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Anonymous
How do you fix a broken heart? I haven't eaten in 2 days and my nerves are so shot I can't sleep for more than a few hours at a time because of how nauseous I feel.
>> Anonymous
Do something to get your mind off it. Eat delicious things, watch corny action flicks with little to no romance. Browse for shit you want to buy, otherwise known as 'retail therapy'.
In short, you need to distract yourself for a while with nice things, preferably things that don't remind you of relationships.
>> Anonymous
Seriously, do you really expect anything from asking this question on 4chan (no matter what board) other than mockery and hatred?

Drinking always helped me, before I quitted two years ago. Now I work out.
>> Anonymous
You need a lot of time to forget. It took me two years after a break up -something that was supposed to last forever - to fall in love once again. But now, I don't think of my previous love mate.
Find yourself a hobby, go out with people, do something that will force you to think of something different than the past. Stay in move, don't sit and cry over something that can't be repaired.
I know it's difficult, I know how much, but you have to do it. IF you won't in few years you'll regret it.
>> Anonymous
>don't remind you of relationships.
If that was a serious one, almost everything will remind him or their relationship and of her/him. As for me, as I remember, even such thing as clothes brand, eating bananas or movie names reminded me of her. But right now, I have someone new and it's all gone.
>> Anonymous
>>105766
Yeah. That's exactly how mine was. We were almost together for 4 years.

Now I can't stop thinking about my Spanish teacher and how much I like him. I want someone like him.

It just hurts. I've never been through this and I never expected it to happen.
>> Anonymous
>>105769
Yeah... I started crying again when he mentioned retail therapy. Because we used to do that together.

Thanks /fit/. You've been the most helpful so far other than my real friends.
>> Anonymous
drink a green tea and fap some
>> Anonymous
>>105772
>>105771
I don't know if those are serious responses, or are you just making fun.
>> Anonymous
time and SQUATZ and meeting someone else.
>> Anonymous
>>105799
No, I'm serious. I'm just pretty disoriented and on the verge of crying every 10 minutes.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
Wow... You're never going to be with him again. Seriously I bet you planned your whole life around him.

You'll always think of him when you do even mediocre things.. you just failed very hard at life. You should have done everything you could. The fact that this happened in this relationship means it'll happen in any future ones you have, pretty much. You've wasted FOUR years of your life. You can never get them back now, you've been cast out after that now you're alone again.

Well done idiot, you've screwed yourself up for a very long time. Must have been a major fucking flaw in you if he went after 4 years.
>> Anonymous
>>105810
I didn't waste them. I did what I could. I went to Hawaii, I made new friends, I created things. I wrote, I sewed, I drew. I spent time with my family.

He was just a huge part of me.

My flaw was my stubbornness. And he's confident I won't make the same mistake again after this. And his words mean much more than yours.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
Oh yeah and because it was so long you've probably changed a lot of your thinking to fit him. You're gonna look like a total weirdo in a relationship with anyone else now.

gj
>> Anonymous
take care of yourself kiddo :(
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105812

Oh so he let you down gently? looool

Let me translate for you:

"Fuck off seriously, yeah you think I'm your soulmate or whatever but I've HAD ENOUGH of you. I want you to fuck off for good so I'm gonna make it as soft as possible. Jesus christ, I can't believe you managed to piss me off this much after 4 years. You suck at life"

srsly. now he's off to fuck people that aren't you.
>> Anonymous
>>105756
>>How do you fix a broken heart?

OH ROMEO, ROMEOOO!!! HOW COULD YOU LEAVE ME FOR THAT BITCH, JULIET!!! I'M SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT WHORE! WHY ROMEO, WHY?!? PLEASE COME BACK TO ME, I NEED YOU! I TOLD THIS IN A THOUSAND MILLION LETTERS!!

Man, the whole world lacks a spine these days ...
>> Anonymous
>>105813
Actually, that was one of the biggest things driving us apart. I was the one trying to change him.

>>105815
Dude, shut up. He still cares about me. He just couldn't stand all the fighting we did because of my personality flaws. He just couldn't trust me to not hurt him anymore. We were really happy, but somehow it all just started going downhill. Probably because of me.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105820

>Dude, shut up. He still cares about me. He just couldn't stand all the fighting we did because of my personality flaws. He just couldn't trust me to not hurt him anymore. We were really happy, but somehow it all just started going downhill. Probably because of me.

protip: YOU were happy. I am a male. You are a female. You are blind to what males really think, you're a fucking tool. It started going downhill because he got BORED and TIRED of your fucking personality you idiot. It was slowly slipping away and you couldn't stop it? :'( That's why.

Fed up of your shit. You're shit at life.
>> Anonymous
>>105820
>>I was the one trying to change him.
>>Probably because of me.

Hello there, CAPTAIN OBVIOUS!!!
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
What a stupid whore. Seriously fuck off. Not just out of 4chan, fuck off out of life.
>> Anonymous
>>105821
No I'm not. He never lied to me. If he hated me that much he would've dumped me a lot earlier.

