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Anonymous
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I felt the same exact thing about my ex-girlfriend. She fucked like six people before me and apart of me couldn't accept it. Although I denied it, I think apart of me looked at her like a whore for a month or so(this is the main reason I didn't sleep with her for like 3 months. i was worried that i'd give my virginity to someone who wasn't worth it). Over time, however, I saw that she changed her ways and I began opening up to her more. I eventually had to accept the fact that her past was shitty and her present/future was what I had to judge her by now.
In short, I know what you're experiencing. You're just going to have to judge her by her actions and slowly, over time, accept her past. after you've accepted it, leave it alone. Know this, however: A leopard never changes its' spots unless it REALLY wants to. After my ex-gf and I broke up, she began whoring herself out again. It was only until she caught an STD that she stopped.
Make sure your girlfriend has changed because -SHE- wants the change; not because you're dating her. Personally, that's the problem here. You know her ways have changed only because she's dating you. You want a girlfriend who will change simply because she wants to better herself and her life, not because someone entered it. Change has to start from within and not from the outside.
Hope I helped. Ciao.
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