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Anonymous
hay guys it's time for a sex health question

my boyfriend and I are both virgins but when we finally decided to do it he couldn't keep an erection long enough to stick it in.

Is this kind of thing common? He's been crying about it all day. What the hell can I do to help keep it erect? I hear rumors that there are men on the internet so tell me what turns you on.
>> Anonymous
Have him take his mind of his own erection by sucking your penis.
>> Anonymous
he's just too nervous, it isnt your fault...
>> Anonymous
>>471867

These trolls are getting better and better.
>> Anonymous
bleach your asshole
>> Anonymous
>>471867
Well It's his problem, not yours. Tell him to stop being a faggot and imagining huge pulsating dick, and just look at your tits/vagoo. As for turn-ons it varies from man to man, I personally ike big butts and I can not lie. You other brothers can't deny, that when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get sprung, wanna pull out your tough, 'cause you notice that butt was stuffed deep in the jeans she's wearing. I'm hooked and I can't stop staring. Oh baby, I wanna get with you and take your picture. My homeboys tried to warn me, but that butt you got makes me so horny. Ooh, Rump-o'-smooth-skin, you say you wanna get in my Benz? Well, use me, use me 'cause you ain't that average groupie. I've seen them dancin', to hell with romancin', she's sweat, wet, got it goin' like a turbo 'Vette. I'm tired of magazines, sayin' flat butts are the thing. Take the average black man and ask him that. She gotta pack much back! So, fellas! (Yeah!) Fellas! (Yeah!) Has your girlfriend got the butt? (Hell yeah!) Tell 'em to shake it! (Shake it!) Shake it! (Shake it!) Shake that healthy butt! Baby got back!
>> Anonymous
>>471878
so guys go limp when they get nervous, even if they're being touched?

>>471869
>>471885
I walked in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in his face and it didn't work. Sir Mixalot has given me false hope.
>> Anonymous
I never go limp.
I'm calling lack of testosterone/being a pussy.
>> `
>>471896
Yeah. It's pretty standard. It's not you at all, and it's not him. It's the circumstance.

First time I had sex I could get a boner, but I couldn't get off. My girlfriend thought it was her fault, even though I told her it wasn't. The next time I was able to get off and it only got better after that.

Just keep working at it. It's neither one of you, it's just a problem that will go away in the next couple times.
>> Anonymous
Give him a fucking blowjob, let him have full access to your body (if he wants to pinch or suck your nipples, let him, likewise if he wants a feel down there or feels inclined to sample the inside of your ass with a finger) and generally try to keep him in the mood.

I remember my first time vividly (on a muddy hill under a bush at the back of a party) and my cock wasn't half as hard when I was inside her as it was when I was making out with the girl and grabbing her tits. Also, going straight from making out to legs apart and "well, go on" is a major disappointment to a guy who's hoping for things to turn out like they do in porno (deep down, everyone is like this) and expecting you to swallow him whole right off the bat.


tl;dr: actual sex is less mentally stimulating than foreplay
>> Anonymous
you put it in your mouth bitch.......tell him you love his big cock and such and such.....when you first see it pop your eyes out of your head and be like wow thats a big cock......suck it and then get on top and ride it then suck it some more and then ride it some more like a good hoe
>> Anonymous
>>471935
>I should give up and go buy a cucumber or something.
If you do do this please give me some contact information for your boyfriend so I can find him and take him out for a comforting drink - being told you are unsatisfactory in bed is a gutting blow to any man.
>> Anonymous
>>471944
I wish I were a troll because this kind of relationship is kind of REALLY REALLY AWKWARD.
>> Anonymous
three reasons that can cause me to go flaccid:

the bitch is ugly, the condom gets in the way, I fapped to much the days before.
>> Anonymous
>>471947
Yup, he said it might be the condom making him uncomfortable. Any way to ease that kind of discomfort without taking it off?
>> Anonymous
>>471955
condoms suck. he can try a different size, but nothing beats going raw.
>> Anonymous
>>471954
>>471954
THIS
>> Anonymous
I find caffeine helps, esp. caffeine + sugar, like mountain dew.
ginger and ginko biloba supposedly help.

in the future, go back to making out, wait till he's ready again, and try again.
nerves/stage fright _kills_ a guy ability to maintain and perform, and guess what happens the 1st time or two? He's just got jitters and needs more practice.
>> Anonymous
>>471954

but still you baaaawed like the little bitch you are, gtfo
>> Anonymous
This is common. It's an anxiety problem. He's worrying so hard about keeping it hard and doing good and making sure he can make you happy that it cripples his ability to do so. Lay off him--do what you can to have him relaxed, and just keep trying. He'll get comfortable soon enough.
>> Anonymous
>>471982

And for god's sake try not to act disappointed or unhappy. Nothing will tense him up and destroy his confidence like thinking he's failed you.
>> Anonymous
>>471929

do this OP
>> Anonymous
Let him do you in your sleep a few times to get him used to things.
>> Anonymous
2-3 alcohol related drinks........
>> Anonymous
>>471989
do this OP
>> Anonymous
>>471989
>>472030
I'm pretty sure he did a few times.
>> Anonymous
>>471867
[ ] tits
[ ] gtfo

Seriously though, post pics of yourself. You are probably just ugly.
Next time, turn all the lights off.
>> Anonymous
>>472065
Seconded, I'm just assuming that the pic is a drawing of OP and he is a faggot.