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Sexual/Mental Health Anonymous
This is hard to explain. But I have no desire to actually penetrate girl or be with a girl. I just want the pleasure from it. I don't care for the experience. I only get aroused from females, I am not attracted to them beyond that. Looking at a girl turns me on sexually and a pussy is suppose to feel better physical than a lubed up hand. But I care nothing for the girl.

No arousal or attraction to men either.

I feel all "meh" when i think of holding a girl. the only part that excites me is the actual dick in pussy due to pleasure. The hunt, the chase, flirting, cuddling, kissing all of it seems a huge turn off.

I masturbate twice a day at night.

Is there something wrong with me?
>> Anonymous
welcome to puberty
>> Anonymous
You haven't met much girls, have you?
The ones in porn/magazine/media do not count, they're too "generic".
>> Anonymous
>>131823
I've met plenty which is why I am asking.
>> Anonymous
>>131827
Are you underage b&?
>> Anonymous
>>131801
>I masturbate twice a day at night.
>twice a day at night
>day at night

Yes I think there is something wrong. Besides your time-space continuum, google asexuality in humans.
>> Anonymous
>>131829
19
>> Anonymous
I know what you mean. I generally prefer dudes for hanging out with--even those girls who are my friends just aren't that fun to be around. No girls are.

It sounds gay but if you could take a man's brain and put it in a hot chick's body, I'd marry that chick in a heartbeat.
>> Anonymous
>>131841
I do like kissing girls though, apparently unlike you...
>> Anonymous
>>131841
I guess your roster of female friends are a large bore.
>> Anonymous
So basically you just want sex? None of the relationship, just the sex with no strings attached? Yeah I get that too. I doubt that you'll get married, or if you do get married You'll only love the children and not your wife.

Back in the day men with this kind of problem just used to get women knocked up and leave the state.
>> Anonymous
>>131841

You just want a tomboy. Those are hard to find past highschool.
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>>131863

Damn it.. I want a tomboy too. Wtf has happened to women these days?
>> Anonymous
Tomboys are a turn off.

Boyish appearance = no aesthetic appeal. And I don't want a relationship.
>> Anonymous
Sounds like you need a fleshlight then.
>> Anonymous
>>131900

Usually tall girls are the tomboys, but they're largely ignored.
>> Anonymous
I thought I was alone in this. OP summed up my feelings concisely.
>> Anonymous
I'm the same way I guess. I have a girlfriend but really the only reason I'm dating her is for sex, I don't care for any of the other bullshit. I cringe when she calls me up wanting to go out somewhere. I'd rather be playing golf or something. Holding her, kissing her, talking to her, etc, I hate it. I just want to put my dick in her then ignore her untill I feel like doing it again.

She's not ugly or anything, has some pretty big tits and a good body, so physical attraction isn't the problem. Maybe it's because she's an empty headed reject who only wants to talk about her stupid dog. Just like every other girl I know.

christ
>> Anonymous
>>131916
I'm the same way. When people call I cringe.
>> Anonymous
>>131919
I believe the telephone is manking's worst invention. I get upset everytime a phone rings, even it is not for me.
>> Anonymous
>>131922
>mankind's
I'm having keyboard layout problems.
>> Anonymous
Jesus Christ, you guys are sociopaths.

A relationship with a girl is one of the best things in this existence; I am cynical to a fault --there are very few things I can observe or experience without deep disbelief and over-analysis-- but, I will always drop this cynicism when in a relationship, or "love," but not love in the general use of the word, love in terms of a connection with another human being, past the threshold of friendship.
>> Anonymous
I know how you feel OP.


For me, it always starts out with feelings and emotions. But after a brief while that wears off and I realize she's just another skank, no better than the rest... then I just stick around for the action.
>> Anonymous
>>131944
That's why you never go for what society would deem to be "SUPER FUCKING HOTT," but go for the reserved, if not awkward, average looking girls.

Those are the best kind of girls, imo. I could get an attractive girl, but instead I gravitate toward the former, "average," girls.
>> Anonymous
>>131801

You stole the words right out of my fucking mouth, Anon.

I've felt this way since I can remember, and I have a healthy social life. I've gotten laid, but I've never had a girlfriend. I just don't feel the need for social obligations.

