they won't look at me or talk with me next time we meet eventho i try

i learned to be happy with myself and by myself and just the small friend circle that i do have, so i guess it's ok

so op being in shape didn't do shit for me, guess you can conclude that to succeed you need the wit and interresting personality above all
>> Anonymous
>>426899

Thanks for proving to us you're a shallow cunt like the rest of them;

"A nerd doesn't become a jock and he doesn't need to"

Jock =/= Man.
Shallow bitch.
>> Anonymous
>>426982
respond to compliments with the
"yah brah, its for a new thing, man you want the SECRET? here it is brah, Sports Specific Rape training. gets me JAXKED and gets me bitches and i aint gotta deal w/jack shit of her issues, cuz my chloroform is my wingmate toniteeeee sheeet dawg! (brotactular highfaves)
>> Anonymous
>>427037
isn't there a possibility that chloroform kills? i looked it up once.
>> Anonymous
>>427113
who cares