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hi /fit/ how do i motivate my smoking, junk food eating, overweight boyfriend to have a healthy lifestyle with me? he won't eat salads, he refuses to give up smoking and all he does in the way of exercise is exercising his thumbs playing video games... pls halp.

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>> Anonymous
get rid of the loser
>> Loser
If he won't do any of these things because you simply asked him, you should just leave him. He's going to be frustrating you from here on.
>> Anonymous
Learn your fucking place. If he isn't motivated to change himself that's his own business. Don't try to change people. THIS IS WHY I HATE GIRLS!
>> Anonymous
Try dumping him, or at least threaten to do it. He sounds like a total loser to me.
>> Anonymous
Find a nonsmoking, healthfood eating, fit boyfriend with a healthy lifestyle. You are dating the wrong person and you'll have to accept this and find someone who better suits you.

If he won't even eat a salad he's clearly an immature dumbass who thinks vitamins are for hipsters and faggots.
>> Anonymous
>>185288
it'd be changing his dumbass for the better. I'm sure he'd actually be happier if he made something of his fat stupid ass, most people do. If it wouldn't, he's a fucking loser and she should dump him and never talk to him again.
>> Anonymous
>>185295
Doesn't fucking matter. You don't make his choices for him. Girlfriends seem to think they're their boyfriends mother for some reason. "Now, Jason. Eat your veggies and maybe you'll get a blowjob." Is not how a relationship should be. Find the man you want, don't find a man who'll take you and try to make him into the man you want.
>> Anonymous
>>185298
well no shit she can't actually MAKE HIM, but she should persuade his dumbass to be useful, and if she can't she should find someone who suits her.
>> Anonymous
>>185299
I say she just tries to find someone to fit her. I get enraged by girls who try to change men.
>> Anonymous
>>185305

so ronery
>> Anonymous
>>185307
I am

;_;
>> Anonymous
not OP here but what if your boyfriend wants to wear eyeliner? can i tell him not to?
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
Cook him some good food. If you can't cook, then deal with it.
>> Anonymous
Here's a better question: why are you even still with him?
>> Anonymous
>>185274
Starting a healthy lifestyle is very painful for the first few weeks. Fighting through that takes a lot of willpower and want to get in shape. I don't think this will ever happen. Your best bet is to try to invite him out on fun activities with you that he will enjoy and be motivated to want to do. Like, wax your pussy and ass and take him on a hike through the wilderness on an off day. Stop and have a picnic and fuck on top of a mountain, etc...
>> Anonymous
>>185288

it's not just women, retard. if you had a girlfriend that you really loved but was overweight and lazy, you'd probably be like "WHORE DO WAT I SAY IM A MAN ARRGGGHHHHHH SLAP" so stop being a hypocrite.
>> Anonymous
>>185305

I get enraged by close-minded jackasses, but you don't see me whining like a little bitch do you?
>> Anonymous
>>185444

I wouldn't go out with an overweight & lazy woman. It's called standards.
>> Anonymous
You can't, you probably aren't important enough for him to want to change.
>> Anonymous
leave him
>> Anonymous
>>185274
He sounds like a winner to me, because he's standing his ground. Of course he's not going to give cigarettes and whatever up for you, you wouldn't give up your healthy lifestyle for him. These kind of trade offs never work, but at the same time, if you're fit and he's not. . . then obviously you like him for more then his looks.

My recommendation would be to use enticements and lures--don't ask him to give up smoking for one. If you make big package deals, they'll fall through because you're trying to do too much at once. If you can live with the smoking, then focus on his weight and eating habits. If smoking bothers you more, focus on smoking firest. Explain honestly why you want him to do this, and then help him figure out an excersise routine that fits him. Baby steps here. Once that's figured out, and he promises to do it, make sure he does it. And offer some sort of reward, be it affection,sex, or not bitching him out for eating some dorito's in exchange.

Don't try to change him, but give him the opportunity to change himself. He probably wants to lose weight, but it seems like the daunting, long process that it is. Your job is to help him get on that road and keep going, and if he doesn't want too, accept it, and figure out what you want from there.
>> Anonymous
Leave him citing those as the reasons.
>> Anonymous
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>>185760
STOP BEING SO FUCKING RATIONAL!!