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Sexual confusion, mental health, libido, dangerous waters ahead. ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
Alright /fit/. I'm male. I lost my inhibitions when it comes to anything sexual a few years back and now I find my sexuality fluctuating all over the place. For a while I've been really turned on by the thought of having sex with men, but it's not stable. I used to fap to that all the time. Then I'd go through periods of wanting to have sex with women, but the desire was mild.
So I started to care about my health, fitness, and strength in general. I've been more active physically. Now I find my desire to have sex with women increasing, and my interest in men decreasing. Is my increase in physical activity the cause of this? Just today I saw an image of a womans posterior and felt like I was going to foam at the mouth. I want to dominate their feminine shape. Has anonymous noticed anything like this? Has anonymous had any similar experience? Can anonymous shed some light on any of this? This is really strange to me.
Pic related.
tl;dr SEXUALITY FLUCTUATING. DANGER DANGER!
>> Anonymous
yes this has happened to me. you're sexuality is adapating to the possibilities at hand. now that you have the tools to dominate a woman your sexuality has adapted accordingly.
>> Anonymous
well when you work out your body automaticly starts to produce extra testosterone to prepare your body even more for the next workout.

so the more you workout in general, the less of a fag you will be.
>> Anonymous
>>322042
i liked this, good adaptation (pun intended) of darwin
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322042
>yes this has happened to me. you're sexuality is adapating to the possibilities at hand. now that you have the tools to dominate a woman your sexuality has adapted accordingly.
As much as I appreciate the response... that doesn't make sense to me. I have always been attractive. Being able to dominate women makes you sexually desire to do that?
>> Anonymous
testosterone = sex drive

>>322046

this mans statement is correct
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322059
Hmm I see. So then why would I have gone from fapping 23/7 (THE THREE IS THERE ON PURPOSE FAGS) to men, and now suddenly out of NOWHERE I want to fucking dominate women. AND WHY DO I WANT TO DOMINATE THEM? I'M AN ALTRUISTIC PERSON, AND I DON'T HAVE MISOGYNISTIC ISSUES.
>> Anonymous
You're over thinking. Have you been with a man? Fantasy is one thing but you're not gay till you do something gay. Also you sound like a rapist
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322069
>You're over thinking.
I have a tendency to do that.
>Have you been with a man? Fantasy is one thing but you're not gay till you do something gay.
No but I've never cared about labels so it doesn't matter to me. I totally lost all inhibitions.
>Also you sound like a rapist
Thank you anonymous. <3
>> Anonymous
how old are you?
It's common for men in their late teens/early twenties to have hormone fluctuations that might make them attracted to men for a short while. personally, I think it's awesome, as I would never marry a guy but can still fuck one.

and as much of 4chon material, I have no source to back this up other than 7chan /men/ and other random gay boards saying it all the time.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322075
I'm 20.
>and as much of 4chon material, I have no source to back this up other than 7chan /men/ and other random gay boards saying it all the time.
Well if you find any sources please provide links. I'd appreciate it.
>> Anonymous
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>>322085
well, even if I did, there's no way to prove if it's right. it's a highly debated subject in the medical world. The cause of homosexuality is unknown, but we can always speculate on what causes it. I tend to trust actual people with homosexual experiences than some random psychologist or doctor.

It does make sense, that hormones would affect homosexuality though, since I swing back and fourth between males and females all the time. Maybe it's just that I'm bisexual, I don't know. But I digress, you asked if working out is the cause of your attraction to woman being revived. From fellow 21 year old anon going through the same thing as you, I would say yes, working out does effect attraction to genders. At least for me, but more towards the males.

You can read a lot of theory on the cause of all this, but for the sake of your mental health you should stop tearing yourself up over it and go with the flow. Indulge into your sexuality and ignore the negative attachments society pins to it. Or just get peace of mind knowing that alot of guys go through the same shit you do, and you're not fucked up. You don't hear about it other than on anonymous message boards like this one, since it's a touchy subject.

Anyways, TLDR- DO WOT U WANT CUZ A PIRATE BE FREE, U R A PIRATE.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322147
>But I digress, you asked if working out is the cause of your attraction to woman being revived. From fellow 21 year old anon going through the same thing as you, I would say yes, working out does effect attraction to genders. At least for me, but more towards the males.
That's interesting that you end up being more attracted to males. Hmm. Could you tell me about the beginnings of your sexuality?

