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Sexual uges Anonymous
How the fuck do I stop them? I fapped today after not fapping for a week and a half. Why? Because I was having sexual fantasies about a fatchick that I sat next to in my dormitory lounge while I was doing homework. I don't even know her fucking name. After I fapped everything was clear and I went on to do all of my homework easy as pie. It really bothers me when I'm trying to get things done but thoughts about sex are always inside of my head. Usually I can push them out but something about fucking that lardass with a wethole made me feel so sick to my stomache that I needed to rid myself of that image.


tl;dr how the fuck do I get rid of these urges?

pic related, I feel nothing when I look at it.
>> Anonymous
>>31730
I once fapped outside in -10C.
>> play !3rZQiXcf5A
Masturbating or having sex is healthy.
>> Anonymous
do you want to feel attracted to non-fatfucks or what? you are shitty with words
>> Anonymous
>>31734

I don't want to have any thoughts about sex at all. They're keeping me from doing work. When I pass a girl in the hallway first thing that comes to mind is would I fuck her and how. Keep in mind that my thoughts jump from whatever I was thinking about before to "should I fuck her".

I need that to stop.
>> Anonymous
>>31739

I don't care, I can't fap every single time I get an urge.

>>31740

Sorry, I'm only looking for a way to not feel anything even after weeks of not masturbating or having sex.
>> play !3rZQiXcf5A
http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/8-17-2005-74995.asp
Might help?
>> Anonymous
>>after not fapping for a week and a half.
Fap more regularly, you'll get less frequent urges.
>> Anonymous
>>31752

I stopped doing that because I feel tired and shitty during the week when I do it often.

>>31750

Thank you but it doesn't help. I've tried mantras before.
>> Anonymous
just fap once a day and then go to sleep

and fap to really sexy porn stars so other girls are just like "meh"
>> Anonymous
>>31756
So do it once every 2-3 days. I never said do it every day. Just more often than every 1.5 weeks. o-O;
>> Anonymous
Imagine yourself burning the though from your mind. Visualize yourself burning the piece of paper with that thought over a candle's flame, take a deep breath, from the stomach, not from your chest. And then get back to doing whatever you need to do.
>> Anonymous
Kinda comes with the territory of being a man, dude. Sorry.
>> i_love_ice_cream !!SubxV2SqTOY
Once a night before bed usually keeps me perfectly fine. Sometimes I can go weeks without it, though. I think that's because I sometimes get swamped with work or other stressful things that I just can't keep any sexual thoughts in my mind. But when I finally blow a load after that period of time it feels awesome.

So I guess maybe finding something stressful to occupy your mind could work? I don't think that's very healthy though in comparison to just relieving the pressure when you need to.

>>31738
Fapping at the temperature is impressive enough, but outside?

What the hell were you doing outside?
>> RSI guy !HjbWRiSTJ.
>>31720
subconscious control is hard. you can influence it , but that's a headache I don't want to delve into now.
>> Anonymous
Sleep in the nude, then fap a little in the morning when you wake up with the inevitable hardon. Every few days, fap to orgasm. You don't get listless like if you fap to much because you only come every few days, but you don't drive yourself to distraction in some futile attempt to become a sexless machine.
>> Anonymous
Dude, I'm a chick and horny all the time. I just take a few minutes to take care of business, clean-up and get back to whatever I was doing. When was the last time you had a regular sex partner? Sometimes no amount of fapping is gonna take care of the need to be in physical contact with another person...you just gotta wait for that to pass.