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Anonymous
I have no interest in sex. (I'm a woman, of course.) Working out prior helps a little, but I just don't care. And it's not like my partner's not a sexy bastard or he's too small, there's just next to no drive. He doesn't know this, at least I think he doesn't, and I do it just to see him orgasm most of the time.

Aside from shut up and take it, does anyone have any advice?
>> Anonymous
Post pics and go see a doctor. Could be a problem.
>> Anonymous
Fuck you. He doesn't want you to lie to him to spare his feelings, if he's a real man he'll get over it.
>> Anonymous
>>480341
Physical/check up/EKG all say I'm fine. Only medication I'm on is Adderall, which is supposed to increase sex drive, although I took today off.
And no pics. No camera. Also I'm an acquired taste.
>> Anonymous
You could be a lesbian.
>> Anonymous
>>480347
whale is an acquired taste as well. maybe youve met
>> Anonymous
>>480334
Can someone explain OP's pic?

And OP. Does your partner go down on you?
Virginfag here, but iirc girls get more pleasure from oral stimulation than actual penetration
>> Anonymous
>>480347

I am not really sure. I know that work and stress can reduce a persons sex drive, but I doubt it would do it to that extent unless you have a really shitty job. You could just relax, try foreplay, and maybe get some fetish. If you care about it that much, they might have some pills you can buy, who knows.
>> Anonymous
OP, what is that picture from? its fucking with my mind super hard, can you tell me more about it
>> Anonymous
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OP, Check out the book "The Orgasmic Diet"
And get some good quality fishoil, it's part of the diet.

http://www.randomhouse.com/catalog/display.pperl/9780307352651.html
http://www.amazon.com/Orgasmic-Diet-Revolutionary-Libido-Orgasm/dp/030735265X
http://www.amazon.com/Carlson-Laboratories-Finest-Lemon-Flavor/dp/B0001VKNSM
author's webforum here:
http://zaneblue.org/groupee

I was on ritalin/dexedrine. they raise blood pressure, less blood to genitals. it was always hard for me to get it up with the ritalin.

I use this stuff for adhd now:
http://www.herb-e-concept.com/v2/?p=6&i=2
http://www.herb-e-concept.com/v2/?p=2&i=2
>> Anonymous
Shut up and take it, you're a woman and that's all you're good for. In fact I don't know why you're on the internet and not in the kitchen.
>> Anonymous
OP its a very common condition, but treatable. Go see a doctor about it. It needs to be properly diagnosed.
>> Anonymous
Same here, OP. No sex drive and trouble reaching orgasm for like a 6 months. You should go see a doctor.
>> Anonymous
>>480356
please, just wake up
>> Anonymous
>>480354
We've tried that. Anything involving the clit just starts to hurt before I get close, and he gets too excited to go slowly and gently.
>>480441
Did you, then? What was it?
>> Anonymous
Please, it's time for you to WAKE UP
>> Anonymous
Your pic is way more interesting than your post. Sauce?
>> Anonymous
Holey crap I am sleeping with a woman who matches this description spot on. WTF how to increase cumdumpster's interest in sex already. Fuck it sucks.
>> Anonymous
>>480533
I can imagine she'd be a little more interested if you stopped calling her a cumdumpster.
>> Anonymous
My guess, fat chicks have lower sex drives cause their hormones are fucked up. Loose a few pounds, stop drinking soda, no more ice cream, workout moar, take some fucking fish oilz, SQUATZ, OUTZ!
>> Anonymous
>>480539
5'5" 138 lbs., work out often, don't drink soda or eat ice cream, and have been eating clean for as long as I can remember. bf% was somewhere around 18 last I checked.
>> Anonymous
>>480513

No, I'm too embarrassed to go see a doctor, but people have been telling me that I need to. My problem is probably stress or depression related.
>> Anonymous
>>480334

Just got OP's pic. It's telling me to wake up. Liek I'm in the fantasy world being raped.

