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#3) Once in a relationship, you should absolutely endeavor to expend your sexual energy on her rather than into a Kleenex. But understand not all relationships are rainbows and blowjobs. Sometimes she goes away on vacation. Sometimes she "has a headache". Sometimes you'll get into one of those aforementioned fights that lead to leg-lockdown. All men who've had relationships know these are inevitable and must be dealt with since they're unavoidable. And all men deal with it cause thats what we do: we get shit done. If you believe porn is stopping you from enjoying a healthy sexual relationship, by all means re-organize your priorities. Get that finger off the left mouse button and inside her instead. Blaming porn for standing in your way is just an immature way of rationalizing your lack of willpower.
Seriously guys, all potshots at your manliness aside, masturbation is a pleasure best taken in moderation, just like any other pleasure in life. As you grow into adults, I assure you you'll wonder just wtf you were thinking willfully choosing sexual frustration and blue balls over relief and practice increasing your sexual endurance (which the women appreciate by the way).
If you absolutely must do so, every time you feel bad after jerking it use the shame as motivation to have a woman's hand do it next time and then take steps to make it a reality. However don't think you're broken because you feel the need to do it, don't think that its killing your motivation to socially approach women and definitely don't think it's anyone or anythings fault but your own when you choose pictures and video over the real thing.
If you want to be a repressed rapist in training, stop fapping. If you want to be a healthy male who chooses to reward The Powers That Be's incredible gift of the female form with your approval, unzip, relieve, clean up, and get to work chasing Jane's cleavage.
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