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female sex question Anonymous
POsted this on /b/ but think nobody has good advice here. Cumdumpster here. I have had sex 6 times now (total) and I am still really sore afterwards. My boyfriend is really big and we fuck for a long time without stopping.. maybe 45 minutes at least.

it hurts the most when he first enters me and then feels much better. we are using condoms and used KY the last time.

tl;dr: Is it normal to be sore for a few days afterwards the first few times? how long did you wait between having sex? how many times before it stopped being painful initially?
>> Anonymous
It's normal. Give it a while and your clunge will loosen.
>> Anonymous
>>427144

my bf says it is normal too, but I want to know how many times? 10 - 15 more fucks before I start to get used to it? also how long should I wait? it takes 3 or 4 days before I stop feeling sore. should I fuck again while I am sore to get more used to it, or should I wait until I'm not sore again to fuck?
>> Anonymous
>>427142
>POsted this on /b/

Good advice? On /b/? More like Tits or GTFO.

But aside from that, the more you have sex the more natural it'll become, so do your boyfriend a favor and sex him up everytime you see him. Eventually you won't be hurting at all.
>> Anonymous
>>427142
Is that you OP in the pic?
If so, being asian explains it. Good luck with the small vagoo, and the especially small anal phincter.
>> Anonymous
>>427150

He said that also, but in a nicer way. Basically he said the combination of him being over seven inches and me being small (I'm just under 5 foot and Asian) that it might take some time to get used to. When he does me from behind he says he can feel just the tip of my cervix.. I can feel him hitting something new from behind.

Can any other cumdumpsters weigh in with their advice? I would like to hear from another woman who has had a similar experience. Right now it hurts and then feels great. How long did it take before sex started to feel reeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaallllly great (with no hurt) ?
>> Anonymous
If you keep boning whilst sore you'll end up with Cistitis.
>> Anonymous
>>427150
gb2/b/
>> Anonymous
Try some foreplay and fingering to loosen up.
>> Anonymous
>>427157
Sex isn't REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAALLY great. It's just pretty good.
>> Anonymous
>>427149

yes - /b/ was useless. thank you for the reply.
>> Anonymous
>>427159
gb2beinganewfag
>> Anonymous
>>427161

We have, but probably not enough. I'm soaking wet before we even have our clothes off. That is a good idea though, even if I'm wet to get fingered so I start to loosen up.
>> Anonymous
Any other women on here who can give me their advice please? It really hurts at first, and then feels great. How long until it stops hurting and what is a good way to prevent it from hurting as much?
>> Anonymous
Howabout buying a vibrator or something similar to his size? That way you can gently "train" at home?
>> Anonymous
>>427170

Not a chance :( I live at home and my parents are so traditional they do not even know I am having sex. I can't risk them finding it. :( That is a good idea though.
>> Anonymous
>>427170

Besides, doesn't it get a lot easier after the first few times?
>> Anonymous
I dated an asian girl and about after the 25th time or so she started to get looser. We had sex like 36 times that month when she was down here. i couldn't really tell if she was enjoying it or if it hurt her because she made those awful faces. She told me to shut up and keep going when i would ask her if it felt ok.
>> Anonymous
no other cumdumpsters on here? :( :( :(

PLEASE? Think back to the first time you ladies started having sex... there is SO much going on, so many new things. I really would appreciate your advice for you ladies who has also been through this. :( :( :(
>> Anonymous
>>427165
gb2suckingcock
>> Anonymous
>>427174
just stick with it, and ask him to be gentle. don't overdo it or do it too often
>> Anonymous
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rough sex and sometimes during my period I get sore. it does go away after a few days though. I can only assume it gets better with time though - maybe ask your doctor if it persists for a long time?
>> Anonymous
i really don't like the way you call your self cumdumpster... i know that you are just following the 4chan rules, but it hurts my eyes to see a young lady calling her self that, even on anonimous board...
>> Anonymous
>>427190

I call myself a cumdumpster too, sometimes I like to feel a little slutty
>> Anonymous
>>427186
that's a good idea
>> Anonymous
>>427190

>>i really don't like the way you call your self cumdumpster... i know that you are just following the 4chan rules, but it hurts my eyes to see a young lady calling her self that, even on anonimous board...

>> even on anonimous board...
>> anonimous board...
>> anonimous

>> anonimous
>> Anonymous
>>427190
>i know that you are just following the /b/'s rules

Fixed.

