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Anonymous
I'm filing this under the RELATIONSHIP HEALTH category, therefor OK to post about it here.

There is this girl I like who I've known for about two years. We aren't terribly close, but we've hung out a lot and overall I really enjoy being aroud her. She's not terribly attractive, average at best, but she's pretty smart and a strong minded person. A couple qualities I like in a girl.

Anyways, last summer I was hanging out with her and a friend of hers (we were driving in my car) and we were all talking and somehow the subject of sex came up. I was like, I'd totally do you. Keep in mind that I'm known to make ridiculous ass comments. She just glanced at me and said my name somewhat low toned. I was like, whats wrong with that? That's about all I remember.

I tried hanging out with her over that sumer a couple times but she was always busy with work. I eventually got fed up and decided she has no interest in me aside from hanging out now and then. I deleted her number off my phone to save her from me bothering her any more.

Fast forward to a month ago. She finds me and adds me on facebook. we catch up and such. she says i make her laugh. she says she'll be my drinking buddy on my 21st bday. then after a week she messages me again and asks how i was doing. then we chat some more. that was about 2 weeks ago.

SO /FIT/, HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A GAL LIKES YA?
>> Anonymous
gb2/b/

What the fuck does this have to do with health and fitness.
>> Anonymous
Probably when she gives you a head job, when shes drunk!!! DUH
>> Anonymous
Work it out for yourself, this isn't the place.
>> Anonymous
The OP says:
>>she was always busy with work
>>Fast forward to a month ago. She finds me and adds me on facebook. we catch up and such
You can start by asking her (directly) wtf was up w/ the long period of silence?

>>she says she'll be my drinking buddy
Wow, good for her. Doesn't talk to you for over a year and is now looking to score free drinks. Don't worry about whether she likes you or not, you decide how YOU'RE going to proceed.
>> Anonymous
>>subject of sex came up. I was like, I'd totally do you
It was at this moment you blew your chance of fucking this chick.
Enjoy your FRIENDZONE
>> Anonymous
>>452967
truth.

dont ever make it obvious that you need or want a girl. that's the number one thing that kills any chance of getting with her. they always love the thrill of the chase, as do men.

but keep in mind when i say don't make it obvioius you want to fuck her, that doesn't mean you go "meh" anytime she implies sexual activity between you two. just don't blurt out OMG I WOULD SO DO U LOL.

it's all about finesse, ya know?
>> Anonymous
just assume that she likes you