Also, whoever brought up the point of wanting a tomboy - you're a fucking genius. But it's more of a laid back, low maintenance women with minimal social and interpersonal needs, which obviously doesn't exist. And a girl who is undoubtedly a girl, but still looks like a boy - is disconcertingly erotic.

Freud, analyze me. But good luck, I'm irish and holistic.
>> Anonymous
>>131916

Get connected to her emotionally, talk about feelings and ask her how she is feeling. Once you are connected to her emotionally you can start appreciating just being with her and begin to love her.

I am in the opposite situation, i think i love a girl who is my best friend, but im not 100% physically attracted to her. She is "average", but i just wonder if she put more effort into looking good i.e. lost 20-30lb, cut her hair, got a slight tan then it would be the perfect relationship. I get the feeling she wants to take it further than friends, but i dont want to make the first move as it could ruin our relationship and it has happened before. Took me months to get over the last girl who just strung me a long using me and pretending like she liked me.
>> Anonymous
I'm the exact oposite. I had one girlfriend and i never sexed her. I had sex with prostitutes later. I prefered making out much MUCH more.
>> Anonymous
I don't mind kissing a girl on the lips, neck, and breasts.

But making out is just fucking disgusting. Think of all the gnarly bacteria and old food in her teeth and mouth walls, plus her sick breath and monoxide emissions from her lungs.

Also, fuck if I'll ever put my face anywhere near those haggard stinkholes that she PISSES and SHITS out of, not too mention PERIOD BLOOD.

My dick will put up with the abuse as I put it in all these areas, but not my fucking tongue.

In b4 gay, unmanly too pleasure a women, etc. Fuck yourself, I'm not out to pleasure a women, I just want to bust a nut.
>> Anonymous
>>131983
I think I'd feel more sorry for her.
>> Anonymous
>>131983

You know most guys cant make a woman orgasm without foreplay which includes using your tongue, fingers etc.. to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot. Looks like you're petarded tbh, make a girl cum and you will get as much sex as you can handle from her. If you dont, well, she will barely ever be in the mood because you have nothing to offer.

If you are a virgin, which i assume from your first post then you should know porn is nothing like the reality. You wont be pounding that pussy for hours, it will be over in minutes and she wont be satisfied therefore she will be less likely to have sex often.
>> Anonymous
>>131936
Right on. The rest of these guys are absolutely psychotic.
It's amazing to have the right person be so close to you; Sex is so much better when there is a real intimate connection as well.

Part of the problem I think the rest of you guys are having is that you're jamming your cock into any chick that gets it up for you. The problem is that if the girl isn't your friend, then eventually, you're gonna get tired of her real quickly.
>> Anonymous
>>131990

Yeah, I told you though that I couldn't care less about making a women orgasm, also I wouldn't want to see them again. And I didn't once correlate my experience to a porno, I don't last more than ten minutes and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Sex is not a serious subject, nor is it something to try and be proud of - it's slavery to selfish genetics.
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>>132019
Continuing the species is pretty fucking selfish, yeah
>> Anonymous
>>132027

By banging out every broad you meet? How is that not selfish, you tell me.
>> Anonymous
>>132027

you're pretty stupid, aren't you?
>> Anonymous
I disagree with a lot of people here, the only times I'm really happy are when I'm in a relationship and you get all the lovey cuddly crap as well as a pussy. Makes me get out of bed in the morning
>> Anonymous
this is fucking 4chan. Everyone here is a social retard, so is anyone surprised they say they don't want a relationship? Even though its clearly the norm for a human to want that. They can't get one so they just tell themselves they didn't want it to begin with and start to believe it.
>> Anonymous
>>132055
I agree with this man. I am well aware that it makes me a pussy in the eyes of the Internet's Most Alpha.
>> Anonymous
>>131962

You put a girl in the friend zone. Oh wow, you're my hero.
>> Anonymous
>>131801
OP, your fine. Wimmin are just vessels for our little swimmers!

But OP? What's your picture of?
>> Anonymous
WOW, I FEEL THE SAME WAY OP......
>> Anonymous
>>132060
And you are indeed a retard! for believing your norm is the only truth.

I prefer a social retard then a brain retard with a onesided mind.
>> Anonymous
>>131936
No such thing as love. Just a chemical reaction that makes you want to protect the bearer of your children.
>>131947
Average girls don't have better personalities than Hot girls. You just can't get one.
>> Anonymous
Don't feel bad. Some people are just born with the part of them that understands human relationships either damaged or missing. It's not your fault; it's just the way you were made.
>> Anonymous
>>132205
MIND FUCKING BLOWN
>> Anonymous
>>132077
Bad mother fucker.

