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Mental health help Anonymous
So, as many 4channers, i have a deep hatred for women, fuelled by a painful past. I lived together with my ex for 5 years until she decided our relationship was going nowhere, even we were making plans about having a kid and buying a house just some weeks ago. Anyway, she asked me to leave six months ago.

Well, i started going to the gym just after the rupture. I told myself it would be a good idea to meet new people and gain some muscle, and in fact, i have never look better (5'9; 184 pounds, 14% bodyfat; i know, i could look a lot better). But i have now a new problem, a deep hate for woman. It seems the only thing that turns me on now are images and video of women getting "rapped", defiled, humiliated, beaten, etcc, etcc. O know everybody in 4chan is big on women degradation as a fetish. But things are starting t get out of hand because i'm actually acting like that on real life. I'm extremely tough when having sex, almost no preliminaries and i just pound them if i wanted to break them. I also treat the girls as meat. May sound hot for the mentally impaired but i'm starting to freak myself. Two days ago,i met a girl at a bar and took her home. I was being so rude at bed she asked me to stop and i saw on her eyes she was really really scared of me (i tried to choke her while having sex).

So, it's pretty obvious i need help before becoming a women abuser or a murderer. It's also obvious i'm taking revenge against my ex by being a pig disgusting with woman (in fact, she was a feminist, oh, no irony) Should i go see a shrink? A sexologist? Should i stop seeing women until i become a mentally stable human being? I'm puzzled about myself and what should i do (when not having sex, i'm normal toward woman; i was also perfectly charming and kind six months ago).

Pic related because two days ago, i scared myself too
>> Anonymous
What about trying to hook up some muscular girls at the gym?
You can choke them and they will choke you too! Happiness for everyone!
>> Anonymous
how about giving up on women.

I've come to realize 90% of women are money seeking, backstabbing whores, so I just pay for a (not-dirty) hooker now and again. It is cheaper and you don't have to go out of your way to do shit you don't want to.
>> Anonymous
>>94050

Gyms are one of the worst places to pick up women

>>94051

Well, i think all women are backstabbing monsters but i hope to be wrong. I also know i'm still very bitter and therefore, pretty biased. Hookers are a no-no, i want to stop all this choke/spit/humiliate crap.
>> Anonymous
I'm studying to be a clinical psychiatrist. This is a fairly common issue, but you need to get in some therapy. It won't seem like you're being told anything that you don't know at first, but it will help you work through it.

Anyways, question: Do you have a history of childhood abuse or trauma?
>> Anonymous
I hate women too. All wortless whores who make men play games to get sex.

$150 30 minutes. 9/10 girl. The solution.
>> Anonymous
>>94059
The problem is mostly the way women are cultured as they grow up. Even in the ones where they are slaves to their husbands;/fathers women are basically taught to be lying whores.

Try targeting girls who were raised by a single father.
>> Anonymous
Killing yourself really is the only option here.
>> Anonymous
>>94046
Transfer of your hatred isn't fair. If a guy beat you up in an alleyway, would you go out and beat someone else up for revenge? It wouldn't make sense. Go get help and sort yourself out.
>> Anonymous
Definitely see a psych ASAP and be totally honest with them. It's one thing to be pissy to your ex.
It's another thing entirely that you started doing that shit to some poor girl you picked up at the bar. It's a bad sign but it's good you realized something is wrong. I hope you get some help.
>> Anonymous
That's what you get for taking steroids. Enjoy your breasts.
>> Anonymous
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OP, psychological abuse is far better. With physical abuse they can press charges against you, and with the way America is today, women will always win unless your dad is a congressman.

Instead of beating them, make them fall in love with you. Eat nothing but oatmeal, chicken breasts, fruit and flax oil, get your abs, buy a fucking horizontally-striped shirt with a popped collar, become a 'hottie', and get into a relationship with as many girls as possible. Make them fall in love with you.

Then crush them. Grind them under heel like the vermin they are.

It's my plan. Maybe it'll work for you, too. ^_^
>> Anonymous
I sympathise. It could just be me inserting my own views into this, but I can't help but feel what you're going through is partially the result of the blood-boiling double standards present in relationships with young women.

But forget social speculation and scapegoating, right now it'll only serve to worsen everything. You say violent behaviour is spilling over into your sexual activity, right? Probably to satisfy, compensate for, perhaps even just to cope with, the sense of loss and anger retained from the breakup.

