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Flaky people Anonymous
flaky: Unreliable, characterized by not following through on agreed plans.

Anons, how do you guys deal with flaky women or flaky people in general? You know, you make a appointment to meet up on a certain day, and they're like, i'm tired from work or some other lame excuse and they go watch tv. Then you make plans for next week and they have another bullshit excuse.

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>> Anonymous
Personally I go to their house, kick the door in and tell them I will punch them in the face if they don't spend more time with me. Works most of the time (I'm a pretty bulky guy). Opinions /fit/?
>> Anonymous
Most people are like this and friendships that are based on forcing the other person never work out. At some point you'll find someone just like yourself and you'll be bff but then you'll realise they are a crazy fuck.

Relax. People are not their to entertain you. You can't punish someone for not doing it right. Just relax and go with it.

Also I tend to do this.

- Call before hand.

'Hey I'm getting off work in 15. Are you going to be in? Still on for xxx tonight? No? Hey I'mma go do something else then/ok I'll take the long way around and see you in 30/ok you want to do something else?/stay in? nah not for me/stay in? sure I'll bring some pot."

Fuck it is all about what concessions you are willing to make and making decisions there and then based on instinct. Regardless of flaky women or flaky people that is how you should be dealing with anything in life.
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>383918

I think you're a scrawny faggot ass nerd off the internet. Opinions /fit/?
>> Anonymous
My close friend is like this fuck it pisses me off, she would be my gf if it wasn't for it. Whenever we make plans to do something I usually make other plans anyway because she will probably not go through with it. She is meant to be here giving me sex, but she made some lame excuse. Fuck.
>> Anonymous
>>383919
This. Dude, everybody does not want to hang out with you all the time even if you are the nicest guy in the world, and they are lazy sometimes, and they have other things coming up and everything, like you yourself. There are two kinds of people in this respect, those who bother to make excuses and those who don't, and the latter are much worse.
>> Anonymous
>>383921
lawl
but are you like fuck buddies or dating? Just curious.
>> Anonymous
>>383931

Just really close friends for like the past 4 years, lately though its kinda become more than that. Still flaky, though.
>> Anonymous
>>383935
So how do you feel about her fucking close friends?
>> Anonymous
>>383937

wat
>> Anonymous
I dunno it might just be that she's fucking SICK OF YOU. I'm over your whinging after reading a couple posts, 4 years of you and I'd prolly have an anyurism. Don't be needy or pushy bitches hate that, make her come to you and always leave her wanting more.
>> Anonymous
nothing you can do about it
if it bothers you that much stop hanging out with her, but i'm guessing you wont since she gives you her vagina
>> Anonymous
>>384105

First of, what this guy said!

Second.. show her that you can stand on you're own a few months, and wait until she calls you. This way she has realized that you don't lean on her all the time, but can go out and have fun on you're own. After a while, she actually might miss her old friend and start appreciate you a bit more.
>> Anonymous
Be persuasive or compromise. If you've got a wide enough social network you should be able to do something decent once in a while.
>> Anonymous
Not everyone is a flake you fags. When I make a plan I stick with it. I learn who I should make plans with and who I shouldn't. Some people don't do well with making plans, and can be huge faggots about it. Just figure out who is worth your time and spend time with that person.
>> Anonymous
>>384148

It isn't only me, she does it to everyone.

>>384105

Yeah, nah.
>> fashion diva - delivering bottled hot water to dehydrated babies !3wJfpCMhKc
I am one of those people
don't deal with us.

whenever someone tries make plans with me, all I think is "fuck! I don't know. I might be doing some shit... what am I supposed to think about hanging out with you from now until we do it. I might just forget that you exist, until you start bitching about how I didn't call you"

so yeah, don't bother
>> Anonymous
>>384971
Wow, I want to avoid you already.
>> Anonymous
ITT: Niggas.
>> Anonymous
Sometimes people just want a night to themselves, is there something wrong with this /fit/?

Sure, today i COULD have gone out and done something, but i just didnt feel like it, i was enjoying the quiet since its been a while since i had a quiet night. Besides, i got work in the morning.
>> NotAnotherAusfag !IYoSgG5c6U
> Personally I go to their house, kick the door in and tell them I will punch them in the face if they don't spend more time with me. Works most of the time (I'm a pretty bulky guy). Opinions /fit/?

I rip the door off it's hinges, but that's just personal preference I guess.
>> Anonymous
I used to be pretty lonely.

Then I met my BFF.


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