He's a Green Beret or Delta Operator. Not sure. I think his CO is afraid to tell him to shave since he's so bad ass.
>> Anonymous
>>132219

A lot of spec ops let their guys grow fuck off beards.

Especially in desert/cold climates. It gets chilly in the desert at night.
>> Anonymous
>>132205
Could you go more into detail about that? " No such thing as love " sounds like it's coming from someone who's never been in love. Also, inb4 tons of evolutionary biology, because humans work on different levels and explaining everything using evolutionary biology is extremely single minded.
>> Anonymous
>>132238
sorry there is no spiritual or metaphysical connection linking two people. It's just chemicals your brain produces in order to keep the girl faithful (so you don't leave her) and keep you with her so she stays protected.
>> Anonymous
>>132240
>so she stays protected
Oh wow.

Well, I guess I couldn't expect anything better than this on 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>>132240
Whoa, whoa, wait. WHAT THE FUCK. That doesn't work in contrast to women. MOST WOMEN ARE SLUTS, MOST GUYS DON'T CARE. The few that do care will never find a woman that they can "protect" because most of them are brain dead, oblivious to the real world, are materialistic, and whores; though not all women are like that. There are stupid men who whore themselves out to these women for sex, they're just as bad as women. It fucking sucks to have will power and a brain.
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Well I'm gonna assume most of you are guys, but you easily write off ALL of us women as mindless twits, sure good for you. But what about the GUYS that are douche bags to girls? My last boyfriend used me purely for sex, he lied when he said me loved me etc etc. So before you act all high and mighty superior sex consider that some of you are assholes. There are girls out there beyond the ones you are wildly physically attracted too, the average girls/nerd girls, we need love too and someone to play videogames with us :(

picture related i suspose...
>> Anonymous
>>132289
You're not special or better. I won't love you because you're a /b/tard. You're only good for sex.

Plating video games and doesn't mean I'll all of a sudden love you like you were a lost treasure.

And looking nerdy will make you uglier.

Fuck off.
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>>132289

lol high school
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>>132297
I'm not saying girls are special or better, I live in a fucking dorm full of vapid sorority whores, I hate females. But no one sex is better than the other I'd say. This discussion actually seems pointless because one of you is gonna be like rawr you're wrong etc etc...well enjoy your lack of contact with decent females. happy fapping or whatever floats your chauvinist boats.
>> Anonymous
>>132308

>sorority

lol, there's your problem! Once you get into the real world, women will be less irritating. College is their free ticket to acting stupid; they wise up when they have to start surviving on their own.
>> Anonymous
>>132308

Serioulsy did you read this thread? Do you really think anything you say is going to change how they think? they just want to sit around have a circle jerk about how the world is against them.
Tits or GTFO
>> deleted
it's a paradox that the guys that want only sex and no relationship are actualy more attractive to females, and get laid more often, though their relationships don't last, cause they get bored realy fast.
On the other hand there are guys that Want to be in relationship with a girl, to cuddle with her and give her pleasure. Those guys girls think of as boring and usually dump.

Girls consider the first type of guys and Jerks and scumbag etc. but still are more attracted to them.

Too bad i'm the second type of a guy. It makes me feel good if my girl feels good... I talk to her aften and ask how she is feeling and how was her day... maybe that is why i get dumped after sometime into relationship.

I just don't know what to do... Right now im on the verge of loosing my girl
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>>132313
yeah I read..just felt like giving my opinion for the sake of well, giving it I guess. per the rule i provide tits (or lack there of).
>> Anonymous
>>132324
take the covers off silly they need to be nekked
>> Anonymous
>>132321
or these girls that dump you are immature? The bad-boy thing is faze, we grow out of it once we realize we'd much rather have a guy who cares about us (i.e. asks how we're doing etc and will listen to us rant on about our day)
>> Anonymous
>>132321

That's such a shame. Depending on how old you are, you'll just have to wait a few years until the women around you grow up. I'm rooting for you!