So define what it is that's making you angry. You mentioned your ex only briefly, and that's the foremost source of your problem. And if there's you find a better way to deal with said problem, there's less chance of you using sex as an outlet.
>> Anonymous
I've heard about this problem before and before I have heard that the answer was getting "closure" with your ex girlfriend.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
Just explain this fact to girls you pick up. They'll be initially attracted to the macho assholeness, but the ones who want to stay and try to 'heal your wounds' are probably your type. Just tell them you got problems and mention that you're seeing a therapist, and eventually you'll find a girl that will get you over your ex by essentially being perfect.
>> Anonymous
I've noticed that some girls I've been with have been the type that want to "fix" or "help" me, in a sense. Like Hammerknife said, tell them this, but not so bluntly. Be casual about it, share your emotions, and they'll probably dig you. Unless they're the high school cheerleader whore type.
>> Anonymous
You know you have a problem, why the hell can't you just stop?

Quit making excuses. Many people have taken shit from women before. You , on the other hand, decide to use your experiences as an excuse to cast all women out as being a certain way. All the while ignoring the quite obvious arguments against it.

The mind is an easy thing to manipulate. If you think good thoughts about women, as long as you think of the good of women, as long as you think of the times where women have been oppressed, then you will gain respect for them. However, if you continue doing the misogynistic shit you're going, you'll stay in the same state you are in. No excuses.
>> Anonymous
If you want to keep a woman in a steady relationship you pretty much have to engage in eroding her self-esteem on some level. Women are very vain and if you allow them to build inflated perceptions of themselves they'll eventually start looking for someone better than you.

People will try and tell you acting confident will somehow counteract this, but it's just a stupid blame-the-victim catch-all cop-out. As if you can somehow act so confident that women will overlook your faults. What the hell would that look like and how would it work, again?

Anyway just remember to every now and then make some backhanded comments about your girlfriends looks or personality every now and then. They'll eventually start to think that they're lucky to even get you and feel that they wouldn't even be able to find another man to dump you for.

It's sad it has to be this way, but if you're not the best looking guy around you pretty much have no option.
>> Anonymous
You are a pathetic little bitch and a coward, OP.

There is no excuse for your behavior, I don't care how much a girl broke your heart. Chicks don't go around beating the shit out of men with baseball bats because some guy played them and ditched them. This is un-fucking-acceptable and will land you in jail if you make a wrong move.

Man up and get over yourself, or I hope to god you try this with the wrong girl and she shanks you in the throat for it.
>> Anonymous
Op is back from the gym, god, i hate cardio.

Well, i wasn't really looking for advice here as i already knew at least half of the people would cheer me up for trying to choke and humiliate a woman. But i wanted to talk and i'm too ashamed to talk to my friends about this. I guess i will go to a shrink, i'm 28, i want a stable and meaningful relationship, and outbursts of over-sexualized violence against women is not going to help.

>>94060

I had a pretty happy life, neither trauma nor abuse. But i was a fatso as a kid, i started sports when i was 19 and i hated myself for it. I'm a little curious about my behaviour because all the hatred manifests itself as sexualized violence. On other circonstances, i'm very polite and normal. I guess i was psychologically castrated or something like that and now i'm trying to compensate or something like that. What a mess up.

>>94156

I wish i knew what makes me angry. Terrifying a girl as a power trip is one of the most pathetic things i have made on my life, if not the most. I guess i acted that way because i thought she didn't love me (pretty normal because we had met just 6 hours ago...) and she just was using me .... Damn, i'm starting to get pissed of again. I guess that's is. Lol, transfer.

>>94215

Even if i agree with you, you sound like a retarded trainer with their stupid motivational speeches: "just think about nice things 120 times a day and you will be happy", "write down all your objectives and read them 24 times a day", etc etc...
>> Anonymous
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OP, you're a faggot. Leave the moralfagging to this man
>> Anonymous
>>94268
It's fucking true. Happiness is only a state of mind. You could have everything you want and still get sad about how there are people in the world that have nothing, and how even if you can help some of them, you can never help all of them. Or, you can just live your fucking life and be happy for what you've got.
>> Anonymous
I don't abuse women. But i dont speak to them either really. i just don't get along.

Try hookers. A nice expensive one. She will be nice to you, and you can just fuck her and do whatever with out worrying about shit.
>> Anonymous
>>94361
god, how I would love cracking your skull open with hammer
>> Anonymous
>>94400
You are a dumb faggot.