>You can read a lot of theory on the cause of all this, but for the sake of your mental health you should stop tearing yourself up over it and go with the flow. Indulge into your sexuality and ignore the negative attachments society pins to it.
That's hard to do. I try to understand myself and end up overthinking things. I'll go with one idea. Decide it's time to toss it out, then go with another endlessly cycling through all the possibilities that make sense. I don't know how to stop that.
WELL ANYWAY thank you for the response. Your input is valuable to me.
>> Anonymous
the solution

try out a guy
try out a girl

see what sticks
>> Anonymous
heavy lifting + good cholesterol + saturated fats + protein = sexual tyrannosaurus
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322181
> heavy lifting + good cholesterol + saturated fats + protein = sexual tyrannosaurus
Well that isn't my question. What's wrong with my sexuality? I'm going from fapping to primarily men, to having a huge surge of interest in womens bodies. It's like I'm not on the straight, gay spectrum. Sometimes I can be insanely interested in both of them at the same time. Like they have their own separate lines of interest instead of a gay-----straight one. Does that make me bisexual? And why would the sexual interest slide back and forth?
>> Anonymous
>>322191
>Does that make me bisexual?
Sounds like it.
>> Anonymous
I've never seen a thread so gay, and straight at the same time.
>> Anonymous
1) You lose sex drive when you are out of shape, and as such it takes more to get you aroused.

2) Things that are taboo and stigmatized are arousing, and our generation of males have been so inured to straight pornography that it's quite commonplace, so you only found yourself able to fap to dudes.

3) Cue the working out, increase in testosterone levels, and increase in your natural libido, and you're attracted to women again.

It's important to remember that, all ego and posturing aside, sexuality isn't binary. Nobody is completely straight or completely gay. It's likely that you were somewhere nearer to the middle of the spectrum to begin with.
>> Anonymous
>>322174
My sexuality was that I have always liked women and always viewed them as sexual objects, but as I got older (late teens) I began to appreciate the male body more. (Thanks to 4chan, hurr) I. It's pretty much like this for me...women are for relationships, are still fuckable, but I enjoy being with a guy sexually more, unless they're a total fag/queen. The whole relationship ordeal doesn't apply to me with men, tried it once and didn't like it. I also go through periods of liking one or the other more, I've always just assumed it was from hormones. It gets kind of annoying at times, because I don't want to be in a relationship out of fear I'll lose attraction to them. But I figure if I can find a chick whose into bisexual guys it will be a total win situation.

Just give it time, keep working out, and label yourself as bisexual like I do =P
>> Anonymous
I had the same thing, anon, but for me it was more of a phase that I grew out of.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
Thanks everyone!
>> Anonymous
>>322046

Actually, research has shown that injecting homosexuals with extra testosterone just gives you more aggresive and stronger homosexuals.

The extra testosterone is simply increasing his sex drive, and making him more easily stimulated.
>> Anonymous
>>322339

You're welcome. Wanna fuck?
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322392
Yes.
>> Anonymous
>>322036
I noticed the same thing, actually. not so much the homosexual urges, but sexual urges in general. usually it cycles, but when I was working out regularly, I had crazy libido. I had read the working out increased your testosterone levels, so I attributed it to this. I also think, tho, that working out increases your sense of dominance. Think about it, you are moving all these heavy weights around, your body is getting stronger and more energized. its feedback. the more effort you put out, the more you are able to put out effort, and so on. After this, I started taking on projects at home and working harder at work. I just felt more in control of things. if I had a girlfriend, I probably would have been worn her out!

thinking of that, I need to get back to working out. stupid pulled shoulder muscle...
>> Anonymous
>>322068
domination and violence are two different things. one is an impulse, the other is action. feeling big and strong and wanting somebody to be big and strong for (rather than sitting on even levels) isn't necessarily weird.

unless you are specifically talking about wanting to rape some chicks.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
>>322587
>unless you are specifically talking about wanting to rape some chicks.
No. I'm just talking about being sexually aggressive, in charge of the sex, etc.
>> DON'TCHA WANNA KNOW HOW WE KEEP STARTING FIRES? Anonymous
>>322036
>DANGER DANGER!
HIGH VOLTAGE! WHEN WE KISS. WHEN WE TOUCH.
>> Anonymous
>>322631
Oh lawd. The music video to that would be all too at home ITT.
>> Anonymous
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>>322631
>DON'TCHA WANNA KNOW HOW WE KEEP STARTING FIRES?
IT'S MY DESIRE! IT'S MY DESIRE!
>> Former prince Clovis, the very not dead
>>322392
>>322532
Best come back ever

>>322174
oh! someone call me when we have the over thinking mental health thread.
>> ANONIWAT !B2n0CENh.A
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQQeg3jYgOA
Now I can't stop watching it.