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Anonymous
Hey guys, i have a problem. I've been hanging out with these 2 girls and i like one of them. But I have a feeling that they are using me or something but i really like one of them. I drive so i take them to hang out and stuff with me but they usually very cold to me after i give them rides. Earlier we went swimming at my friend's pool, i asked them if they wanna play chicken but they were like no and just surrounding my friend ( he is kinda good looking)

I know that I should stop seeing them but I like one of them, she is perfect for me when she is not with her friends. I can talk to her forever and she is the cutest girl.

So last week we went to the movie... there were 3 sits open but you can put the handle up so it fits 5 people. I was with my friend who i think they dont like. So i asked them if i could shit with them in the 3 sits but they said no. I went to sit somewhere else and i saw them letting 2 other guys sit with them. Its probably her friends that did it.

So tomorrow im planning to go to the movie with them again. Im really mad and i think im going to beat up any guy that gets near her. Im a very peaceful guy and nice guy that never been in a real fight before. But I do boxing and very good fighter I know i can kill the guy easily.

So my questions is : If I fight what is she going to think of me? Do girls like bad guys? im like the nice guy right now. Help please!!!
>> Anonymous
Excellent troll is EXCELLENT.
>> Anonymous
im not a troll. im serious i need help. Should i fight or not?
Im afraid that she will think of me as a bully.
>> Kung-FU !!yKQtbs254kV
well now you're trying too hard
>> Anonymous
>>173214
>>173218

you're a idiot
>> Anonymous
>>173219
lol i have been like not trying at all for the last 2 weeks.
>> Anonymous
WEAKNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
I SMELL WEAKNESS IN DIS POST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
>> Anonymous
OP here, i just want to know
Does fighting in front of a girl make her like you or dislike you?
>> Anonymous
>>173226
depends on the girl. What you are asking is something like
'do boys like chicken or beef?'
>> Anonymous
I smell a 12 year old.

Post cawck.
>> JESUS
Makes her dislike you. Unless youre a superhero fighting to save the world etc.

And 3/10
>> Johnny W.
Never fight for a girl. It's never worth it.

Besides, if she really did like you, she wouldn't let her friends decide how she reacts around you, and she would spend more time with you alone.

Here's what you do. Tell her friends that you can't take them to see that movie. Then, later on in the day, you ask her if she wants to see the movie with you. Tell her your schedule cleared up, and if she says "well, let me call my friends" tell her no, because "I don't think they like me. Besides, you are really cold to me when they are around".

Guage her response, and then act accordingly.
>> JESUS
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>> Anonymous
>>72856573
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>> Anonymous
>>173233
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD I LOVE YOU! LOL GREAT IDEA!!!!
>> JESUS
SAGE THIS SHIT
>> Johnny W.
>>173235
It may be copypasta, but anyone could benefit from my advice.

Besides, maybe he just really needed a little help, and in desperation, he threw it on a couple of boards.

Meh. I've been in those shoes, and they aren't comfortable.
>> JESUS
>>173239
Same, acting like an asshole does help though.
>> Johnny W.
>>173240
Well, acting like an asshole does help somewhat, but it isn't the asshole that's doing the work. It's the confidence that leaks through.

What you really want, is for her to feel that you don't need her. I mean, so much pussy in the world, and she needs to realize that her's isn't all that special. Make her feel that she needs to earn the time she spends with you.

Also, saging, because this really doesn't belong in /fit/. It's principle...
>> Anonymous
>>173242

As much as it sounds like bullshit, its the truth. People want what they cant have.
>> Anonymous
Everyone in this thread is an idiot who has never had more than two significant others in their life.
>> JESUS
>>173246
0/10
>> Anonymous
>>173242
how can i do that man? freaking she knows that i dont have other girls and stuff. I dont know what to do help please..... Usually im the one that ask her to hang out and stuff.
So this is my plan, she asked me to take her somewhere early monday, after trying to avoid it i gave it because she is just too cute!! so she told me to call her later and give her my phone number so she can wake me up.

My plan is that tomorrow I will call her and be like
hey im going fishing now, here is my phone number so call me monday to wake me up. and then go fishing.

So later when its time for the movie she might call me and i will be like uuhh im busy and stuff maybe later ill call you back.

but the problem is that she might not call me at all lol.
>> Anonymous
>>173252

Rape her, problem solved.
>> Anonymous
>>173252

You're already acting like a borderline emo stalker. Please get help. Relationships will automatically happen when you meet a compatible person.

You don't just force them to happen because you think a girl is cute. 90% of the people you get along with well in life are nothing more than friends. Let nature take its course before you freak this girl the fuck out and get arrested.
>> Anonymous
>>173257
lol im a former stalker... =/
yea im a loser... but i just want love man!!! I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE!!!!
>> Johnny W.
>>173252
Next time you talk to her, bail on the monday plans. Come up with something. I'll leave the details up to you, but make sure you don't make some elaborate story, she'll catch on quick.

