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Obese boyfriend Anonymous
/fit/, my boyfriend is 6ft tall and 265 lbs. This worries me greatly. I don't know how to get him to lose weight. He loves fattening foods-- pasta with cream sauce, sausages, pastries, etc. I've talked to him about his health before, and he agrees he needs to change, but once he gets hungry he wants to eat what he craves, and then he doesn't workout consistently. I wish I could cook healthy meals for him everyday and work out together, but we only have time to see each other on the weekends. I don't want to nag and constantly bring it up because I'm afraid it'll get to the point where it'll cause more harm than help. The fuck do I do? To the fat fucks out there who changed their ways, what changed your mindset? How did you get to the point that you started to take control of your health? Anything that someone else could do to help?
>> Anonymous
I had a heart attack.
>> Anonymous
It didn't start for me until I lost everything. I figured my life was shit anyways, I've got pending criminal cases against me, I've got little friends and I've got no more school.

I said fuck it, if this doesn't work I'll pick up my gun and end it all. Not really sure how else to say this but for me, it took hitting rock bottom for me to get off my ass.

But in reality, that wasn't even enough. I lost my best friend earlier this year and I started working out again just to get over the hole that he left.
>> Anonymous
Fat men get killer calves.
>> Anonymous
Look OP,

Another thing I did was put my xbox in front of the treadmill. I taped the controller to the handles (took it off after I got used to playing and walking) set the thing to 3.5 mph and had an incline of 4.

It burned off so many calories it wasn't even funny. I'd be on there for hours a day just playing. I didn't even notice my legs hurting because I was too involved in my games.
>> Anonymous
>>469013
>>469017
That's terrible and unfortunate :( I hope he won't have to go through something like that.
>> Anonymous
withhold pussy? if pussy is not the worlds biggest motivator i don't know what is.
>> Anonymous
Well I was 6'2" 265lbs and I was dating my hot gf for about 3 years. She never let on that it bothered her. We still had sex, went out, etc. but eventually it broke us up. Over the next 6 months I lost 60 lbs of bf and put on 10-15 lbs of muscle (just an estimate). We are now back together and we are both very happy.

After we broke up I realized that she lost respect for me, and you can't be with someone you don't respect. When we first started dating, I was out of shape, but not nearly as bad. As I put on the pounds, I didn't even notice. I was focused on school, happy with our relationship, and when I looked in the mirror I didn't see a fatter me, just the same old me.

What changed my mindset was that I will never have a woman care about me when I look like shit. I took control after I lost the love of my life. I don't know what to tell you, since it took a break up to get me on track. I wish my ex would have expressed more about how it made her feel to see me that way and be in public, etc. That would have been great motivation.
>> Anonymous
Tell him:

"Nothing tastes as good as looking good feels... fatass."

Or you could try shouting, "Show me your tits!" in public at him. Humiliation is the foundation of successful relationships.
>> Anonymous
'you know, I really struggle to feel your penis now'

losing weight adds inches to effective penis size. One helluva motivator.
>> Anonymous
>>469055
haha THIS.

If he's obese than it's not like he's just going to pick up some other broad.

Cockblock him, if that doesn't get him in the gym 7 days a week and eating OATZ like a motherfuck, I don't know what will.
>> Anonymous
>>469008
Dump his fat ass. Fat people with no will power deserve to fucking die. You deserve way better.
>> Anonymous
>>469008
Tell him he's a lazy fat fuck, remind him every single second he's a lazy fat fuck, cause thats what he is. Thats what helped me.
>> Anonymous
>>469008
OP are you gay?
If not, and you are a female:
[ ] tits
[ ] gtfo
>> Anonymous
>>469024
so do dbz fags who wear weighted clothing.
>> Anonymous
>>469083
this

Definitely my favorite part about losing weight
>> Anonymous
nothing will work except dumping him
>> Anonymous
>>469024
It's true. I' m a fat ass and my friends who work out tell me I have good calves.
>> Anonymous
>>469017
>>469013
this

sad but its true. for people to change, usually its something hit them like a ton of bricks.
>> Anonymous
>>469547
>>469024
You need more muscle and support to hold up more weight. Makes sense.


OP, I used to be a fatass as well. The big change came after being diagnosed with severe depression.

Dump him.
>> Anonymous
remind him that the more weight he loses, the bigger his penis will get due to less pubic fat.