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Anonymous
So, what--your family never gets together for the holidays? If you try to call her up one day out of the blue, of course it's gonna be awkward, you've got a huge elephant with INCEST painted on it in the corner of the room, and nothing is going to get rid of it. If it's a situation where everyone is together as a family though, then only you and your sister will see that elephant and you can try to read whether she how she reacts to it. KEY: Both you and her should have had some 'normal' relationships since that time. If she's had a boyfriend or two, or at least isn't psycho and/or a total slutwhore, then maybe she's ready to talk to you again as a sister. But, if YOU haven't been playing the field because of some overbearing desire/obsession for your sister, then expect to spend some quality time in therapy because you aren't ready to talk to her as her brother.
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