What you'll be doing here, is letting her know that you have other things that you can be doing with your time. Hopefully, if she isn't too dense, she'll realize that you don't live your life to serve her every whim.

Then, next time she calls, whatever she has planned, tell her you have something set up for that day. If she asks what, just tell her your doing something for someone, and you'd rather not say. Then, later on in the week, or possibly the weekend, you call her up, and ask her if she wants to see a movie. She might say no, she might say yes. If she says no, she's trying to get control of the situation by forcing your hand. In that situation, you say, "Alright, that's cool. I'll find someone else to go with. Talk to you later." Don't tell her you'll find another girl to take, just say you'll find someone to go with. (It fucks with her mind, because now, she knows you realized you don't need her. She might just throw the pussy at you)
If she says yes to the movie invite, make sure that she doesn't have time to invite any other friends. They will help her play it safe. If you go out with her, it needs to be the two of you.
>> Johnny W.
>>173257
Relationships don't always automatically happen. It would be too easy a life if they did.

Sometimes, you have to play your cards right, or take a chance when you shouldn't. Manipulating a situation for a relationship is kinda wrong, but it already sounds like she is being manipulated by her friends. All you are doing, is taking care of the rogue "decision makers" and leveling the playing field by ridding yourself of them. She'll be making her decisions, and you'll be showing a little more confidence.

I remember a girl once, that really, really liked me. The only reason we didn't get together, was because she said I was too nice of a guy to everyone, that she was afraid that even if I treated her like "that special girl" it would come across as insincere, because I'm nice to everyone. (All she ever knew were abusive boyfriends. She was already fucked in the head when I found her)
>> Anonymous
>>173261
but i pinky promised her on the monday plan =/ ,do you have msn aim or yahoo? add me
aim- umba111
yahoo - deadbi_misociety44
msn - deadbi_misociety4@yahoo.com
>> Anonymous
>>173265
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>> Anonymous
>>173264

No, they just happen. When you force them in any way, you're presenting yourself in a dishonest way and then they end up finding out the flaws you were hiding and hating you.

OP needs to stop being a so ronery BAWWWW faggot and just live life. Just work your job, go to school, be a regular person and someone will come along naturally. I met my fiance in a fucking craft's store while looking at cake decorating (in b4 faggot) stuff. Meeting people through common hobbies is the best way to form a relationship, even if it doesn't end up being romantic.

Stop obsessing over this shit and it will just come to you. Generally, the more you chase it and the higher your hopes, the more it runs away from you.
>> Anonymous
>>173267
are you stupid Lol? you think he gonna marry that girl?
>> Anonymous
Jesu Christu.

If I were you I would flat out (to her face) tell her to fuck off. I'd tell her that I'm sick of her shit and her expecting me to pander to her convinience, only to be treated like I don't exist whenever she feels like it. Then again, if I were you, I wouldn't be such a spineless wimp and I wouldn't be in your situation in the first place.

She's completely trolling you. She must think you're the most easy to manipulate pussy on the planet. Just flat out tell her to get fucked, tell her to find another ride.

I'm sure she will, she'll probably hate you to some degree initially... but at least you stuck up for yourself. If anything she'll grow some miniscule sort of respect for you and possibly acknowledge that you have a pair of balls.

ITT: Girls NEVER come first. If they want you to go out of your way to benefit them and only them... tell them to go and get fucked by a dog.
>> Johnny W.
>>173265
Not a good idea homey. You just gave the wrong people the wrong information. There is no guarantees you would know for sure who you are getting information from, considering anyone could post with my name.

>>173267
I spent 26 years of my life hoping it was going to happen the way you say it will. I've learned from experience that everyday life isn't like television. I do, however, congratulate you for finding someone compatible, regardless of where you met them. But, I haven't been so lucky. I do have this one girl I am interested in, but it would never work out between me and her. I've always been a hopeless romantic at heart, but I got tired of being ronery. So I put my obsessive ruminating to good use.

I really wouldn't consider removing obstacles as a lie. I mean, if she really does act differently when her friends are around, there is a good chance that all he needs to do is get her away from their influence.
>> Anonymous
>>173273
hey i cant cancel the plan on monday. can you give me something else i can do?
>> Anonymous
>>173276

yes, kill yourself
>> Anonymous
>>173273

If someone is influenced that easily by negative people, he should want to stay miles away from her. That's a trait that is going to make a potential relationship pure hell.

>>173268

Facepalm.
>> Johnny W.
>>173276
Well, what exactly are the details of the monday plans? Is it just going to be the two of you? Will there be more people involved?

