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Anonymous
So question for the men and women of /fit/.

Since you got fit do the club sluts/jocks and fat nerd girls/perv fat guys flirt/ grab you more?

I used to be overweight and all the club sluts and decent girls out there gave me disgusting looks and even the cow fat nerd ugly girls gave me dirty looks because they apprently "had standards" too?

Now I go to clus or bars or even out to eat and I have these girls or club sluts buying me drinks and shit, and the fat ugly ones grabbing my fucking crotch or trying to kiss me randomly.

To be very honest it's pissing me off. Yeah I can probably pick out of the decent girls to get a fuck (which I do) and chose carefully becuase STDs are full of fail.. but I'm getting fucking fed up of all the bullshit.. ALMOST makes me want to get fat again... ALMOST.... hmmmm.. naw not really.. but it's fucking annoying.

So any of you guys or girls annoyed with this shit too?
>> Anonymous
I didn't go to clubs when I was fat. Now that I'm skinny, my mind set hasn't changed much, and I still don't go to clubs. I do get a lot of stares at my new body though from both women and men (goddamnit).
>> Anonymous
I don't get how people who were once fatass shut ins can suddenly 'go clubbing'. I'm still as fucking useless as I was when I was a fat bastard, albeit less depressed.
>> Anonymous
i dont dance with random chicks. the way i meet girls is through the whole "friend of a friend" deal. a friend introduces me to some girl he/she knows, then shes a viable option. i always though approaching totally random girls or vice verca is fucking lame. i just ignore them.
>> Anonymous
Yeah. It was a bit surreal at first, I was so used to them acting like I was invisible. Bang a few, but remember how shallow they are and how they had no interest in you until the superficial change. Maybe that matters to you, maybe it doesn't. But to me it suggests pretty vapid people.
>> Anonymous
Yea, it sucks when you've been on both sides of the fence and know how shallow people are. But...
>>315981
>even the cow fat nerd ugly girls gave me dirty looks because they apprently "had standards" too
You're just as bad.
>> Anonymous
I fucking love the vapid empty attention of the opposite sex. There's absolutely no way I'd want to be fat again. When I was fat, I was invisible. It was the worst feeling I ever felt.
>> blah
It's a bummer that in our society, if one is not having sex with another by twenty-one, they're out of the norm.

Wait to have sex until you find someone with whom it is worth sharing.

Some people are boring. If you're one of them, find hobbies or something. Only you can make you interesting.

Best,
blah
>> Anonymous
Just put on a shirt that makes it very clear that you don't have time for their bullshit.
>> Anonymous
>>316004
Fuck you dude, are you a goddamn newfag in real life? If they're suddenly interested and don't really give a shit, at least fuck them once and peace out. Shit bro, not everyone who looks at you is considering a longterm relationship.
>> Anonymous
>>316047
It's so funny how arbitrary the things that make us "interesting" are. The opinions, preferences, etc. It's so easy to change your taste in things.
>> blah
>>316065

Isn't it? We are nothing but a collection of biology with ideas and experiences. People tend to like people with more of those things.

So if you don't have ideas and experiences, get some.

Best,
blah
>> Anonymous
dude,just fuck em all.They dont want some bullshit relationship,odds are they wanna fuck you and never see you again so why shouldnt they fuck someone that looks good?
>> Anonymous
>>316072
I like how you tried saying something profound but aren't articulate enough to word it properly.
>> Anonymous
Hey it's OP, yeah i do fuck a few of em, but I really don't want STDs etc etc.. so i choose them carefully, but as of late I'm just fucking tired of all the attention, just thought some of you would be in the same mood/mindset tonight hehe.
>> Anonymous
Being attracted to someone who takes care of their appearance isn't shallow. It's fucking evolutionary biology.

Why would a girl want to have offsprings with a lardass lazy sack of shit?

Rejoice that you've improved yourself and fucking learn the rules of attraction.
>> Yoshi !ozOtJW9BFA
I'm annoyed at how much this post has just about nothing to do with health and fitness.
Please go back to /b/ you shit headed troll.
>> Anonymous
>>316260
>Being attracted to someone who takes care of their appearance isn't shallow. It's fucking evolutionary biology.

Actually, that's pretty much the definition of shallow, if it's the sole determinant of your attraction.
>> Anonymous
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I say enjoy it handsome....
>> Anonymous
>>316001

>i always though approaching totally random girls or vice verca is fucking lame. i just ignore them.

lrn2socialize you idiot. grow a pair while you're at it too.
>> Anonymous
I'm not by any means fit, but I'm starting to get there. and the change is... amazing. Its also disturbing, too. People that wouldn't notice me before are taking second glances. Female friends I have are flirting. Its a bit disheartening to know that even the ones that know me wouldn't give me a chance while I was starting my program, and are considering me now. Part of me understands its biological. Part of me hates that unless I'm hot, all I am is a fat friend who they would never touch.

But life is a paradoxical thing. We make the most of what we can, and the line between shallow/biological and the importance of it is for anyone to decide for themselves. I'm not sure myself yet.
>> Anonymous
>>316280
Wrong.

Being fit indicates many things. It shows that you work hard, have ambition, that you are healthy, strong and hence more able to protect a girl along with a host of other attributes.

It's not all about the nice body.
>> Anonymous
>>316324
Female here, I agree. You can fancy it up with big words for up to ten pages, but putting it simply it comes down to women being weak and wanting someone strong. (Yes it looks good too)
>> Anonymous
correct ways to respond:

A. Troll detected
B. I don't believe you lost weights and get hit on by gurlz all the time, enjoy your internet fantasy fatty.
C. Pics or you're still fat

Lrn2/4chan people
>> Anonymous
I don't go to clubs.

I'd rather get high out of my mind and completely shitfaced WITHOUT a bunch of strangers who want to take my wallet around, thanks.

>>316324
You are referring the 'real' definition of fit.
Many women, and quite a few men would say that the man who only does biceps and abs is fit.
This is patently false.
>> Anonymous
>>316336
But aren't those things themselves indications of hard work? Or is it really easy to have biceps and abs?
>> Anonymous
>>316334

The only relevant post in this thread.

You niggas got trolled. Hard.