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Sup, /fit/.

I'm a healthy female in my mid 20s and it is possible I may soon have sexual intercourse for the first time. What tips and advice may you grant me? I took sex ed in high school, but it was one of those "ABSTINENCE, MOTHER FUCKER, DO YOU USE IT?" classes that preached more about not doing than it did teach us how to do it and do it correctly/safely. Absolutely no preparation for either the physical, mental, or emotional repercussions apart from "IT'LL RUIN YOUR LIFE."

The point isn't about sex ed here; I just want some "tips and tricks" over how I can make this as painless and natural as possible and keep the guy at ease.

I realize that it will be terribly painful and it will make us both nervous, but is there any chance that it will be enjoyable? How much does the average girl bleed and does the pain linger for long? Anything I can do before hand to make it "easier"?

Thanks, /fit/.
>> Anonymous
Masturbate with something the same size as a penis.
>> Anonymous
You could always break your own hymen before hand, assuming it is still intact.
>> Anonymous
If the guy is virgin, expect it to be a mess and no pleasurable at all.

If he is not, keep an eye for STD symptoms during the next week.

At any rate, there is no way that you won't suffer from the breakness of your hymen.

Buttsekchs is a great alternative, provided you take enough cautions to avoid poop smell.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
Ask him if he wants to 'break you in' since it's your first time.

If not, use a dildo and break your own hymen to let it bleed out, so when you have sex it'll be less painful.

If so, well, honestly not much you can do except try stretching a bit before sex.

Guy here but one of my old girlfriends was a virgin, and was in pain for about 5 minutes. Then no more pain, unless she was faking it.
>> Anonymous
>>17649
>>17658
OP here. Most women over the age of 13 don't have there hymen. What with bicycle riding, sports, climbing trees, etc, the hymen tears. The hymen was used as a "virgin test" in the past when women did nothing more than walk around in corsets with parasols. When they started riding horses and doing physical labor and stuff, it became irrelevant. Most girls tear their own as children, playing outside or whatever.

*THE MOAR U KNOW*====>
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>17662

It won't be intact, but it'll be there, and it'll rip during your first 'penetration', for lack of a better term. And it'll be painful.
>> Anonymous
>>17662
LOL

Looks like you don't know what is to get pierced by something as thick as your wrist. Enjoy your hymen being shred to smithereens.
>> Anonymous
>>17662

Meh, I've taken a cherry in my time. It's not as uncommon as you might think. She bled quite a bit, was sore for a few days, and then was fine.

Given your declaration, though, I'm assuming you are hymen-free, in which case all you have to worry about is comfortably accommodating his cock. And him lasting more than thirty seconds, but that's his problem.
>> Sabby !!J9oxJsHtaZJ
It won't be "terribly painful" unless you're dry. Make sure he does enough foreplay with you. Don't let him charge in when you're not ready- cause then it'll hurt.
Use your imagination what kind of foreplay he should do with you, like nipple pinching, fingering.
Whatever gets you off.
Since the context of your post makes it sound like he's a virgin too, it might not be as enjoyable as it could be. But don't let that turn you off, so to speak.
Good luck and congrats!
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>17684

Girlfriend of my previous post masturbated before we had sex, to get rid of that problem.
>> Anonymous
Mid 20's? Holy shit.

Anyways. I would agree with popping it yourself with a toy or something because you don't feel as nervous and you can go as fast or as slow as you want.
>> Guil
Also getting on top may help so you can ease yourself into it rather than have overzealous thrusting.. then switch once you want a good plowing, to say it bluntly.
>> Anonymous
your one in a million, that or a troll
>> Anonymous
>>17642
Valie is that you?
>> Anonymous
>>17711
Oh God... James?!
>> Anonymous
OP again. Retarded as it might sound, I sort of like the idea of the breakage and the pain. It's sort of romantic, in a fucking stupid way. Like, you're doing this together out of love and for mutual pleasure, and it's painful for you and he knows it, but you bear it out of love for him, and he holds you afterward. ;-;

So, the bottom line is that pain, tearing, bleeding, and discomfort are inevitable unless I ram something hard and worthless up myself before hand, huh? Well then, so be it.

Romanticism is a pitfall. But goddamn is it pretty. I guess it really depends on the individuals involved. If he cares, he'll be gentle and react to you and take care not to hurt you any more than necessary. If he just wants to fuck you, prepare to cry (for multiple reasons).

The worst part beyond the pain is probably the thought that he won't be able to enjoy it and it may deter him from ever wanting to again. Like, if he gets in to it and THRUST, THRUST, THRUSTS, it'll be fucking painful, right? But if he doesn't get in to it, he won't climax or might have a hard time doing so, and it will be a downer.

Holy shit, I should talk to myself more often.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
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>>17732
>>17711

DEY SEE ME TROLLAN
DEY HATIN
PATROLLIN
DEY TRY TO CATCH ME TROLLAN DIRTY
>> Basement Dwelling Troll !MFbxgC5u3.
Silly OP.

