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Anonymous
How many of you never had girlfriends, even though they are fit and athletic.

I never had one and i'm 19. I've been lifting weights and doing martial arts for 5 years now.

Pic related, if you catch my drift.
>> Anonymous
I am rather overweight and have had 3 girlfriends since high school. Now 20 in college.

Have a better personality lol
>> Anonymous
former fat fuck here as well. had 2 girlfriends while fat now I've lost sum weight hopefully I get a better one soon. just dont be arrogant about your fitness, dont boast, talk to girls about thier lives. once you breach the getting to know them stage its easy.

unless... are you in possesion of a butt ugly face?
>> Anonymous
Confidence...do you have it?
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
Nabbed a cutie in high school, dating her for 4 years now.

I was her first everything, all of it, and I'm fit, good looking, etc.

In short, fuck, wrong thread, sorry man.
>> Anonymous
had gfs when fat

lose weight last year = someone says that i walk around like i think that i'm the best = girls say i'm an overconfident asshole
>> Anonymous
>>34273
I always walked around like that, even when fat. Overconfident asshole ftw as long as your a nice overconfident asshole
>> Anonymous
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>>34264
That's me. I don't own the hat.
>> Anonymous
>>34282
suspicious filename is suspicious. but if it is you smile moar. make eye contact moar. engage moar gb2 /b/
>> Anonymous
>>34291
win
>> Anonymous
>>34291
What's suspicious? I'm greek.
>> Anonymous
I had one girlfriend for a year in high school, and a few crushes that never amounted to anything. I began weight lifting to improve my scrawny body around the same time I got my first girlfriend, and everyone teased me like "Ooooh, you gonna get buff for her?"

I made modest gains in the time we were together, she loved my six pack. But after we broke up I continued weight lifting into college, and while I've made great steps to very athletic and muscular body, I still haven't had a girlfriend since her ;_; My social awkwardness is one thing. My nerdy, acne-covered face is another. As soon as I take my shirt off I feel 10x cooler
>> Anonymous
>>34303

Ever consider a fullbody makeover? If you think a buff body makes you feel good try looking at your clear face, losing your glasses, getting a clean shave and haircut.
>> Anonymous
>>34307
Or it will not work and he'll end up miserable the op. When you try so hard only to fail, you become a /b/tard who listens to machine head all day.
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34303

Daily epsom-salts baths will get rid of acne man.


Put nearly twice as much salts as the package tells you to, make the water so hot you can barely get in, and read a book for half an hour.

Your face will sweat so much and dry out and your acne will disappear.

Trust me, just try it. The worst that will happen is that you'll be incredibly relaxed and engaged into a new book and still have acne.
>> Anonymous
>>34307
I'm taking care of the acne with Retin-A, the only medication that seems to have an effect on it. Still a lot of redness and occasional break-outs but its getting better. Glasses are tough since I have astigmatism, which laser eye surgery hasn't quite figured out yet. I've also worn glasses since I was 3 so there's this psychological attachment. I feel like a pair of thin-framed glasses can compliment my looks rather than detract.

>>34310
Living in a college dorm, it's kinda tricky to take baths. From what I've heard, drying out your skin like that only damages it then causes your body to produce more oils.
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34315

I had acne in high school. I'm 20 now, and I've been taking epsom-salt baths every few days and then using a moisturizer on my face before work.

I do not get acne on my face anymore.

You heard that drying out your skin like that damages it? The salts and heat just cause you to sweat a lot, which will not damage your skin.
It's actually very good for your skin to exfoliate like that regularly.
>> Anonymous
24, never had a gf nor have i ever seen a vagoo. I don't look very bad I guess because sometimes the girlz try hitting on me (read: two times in my entire life). But i always fuck it up because I'm an awkward nerd with no social life.
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34323

Make up a story about how you tried to sleep with a teenage girl but your cock wouldn't fit inside her.

Pretend to be really concerned about it, and ask a slutty girl you know for advice. Just make sure it sounds legit. You could not fit inside her, and you used lube and all.

