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busting early Anonymous
dear /fit/

I was here about a month ago worried that I suffer from Premature ejaculation

I got alot of people telling me positive things, mostly that my nut being busted was caused by breaking the condom I was wearing, or lack of experience, and that I don't have PE, it doesn't really exist, blah blah blah.

anyways. After a bit more sex... nothing has changed. And it's odd, becuase when I put a condom on, I can't get it up at all, it takes alot... and when I FINALLY do, I last about a minute.

I don't get it.. if I can't get it up you'd think its becuase im not aroused at all... when I'm penetrating I'm not overexcited or anything, in fact, I feel reaally really numb, and suddenly I bust without seeing it coming (bad pun)

yeah. two more things - after 3 times having sex, my girlfriend is still bleeding afterwards (we both lost our virginity to each other)... and, also, after sex, I get mad pain in my entire groin area.

inb4 "jerk off before sex" becuase i tried, and then I can't get it up... and inb4 making fun of me, I get it already. I have a useless penis.

anyone want to shed any light?
>> Anonymous
stop having sex
>> Anonymous
You should probably see a doctor instead of asking /fit/ for advice.
>> Anonymous
Try a larger condom if your dick gets numb

Also you've had sex 3 fucking times, GIEF IT MOAR TIME
>> Anonymous
Well dear fitster, i've had similar problems in the past

when i had my first girlfriend i had
a)An erectile dysfunction(at the age of 18)
b) I would cum instantly after i would insert my penis
c)self loathing and hatred

My erectile dysfunction was caused by an infection in my body, which when treated with antibiotics it cleared right up(i got the antibiotics like 4 weeks after trying to have sex, so i pretty much thought i had a useless penis, and that i would never be able to have sex and only masturbate(because that still worked))

It surprised me that i would ejaculate almost the instant i inserted my penis.... because i could usually masturbate for hours and control my ejaculation, but man i was thinking god was punishing me

eventually after many many times of having sex(well... kind of(FAILING)) it finally happened that i did not ejaculate instantly and there after i could control my ejaculation much like i do during masturbation

so my advice to you op is this
do *KEGELS
*PRACTICE brinkmansship, masturbate and wait for the time when you are about to ejaculate and then STOP(HAMMERTIME) and either hold at the base of your pen0r or flex your kegel(or both) and you will not orgasm- practice this many times op...

if all else fails, buy an STU(stamina training unit) from fleshlight.com SHIT IS DA BOMB nigra
>> Anonymous
>>340828

also just keep trying, KEEP FUCKING TRYING, DON'T GIVE THE FUCK UP

practice makes perfect.. eventually you won't bust your nut instantly
>> blah
Do you have the same "mad pain" in your groin after ejaculating from masturbation?

If you're having "pain" from that area of your body, you should go to a doctor. There are few reasons you would have pain from ejaculating, so go to a doc and figure it out. It's not worth the risk of NOT going.

Sexual dysfunction is very common in our society. Whether it's social or physical in cause, it's best to go find someone who knows rather than fit.

Best,
blah
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
My guess is it's a mental comfort thing. If you believe your penis is useless, that's what happens. Relax and give it time.
>> Anonymous
male kegels.

when peeing, start and stop the stream by contracting your muscles, its very easy, maybe start in the shower so you dont fuck up your bathroom, but youll build muscle.

also, masturbate atleast 1 time, usually twice a day, dont just "go for it" right away, bring yourself to the edge, dont cum, hold off a few minutes, bring yourself back, and so on for an hour or two at a time.

I do these all the times and can make myself last an hour, or 5 minutes, its all about knowing your body as well as being able to control whats going on.
>> Anonymous
>>341910
pics or it didnt happen
>> Anonymous
Pic of girl you're having sex with?
>> Anonymous
pics of foot?