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rejected Anonymous
hello fit,
I keep on getting rejected by girls!
i'm an okay guy, i work out everyday, i'm no brad pitt but i'm no quasimoto either, and i'm a pretty nice guy i think
what's going on here?
>> Anonymous
ITT "keep on getting rejected" = first girl you've ever asked out
>> Anonymous
Hey OP, I've never been turned down.

Though, I have only 'asked out' one girl.

^_^
>> Anonymous
you're missing something innate, that most other men have. you are simply indesirable
>> Anonymous
real OP here- i've asked 4 girls out
>> Anonymous
>>89183
What are their excuses; list them all so we can best help?
>> Anonymous
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not directly /fit/ related, but the book "the game" by neil strauss will help tons with getting chicks, i'm a pickup artist myself.
It does help to get in shape, it helps a lot on the initial approach and it gives you more confidence too.
I suggest doing at least an hour workout three times or more a week which consists of cardio(jogging or the like) weights, and abs. two programs that look cheesy, but actually work well for me are called "8 minute abs" and "8 minute arms" google them on youtube and add them to your workout.
pic related- pickup artist "Mystery"
>> Anonymous
What does working out has to with rejection?
>> Anonymous
-one flat out said "I don't like you"
-second said she was busy
-third i went out with but when i tried to hold her hand she just said"no"
-the last one i asked if she want to go for a walk sometime, she said, "yeah that sound cool but i'm really busy"
-there was one other that turned out to have a boyfriend, but i don't really count that one
>> Anonymous
>>89192
Look, you can either try to change yourself, ask more girls out, or aim lower.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
You sound like a faggot.

Don't act or look creepy, just hang out with a target for a bit, then drop 'hey, wondering if you wanted to grab coffee sometime this weekend'. If you're fun to hang out with (not a dumb fuck), she'll say sure.
>> Anonymous
'' and I'm a pretty nice guy ''

I think you just answered your own question.
>> Anonymous
>>89198
More or less. Protip: Women like to be beaten. It shows that they're with a dominant and strong man that can protect and take care of them. The more of an asshole you are to them, the more they'll attach to you, and beating them once seals the deal.
>> Anonymous
>>89201
Inevitable troll.

OP, do not listen to this guy. Some girls might want this, but I BET this will turn most girls off.
>> Anonymous
>>89209

Take advice from virgins without girlfriends.
>> Anonymous
>>89209
you're probably a girl

he's right about women wanting to be treated like crap

Being a nice guy will get you nowhere with the girl and at worst make you feel used. Acting like an asshole (not the full blown type of course) will make girls like you even more. It's funny, I throw subtle insults like "go easy on the food" and the girl clings to me the entire time. It's like she's trying to prove herself worthy or something.
>> Anonymous
>>89192
>>-third i went out with but when i tried to hold her hand she just said"no"

its called kino, look it up then fking work on it.
>> Anonymous
i've actually read The Game... i just can't do that stuff I'm not that kinda guy
>> Anonymous
>>89266
then, like me you are screwed

enjoy being a beta male until your late 20s where women start to throw themselves at responsible men wanting a husband to leech money off
>> Anonymous
well shit
>> Anonymous
OP you're a fucking faggot. Look at your fucking post. Seriously, look at it. THIS is why women turn you down.
>> Anonymous
>>89252
this shit is so hilarious to read. honestly. the very first thing i am looking for in guys so i know how to avoid them are the cocky bastards that act like they got this shit, are not interested in anything other than sex, or are sociopathically charming. almost all my friends have dated guys who were one of the above and had shit hole relationships. take my friends who are engaged or are in 2year+ relationships they all found nice guys with confidence (not cockyness) and were fun to be around. no BITCH I BEAT U UP shit involved.
>> Anonymous
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>>89399
I dunno you wimminz were the ones who forced me to go from hopeless romantic to man whore.
>> Anonymous
>>89404
it is all in what you are trying to pick up.
>> Anonymous
I am a girl and I do like more confident men, but not in the I'm-perfect-so-go-make-me-a-sandwich kind of way that people in this thread seem to think girls like. Guys who are confident enough to be silly sometimes or make fun of theirselves when they mess up are the best kind of guys to be around I think. A lot of confidence I guess can be good or bad. It just depends on what you do with it.
>> Anonymous
>>89170
YOU NEED A FUCKING PERSONALITY, DIPSHIT
>> Anonymous
>>89261kino

"Indian Kino Tree or Malabar Kino, a decidious tree"

?
>> Anonymous
>>89417
exactly. i would think most women want a man that does do MAN THINGS but is not a douche and is respectful/respectable. Not too many girls want a sissy boyfriend but I dont think all of them want a MANS MAN exactly either.