Guaruntee one of her slutty ass friends will fuck you to find out.
>> Anonymous
>>34325
Or one of her christian friends will call the police.
>> Anonymous
>>34327
I don't think the police handle 'dude my cock wouldn't fit inside her' stories.
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34327

Yeah, the police wouldn't care.
>> Anonymous
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yesss, joining the whining thread :D
I'm currently 20, virgin. I have a nice, athletic body (although you can only see when I uncloth since I don't go big) Had akne for quite a while, although it was never like really bad, the face itself was always clean, only at the temples, but it's mostly gone now. I used things like anti akne stuff for a long time and it was no use, then I simply took some cheap soap one day and used it, and the skin was frickin dry afterwards (I used to hate that feeling when I was a kid so I never used soap, only gel-stuff), so I continued using it and yeah, worked.
Now I'm not socially awkward, my problem is that I've been a loner until I hit puberty and even since I've got a rather small but good circle of friends. Problem is, they're all males and probably all virgins too :D
So I actually never get to meet any girls in the first place as I didn't go to clubs or something before.
I recently started going to a party here and there occasionally, but the only thing I like about them is dancing, I dance like crazy (never danced before), and yeah, at the end of the day I didn't speak to anyone I didn't know before, either.. :S
So here's me, never had a real relationship, simply because I dunno how to get to know people. (I'm actually shy, but I'm getting really relaxed and good company once I feel comfortable around people, so people who know me laugh when I say I'm shy..) Living in my own little world, somehow.

pic kinda related, soap.
>> Anonymous
>>34332
I didn't mean that the police want to arrest you ;)
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34327

I'm pretty sure one of her Christian friends would be more interested in the fictional big cock.
>> Anonymous
Ok, I used to be a skinny faggot who was seen as abit of a dweeb.

Anyway after cutting my hair, getting contact lenses, working out and gaining muscle to increase my confidence around 2 years later I find myself getting alot more female attention because of a huge increase in self confidence and better looks. However, I have a problem getting bitches to stay, they like to look and lead me on and shit but never actually want to form relationships :(.

I was into this one girl around christmas who i had met at a party at her flat, she let me stay over her flat quite a number of times and we kissed and she sucked my dick but ended up going out with some short ugly faggot.

Moral of the story is looks aren't everything and bitches love dick.

I however went to an all boys catholic school (thanks ma and pa) so I never had the chance to interact with alot of girls growing up. I am however not a virgin (only just, one actual in the vagoo experience :()
>> Fuck !3uIQO01mdA
>>34342


Protip: Short guys has a big cock.
>> Anonymous
>>34345

Maybe.

He is in a band and shit and has a better social web than I do, I guess all faggots have to do is pull out an acoustic guitar on a couch.
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
>>34347
you better believe it. bitches love guys with a guitar.
>> Anonymous
>>34347
I hope every fat faggot that comes with their hot girlfriend in the gym to make out is a masterful musician, kinda quells my unloved-rage.
>> Anonymous
I'm 26. Played competitive soccer from 6-16. Parents got divorced when I was 8 and I fell in love with a girl who was nice to me. I was always too embarassed to tell her.

In Highschool I had bad acne, then she had a boyfriend. When I finally tried to ask her out I ended up talking to her mother on the phone and making an ass of myself.

I went away to university believing the hype that it would change how I was. I had a room-mate that didn't drink. The entire campus was a ghost town on weekends because it was near Toronto where most of the kids could go home. 2 months of that and I was going crazy knowing I'd lost what was actually important in favor of a sheet of paper saying I was educated and a ton of debt. I left.

3 years ago I sent her a letter with no return address and didn't get a response. I sent another with a return address and it came back, so I figured maybe the 1st was lost. I tried to find her on the internet but only found her brother. He told me she got my letters. He told me she was married. This was the worst day of my life.

Two years later I found out she wasn't married. She never had the decency to reply and tell me to fuck off or anything.