If the plans can't be avoided, then I suppose they can't be avoided, but never make a promise to a girl. Do it once, and they know that they can force you to do anything, because to them, you are weak-willed enough to make a promise if she asks, but you are so strung out on this girl, that you would go to great lengths to keep this promise.

Of course, you could try not talking at all during the monday plans. If she talks to you, respond to what she says, but just remain quiet throughout everything if you can. It will make everyone there feel a bit uncomfortable. Women hate feeling uncomfortable, and oftentimes will try to take things to a place where they are less uncomfortable. In other words, they will try to get you to try hard like you usually do. Don't give in. They will want to spend less time with you, and it will give you more opportunities for alone time with her.

But, if the trip is just the two of you, then... well, where exactly are these monday plans taking you?
>> Anonymous
>>173296
I have to take her to visit her grandma lol....
and pick her up. yea thats all =/
>> Anonymous
>>173298
So you are going to drop her off at her grandmothers, and then pick her up when she calls you? What the fuck is this shit!!
>> Anonymous
>>173298


You don't have to do anythingy you bell-end.

Just tell her NO. She can find her own damn ride up to her Gran's house.

You're being used like a piece of shit meng.
>> Anonymous
>>173298
How long is the drive?
>> Johnny W.
>>173302
>>173300

Both me. Forgot the name. Was posting in /b/, and you don't want a name in that place.
>> Anonymous
>>173300
>>173301
lol i promised her... i cant break it... she is a nice girl deep down.
how about ill just wont talk to her on the ride there.
and cancel today's movie plan.
johnny add me please...
>> Anonymous
>>173302
the drive is about 10 minutes but i can make it longer by getting breakfast and stuff
>> Johnny W.
>>173305
Can't add you homey. You'll become dependent on my advice, and there will be a time when you need to make the decision based on your own experiences.

Here's my suggestion. Get to sleep a little later than you were planning on sunday night. She'll call you monday morning, and you are going to be groggy. It will give you an excuse as to why you aren't very talkative on the drive out there.

When you drop her off, find something to do. Something fun, that you enjoy doing, and you like to do whever you can, whether it be walking the mall, spending at the arcade, what have you.

She will call you when she's ready to leave. Make sure you are busy when she does. Tell her you'll be there as soon as you can, and then leave like, a half hour later. Make her wait for you. If you do it right, she'll realize that you do have a life, and it does not revolve around her.
>> Anonymous
>>173309
i will cancel today's plan too okay?
>> Johnny W.
>>173307
Also, do not make the drive longer than it has to be. Did she say how long this visit with nana was gonna be?
>> Anonymous
>>173311
two hours
>> Johnny W.
>>173310
If today's plan consists of the movie, then yes, bail early, and later on, call her and ask her if she wants to see the movie with you, and try to talk her out of taking her friends. Remember what I said earlier.

>"I don't think they like me. Besides, you are really cold to me when they are around".
>> Anonymous
>>173313

Do not say this.

DO NOT SAY THIS.
>> Johnny W.
>>173314
Por que no, anon?
>> Anonymous
>>173313
okay thanks man youre a great help. Wish me luck lol.
like for me i dont usually like a girl very easily. And i only like girls that dont like me or have a bf lol.
>> Johnny W.
Well, whatever OP decides, is ultimately OP's decision. I say, use the line. If she really is as you say she is, she'll understand and appreciate that you are honest. If she really is a heartless bitch, and is only nice when her friends aren't around, then it'll be a nice little wakeup call that you don't approve of her mixed messages. And if she is offended by that, I say ditch her. It will also help you get out of the monday plans, because "You were mad at me, and I figured you would have gotten someone else to take you. So I made plans. Sorry"

She might hate you more after that, though.
>> Johnny W.
Good luck to you, anon. I hope things really are the way you see them.

My bed is calling me.
>> Anonymous
haha! you said:

"So i asked them if i could SHIT with them..."
>> Anonymous
>So i asked them if i could shit with them in the 3 sits but they said no.

How has nobody caught this yet.
>> Anonymous
>>173342
>>173346
Hivedick.
>> Anonymous
>>173233
other than the part about fighting, this man is right

>>173242
this

>>173261
this

>>173272
this

>>173301
this

>>173305
kill yourself

>>173319
>"You were mad at me, and I figured you would have gotten someone else to take you. So I made plans. Sorry"
i did something similar a few weeks ago and it worked very well
>> Anonymous
I've found that being aggressive turns girls on, upto and including beating guys up. I gave a guy a black eye once, and few girls that didn't ever approach me before came up and were gushing. The other guy wasn't an asshole or a bully either... just a guy I, um, had a gentlemen's disagreement with.

That said, I was dismissed as a sensitive nice guy before that, so it changed some opinions starkly.

That said, women aren't worth it. You could land in deep trouble. I beat that kid cause he annoyed the hell out of me on the wrong damn day.