Regular Jiu Jitsu or Doce Pares Eskrima, thats what i am left with in my town but i want to run it by you guys first.I have no experience with MA, and i am a bit out of shape what is the best to go with?Also how much of eskrima is centered around breaking bones? I love the idea but my country (Dutchfag) can legally fuck you up the ass if you kick somebody's ass to hard.
any decent school should let you watch or participate in a lesson for free, you should go to both and see which seems the most fun. With martial arts if you aren't interested, you wont stick with it.