(Married femanon here; I married the nice guy, and we're both very happy)
>> Anonymous
>>132321
>loosing
I hate you.
>> Anonymous
>>132324

more please
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>>132338

Same here. FIGHT THE POWER!
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>>132329
I'm 20 right now, pretty good looking. Before i used to train at home\outside but now im going to a gym - 2 years now. Lean body, almost no bodyfat. 145lbs 6'1 feet tall

Damn i guess it's my obsessivness. If i start going out with a girl, i just try too hard to keep the relationship going...
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>>132338
give me a break im russian... but i know 4 languages pretty decently
>> Anonymous
>>132321

Bullshit. Girls don't judge you on how you're too nice or how much of an asshole you are to them. The only thing girls truly care about is confidence in a guy. Alpha status. Doesn't matter if the guy looks like a hobo, if he feels and acts like he's the fucking fist of the north star, she'll spread her legs for him.
>> deleted
>>132358
yes you're right, that what i lack... gotta work on that one
>> Anonymous
>>132360

Keep in mind, though, you can be confident without being an alpha male douchebag. If you want casual sex, go that route, but if you want a meaningful relationship, you'll just have to look harder.
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>>132364
Casual sex - i don't need. If i feel too horny i can just jerk off.
Making a girl orgasm is very important for me, cunilingus is just the thing :)
Some of my friends are really grossed out by it, but very few things gross me out (exception is vomit)

How does Anon feel about Cunilingus?
>> Anonymous
>>132321

>loosing

That may be the reason you're getting dumped.

>>132324

It's not really the fact we consider the majority of women to be mindless twits; in fact we understand that you're all living and breathing human beings with your own thoughts to boot. That is the part that turns me and many of the other people in this off. We don't want you for your brains. It doesn't matter how your day went for the most part. We want you for the sex. That wet hole is all we care about and to be honest it fills me with disgust thinking about the act and what it takes to get to that point.

I'm pretty sure that I won't be having sex again for a long time and that's ok. The commitment is far too large when you factor in the money, time and effort to make a girl happy enough or willing enough to have sex. It takes weeks, if not months unless you get them drunk or they're not a whore. That's HOURS a week and hundreds of dollars I could spend doing fun things by myself.

This does not go for those guys up there that want tomboys, I don't know what's up with them.
>> Anonymous
>>132364
Alpha male does not equate to asshole. You've read too much nice guy copypasta whining. There are three kinds of males. The difference is in how much confidence they have in themselves, and how that affects their lives.

The nice guy. Needy little guys who have little to no self confidence. They dream on and on about the perfect girl, and how he'll treat her right, etc. Usually bitter and distant because after a while, he'll start to see girls as whores and sluts who only want to date/fuck assholes (they don't recognize alpha males as another class. To nice guys, everyone who is not them is classified as an asshole). Usually refuses to change himself, would rather bitch and moan about everyone else instead.

The asshole. Some confidence. Gets girls because he can convey his confidence to girls, not because he is a dick. He's not an alpha male because he feels the need to belittle others to prove to everyone how much of a badass he is all the time. He requires the external approval of others in order to be happy.

Alpha male. Epitome of self confidence. Gets all the girls because he radiates strenght and security. He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone, because _he_ is happy with who he is, and that is what matters to him. The result of this is that he is not an asshole because he has no need to prove his status all the time, but he still gets more pussy in a week than most guys in a lifetime. Envy is what makes nice guys think of this guy as just another asshole.
>> Anonymous
>>132396

Congrat's you're a copypasta.
>> Anonymous
>>132396

at the rates now and days if he gets that much pussy a week he probably has aids.
>> Anonymous
>>132413

lol, true. Not to mention the fact that getting a lot of pussy inflates the ego like no tomorrow, thereby turning the once confident guy into a douche.
>> Anonymous
>>132380

You're insecure. That's what I'm getting from your posts. Just assume that there's mutual attraction, she wouldn't go out with you unless she wanted to. Give gifts and bring her to nice places *sparingly* and things will be fine. Your caring personality will take care of most of it but keep in mind that she would not go out with you unless she wanted to. Should I repeat that? I think I will. She would not want to go out with you unless she wanted to. Don't be so insecure and don't dote on her so much, those nice things lose their impact if they happen all the time.
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>>132396
Shit... i fall into a Nice Guy category...
Though i dont envy the "asshole" guys ) it's just their lifestyle and if they want to hunt girls for sport... well it's a fun sport, don't you think?

