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So there is this hot girl that works at my gym. For some odd reason I want to talk to her. Like everytime I go in the gym, I look around to find her just to see her. I'm 20 and a virgin. I think I'm getting obsessed. How do I stop this?
>> Anonymous
I feel ya op, I'm in the same situation
I don't know how to talk to her without coming off as a creep
>> Anonymous
>>421635
wat

>>421637
k, i kinda lol'd

>>421618
OP, don't get obsessed.
What does she do at the gym? Is she a trainer? Ask her to spot you while you do something cool.

Also, I don't know if girls like getting hit on at work.

If you want to talk to her, go ahead. The hardest thing is thinking up something to talk about.

OR. You can try to get a job at the gym too, then you can see her at work? idunnolol
>> Anonymous
>>421643

She's a trainer, but if I do ask her and she says no, it would be awkward for me to keep going there. It's the only gym around. Plus if I do, I don't have a job or a driver's license. Shit sucks. That's why I rather just just stay by myself.
>> Anonymous
>>421648
don't go
"hai thar, can I stick it in ur pooper"

Start having a conversation with her and once you've gotten to know her moar ask her out or something (don't get friendzoned or anything).
>> Anonymous
>>421648

Dont ask her out straight away, Talk to her everytime u go to the gym.. just some small talk as your walking in or whenever you see her but nothing to major.

You: hey, how are you?
Her: Oh hey good thanks and yourself?
easy as that
>> Anonymous
Working as a fitness trainer is really fucking boring at times man (Yes, I am one) so in all honestly, it doesn't matter who you are or what you look like. Just start a conversation with her. Get to talking, work your way up to flirting. Hell, even ask her some tips that'll make her feel good because she can help and she'll be more inclined to talk to you later on to see how things are going for you
>> Anonymous
>>421655
Not OP.
But I always here that. And I always think it's unnatural.
If I was a hawt girl and someone asked me "how are you" I'd think they wanted to hit on me or had some hidden agenda.

PS. I'm a guy who is not too good with the whole talking to random people thing
>> Anonymous
I remember OP making almost exactly the same thread with the same image like 2 weeks ago....

like i said before, the only thought you should be having concerning her during your stay at the gym is 'why the FUCK are you in my way bitch????!?!??!
give it up bro, ur not timbo
>> Anonymous
Don't stop it. You are attracted to her because some part of you thinks you are worthy. That's your subconscious giving you a hint (you are). She works at a gym, it's not like she's beyond your reach (she makes minimum wage or thereabouts and is bored out of her fucking mind, however cute she is). Point is, you are going to a gym to better yourself...and you'll get a job and a car and all that shit at some point (you're a youngin'). Girls, no matter how ditzy, are able to pass judgement on your sincerity in an instant, and that's what turns them on. Walk up to her and say, "Hi," and ask her for tips. Say stuff like, "Are you a trainer? I was doing _______ (exercise) but I wasn't sure if I am _______ (doing the exercise) properly." You make yourself vulnerable, and women love when a man can park his pride at the door. Develop confidante in this way and then ask her out one day. Deep down you are a nice person and probably deserve to be fucking her. At the very least you overcame a fear and maybe make a female friend in the process. It's not easy for any guy OP, but after you've done it once or twice, it takes much less effort later on.
>> Anonymous
>>421693
<3
One of the nicest poasts I've seen on 4chan.
>> Nomad
>>421637
motivational anon is motivational.

>>421693
This anon just gave you a good play

Now put it into practice !