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PE Anonymous
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So, I lost my virginity this week. but I busted a little too early for my liking.
when I was younger I had a big fear of not lasting... before and leading up to sex I had no worries about it. when I was having sex, I wasn't overexcited, I was barely even aroused and wasn't thaat hard, and bam, I was done in like three minutes.

I'm looking for anyone else who has or had a problem with PE for advice... sucess stories? what methods worked for you? what should i not waste my time with? Ideally I want to do this without mon partner, I'm quite embarassed about the thing and think I should try to make progress from the side first.

Should I not be worrying? Do I just need alot more sex experience first? Do Kegel excersizes actually work for anyone?
change of diet? start/stop method? squeeze method? relaxing more? and what I'm not willing to do is... penis numbing shit, thicker condom etc. I want to actually gain more mental control over it, no matter what long and gruelling process may be necessary...

tl;dr Help, I suffer from Premature Ejaculation.
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>> Anonymous
lol 3 min in a condom? I wouldn't laugh if you were doing it bareback, but with a condom you should be able to last 20 min+

but uhh yeah practice.
>> Anonymous
pregame fap ftw
>> Anonymous
>>273845
Also, first times always suck. You're gonna have to suck it up and practice with your partner.
>> Anonymous
>>273846
If you actually have PE problems, this probably won't help. It'll just make it harder to get it up and won't be as enjoyable.
>> Anonymous
>>273845
OP hur
yep, well, I did like, two or three hours prior to, this could be a part of it...

>>273849
the condom broke somewhere during the sex, could have been whilst inserting, while removing or some other point... and my member was mostly bare... but does a condom really make that much of a difference?
>> JL523 !Je.61Huaqc
>>273884

Yes, you feel less. ALOT less depending on condom type. Some are REALLY thin.
>> Anonymous
First time i was drunk, i never came

Second time was with someone i had been flirting with for around a month (lol internet) and met up and had sex with her, took me around 1 hour to finally cum =/, second time i came in a few mins thought, i was quiet shocked and embaressed TBH.

And yes without a condom makes so much difference
>> Anonymous
>>273884
>the condom broke somewhere during the sex, could have been whilst inserting, while removing or some other point... and my member was mostly bare... but does a condom really make that much of a difference?

The whole "If you actually have PE problems, this probably won't help..." was not in response to the condom thing, but yeah, condoms really make a diff. Even a thin condom is nothing compared to no condom.

Also, this seems like an issue of unrealistic expectations. Sex is gonna be less than ideal for a while until you hit your stride. Also, it's nothing like porn. There's a lot more to it than being able to trust ad MAX POWER for 2 hours straight.

Recent study actually said that most girls get bored after 15 minutes. (I'm guessing that doesn't include foreplay, etc, though).
>> Anonymous
>>273845
Well I tried to get in before the lies started, but didn't.

OP, you don't have premature ejaculation. No matter what you read from the Super Dicks on this board, the average length of sexual intercourse (excluding foreplay and all that shit, the actual dick in, dick out sex) is like 5-7 minutes.

The way to get past that is different condoms, sure, but mostly, different rhythm. Dont just stick it in and rail away constantly and consistently. Slow it down, speed it up, stop it. As long as you're doing something, playing with her tits, rubbing her clit, you can change your pace.

Or, rub one out before 45 minutes before sex.

But you don't have PE. PE is the constant and recurring ejaculation that you have no control over, that generally happens in under 90 seconds.

SO SAYS SCIENCE.
>> Anonymous
>>273907
>the average length of sexual intercourse (excluding foreplay and all that shit, the actual dick in, dick out sex) is like 5-7 minutes.

Yes, but who wants to be average?

I do agree with the whole different rhythms technique, though.

In addition to the different rhythms, also try changing positions. Gives you a rest and makes it more interesting.
>> Anonymous
OP here, thanks for all the answers,

>>273904
haha yep, I know just mixed up the two tags in that post. sorry =P

>>273907
makes me feel better, really...
and I know PE is a retarded, overused term which doesn't apply here exactly, but I was just trying to get the point across that I didn't last long.
And, in response to the 5-7 minutes, sounds right, but my friends whom are on my back all say that theyre first encounters lasted 10+ minutes at least, and most of them just kinda say they don't need to think too much about it and they have almost complete control over when they bust, which is why I feel... abnormal?
>> Anonymous
>>273918
Regardless of 'wanting to be average,' by definition almost everyone is. But even the average guy, or below average guy, can extend using various techniques, like rhythm changes, different condoms, or whatever.

But if you're railing pussy straight for 6 minutes and you blow a load, don't feel bad. In fact, sometimes its best to get in and get out when you're going for a quickie.

When you've got time, there are plenty of ways to change it up. In my experience, most girls don't like getting railed for much longer than 20 minutes consistently. So most of the sex I've had lasts from say, 4 minutes if we're in a hurry to an average of about 20 or so minutes, with a few marathons when we've got some time and room to ourselves. But going for more than like, 30,40,50 minutes, is rare, and can leave the girl a bit rough.
>> Anonymous
>>273924
When it comes to sex and the wang, most every girl will exaggerate. I'm sure your friends have 7 or 8 inch cocks (when the average is like 5.5) and have marathon sex with lots of ladies.

What they mean to say is they have average length cocks and they've blown loads in under a minute like everyone does eventually and their sex is most likely of an average time.
>> Anonymous
Also, if you do bust a nut early, it's not game over. Finish her up with some amazing oral and i promise she won't be unsatisfied. Also, if you tease her enough, you might be hard again by the time she cums. Then you get a second chance during round 2.

But then comes the issue of learning to give good oral. It's all a learning process. You'll get better.

>>273924
Guys are faggots and lie about sex, especially when it's there own sex lives. Unless they were timing it, they probably were guessing, which means they're off by +5 minutes.