People that advocate ignoring women and treating them crudely to get us should be shot behind the shed.
>> Anonymous
you failed the minute you cared what girls think
>> Anonymous
>>89192

sounds like you asked out some bitches.
why not try to know a bit about them and hang out a bit before throwing yourself on the table for the take.
>> Anonymous
you dont even know what love is! lol
you fail the minute you started to like a girl. dont like her until she likes you first
>> Anonymous
>>89429
You say this, but secretly you know every woman more or less ignores 'kind and compassionate' men. You all harbor a secret love of being dominated and beaten, and you'll bond with the man that beats you into submission.
>> Anonymous
>>89529
haha, you just think whatever you have to think to make up for the fact you have a tiny penis.
>> Anonymous
Better being turned down, then being dumped for another guy...damn tramp...anyway...yeah
>> Anonymous
>>89268
>enjoy being a beta male until your late 20s where women start to throw themselves at responsible men wanting a husband to leech money off
Except all the alpha males will be CEOs with private jets.
>> Anonymous
>>89872
and they go for younger bitches
>> Anonymous
The shit spouted off in this thread would be hilarious if it wasn't so pathetic and sad.

If you think that all women want to be beaten into submission and treated like shit, you've already lost the game and can join the rest of the world's assholes. Cavort amongst yourselves.

There are a few people out there that are genuinely confident, caring, intelligent, and healthy. All around good people. They tend to date other people who are like themselves because they wouldn't put up with asshatery. Nothing less than a mutually rewarding and enriching relationship is optional. 5% or less of the total population falls into this category.

In other words, assholes should stop wanting to date anything better than another asshole because it's just not going to happen. And of course I mean this for either gender. If you're talking about alpha/beta male/female bullshit you're still playing in the asshole pool, period.
>> Anonymous
>>89892
you are lying to yourself. let me guess, you also think everyone is equal and if they try hard they can do anything! the sky is the limit! :D
>> Anonymous
>>89892
>5% or less of the total population falls into this category.

more like 0.0000000001%

I gave up and got sick of being friend zoned. If I have to be a tool to please 99% of those I meet so be it. Being a loyal and caring guy apparently has no place nowadays. I realized when I was friend zoned that women LOVE drama. They always just have to have some perceived relational problem "Why is he so difficult?" "Does xxxx still love me?" Obviously a nice guy won't be able to provide this and is therefore "boring."

Just do what YOU want OP. Be a selfish jackass. Eventually what you naturally do will be pleasing to a girl. But never do it for her sake, it's for you and she's just lucky it coincides with her.
>> Anonymous
>>89913
>Being a loyal and caring guy apparently has no place nowadays.

Women don't respect this because you have to remember, women don't think on the same level men do. Women respect nothing but raw strength, and there's no better way to show that than being a total asshole to her. Trash her place, beat her, and insult her, and she'll wake up ready to fuck you in the morning.
>> Anonymous
>>89913
Ahh yes the loyal and caring big brotherly role.

I used to be like that and once you get a girlfriend (Like i have) you'll quickly lose the desire to have that role.

Think of it as a nice guys subconcious saying "Some sorta connection is better than no connection".

Getting a girl is simple here's how to max your chances:
- Be physically fit
- Have money
- Have a good looking face
- Have a good personality (Not meaning be a tool nice guy, you can be nice, but mainly be funny and east to talk to but not eager to solve her problems)
- Be self-confident
- Don't be obsessive over her (Trust me, I had girls after when I focus on my own interests)
- Try to aim for a girl around your level (Don't expect Eva Longoria)
- Yeah don't act like a freaky stalker.
- Stop whining and moaning about how girls want douches, think about it, would you want to be with a girl who whines and moans all the time?