/fit/ is only prejudice against fatties, women are welcome.
>> Anonymous
>>427195
damn spelt it wrong... im a russianfag... :)
>> Anonymous
>>427186

thank you. he is being very gentle and caring. once he is inside me it feels so good that I do not want him to stop, so when I dry up we continue but use KY (the shortest he has ever fucked me was forty-five minutes of penetration and pumping).

He says that might be the problem too, using KY, so the next time we have sex he is going to end much sooner. I like him on top of me, but I want to get so it doesn't hurt.

It sorta just feels like a general soreness down there, and walking is a little weird for a while. Does that sound normal?
>> Anonymous
>>427190

if I don't call myself that everyone says I am a newfag and nobody will answer my question.
>> Anonymous
maybe buy a some lube... also let him finger you, so that you might loosen up a bit before sex
>> Anonymous
>>427201
yes it does. also, you may want to try other positions once you feel more comfortable to change the depth of penetration as well
>> Anonymous
>>427190
lolfaggotlol
>> Anonymous
>>427205

We are using lube when I start to dry up. As I said above he thinks that might be part of the problem, as we are having having penetration and pumping sex for around an hour each time. He says he is going to come when I dry out and have shorter sessions until I get used to him. Thing is, it feels so good once we start I do not want to stop.
>> Anonymous
>>427201

Why not try being on top? That way you can control how much you're getting.
>> Anonymous
>>427190
She's not going to sleep with you
>> Anonymous
>>427206

Thank you. I have been kinda worried and it is nice to hear another woman's perspective. My bf is being very caring and considerate, but it does not substitute for another woman's advice.
>> Anonymous
and before anyone says I should ask my mom you need to understand I come from a very traditional Asian family. I was born in the USA, but my parents have very different views of relationships. They would be very upset if they knew I was having sex (I am only 19).
>> Anonymous
one thing to keep in mind is that oral beforehand can definitely help with being ready enough to accommodate him.

Another thing is that I've heard that the whole vagina area swells up after orgasm, so you can try something new and attempt to NOT have an orgasm. really. But, I can't last 45 minutes without an orgasm, so I can't say that from experience. =)
>> Anonymous
>>427212
that's too bad >.<
>> Anonymous
>>427217

I have only had an orgasm twice out of the six times, and that was when I played with myself while he pumped me. We are still working on figuring that out.

Is being able to have sex for an hour normal? My boyfriend does brag a little how he has "excellent control." We pretty much only stop when he says he wants to, or I tell him I am starting to get sore and then he orgasms. He says most men can only last 15 minutes at most. Is that true or is he just trying to butter me up?
>> Anonymous
Can any other ladies weigh in please? I am feeling better with this advice, but want to hear from other cumdumpsters who want to help a new woman out.
>> Anonymous
>>427221
an hour does seem like an awful lot... also i'm a virgin so i can't really say :)
>> Anonymous
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too much text ;-)

any other cumdumpsters have any ideas ?
>> Anonymous
>>427224

I didn't believe him at first until I made sure to notice on his alarm clock what time he entered me and when we finished. It's been over an hour each time except for once which went for forty-five minutes
>> Anonymous
>>427196
>>women are welcome
Speak for yourself, newfag.

Sage for massive faggotry.
>> Anonymous
>>427221

this is actually true. average sex lasts about 15 minutes, especially if they don't have a whole lot of experience. my boyfriend usually only lasts about 10, maybe 20 if we already did it once.

Other girlfriends have told me that after about half an hour it gets tiresome for them and they want to stop at that point, but yes - your boyfriend does have good control. Try limiting it to 2 20 minute sessions and see how that goes
>> Anonymous
>>427221
its normal to require clitoris stimulation in order to get a orgasm for females

as for lasting long.... ehh... its not that uncommon for males who are interested in pleasing their partner before themselves :P
>> Anonymous
>>427231

thank you. things are pretty new and a little scary in my life right now, so it is nice to hear from other women. :) :)
>> Anonymous
>>427227

goback2/b/
>> Anonymous
>>427239

OP here. Thanks -- I'm trying to get advice without these jerks being mean. I think /b/ sucks too.
>> Anonymous
also, is seven and one quarter inches long and four and a half inches around big? I measured him? he says he is above average and that is part of the reason why it is taking longer to get used to him, but is he just psyching me out and giving me a placebo to make me think he is big?
>> Anonymous
sorry for so many questions. new ex-virgin here :( :( :(
>> Anonymous
Honestly...

