Hi /fit/I have been working out regularly for years now and consider myself in pretty good shape. However, I have a problem. It seems that the only girls that are attracted to me either smoke or don't like to work out. The girl I am currently dating is chubby and smokes. The only reason I didn't get rid of her is she happens to be alot younger than me which I find appealing. So /fit/, should I lower my standards or spend the rest of my life lonely? In b4 kill yourself etc.
Remember. No matter how much you get into shape you're still going to be anonymous.Don't expect much.
>>52315not the OP, but that's EXACTLY what I realized months ago. I got my own apartment and was hitting the gym extra hard, but I realized that I was the same asshole I was before I did any of this.
>>52325Well, you also have to look at it from the chick's perspective. If you get real buff looking, they'll assume you already have a girl, and it's up to you to take the initiative.
>>52327It's not that. A LOT of the people here have fucked up personalities in one way or another that would prevent being in a good relationship no matter how they look.Being buff doesnt turn you into Mr Charismatic right away. Especially if you've been in a self loathing pit for the past several years until you've become nothing but a bitter anti social asshole.
>>52325You can't just be buff and expect girls to dig you. Remember how when you were skinny/fat/ugly, you would look at frat fgts and jocks and think they were airheaded fucking assholes?Well don't let yourself be one of those.