He WAS happy with me for a time. He was really happy with me. That just started to wane in the relationship.
>> Anonymous
Sponge is a troll. Ignore it.
I lost ten pounds after my girl broke up with me. Couldn't eat. Felt like shit for a while. I asked 4chan for help on /s/ of all places, as I poasted nudes of her (lol).
They said things will get better. And they did. And now they are.
tl;dr: It will hurt like shit for a while. But then things will be more awesome.
>> Anonymous
>>105830
Yeah. I figured. Even if he wasn't, I'd just feel bad for him if his goal is to make others miserable.

That's what everyone's telling me... that it'll hurt less over time. I'm spending time with my friends.. a lot of time. And maybe now my mom will actually stop being a bitch. She's being really nice to me.

Ugh, I just wish I could skip the bad parts of life.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105829

Yes, I KNOW he was happy with you at one point.

Men get bored eventually unless they're VERY special. He got bored and this removed the veil of perfection, and it slowly started to wane. He got pissed off at your faults but still liked you in general.

He lied in so much he didn't say "I'm bored, you're annoying." outright. He dumped you to stop you getting incredibly clingy and all "omg save relationship".

Wait a year's time. You'll see how much he wasn't lying. Soon as you're out of his head totally he'll get pissed off at something and be an ass for no reason.

Plus he's fucking someone else. Lol.
>> Anonymous
>>105832
The only times he was ever mean to me was when I made him cry. He was very special. He never did anything wrong. Truthfully, I was the one at fault.

Even though that's the case, I know he doesn't hate me. And I doubt he'd go fuck someone else so easily.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105835

>Truthfully, I was the one at fault.

This is the reason why you're pathetic. Go cry you sack of shit.
>> Anonymous
>>105837
Why? Because I recognize my flaws and the extent to which they hurt both of us? Even if I had fixed myself in time, the damage was already done. It was just something bad that happened. My life got pretty stressful about a year ago, and everything just started changing.

I couldn't cope. But I'm working on it. And I think that makes me pretty awesome.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105839

No. Realising that YOU are an idiot and fucked shit up, THEN blubbering like an idiot because you can't cope with how much of a fucking idiot you are.
>> Anonymous
Either Sponge is having a conversation with his/herself or OP is the most gullible 4channer ever.
>> Anonymous
Weird, I'm the exact opposite.

I'm in a new relationship and so excited and nervous i've been nauseous and stressed out
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105841

second one
>> Anonymous
>>105835
>>And I doubt he'd go fuck someone else so easily.

Are you sure you understand MEN, at all?
>> Anonymous
I got this once.

I lost my appetite for 2 days, and felt nauseous all the time as well.

Why does this happen? To deter you from falure?
>> sage sage
/fit/ - Emotional Rescue

sage
>> Anonymous
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Well, I broke up with my girlfriend a week ago, and it still hurts but I feel a lot better than the first days. I couldn't eat or sleep properly and puked almost every morning, I couldn't even fap ffs... and I just wanted to lie there in bed all day.
What you have to do is just do things that keep your mind busy, like playing some sport or jogging, it REALLY helps, I can tell you that. Oh, and try dating other people, I know you probably don't feel like it but you should give it a try like me ;)
>> Anonymous
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>>105844
HO HO, you have no idea!
Seconded.
>> Anonymous
>>105848
Okay. :3

>>105841
I know he's a troll, it just makes me feel better to talk. I talk to myself, and this is sort of like that.

>>105844
He's not like other guys. He's really not. That's one of the reasons I liked him so much.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>105851

>He's not like other guys. He's really not. That's one of the reasons I liked him so much.

every girl says that about their bf!
>> Anonymous
>>105856
No, seriously. It was almost like he was part girl. He was always very honest and he never did anything to betray my trust. The only thing he ever did "wrong" was become more secluded with his feelings, but that was entirely my fault because I was so mean to him.
>> Anonymous
kill her
>> Anonymous
Don't feed the goddamn troll.

Everything will be all right. You need to continue living, life is not over, even it may seem for you it is.
>> Anonymous
>>105865
But OP is the troll.
>> Anonymous
Shoot a staple into your chest.
That should keep your broken heart from falling apart.
>> Anonymous
Ugh, codependency.

Take time off and work on your self-esteem and "personality flaws." Become an independent person so that when you do decide to be with somebody else, you won't wrap up your whole identity and self-worth in that person.

Also, get a new hobby. Preferably one that's productive. For example, take up hiking or biking, not WoW or some other extremely escapist bullshit.

Oh yeah, listen to a shit ton of Savage Love podcasts while you're at it.
>> Anonymous
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BECOME A SCIENTOLOGIST
>> Anonymous
Grab a good helping of food (nothing too big, dont want to swamp yourself) then sit down and watch this shit to get a bit pumped.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E75yJ2YcdIQ

Now think about that situation and what role you would play. Stop going WRRRRRYYYYYYYYY and think about other stuff, return to routine.
>> Anonymous
>>106655
Works I tell ya'.