Anyways, FUCKING BE OPEN WITH EACH OTHER. Fucking explore over phone and text/IM play and get to know each other a bit more. If he wants you to wear pony tails and have you call him daddy do it. If you wanna wear a strap on and call him your bitch do it.

tl;dr Explore each other's sexual fantizes
>> Anonymous
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>>17740
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>17736

Try to emphasize that it's painful. He'll treat you more gently and 'romantic' and all that.
>> Anonymous
>>17744
OP.
Shouldn't the sexplay and "exploration" come AFTER the first time?

It would be hard to get in to dressing up and role playing or doing something really kinky when the girl is saying, "Ow, ow, ow, FUCKING OW" every couple seconds. The first time should be straight forward, gentle, and easy. Save the crazy shit for later, when you're better comfortable with each other and the process.
>> Anonymous
OP the simple answer is plenty of lube and foreplay. My older brother passed me a new bottle of lube when I lost my virginity to my ex(also a virgin). Made my first time great. Didn't help my premature ejaculation tho lol.
>> Anonymous
>>17736
What the fuck are you saying?
Breaking a hymen =/= taking virginity. You should be more concerned with virginity than your bloody hymen, no pun intended. What has more emotional appeal? Breaking someone's skin and hurting them and making them bleed OR doing your first time with someone you love?

Crazy ass OP.
>> Anonymous
>>17754

Males get teh sekchs out of hornyness. Is wired in our systems. Don't get your hopes too high expecting this "romanticism". Get real, even if the guy really loevs you he has NO FUCKING IDEA of your "romantic" expectations, so in the end, not only your vagOOO will hurt, and shitloads of BAWWWWW will ensue.

TL;DR TALK with him, about your concerns, etc.
>> Anonymous
just have sex. it's a natural process, it'll come naturally.
>> Anonymous
As a female anon, here's some advice from my first time. I also went to a 'ABSTINENCE ONLY, THE PILL WILL GIVE YOU THE CANCER' school.

It hurt the first time, but not as much as I was expecting. Make sure you're wet beforehand or it will HURT LIKE HELL. Use lube if you have to. Your first time may not be very enjoyable, but it will get alot better.
>> Anonymous
>>17642
One word four letters. LUBE! Now TITS or GTFO
>> Anonymous
make your partner eat your pussy til you come. than proceed with the fucking. If your partner is a faggot and/or black, substitute licking with fingers
>> CapitalistBastard !!f/pELCnjRD0
>>17796

Christ, did you grow up in fucking Mississippi?
>> Anonymous
>>17803
No, I live in a magical land called Canada where the Catholic school board is funded by the government. I broke a window in grade 11 though, that was fun.
>> Anonymous
take it to /b/, fatty. unless you're here to post jaime eason picks and ask for advice on keagols or whatever they're called, go away.

or post tits.

>>17736
now i know you're a fat white guy.
>> CapitalistBastard !!f/pELCnjRD0
>>17805

Get an IUD implanted for birth control.

It's like $200 and lasts 10 years. Easily reversible whenever you want children.
>> Basement Dwelling Troll !MFbxgC5u3.
>>17805
Look OP just explore a bit more open wise NOT FIRST SECKZ fuck use the Catholic school girl approach. Anyways OP enjoy your first tiem. Just do anything he says inless hes a faggot and can't take a good control over his sexual desires.
>> Anonymous
Iunno I hardly bleed at all my first time.
Don't worry about it, he'll loose hard on in 2 seconds and you'll hurt like hell, doesn't matter how much you prepare yourself it will be sloppy and pathetic.

Be a man and deal with the pain.
>> Anonymous
>>17825
>Health & Fitness
>Health
>> Basement Dwelling Troll !MFbxgC5u3.
>>18125

>Be a man and deal with the pain.
>Be a man and deal
>Be a man

no gurls on interbutts
>> Anonymous
unfortunately 4chan is mostly made up of incompetent perverts.
I lost my virginity about a year ago, the hymen really is irrelevant, you may bleed you may not (just make sure you don't have your best linen on :P). Lube really is a good idea though, it took a few attempts to go in, girls can be dry when they get nervous, and they're always tighter before they have sex. Also make sure he is really hard, it hurts more if he's flaccid at all (try putting the lube on him). But most of all try to relax, even though the walls of your vagina go hard for sex if you pull in your lower muscles because your tense it will hurt more for you, and on that note, the [pain is different for everyone, and it also depends on how rough/big he is so ask him to be gentle and gradually speed up.

i hope that helped.
>> Anonymous
>>17669
;_; I want a cock as thick as my wrist.
>> Basement Dwelling Troll !MFbxgC5u3.
>>18145
Try niggercock infused with AIDS