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Anonymous
KK, as a woman I will put in my two cents.
First of all YES GET HER WET. I have been torn by a tiny guy and had sex with a huge guy and been fine. It has to be very wet down there. Don't be embarassed to pick up some lube. Motion lotion is fuckin awesome, it is flavored and warms up with touch or if you breath. I refuse to give a blowjob without it, it makes it more fun for the girl, Hint Hint. Anyhow I got off track. Spit doesn't work as a good lube no matter what you see in porn. It dries up to quickly.
So lube it up, get it nice and wet, and take your time go slow the first couple times, then start slow before you speed up the next few times after that, that's it. You would be amazed at what a woman can handle. But it takes time for it to stretch a bit. She may not be a virgin but if she hasn't had much action she will be tight and it will tear.
And lastly, get new condoms, try different types there are lots of non latex ones out there, or both of you get tested for stds and use birth control. I am gonna admit I never used condoms, but I also got knocked up at 21 by a guy I didn't know well. Pulling out is not gauranteed, learn from my mistakes.
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