If you have 3-4 of these, you're in for a decent chance with someone.
>> Anonymous
>>89899

You have no reading comprehension, huh?

It has nothing to do with equality and "following your bliss" or whatever the fuck you're going on about.

There are a rare few who will find amazing relationships because they themselves are amazing people and will hold out until another person of equal merit, value and worth comes along. They won't put up with anything less than that.

The rest of the world, however, operates on a lesser level. They're the types to buy into stereotypical and/or traditional gender roles, no matter how illogical or ludicrous. They're the types who get butthurt by rejection early on in their lives and never get over it, and in turn find others to abuse and manipulate. They tell themselves that ALL men and women act a certain way to justify their asshole-ish tendencies. They buy into the alpha/beta bullshit wholesale because they can't go beyond that cycle, because it means they'd have to grow up and get over themselves.

I can't wait until all of you fuckers hit 30. Most all of you will want to marry and settle down and have a proper family. Some of you will still be (pathetically) trolling bars and trying to ingratiate yourselves with a younger crowd. Some of you will still be home alone fapping to 4chan.

Very few people will truly find a phenomenal relationship. Certainly no one who thinks women by default deserve to be treated like shit will. Nor will women who buy into the same dynamic. Or anyone thinking anything remotely related to that kind of BS, for that matter.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
You are all fucking jokes. The needy virgins among you, the "women enjoy being treated like shit" group, the "nice guys", everyone.

Why? Because you seem to feel the need to be in some sort of relationship or be having sex. Is this all your life is?

I have a perfectly fine life without anyone and I'll continue to have one until I find someone who fits in with me perfectly and isn't one of you pathetic losers. I don't care if I'm single all my life, I enjoy myself.

Enjoy being pathetic needy fucks.
>> Anonymous
>>89920
>Getting a girl is simple here's how to max your chances:

Now sorted in order of importance:

- Be self-confident
- Have money
- Yeah don't act like a freaky stalker.
- Try to aim for a girl around your level (Don't expect Eva Longoria)
- Have a good personality (Not meaning be a tool nice guy, you can be nice, but mainly be funny and east to talk to but not eager to solve her problems)
- Don't be obsessive over her (Trust me, I had girls after when I focus on my own interests)
- Have a good looking face
- Be physically fit
- Stop whining and moaning about how girls want douches, think about it, would you want to be with a girl who whines and moans all the time?
>> Anonymous
>>89922
>I can't wait until all of you fuckers hit 30.
Protip: the average age of 4chan users is 29.
>> Anonymous
>>89935
>Protip: the average age of 4chan users is 29.

wat

where did you get this?
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>89932

Most important:

- Stop thinking about how to get girls
>> Anonymous
>>89920
damn it. i have been stalking a girl for the last 2 years =/
>> Anonymous
>>89926
Dude, you really are a fucktard troll. No one asked for you to step on others.

If anything, I think it's actually a good thing a thread like this is up, for one it counters ronery threads and give people an idea on how to stop being so bitter, and stop becoming people like you. Good for you that you don't wanna be with anyone but not everyone thinks like you.

>>89932
Hmm i think confidence is top here next to money, but im afraid being physically attractive and having a good looking face is next, 'cos they're the next things that'll attract, even though arguably personality should be tops, it doesnt quite take priority in real life.
>> xrkcsfr !bBvD1TvtjY!!7dX
what the fuck is this faggotry? This thread needs to die right now, as well as anyone posting their bullshit views based on empty thought experiments and bad pseudo-science
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>89940

Never said I didn't want to be with anyone. I want someone but I know exactly what I want and I'm not going to lower myself to that, and unlike you I don't have to drop my standards ridiculously to make myself happy, because my life is near perfection without anyone else.

This thread just tells people how to have a life full of break ups and WHINING.
>> Anonymous
I NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!! :(
>> xrkcsfr !bBvD1TvtjY!!7dX
>>89948
no you don't... trust me on this
>> Anonymous
>>89946
Sorry to disappoint you spongebob but I do have a girlfriend, but I do relate to all those out there who doesn't and ronery. I never said anything about having to lower my standards in order to be happy

>>89943
Hmm I can't give any leverage about other's posts but i did post>>89920which is based on what I learnt via personal experience, knowing alot of girls and mainly common sense.

