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First things first, cover your ass. Tell her "you don't think she needs to lose the weight, but you'll support her in any way you can", which will pretty much put give you command over the situation.
>getting into martial arts together Unless you're both really into it, don't. Quality instruction is expensive, and since you have to conform to the instructors schedule, you're both going to be more likely to miss workouts due to scheduling conflicts, work, etc.
Just start her doing really light cardio and resistance workouts; walking/jogging, and some basic bodyweight exercises or a dumbbell routine, all of which you can do with her. If you're in better shape than she is, just go farther, use heavier weights, etc. Also, make sure to keep her diet in check.
The big thing is going to be whether she's self-motivated or not. If she's strong, she'll be able to jog and or go to the gym by herself, take care of her shit, and stick to her diet. If not, then you're going to have to set aside more time, and hold her hand through all of it.
Good luck to the both of you.
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