You don't just magically "losen up" or "get used to" after few rough fucks. If it really hurts afterwards then you're doing something wrong.
>> Anonymous
Ladies --- so back to my original question. I am getting

1) finger more before sex
2) has sex less long
3) do not have sex when sore
4) give it some time


Anything else I should do? THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL OF YOUR HELP!!!!
>> Anonymous
>>427248

he is slightly longer but not as wide as normal
>> Anonymous
>>427172
You must have a hairbrush.
>> Anonymous
>>427260

as I said before, he is not being rough, at least I do not think he is being rough. he is being gentle and we go between slow to fast pumping, but nothing too rought (at least I do not think so)
>> Anonymous
>>427260

she says it feels really good and doesn't want to stop him once he starts
>> PedroBear !rM2INpedro
Hi OP, what preparation are you doing, if you don't mind me asking? This is not uncommon, and there are many ways to help yourself, just need a bit more information.
>> Anonymous
>>427268

Fail. Looks to me his girth is smack on average: http://www.average-penis-size-chart.com/average-penis-girth.html


his length is at the top of the curve though:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_percentile.svg
>> Anonymous
>>427273

Thank you. We are kissing, making out for maybe 15 minutes while we get undressed. A little fingering (I think he is making sure I am wet). I get very wet before our clothes are even off!

The last time we had sex he wanted me to sit on him so I could control everything. The other 5 times we did missionary where he went in very slowly. It takes 3 or 4 minutes before it stops hurting, even when I was on top the last time.

Not sure what other info you want, but that's how we start off.
>> Anonymous
>>427273

What are some of the ways I can help myself? Please let me know.
>> Anonymous
>>427248
How'd you measure, did you use Bone Pressed Erect Length?

Like, did you push the ruler against the pubic bone?
>> Anonymous
>>427302

His curves upwards a lot, so I used his cloth tape measure to curve it along his penis. The width I just wrapped it around his penis. He was laughing the whole time and said it was tough to stay hard.
>> PedroBear !rM2INpedro
>>427283
That's great, and also you are off to a good start there.

Focus on being on top for now, you'll get to control the pressure inside you. Have bf sit in a chair and straddle him. Vary facing him, and with your back to him, this'll make it more fun as well.

Grapeseed oil is your friend, use loads of it. Flavour it with ylang ylang essential essence, it's also a relaxant.

Do you drink? Start now. Share a glass of red wine and relax.

Learn to CONSTRICT then RELAX yourself as you ease him inside you. Ease down slowly, CONSTRICT to get used to his size in you, then slowly you will RELAX as you take more and more of him inside you slowly.
>> Anonymous
>>427307

thank you. 1 thing.. wouldn't constricting make it even more painful? your advice sounds very knowledgable but I do not understand that constrict part (I understand the relaxing part :) :) ) can you pls explain why I would want to constrict?
>> Anonymous
>>427142
/fit/ is filled with newfags.

OP:
[ ] tits
[ ] gtfo
>> Anonymous
>>427315
hurr durr

[ ] durr
[ ] hurr
>> Anonymous
Don't worry, bitch.

Keep having sex, let his dick strech you out into roast beef so no one will want your ass anymore.

I don't think you have a boyfriend, enjoy your hand.
>> Anonymous
OP here. The mean trolls are starting to come out.

I am going to wait for a reply to my question about constricting at>>427314but no new questions. You mean trolls are starting to ruin the thread. Hopefully nice-anon will answer my follow up questions.

THANK YOU ladies for taking the time to answer my questions.
>> PedroBear !rM2INpedro
>>427314

Sure, no problem. The pain you are experiencing is because you are not using you muscles in the way they like, in effect it's like you are trying to carry a heavy weight with straight arms, i.e. your muscles are going to be pretty sore afterward.

Purchase a much smaller dildo. Practice with the dildo (get bf to help, boys LOVE this sort of thing), you should have no trouble getting it inside you, and when you do, find your muscles around it and start flexing them. Constrict-relax-constrict-relax, rest, repeat. Do it like a gym exercise, slowly find the muscle, and then gradually increase the reps. You could even use bf's finger, and he could give you feedback. Actually, vary it between the two, it'll be more fun.

TL;DR? Constrict-relax is what your body wants you to do, just relaxing is what's causing the strain.
>> Anonymous
>>427319
thank you for proving my point.

Every thread started by a 'cumdumpster' is on page 1 for hours and gets many replies from all of the new/fit/fags.