That's actually pretty cool.
>> Anonymous
>>480544
...Yes. Is the joke.
>> Anonymous
You gonna get raped.
>> Anonymous
>>480513
no fucking shit

OBVIOUSLY YOU WONT HAVE A SEX DRIVE IF THERES NO REASON TO HAVE SEX. it's the guys fucking fault, if he cant give you an orgasm then theres no reason, and he needs to learn some fucking self control

it hurts because hes probably an inexperienced fag or overconfident fag or selfishfag that doesnt know what hes doing, overstimulating you.

all a 'sex drive' is, is a want to have sex. if you have NO INCENTIVE (no orgasm) to have sex, result is NO SEX DRIVE..... teach your man to give you orgasms, or learn what you like in terms of stimulation, or you obviously wont care about sex.
>> Anonymous
>>480549
also, i dont know how people are so stupid

but honestly, he needs to get down and give you some good head, and he needs to make you believe he enjoys it. for as long as you need it, at whatever pace you need it

otherwise tell him to fuck off, really. dont waste your time
>> Anonymous
>>480538
>>480538
Good point, anon. I think I shall call her by her name from now on.
>> Anonymous
>>480542
>>480542
>>480542
>>480542

Fish oil, eat more fiber (the more, the better), try lifting weights for a few months (starting strength ftw),

If this doesn't increase your sex drive, then get a vibrator and talk to your doctor. Seriously. Sex is amazing and if you aren't enjoying it, it's time to get help.
>> Anonymous
>>480554
no. it's because she obviously has a terrible partner that takes all the joy out of sex.

>>480513
"We've tried that. Anything involving the clit just starts to hurt before I get close, and he gets too excited to go slowly and gently."
>> Anonymous
>>480513
Im a guy. It's called being selfish, hun.
>> Anonymous
shut up and take it
>> Anonymous
>>480347
Really? I had a friend on adderall who was having average sex, then when she quit she came buckets...her sex drive up when she stopped the meds.

An anomaly perhaps.
>> Anonymous
>>480549
>if you have NO INCENTIVE (no orgasm) to have sex, result is NO SEX DRIVE.....

That's not completely true. It depends entirely on the person. For example; I can only recall maybe TWO TIMES I have ever had a orgasm while having sex with my boyfriend, due to he doesn't last very long, It takes a lot to get me off anyway, [Anal and vibrator on clit excluded.] And I guess I'm way too nice to say "Get your shit back up, You're not done." ect, ect.

tl;dr MY POINT IT: It's aggravating to never be able to finish, or have our sex time be kind of a in and out thing, But I find myself ALWAYS WANTING Sex because of it. Maybe I'm just a nymph, But I'm sure it's because I never get a really good and satisfying fuck. If I got as much full pleasure out of it as he did, I probably wouldn't always fucking want it.
Also; I have read that a lot of girls really don't enjoy clit stimulation; Often claiming that it feels way to weird, or as OP is saying, saying it "hurts"

However I have also read in Cosmo that if a male spends enough time trying to give a girl the ultimate orgasm [Or rather, does it right.] When she's just about ready to come, she will feel really awkward, and more than likely will ask him to stop; Cosmo says: "Don't stop! No matter what you do, Keep going. It will go away in a matter of moments and you will give get the orgasm of her life time. She'll thank you."
>> Anonymous
>>480575
when i was on ritalin/dex, I was horny, but physically it was tough. maybe women are different but the mind was roaring but the wang was not up to it.
>> Anonymous
>>480586
no, you're just an idiot/fooling yourself
>> Anonymous
am i the only one like WTF!?!? with OP's pic?
>> Anonymous
>>480334
Hi there. Bad problem you've got. If clit stimulation is quickly painful with your bf, is it the case when masturbating ? Try, for that purpose, a common lubrifiant : if you're not confident in getting pleasure, you might not produce enough juice not to hurt from friction. Experiment alone on your body, what makes you tingle or not, what gets you in the mood, what stops you. Use literotica or sites like that for fantasy.
>> Anonymous
>>480354

That is a common myth dear virginfag. It depends on personal preference, there are no universal rules like some think. Recently I was raging at an other female writing this same shit on her stupid blog, like it was true for everyone. Some sex tips that whore was handing out to males.
>> Anonymous
>>480334
Shut up and take it.
>> Anonymous
You have time to go here and post but no time to have sex?

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