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Viagra? Anonymous
I can't get hard to fuck my girlfriend due to massive nerves/anxiety about my first time.

If we're not planning on sex them I'm fine. If we're just fooling around them I'm fine. I get hard just when she holds my hand or touches my leg ffs.

I'm going to see my doctor about this... would he consider giving me viagra or something to get me through it?
(UKfag if that makes a difference)

thx /fit/
>> Anonymous
I should say, I'm 21yo.
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I don't get it... You're a virgin?... You're not a virgin?....
>> Anonymous
OP here. Yes I am a virgin. Hence my nerves.
>> Anonymous
He definitely would NOT give you viagra, and if he did, find a new doctor because yours can't treat you for shit.
>> Anonymous
Have her rape you..... or at least take advantage of you, and if that doesnt work you are destined to be a virgin for life.
>> Anonymous
It' just nerves man, and it used to happen to me all the time. I never did fuck the girl that I originally had the problem with. I lost my virginity to a different girlfriend. For some reason, I wasn't nervous with her...

Anyway, you just need to work on touching and relaxation techniques with your girlfriend. Get naked, play around with each other, have fun. In time you won't have the problem anymore.

Viagra will work, I can just about promise you that, but, you definately don't want to hit the point where you feel like you need Viagra to fuck. If you do get some, you could just tell your girlfriend to crush it up and put it in your food at some point you don't know, and you'll never know if it was you or the pill.
>> Anonymous
Dildo up the ass. Works everytime.

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lol, pussy

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You're doctor will not give you viagra loser. That's stupid. Viagra can also dmg you so you can't get a hardon normally either.

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Do drugs to releive the anxiety. Booze usually works too but sometimes can have the oposing effect due to reduced blood pressure caused by blah blah blah,etc.

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lol, pussy
>> Anonymous
A doctor isn't going to prescribe you Viagara, Levitra, or Cialis, because you're not experiencing erectile dysfunction. You said it already: "I get hard." PDE5 inhibitors are to help you get an erection when the desire is there by increasing blood flow. It isn't going to do anything when you already get an erection.

Seriously, if you need anything, you're going to probably want antidepressantss/SSRI prevent premature ejaculation.
>> Anonymous
>>231266
thanks. I'm aware of the "learn to relax and work through it together" solution. She's stayed over 3 or 4 times now, naked, sucked me, I ate her out, lots of kissing, etc etc so I should be so much less nervous by now.

I'm sure she's awesome enough to be patient and work me through this but the situation is making me feel pretty shitty.
>> Anonymous
>>231243

It's psychological, dude, "performance anxiety".

Viagra may help you get it up, but it's probably not what a doctor would prescribe. Just relax, man, sex is just the end result of intimacy. Hug, kiss, "get in the mood", when the time comes for the "big show", take it easy, you don't just take your penis and jam it in.

It's not porn, man.

Get naked, fool around a little, suck her tits a little, touch her, whatever, you got all the time in the world. If it still doesn't get hard, don't worry about it, explain the situation, and if she's horny, give the girl a good time. You have fingers and a mouth, use them.

Then go to a doctor.

Consider a shrink. Maybe a urologist, but since the plumbing seems to work fine, a mental health professional should be able to help you. There are also people (and even Internet forums) who specialize in sexual health. Look them up. Not the end of the world. Good luck, anon.
>> Anonymous
OP here

>>231296
thanks anon.

I'm aware it's "performance anxiety". I did some googling.
We did plenty of kissing, hugging, tit sucking, etc etc and that's all great and she loves our time together.
But when it comes time to stick my penis in her, I will just totally lose my erection and it aint coming back. massive nerves & anxiety I guess.

I explained the situation to her and like I said, she's pretty awesome and she likes me enough to be cool with it.

I will see the doc anyway since I have an appointment tomorrow and see what he says.

I am meeting my g/f tonight for a drink. Maybe I will discuss it with her and say I would like an evening of me trying to get more comfortable with it and trying to get over whatever nerves/hang-ups I have, next time she comes over to my place.