Go ahead. Be MAAAAD. Waste your life BAAAAWWWWing over dumb shit and forget to live it.
>> Anonymous
>>94414
and just to make this clear, I'm referring to things you CAN NOT control. If you're fat and you want to make yourself better by losing weight, so be it. But there is no key to happiness. You can go from 350 to 150 and still find something to be depressed over.

This brings me to the conclusion that, deep down, subconsciously, some people want to be sad. I honestly don't know why, but it's just an observation I've made.
>> Anonymous
But "happiness being a state of mind" is just the kind of crap personal trainers and spinning trainers (god, i hate them) are always saying!
>> Offering help :-) Anonymous
Hey there, if you would like to talk I can offer you some sound advice that may be better carried out in a Q&A session over e-mail. If you would like to shoot me an e-mail at iamtheevilpenguin@yahoo.com (I made the name back in middle school - faggotty I know) I will be happy to have a conversation with you over an IM or just e-mail.

If you don't like that idea, my best suggestion is to spend the $275 (avg in VA) a visit and see a shrink or sexologist. It may be best to see a shrink first and then have them refer you. It's really not that uncommon at all to feel this way after such a terrible incident in your life, however it is understandable and a very good thing that you have realized what is happening and that you are willing to seek help.

btw- I know that most of you guys are bored middle aged overweight people who live double lives over the internets and the chans, so if you decide to spam my inbox because you're bored, its not going to have any effect, I won't be entertained or annoyed because its an alternative e-mail I rarely use. OP - just make sure you specify its you in some way in the subject line.

Hope all of you are having wonderful nights :-)
>> Offering help :-) Anonymous
>>94425
I've noticed this as well and it is a frustrating circumstance. However, on the bright side eventually that person will kill themself, see help, or in some way survive on and plague us with their terribly annoying presence.
>> Anonymous
>>94562

Damn, still alive, this board is so slow. Well, i'm seeing a shrink in five days. I live in Europe, therefore, it's partly covered by our delicious welfare system. Thanks for the offer but my mommy told me never to trust random strangers offering candy and help over the internet.
>> Anonymous
>>95177

Then why did you make this thread?
>> Anonymous
I went to a Catholic all boy school first years of my life

I've always thought that girls were magical and mysterious creatures who don't poop

After I got to college, met some girls.. I hate them I FUCKING HATE THEM ALL
>> Anonymous
a therapist man, just do it
>> Anonymous
OP - no shame in asking for help man. Obviously you realize this is pretty wrong and you need more help sorting this out than 4chan can serve. There are free mental health resources in many communities for those who are financially strapped... other people can actually use their health insurance.
>> Anonymous
I hate women as well.

I grew up fat, and shunned. Girls looked at me and laugh. I started going to the gym, lost immense amounts of weight, and I now toy with women's hearts for fun. I make them think I love them and then I find their stressing point. I push in a little bit more until their mentality breaks, and they cry the same tears that I cried every night as a lonely virgin weaboo. Those tears are the most precious things to me.

I don't even care about loving someone now...I only care about crushing the hearts that get dependant on me over time and wrecking horrible fragile mentalities

i'll make everyone pay.
>> Anonymous
>>95899
lol wut
>> Anonymous
>>94225
>>95899
Why don't you guys just fucking hookup already?
You're obviously met for each other. You can rejoice over tales of how you screwed a girl one day, then voluntarily hurt her feelings the next, all the while having sex with one another.
>> Anonymous
>>94046
meditate on something that doesn't anger you
>> Anonymous
Girls made my high school life completely miserable, and I'm one of them. I was laughed at every day for being tall, thin, "different," etc. etc. I wanted to kill myself every waking hour, and I tried multiple times -- half of my school days were spent in psychiatric wards.

I hate them, but I also hate men for falling under their asinine spell. Just be celibate forever, like me. I honestly don't give a shit about sex anymore, especially since men can't handle the fact that I don't homg orgasm and just incessantly try until it fucking hurts. I think it's embarrassing, primitive and simian and the thought of it disgusts me.

We have sperm banks now, there's no longer any need for idiotic mating rituals. You can carry on your line in that way if you really feel the need.
>> Anonymous
>>96001
7/10

I almost fell for it
>> Anonymous
>>96001

Haha I hear you, guys suck just as much as girls toward chicks that were ugly in highschool.

Luckily, I'm bisexual so I'm sticking to girls from now on.
>> Anonymous
>>96001
lol
>> Anonymous
What the hell, man? So a chick dumped you; so what? How can you possibly have time for all this bullshit?

Get your head straight and do something better with your time.
>> Anonymous
ITT idiots falling for the most obvious troll ever