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Anonymous
Ok /fit/, let's be frank and to the point. I've never had an orgasm in my life. I'm on my fourth sexual partner since I've started fucking, two have been extremely experienced, and two have been girls. None of these guys have made me cum. I can't even have an orgasm when I masturbate.
tl;dr: What's wrong with me?
>> Anonymous
needs moar SQUATZ
>> Anonymous
you're probably not stroking your penis fast enough
>> Anonymous
Nothing is wrong with you. You're the prototypical female.
>> Anonymous
>>189607
You need to do squatz while having sex.
>> HypnoticDan
You may be so hung up about it that you've developed a neurosis and can't. Maybe try smoking dope first? That should calm you down a little.

Of course it could be that you haven't experimented enough, found something that really turns you on, or that your partners were bad.

Another idea is taking viagra. Some women (I am assuming you are femanon here) report that it increases sensitivity and sexual arousal.
>> Anonymous
>>189607
have you tried killing to get a hard, it works wonders for some people
>> Anonymous
If you can't orgasm from masturbating with a vibrator, there's no hope a guy can do it for you. And yes, too much mental pressure will prevent it.
Start with a small soft quiet vibrator and just play around. You need to actually learn how your vag works. Don't bother with penetration, learn to orgasm from just stimulating the clit.
>> Anonymous
>>189615
>femanon
>HypnoticDan
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>> Anonymous
>>189614
squatz always relevant
>> Anonymous
>>189630
I've never used a vibrator. Truth be told, I'm kind of shy about playing with myself.
>> Anonymous
i think you just solved the question, you are shy about yourself.

get in there with your fingers and let rip, play with a vibrator or anything dick shaped. find your gspot, find the clitoris, stimulate while listening to some hot music or watching a movie with some sexy dudes in it.
>> Anonymous
I guess I'll have to hit up my local Adam & Eve's to buy some supplies, then...
>> Anonymous
oh some cool little tidbit of info, many women experience an orgasm when doing leg lifts in those captain chair/dip station things at the gym.

they're called "coregasms"

http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=
decode.her&conitem=ade8fb6857102110VgnVCM20000012281eac____

i know its on fags health but i've read this many other places too
>> Anonymous
>>189650
Hanging leg raises, huh? I'll look into this.
>> Anonymous
>>189639
There's no reason not to really. Just stupid social standards. You're missing out on a lot of fun, and guys will definitely appreciate it when you learn to enjoy sex more.
I think the reason some girls hate masturbating is because of a sense of shame for being alone. But it's crazy to expect you're going to be able to have good sex if you have no idea what you're doing. Practice makes perfect.
You'll have to learn to get over being shy about it. Stay under the covers, and make sure it's a quiet vibrator, preferably with a range of settings for strength. You'll have a hard time learning anything with just your fingers since they're pretty limited in what they can do.
And part of getting over being shy has to do with getting over your insecurities and finding yourself sexy. Guys aren't going to think your sexy if you don't think you are.