Crawl into a ditch and die faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>427325

Thank you nice-anon. I am going to stop the thread now, because the mean trolls are coming out. I appreciate your help.
>> Anonymous
LUUUUUBE. LUUUUUUUBE. LUUUUUUUBE.
It works.

Also: Luke, use the force, before, intercourse.
>> Anonymous
>>427157
Cumdumpster here..lol..i hate that
I have been having sex every second night basically for almost 2 years and even now if i go like a week without it (at that time of the month) the next time i do it it hurts a bit. I remember the first 7-8 times i did it i bled a little but after a few months (maybe 20 times) it never hurt anymore
>> Anonymous
>>427327

Oh man, massively troll'd, and butthurt about it.
>> sage sage
ITT Lame Asian Whore Doesn't Know How To Fuck.

Some1 Halp PLOX

Also, SAGE
>> Anonymous
>>427330

Thank you. Your advice makes things less scary.
>> Anonymous
>>427327
needs to reread the rules
>> sage sage
>>427330
>>Cumdumpster here..lol..i hate that

No one's twisting your nipples to be here, bitch
GTFO ma /fit/...OP too.
>> PedroBear !rM2INpedro
>>427337
Don't be scared! This is common as anything, work through it with your bf, you'll find it's just like any other physical activity you need to practice before you get good at it. A couple of weeks of practice and you'll be ready to take the sort of pounding that makes your head explode, so worth the effort!
>> Anonymous
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>>427337
by the way..Im 19 too..but obviously I started having sex at 17(one month off 18) Im not a ho or anything XD. As some others said..being asian might mean it's different for you but id say its just coz you are new at it...good luck...get lots of practice! hehe
>> Anonymous
>>427340
shutup dumbass
>> sage sage
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>>427355
Didn't hurt your precious feelings, did I? Have some moar.
>> Anonymous
>>427363
nobody as worthless as you are could ever hurt my feelings, good luck EVER getting a girlfriend you perverted fat freak
>> Anonymous
>>427363

Sage is not the spice sage. You're the newfag here.
>> Anonymous
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>>427365
I think you just lost the game.
>> Anonymous
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>>427368
durp. You mean how it comes from "sageru". I think you just lost the game too.
>> Anonymous
>>427142

Practice makes perfect cutie.
>> Anonymous
>>427368
WEEABOO DETECTED
>> Anonymous
>>427186

Is that you? You are very pretty
>> Anonymous
>>427413

thanks =)
>> Anonymous
>>427417

so is it you? if so, please post more. you're gorgeous. I love pretty brunettes
>> Anonymous
>>427422

I'm the guy that said thanks. I just like random compliments, even if they're not about me.
>> Anonymous
>>427424

haha.. well said. Please post more of yourself
>> Anonymous
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>>427425

of me? I'm a guy.
>> Anonymous
>>427365
Target of your weak RAGE here. I know I shouldn't reply...>>427334>>427340>>427374
and>>427370took care of you already.

>>Worthless
How old are you again? clueless cumdumpster < Employed 26 yo.

>>ever hurt my feelings
You seem pretty butthurt already.

>>getting a girlfriend
No need, I'm married.

>>you perverted fat freak
not fat, but thank you.

PROTIP: If you'd just shut up and fuck your b/f, you'd find out that the pain diminishes with time/moar fucking. Ask your friends (if you have any that aren't currently stabbing you in the back/plotting to steal your b/f) for advice b4 coming to /fit/. Thank you for trying and good luck.
>> Anonymous
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Okay I'm a cumdumpster... Except I'm 5'7" and German/Cherokee mixed. My gyno said I had an unusually small vagina, he uses the pediatric tools for me... I've lived with my boyfriend for 4 years and sex hasn't started to feel good yet. He's big though. I do have a dildo but it's like, 5 inches long and really small circumference. I know what you're talking about, I think... it just feels really raw and stretched for a few days afterwards...?

I know I'm like, no help, but you wanted to hear from another set of tits.
>> Anonymous
19 year old Cumdumpster here that dealt with the same shit. You just have to keep working on stretching yourself, or find a smaller boyfriend. Your fingers are probably smaller, so stretch yourself until your boyfriend can fit two fingers and so he can help you more. However, this is not a one-day thing, you have to do it for a while. So just have him finger you until you can enjoy it more without repercussion.
>> Anonymous
>>427435

no, is helpful knowing I am not only one.

sometimes I feel I lucked out, having a big boyfriend.. just wish I could get used to him faster
>> Anonymous
>>427435

ps. yes. perfect description of how it feels afterwards
>> Anonymous
>>427499

because I live at home, I only have sex with him once or twice a week. is that enough, or do I have to do it more often each week?
>> Anonymous
>>427435

ps. out of sheer curiosity, how big is your bf?