>>89960
I agree with this post though, think about why you want a girlfriend. If you want sex how about a prostitute? Much quicker and no stress.

If you want a decent girl, be prepared to work for it.
>> Anonymous
the order of importance as far as qualities go, can flip flop for a girl. women are just as shallow as men, in that we want a good looking guy. so in the animal sense, physical attraction would be first, while everything else would fall behind it. but if a girl spends time with someone who is charming and fun, and isnt a pussy(confidence), with less than desireable looks, she can look past that and actually like him for his personality. keep in mind, OP, in order for this scenario to take place, you cant go ask a random girl that you dont know on a date. she's going to judge you the way any woman judges a guy she first meets: "would i have sex with him?..hmm,no" and therefore you get a big fat no, because she's judging you based on the only thing she knows about you: your physical appearance. try finding a common interest first, and center a friendship around that. you'll have much better chances with a girl when she knows your personality, and starts second-guessing on wether or not sex with you would really be such a bad thing, as previously thought. this is a good average-guy method, just dont get caught in the friend zone, and dont just pick a hobby cause your out scouting; the girl you'll be attracted to, isnt stupid, and will sense wether your genuinely interested or just "in it for the chicks."
>> Anonymous
>>89201

>Women like to be beaten. It shows that they're with a dominant and strong man that can protect and take care of them

Now how the fuck does that make any sense?
>> Anonymous
>>89926

Are you castrated or something?
>> Anonymous
Ok /fit/, here's the deal. There is NO certain formula to get girls. If there was, we would all do it. All those self improvement tips you see aren't for you to get girls, but not to fail at life. If you fail at life there is 0 chance you'll get any sort of pussy. If you are a millionaire though, you will always get pussy because you are at the top of the scale. And this is undeniable. Who do supermodels date? Fat ship brokers, fat wall street sharks and fat CEO's. Not some sort of scene kid who posts blurry pics of his hair on myspace.

The beauty thing is a tough call. I like to believe that most people on /fit/ have athletic bodies like mine, but still can't get laid. That's because years of fat acceptance and skinny acceptance have degraded the fit body owner into a 'narcissistic asshole' or plain gay. Women want a beatiful FACE. And that's a bitch. If you aren't born with it, you'll never be beautiful.

That's why we all need to work hard to become rich. It's the only hope we have left in our lives. Since most people live to just get laid.
>> Anonymous
>>89170

http://www.heartless-bitches.com/AD/ad_24may05.shtml

Seriously, this practically describes 90% of the "nice guys" here on 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>>89926

Tripfag's right: girls look for confidence. On the other end of the spectrum, taken girls tend to get asked out more often than single girls too.
>> Anonymous
>>89997

Supermodels date actors, pro athletes and rock stars, not fat fuck CEOs and the like.
>> Anonymous
"Hello! Anon seeking gullible, snobby Women and She-boys of the World for romantic walks on the street, newsstand lurking, ladies nights, and other great places to meet YOU in the butt! This hasn't worked for 4+ years so the problem must be you. If only you'd see that the desperate, self-involved loser you are looking for is right under your noses. I can be trained, sorta! Will try to purchase your affection with valuable gifts of cappuccino and the occasional muffin. If only you could understand me for the craven, unfriendly, outgoing being that I am. Bisexuals and freaks okay; fatties need not apply."
>> sage sage
>>89997Ok /fit/, here's the deal. There is NO certain formula to get girls.

No fucking shit. Genes don't have formulas to get with someone they just want to replicate and spread as much as possible to ensure survival. Females have to pick and filter out the weak genes and the body that it caries so they look for general necessity like power, money and strength so ensure her survival and the baby's because it's her responsibility.

Anyways. The whole "game" thing has started less than a thousand years ago after "man" became much more self aware of its selfish past, that and combined with Evolution you have a society with net of individuals morals and ideals. I read somewhere that the speed of the change was so rapid that Humans couldn't adapt to it and that is why we have THIS THREAD, where someone asking for advice.
>> Anonymous
you need triangular upper body
like here>>90062