Hey /fit/, here's a question that I hope we can at least be kind of mature about.I'm 22 and I don't climax. I'm on antidepressants, which is probably related to that. I can get aroused, but it lasts about 60 seconds or less and then suddenly I'm tired and want to roll over and sleep. What should I do?Also, I'm a woman.
well you problem is your a woman, see that means you hate sex and are put on earth to either tease men with sex and not give it to them or make them feel inadequate when you finally give up that not so special spot between your legs. p.s. its the only reason any guy talks to you, don't kid yourself honey
>>243144Amazingly, that was less mature than the "LOL SEX" reaction I'd anticipated. Wow.
Who cares if a girl orgasms? Although, if you wanna look me up, my massive cock would probably make you without even trying.
Keep getting therapy until you don't need anti depressants.
Stop taking antidepressants.
>>243137Dr Drew Pinsky of Love Line would suggest talking with your physician about how your libido has dropped to nil and ask him if it were possible to switch anti-depressants to try and fix the problem.Also, obligatory TITS OR GTFO
but yeah anti depressants are notorious for causing permanent sexual dissfunction, stop taking them asap and converse with your doctor immediatley
Hi, OP here.I know "stop taking antidepressants" seems like an easy thing to do, and I don't want to take them. But I have clinical depression and have a really hard time being off meds; I have a long family history of suicide and self-harm. It's really not in my best interest to be off meds.I was hoping I could hear something from people who take antidepressants and have active sex lives, or people who have gotten off them successfully. Thanks.
bump for /fit/ ladies?
>>243183LOL, wish I could help, but I don't climax ever unless it's from me. That hasn't changed. Sex is still fun, though.Do NOT stop taking them ASAP. Psychiatrist visit first, decision after.
Tell you psychiatrist about your lack of libido. The doctor will taper you off your current antidepressants and switch you to a different one. Some antidepressants have less of an affect on sex drive. Going off your medication is not the answer, since it'll likely restore your depression and depression is not conducive to fucking. The problem might also not be pharmaceutical. Were you sexually active before you were on antidepressants? Sexually dysfunction is as much psychologially driven as chemically driven, so it may be some problem that can be worked out with therapy.
If youre taking an antidepresant called effexor that could be the culprit. I took that one and couldnt have an orgasm while I was on it. The treatment is not worth the tradeoff IMO. Stopped taking it about a month after I started and glad I did, Ive read all sorts of nasty shit about it since.