I don't think they use pedo tools on me at the gyn, but I have never asked. he did say I was small, but dunno if exceptionally small or just small (I am just below five-foot in height)
>> Anonymous
>>427517
Yes, that's how I was too. Don't worry about it, just don't expect it to be better too fast. And you can always continue stretching yourself.
>> Anonymous
>>427519

I've never measured, but I'd guess somewhere around 7 inches? He's not huuuge, but he's bigger than average, and that's just tragic for me. It doesn't help if I have sex more or less often, either. Honestly? For me I'd always assumed it's psychological. I've never heard any other girl complaining about sex hurting like this!
>> Anonymous
>>427578
Speaking of it being psychological, make sure to also try really hard to relax while you stretch and while you have sex. It'll make all the difference.
>> Anonymous
>>427574

part of me does not want to do that, because I understand boys like it when a girl is tight, yes?


>>427578

I think above average but not painful is the best to have. You and I are in good situations :-)

Thank you for the reply, it helps hearing from other ladies.
>> Anonymous
>>427585

My bf keeps telling me that over and over again also. Doing my best to stay relaxed, but it is sometimes hard to because I get so excited.
>> Anonymous
You feel better if he cums inside you.
>> Anonymous
>>427578

ps. how old are you? 19 here.
>> Anonymous
>>427434
Thanks but i am married too.
>> Anonymous
An hour is a long time, I could do a woman three times by then >.>
>> Anonymous
I feel like I'm beating a dead horse now, but anyone know how many days I should wait between? Wait until the soreness is gone or get back on, to try and further stretch me out?
>> Anonymous
>>427883
yes, wait until the soreness is gone, or just otherwise prolonging the soreness, up to you
>> WS
Seriously /fit/, how do you always fall for these trolls?
DO YOU SERIOUSLY THINK A GIRL IS GOING TO ASK A BUNCH OF FAT STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET FOR VAGINA HELP?
>> Anonymous
>>427898

OP here. I was indeed asking WOMEN for help, but I have not been back in a few hours. My last post was 427519 until 427896.

Some other anon pretended to be me AFTER 427519 and BEFORE 427896 but I was not going to say anything because it didn't take away from my questions.

My
>> WS
>>427907

Hey troll, shut the fuck up.
>> Anonymous
>>427908

I'm not a troll
>> Anonymous
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>>428074
>> Anonymous
is he circumcised? i hear those hurt more.
>> Anonymous
>>428092

I AM NOT A TROLL


>>428142

yes, he is. Why would it hurt more? Wouldn't it hurt less because there is less skin on a circumcised penis?
>> WS
>>428146
>>428142
samefag
>> Anonymous
>>428142
are you dense ?
>>427142
we are using condoms and used KY the last time.>>427142
>> Anonymous
Ok, I didn't read everything, but here goes:

Femnon here. My fiance is 7.5 inches long. I'm 5'3 and we've had sex countless times over the last few years. I remember the first few times sucked (we were both virgins) because we didn't know what the fuck we were doing. He was big, I was too tight (and being on birth control pills really didn't help shit). But, eventually, it got easier and we figured shit out. We actually laugh about it now and wonder how we ever figured out how to do anything.

I will admit that a few times, no matter how wet or riled up I am, he has hit (what I assume to be) the "back" of me and it feels like how I'd assume it'd feel for a guy to get kicked in the nuts. Sucks, but there you go.

By the way, I did see you mention that you'd only cum 2 out of the last 6 times (I think?). Hint: Not all women can cum from straight sex. Most of us need clit play too. You can get on top, and that way, control the motion so you can get used to it easier and he has his hands free to play with your clit. Another way is that he's on top, but he leans back (make sure he does it slowly and tell him to stop if it hurts). You can move on him as if you were on top, and again, it frees his hands up to play with your clit.

Just make sure to tell him to slow down or stop if anything hurts too much. It will take some time and it's different for each person. Some people are good to go after the first five times, others take hundreds of times before they loosen up.

Good luck!
>> Anonymous
>>427142
>My boyfriend is really big

>>427157
over seven inches

lol
>> Anonymous
Damn it. I'm lucky if my fiance will last more than 2 minutes.