Alpha Male... shit ill never be like that... guess that's life... I don't envy them in the bad way, if that makes sence, i guess i just want to be like them.
They are the kind of people that are fun to hangout with. They have a lot of charisma, and everyone feels like they are nice people
>> Anonymous
I have little to no desire for any sexual gratification at all. Occasionally I do get laid but I don't go around looking for some. I don't think about sex. I don't look at porn. I don't even fap. The most pleasure I get is from weight lifting and looking at the results in the mirror.
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>>132430
this is bad... you need to fap or have sex! This is the way of life!
>> Anonymous
>>132442
You're a fucking loser. Get a life.
>> Anonymous
>>132383
You know it is possible to have a girl that thinks, you can have fun with, and you can have sex with without money?
All about finding a good match for yourself.
>> Anonymous
You've never been in love. In b4 love doesn't exist/I can't fall in love, because you can, and you will, and chances are it won't work out and it will suck, but at the same time it will completely change your views on friendship and girls alike.
>> Anonymous
>>132499
Get the fuck back in the kitchen. If i've never had more than arrousal from women in 20 years, i doubt it's going to start now.

Since I started puberty at around 11-12. That's 8-9 years it never happened? Yeah. No.
>> Anonymous
>>132531

Don't try and act tough on the internets, you're a human, love is a human emotion, so therefore it can and will happen if you crawl out of your fucking basement and meet a girl that you think you could live with.
>> Anonymous
>>132535
But what if she doesn't like me bawwwwwwwwwww ;_;
>> Anonymous
>>132542

Then you pick yourself up and move along like a respectable gentleman, and most certainly do not become an emo. Any guy with a regular social life has gone through this, it's not special.
>> Anonymous
>>132396
Bravo. I look to be the alpha male.
>> Anonymous
>>132552
Actually, about 1% of the population feels no need for relationships, love, or companionship. Schizoids.

They are the perfect choice (if physically able) for the military i'd say. Nothing holding them back.
>> Anonymous
>>132557
They'd get kicked out the second they showed their face there.

If you can't work in a group, the only position you'll get in the military would possibly be that of a _chef_, if even that.
>> Anonymous
>>131947
you just can't get anything better lolz
>> Anonymous
>>132594
Why the fuck would I lie on an anonymous message board?

Are you capable of anything approximating critical thought?
>> Anonymous
>>132560

I'm totally sure that you're actually in the military and know all of its inner-workings.

btw, you can effectively work in a group without having to form relationships.
>> Anonymous
>>132621

Oh, I dunno. Ever heard of trolling?
>> Anonymous
I think that I was made with the inability to understand the complex workings of human relationships. It's a totally foreign concept to me, and I imagine that trying to learn it would be like trying to learn rocket science. To me, keeping long-term friends, and especially trying to get a girlfriend is like trying to read a language that I've never seen before. I'd rather not deal with it by having to try and fake being something that I'm not.

After all, almost all people that don't understand rocket science would never want to take the time or effort to learn it.
>> Anonymous
>>131830
>>131830
>>131830
>google asexuality in humans
I have some thinking to do ;/
>> Anonymous
>>132648
Rocket science is not human nature. Social interaction, specifically that with a mate, is very much so human nature. I'd say you should put effort into learning this. You don't have to be fake or something that you're not, you could actually already be a good guy. But if you don't put yourself out there nobody will know you exist.

Just talk to people. Do things with them.
>> Anonymous
dem bitches is crazy.
>> Anonymous
>>131900
Tomboys can be annoying at times. If they're attention whores "LOOK AT ME, I'M A GIRL WHO LIKES VIDEOGAMES" for example, you'll be pissed, but many girls do look fuck hot in pants. Fatgirls need not apply for pants, stick to your mumu.
>> Anonymous
>>132719
that's not a tomboy, that's an attention whore.
>> Anonymous
>>132158
sorry, i guess billions of people over thousands of years of human history were wrong. you're right anon, thanks for opening my eyes.
>> Anonymous
>>132648

No, you're just making excuses for yourself. Just like all those socially inept dicks on /b/ who try and convince themselves they have asperger's. You're not a shrink, you can't tell if you have some kind of disorder you read about online. You just don't have any social skills because you spend all your life avoiding social situations out of fear of rejection.
>> Anonymous
that puts it perfectly being able to relate to people is like trying to speak Arabic.

I only know a few catch phrases.