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Anonymous
She probably likes you for being nice, but you're also probably too soft for her. Honestly, girls don't want to date another girl in a man's body. Opposites attract, she needs a mentally stronger person as a SO and soft people like you as friends...that's how the world works.
And don't start saying "blah blah blah she's attracted to someone who mistreats her". That's crap. He probably treats her like a gentlemen, but he's strong emotionally and can support her.
I only say this because I've known guys like you who I honestly would JUMP at the chance to marry, but you're just TOO soft and it doesn't work in a relationship. Most girls need someone who will be there for them during hard times and be able to provide solutions, not just pat them on the back and keep agreeing and then offer to buy them chocolate.
I'm not saying you need to be a jerk, just be a more firm MAN, that's what WOMEN like. The "I don't want to ruin our friendship" thing is partly true, but it's also a reworded way to say "You're BETTER as a friend because you're too soft, I look at you more like one of my girlfriends than a potential lover".
Sure, you'll meet someone who is compatible with you, but she'll likely be the more dominant one mentally and emotionally. Two soft people don't make a relationship, neither do two tough people.
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