I did not have a problem with pain and sex. I trained myself with a vibrator beforehand so as to avoid it.
>> sage Anonymous
FAGGOT LOL
>> Anonymous
>>428315

Thanks femnon. Just so you know the 2 times I organismed from playing with myself while he pumped me. He almost made me orgasm one time by just pushing himself all the way inside of me and staying there (he says it's a common trick any "bigger guy" will know how to do) but I could not quite relax enough and it became too much. We are working on me relaxing better though, so hopefully in a few weeks or months. Thank you for the information.. all the ladies who replied have made me feel better and it is not so scary for me. I was worried maybe I had an STD or something because I was so sore, but you have all been saying the same stuff my bf has said to me so I appreciate that.

ps. what does birth control do? I am not on it, as we are using condoms, but would that have made it hurt worse?
>> Anonymous
>>428367

Wtf. Does he just pump away and done? Granted, if my fiance just straight pumped, he'd probably be done in just a few minutes, but we vary positions and pace. Longest we've ever gone is about 5 hours in a hot tub. Normally, it's between 45 minutes and an hour though.

Tell him to stop being a douche and either control his shit or jerk it a half hour beforehand so he's not so sensitive. Christ.
>> Anonymous
to be honest, it depends on what kind of birth control - this is something you should talk to your doctor/clinic about as there are pros/cons to different types
>> Anonymous
>>428375

428315 here. For me, birth control pills made me sick to my stomach and made it really hard for me to get wet during sex. It took forever to get me in the mood and stay in the mood. Sucked. We switched to straight condoms and said fuck the pills. Granted, it's different for everyone, but inexperience + the birth control pills were pretty crappy. Sex definitely got better after the pills (though part of it could be attributed to the practice).

Like I said, good luck. By the way, what everyone means by "relax" is try not to worry so much. You may not think it's effecting you, but I promise you it is.

If you're not the type to get too sensitive, you guys could try him getting you off once before you have sex. That might loosen up your muscles for the actual sex. Doesn't work for me, because I get way too sensitive after I cum, but some people can cum a few times and still be good to go. If that works for you, might want to give it a try and see if it helps out. =)
>> Anonymous
>>428377
If he just straight up pumped it would be more like 30 sec. He tries to make it last longer but will push himself too far or something and cum when he doesn't want to.

He has a really long recovery time so the 30 minutes beforehand thing doesn't work. He wouldn't be able to get it up for hours afterward.
>> Anonymous
>>428410

Well shit. I hope he gets you off at some point too...

Only thing I can suggest is he get himself off earlier in the day and see if it helps. Sorry. =/
>> Anonymous
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>>428418
Guys do not care about women's pleasure. The female orgasm does not exist.
>> Anonymous
>>428418

tell him to stop being such a beta and work on his self-control
>> Anonymous
>>428418

maybe you're not hot enough or act sexy enough and he isn't turned on enough by you...
>> Anonymous
>>428410
Me again.

I can get him to last longer if he is on bottom and I control movement.

He is almost 23 years old now and I have been screwing him on a regular basis since he was 16. And he's cut. You'd think he'd be able to last longer by now.

First time we did it, he didn't even make it in without blowing his load.
>> Anonymous
Your men have failed you. Too bad you are also guys.
>> Anonymous
>>428552


hahahaha - you are SO making excuses for him
>> Anonymous
>>428578
Really? Because those don't sound like excuses at all.
>> Anonymous
>>428578
Do you know what an excuse is?
>> Anonymous
>>428596

Yes, an excuse is letting your man be a pussy and not being able to hold his cum until he is even inside of you, let alone lasting longer than 10 minutes.
>> Anonymous
>>428600

Win.
>> Anonymous
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>>428600
>> Anonymous
>>428600

This post is my favorite of the night.
>> Anonymous
>>427142
My gf has the same problem. A good solution is what everyone already said, "Lube". What we found works also is a vibrator on the clit to take the mind off the pain at first. If you want to be discreet there are plenty of discreet vibrators out there, look at the "Bullet"
>> Tieria Erde
Gah.. I just did it with my boyfriend a few days ago. It felt good while it was happening.. but now I'm so sore. XD I think it's very natural to feel some discomfort. You might be having trouble with some of the glands inside of your vagina that make you wet inside. You said it hurts at first then feels great right? He just needs to preform better foreplay and if that doesn't work, it might be something with your physiological state. You should go to a Gynecologists just to make sure you don't have an inflammation or some other issue.
>> Anonymous
You lied