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Anonymous
Hey /fit,

has working out gotten you laid? when I got out of highschool i was 120 pounds and looked like a bitch, in 2 years ive gained 35 pounds and look extremely fit( big chest, legs, abs etc.). ive never had a girl friend/kissed a girl and if you add up the time ive talked to girls throughout my whole life it would probably amount to a few hours. most people say im very good looking and compliment me on my body. am i broken or what?
>> Anonymous
Just hit craigslist, meet some chicks, get a job, meet some chicks, google mystery method, meet some chicks.
Simple.
>> Anonymous
op here, i have a job, going to college for business law. i dont talk to anyone at school, i think im afraid that if i do start talking to women they are gonna find out how fucked up i am
>> Anonymous
You're making a big deal out of talking to women. Check out the book "The Game." I know it seems cheesy, but it's actually a great way to teach yourself to be more confident.
>> Anonymous
im in same boat as OP, and honestly what i boils down to is just not knowing how to talk to girls, practice makes perfect
>> Anonymous
Lol just give it a go. First time I approached a woman in a club was yesterday. We danced for about 20 minutes then I went in for the pull. She recoiled like a motherfucker and I laughed it off. What did I learn? Don't try and get conservative asians while thier scrawny fuck asian boyfriends are right beside them. As far as I can see getting women is a learning process where mistakes will be made and I think I did alright for my first go.

I'm not even very /fit/ btw.
>> Anonymous
op here u know what made me change my life? reading American Psycho lol. i started working out, dressing better and putting shit on my face, and going for a business degree. the only thing im missing is fucking girls
>> Anonymous
>>331693
This man actually has the answer. persistence and being able to laugh it off.
>> Anonymous
if i go to a club alone i'll looking like a douche
>> Anonymous
OP...I am in a very similar boat, or perhaps was in a similar boat. Out of High School, had kissed maybe 2 girls, never gotten laid and I was scrawny as fuck. Now, I've gained about 40lbs of muscle, have a six pack. I'm in my last year of college and I have had girlfriends, gotten laid a whole bunch, and still work out 5 times a week and eat healthy.

What worked for me was just not caring as much. I'd talk to girls, but just not care and not make a big deal out of talking to them. It's like fishing, keep trying and trying and some will bite and some won't. Just don't make it mean anything about YOU...you're fine, they are the assholes. So, in all honesty, keep trying. Some will be takers and some won't. Just don't make a big deal out of any of it.
>> Anonymous
>able to laugh it off.
>> Anonymous
The hotter you are, the less approachable you look to other people in a way I guess.
Just as you see some hot girl and think 'Damn she's fine but she'd never date me', there's probably some girl thinking the same thing for you.

Just as the fellas already said - don't make such a big deal of it, just talk to the girls and learn from it
>> Anonymous
fag
>> Anonymous
>>331711

>you're fine, they are the assholes.

I'm guessing you're an American. You're a chip off the old Dubya.

MY GOD HOW COULD *I* EVER BE FLAWED? THE REST OF THE WORLD IS WRONG! I'M ALWAYS PERFECT AND RIGHT! HUR!

lol, you're pathetic and you're probably 350 pounds in real life.
>> Anonymous
>>331718

That's what I keep telling myself.

: (
>> Anonymous
>>331711
No, girls, YOU are the assholes.
>> Anonymous
As Rip likes to say: Women don't care about abs, they care about money.
>> Anonymous
>>331746
GTFO your pretentious horse you faggot. I'm a Britfag and you, are a bowl of dicks. or even worse, a butthurt woman
>> Anonymous
OP, just learn to approach a girl. Learn how to make conversation.

It's as simple as saying "Hey, that's a really cute dress. my name is ____. What's yours?"

Show interest in her, let her talk about herself.

win win win.

And if you get rejected think about what you did "wrong" or what you could have done better and improve on it.
>> Anonymous
>>331746
Right because if there is anything that history has taught us it's that EVERYONE in a given country is exactly like its leader.
>> Anonymous
>>331771
lol he is just very confused. i usually just let stupid people say stupid stuff, then they are the ones that sit there looking stupid.
>> Anonymous
Quit thinking of girls as objects to stick your dick into. Sure, some will eventually become that, but until you start realizing that most girls are as fucked up and human being as you, you'll never talk to them, and thus never get laid.
>> Anonymous
>>331746

Jealous virgin spotted.
>> Anonymous
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>>331771
>>331801
>>331809
Come on, just because this isn't /b/ doesn't mean there aren't any trolls. Ignore it.
>> Anonymous
>>331684
>most people say im very good looking and compliment me on my body.
Post pics and the unbiased anonymous users of 4chan will shed light on the validity of this subject.
>> Anonymous
I can't stop looking at the OP's pic... It's perfect.

inb4 'FAGGOT'
>> Anonymous
>>331823
no. what he says while exagerated and overgeneralised is somewhat true. The person he was replying to does seem to have an over-inflated sense of self worth and entitlement. "If pretty girls don't like me THEY are the ones who are wrong BAWWWW!" (however I won't give girls in my league a chance)
>> Anonymous
>>331848

It's true in the sense that Bush is the exact same way.

