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Anonymous
Anyone else get into better shape to get women and then still fail and give up all hope?

Now I want to be in the Rangers instead. I guess it wasn't all pointless.
>> Anonymous
id like to lick her vagina and do her in the missionary.
>> Anonymous
i lost 150lbs for a girl, failed, still fit, but more depressed than ever if that counts
>> Anonymous
>>132886
facepalm.jpg
>> Anonymous
the reason fitness freaks have such a gay vibe is that most women really don't give a fuck about that stuff. same thing goes for fashion.
>> Anonymous
The only time they don't give a fuck is when you're an assburger.

Otherwise it's a big bonus.
>> Anonymous
>>132890
Yes and no, attitudes and personality matter more, but a good body helps. However alot of girls prefer a more average build than someone being ripped.
>> Anonymous
>>132884
>> Anonymous
I'm a good looking guy, but i guess my personality is a little off and i don't get girls. I gave up hope at 20. Once you come to terms with the fact that you'll probably be alone the rest of your life, it isn't that bad. Seek comfort in knowing that rosey palms will always be there for you :3
>> Anonymous
>>132944
I've done the same. However, lately I've noticed those vagmonsters gunning to monster my cookie.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
I got a girl being somewhat of a fatass. Maybe you're just trying too hard. I don't know you personally, but just try to be more outgoing and girls will like that, chubby or not.
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>>132963girls will like that, chubby or not.
GIRLS DO NOT WORK THAT WAY
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
Looks get you in the door.

Being fun to be around is the line and sinker.
>> Anonymous
>>132876

Her waist is icky.
>> Anonymous
>>132993
And if not looks, present ability at least.
There goes most of 4chan.
>> Anonymous
>>132993
Very true, if you're not attractive enough to get a date you won't get anywhere with a chick. Then you have to have a good personality.
>> Anonymous
>>I gave up hope at 20.

That is pathetic. That is like failing bio101 in your first year of college and then saying "Fuck it! I'm just gonna drop out and work at McDonalds forever!" Seriously, giving up at TWENTY?! WTF?

I didn't get my first real girlfriend until I was 29!! And as I was in bed with her with her arms and legs wrapped around each other all I could think of was "It was worth it, almost 30 years of misery and bullshit were worth it for this moment." And I was right, it was worth it.
>> Anonymous
>>133042
Basically, i'm just sick of rejection. I've been rejected so many times throughout my life, by girls i've really liked or in some cases loved, and i don't want to ever feel that depressed again. If the girl of my dreams comes along one day, then awesome. If not, whatever. I'm not going to build my hopes up again just to have them crushed. Fuck that.
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>I didn't get my first real girlfriend until I was 40!! And as I was in bed with her with her arms and legs wrapped
>>133042

>around each other all I could think of was "It was worth it, almost 40 years of misery and bullshit were worth it for this moment." And I was right, because the movie did great.

Ar-are are you, Steve Carrell?
>> Anonymous
>>133059
Don't build your hopes up,women and gambling are the same
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>133059
B'AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
>> Anonymous
>>133064
go back to /b/ with that bawww shit, faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>133063
How are women a gamble?
I
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>133068
Go hang yourself, mr OH MY GAWD SOMETHING BAD HAPPENED TO ME
>> Anonymous
>>133074
You put money,time,and feelings hoping that they will give something back.Sometimes it works,sometimes it don't,either way it disappears eventually.
>> Anonymous
>>133077
Remove the money and feelings.
Now you only have an illusionary concept.
STOP wanting something out of women and expect nothing, I've dated countless women on personality alone.
Give something, take it back, give it back.
This is what i do, Women will seriously sense something is the fuck up and worry like all shit and needlessly self certify, this is when you strike.

Then again this is 4chan so
im not sure how socially together you are.
>> Anonymous
>>133080
That may be your game,but it's not mine.You can look for personality all you want I guess,that's not my thing just yet so I'll just keep chasing the pussy for a few more years before I start looking to settle down.
>> Anonymous
>>133084
Good luck i guess.
>> Anonymous
>>133089
You too
>> Anonymous
when i was in shape women came to ME.
cuz im black yo
>> Anonymous
>>133091
Go hang yourself from a light pole.
>> Anonymous
>Anyone else get into better shape to get women

Hell no, man. Fuck a bitch; I stay in stay in shape for me. That's how bitches manipulate ur ass. On the other hand, WE NEED TO GET SUM MOAR OF THAT CHICK, OP.
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>>132876
wats up with that bitches hand in OPs pic? looks like E.T.
>> Anonymous
>>133124
holy crap, she has fingers!
>> Anonymous
>>133091
150lb lost guy here, im black too, you speak the lies
>> Anonymous
People are forgetting that your first impression is based entirely on looks. Good luck making a good one when you look like a fatty that can't dress nice.
>> Anonymous
Joining the Rangers huh, you remind me of me.

I say, fuck trying to get women. Stop caring.
Sometimes trying to make something happen makes it harder. Sometimes looking for something makes it disappear.

Become a ranger and become someone worth respecting.

I say learn to live a happy life alone, because at the end of the day you're the only one thats always going to be there for you.

Work on self improvement. Don't try to pick up girls, because 9/10 times you're rejected.
Failing 90% of the time? Fucks up your confidence.

Instead just live your life, doing the things you like.

You don't need them. Become aware of that and you'll be less nervous around them, more confident and seem not at all desperate.
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I spent a lot of time worrying (worrying, not doing anything) about my physique until I hit age 16 or so (mind you, I wasn't a lethargic mass of shitbutter, I was just a little chubby). Then, I quit caring. As gay as it sounds, I was myself (myself is a funny, social guy, so maybe this is an isolated incident) and I hooked up with and got a girlfriend (a relationship that lasted 10 months or so). She was pretty attractive, though half Mexican -- she actually resembles the OP very closely. She was a fitness buff, so, in turn, I became a fitness bump. We broke up, and with the physique I had gained through the relationship, I went on a year long fuckspree with just about any girl that had a pulse -- it was fruitless, but it was either sleep or ejaculate. The choice was obvious. Then, I quit caring about my physique, but I didn't become a fatty or anything like that. Now, I'm 18, and I'm dating another (imo) attractive girl (pictured). I wouldn't go so far as to say that one should give up on the pursuit of a girl. I sure as shit wouldn't make it a goal to get a girl. In my experience, it just happens. You have to learn to be happy with yourself. By now, you've probably stopped reading and I could probably type whatever the fuck I want. Nigger.
>> Anonymous
so ronery
>> Anonymous
>>133413
i want to lick her toes
>> Anonymous
I weigh 205 with noticeable but not offensive chub and am currently fucking the hottest girl I know.

You're all doing it wrong.
>> Anonymous
>>133443

the hottest girl you know is your mom
>> Anonymous
>>132876
Hey man, about joining the rangers. I don't pretend to know your personal reasons for wanting to enlist. There are plenty of good reasons to join up. But my gut tells me that you might be doing it for the wrong reasons. It's just that I've know a LOT of people who went into the military to prove how tough and manly they were. Some of them had the rationale "Think of the physical training I'll have to go through, how can I NOT get buff! And all i have to do is what someone else tells me to do, sweet deal!"

From those that have come back the reality of military service at this time seems to be:
1. You will see combat
2. It will seriously alter your views on life.

Just think about whether you really WANT to be a ranger (i.e. to risk your life like that) or whether you want to be CALLED a ranger when you get home.