1)Tell the world Iraq is bad.

2) World shoots down your crappy theory.

3) Go in anyway because you're smug enough to think you're the only person who is right about the issue. Everyone else who disagrees is obviously not enlightened.

4) ???

5) PROFIT!
>> Anonymous
My problem is a little past op's.

I have no problem talking to girls, and getting that initial interest. But I lose steam after the first couple of minutes because I run out of talking points.

I'm an introvert with hobbies that confuse the fuck out of most people, ;D
>> Anonymous
>>331684
faggot
>> Manly tears !3GqYIJ3Obs
No ammount of gym work will give you a personality or make your ugly ass face hotter, i am skinny and i get laid you virgin.
>> Anonymous
>>331868
yeah, same here. Whenever I tell people my hobby is fapping to animals they get this look on their face and I end up not seeing or talking to them again.
>> Anonymous
>>331684
I would've fucked you when you were 120 and scrawny, not now.
>> Anonymous
>>331890
Another Anonymous here. I have social skills (unlike OP), and I'm 120 and scrawny. Not fat skinny either. It's just a minor amount of muscle on a skinny body. Care for some penis?
>> Anonymous
>>331893
Yes. But not just, how about some hips too?
>> Anonymous
op here, fuck you i dont have an ugly face
>> Anonymous
>>331905
talk is cheap faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>331925
ya this thread is all about how insecure i am, u think im gonna post my face on internet?
>> Anonymous
>>331927
Are you a fag?
>> Anonymous
Looks mean nothing if you ain't got game, simple as that.
>> Anonymous
>>331718
I think this is the reason I've never had a girlfriend. They just find me SO attractive that they are terrified of approaching me. Yeah, thats definitley it. Definitley.
>> Anonymous
"The Game" is now a bestseller and has sold millions of copies. Do you really think the techniques in it will work anymore? As soon as another guy hears/sees you using it he's gonna say something and everyone will laugh at you. Then you will be an outcast forever.
>> Anonymous
jesus christ. women are just people and most of them are as/more insecure as you. just smile and do some small talk. relax.
>> Anonymous
>>331886

Uh, yeah it does. People lose fat on their face and they look more attractive.
>> Anonymous
>>332007

wrong.
>> Anonymous
>>332159
Women are not people.
But a lot of girls are very insecure and don't get the attention they want from guys.
That's why some pretty girls end up with ugly assholes, they were the first one to show interest.
>> Anonymous
>>331981
Nah it all works fine. Most of the people that end up reading The Game usually don't even try any of the methods. Few people might try to test them out once or twice, and they'll get discouraged for some reason another. Even fewer will try to improve. Even fewer will actually go for the whole "picking up a girl in midst of a group of 5-10 people".


tl;dr you couldn't be further from the truth.
>> Anonymous
>>331886
Since when girls looking for a one night fuck give a shit about "personality"? Bullshit your way for 1 night and get laid.
>> Anonymous
>>332183
Someone realized my tactics ONCE. Just once, but I kinda laughed it off.
>> Anonymous
>>331684
nothing gets you laid unless you take the first step and take the lead... maybe a whore will use you as toyboy but that s the best you can hope
>> Anonymous
>>332806
We're talking about reality here buddy, not some super fantasy that will never come true!
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having a fit body helps, but picking up chicks is all about talking. I suggest getting the book "The Game" by neil strauss, it basically teaches you how to be a pickup artist. Also, i would look into refining basic communication by examining tone of voice, posture, and being aware of what you imply that is not directly said. Simply put, just relax and talk more; have a posative attitude toward it all too, because what you think determines who you are.
>> Anonymous
op here, ive been told by a few girls in my life that have shown some semblance of interest that i never smile or talk... how can i get rid of this attitude that probably makes me look like a fucking creepy asshole
>> Anonymous
>>333099
smile and talk
>> sarge 007
I say that you should just talk more often, and try and say things that are appropriately funny so you force youself to smile and laugh.
I second reading "The Game" even though it is as long as the friggin' bible, it gives a lot of insight on attraction.
>> Anonymous
>>333101
op here, ya if it was only that easy i would have done it already. my dad died during highschool wtf do i have to smile about.
>> Anonymous
>>333107
Stop dwelling on the past, faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>333107
Everyone has baggage. Some of the very girls you can't bring yourself to talk to probably have a dead parent or sibling or something but they go on with their lives instead of being a pathetic faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>333107

Spidermans Grand father died. Did he stop smiling forever and just made web nooses for fun? Fag.
>> Anonymous
>>333120
how do u get over emotional baggage? i no fucking clue how to live my life
>> Anonymous
>>333127

Top left, see "/b/". Live feed. An hero.