So I spent most of my life in love with one girl and ignored any others who showed interest. Now I basically feel as if nobody will ever know me as well as she would. You can't replace ten years around someone picking up some slut at a bar.
>> Anonymous
>>34355
;_;

That made me incredibly sad.
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
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>>34355
wow, i'm... speechless. i don't think anyone can be more pathetic than that.
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
Its all about confidence. I don't have trouble getting girlfriends or even just frequent sex partners. I'm definitely not anything looks-wise that you'd write home about.

Approach is superior. Good looks determine exactly how hot a girl you can nab, but you won't get anyone without some confidence.
>> Anonymous
>>34355

PUSSYWHIPPED
>> Anonymous
>>34367
Can you elaborate? I have no trouble starting conversation with some girl, but it's always the same thing: we talk and laugh for a while, then there is this fucking akward silence, and then i say i gotta go, nice meeting you.

Always. The. Same.
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
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>>34373

Okay, you've got the first part down alright.

Next you need to suck it up and ask for her number, and if she'd like to hang out again. Make it soonish - at the most, the following weekend.

Where to hang out depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of girl you like. If you're looking to get laid, actually, you might be better off asking if she'd like to come hang out at your place (or her's) right then.

If you want a girlfriend (recommended, the sex is better, more frequent if you know what you're doing, and easier to get,) think about the kind of girl you want. Go to places that kind of girl hangs out, and then think about what kind of things you like that this kind of girl also likes. That is what you will ask her to do with you.

For me, about 75% of my first dates are at the shooting range, the rest being hiking or if there's a cheap symphony on that week, that.
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
/fit/ - Relationships
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
>>34378

Continued. For example, I pick up girls at sporting events, on running or hiking trails, or if I go to a sports bar (I don't drink but I also don't own a TV) and find an unattached girl attentively watching the game.

We talk a bit while cooling down from the run, or while hiking, or during a commercial break from the game. If I like her style I ask if she'd like to go shooting, or to the symphony or whatever.

This is a deliberate choice on my part, for two reasons: 1, the date is a success even if I don't particularly like the girl, 2, putting a girl in an oddball "date" situation brings out her personality much better than coffee, drinks or dinner.

Fancy dinner is date #2 if we get there.
>> Anonymous
>>34378
I want the kind of girl who hangs out on the internet all day masturbating.
>> Anonymous
>>34383
>>34378

U GOT E-GAME SON
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
>>34386

I hope you enjoy being single.
>> Anonymous
>>34373

DO NOT WALK AWAY DURING THE AWKWARD SILENCE! The girl puts that there so she will know if you are interested (you ask for her number) or not interested (you say nice meeting you and walk away).
>> Anonymous
Saigaguy went to a "how to pick up girls" seminar, did you not?
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
>>34396

No.
>> Anonymous
>>34373
I had the same problem with awkward silences and just ended up asking really retarded questions and made a fool out of myself. Then I thought: Fuck it, awkward silences aren't really uncomfortable to me so I just stay there and wait till someone (not me) takes the initiative and says something.
>> Anonymous
>>34389
Well I'll settle for one who is ascetic.
Or one who can match my intelligence.

I may lower my standards if I lose both my arms, otherwise fuck it.
>> Anonymous
>>34390
I should clarify. My cellphone has around 200 numbers, 100 of them are girls. I also have no trouble getting numbers. The thing is that i don't want to be an annoying clingy bitch, so i'll prolly send 1 or 2 sms at best. I remember that any girl i talked too much, either had a boyfriend or friend zone'd me.

And after i do that, i get ignored. Seriously, i meet some of these women at the university every day and if they say hi to me it's like an accomplishment.
>> Saigaguy !n87gAqL9/w
>>34404

you really have no idea what kind of girl you want, do you?

>>34405

You ask them out that night, or the next morning. Call them, don't text them.
>> Anonymous
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I can't say I'm athletic, but I can say I'm pretty much fit. I may have started exercising because of this board, but I have been nowhere near fat even before. I'm 20, and I've never had a girlfriend. Some people tell me I'm good-looking (and I'm sorry, but no pics; I'm also quite an intelligent guy. I have no qualms being around women, it's just that I can't lower my standards in getting one. I know perfection is impossible, and I'm quite far from it, but this mindset of aiming to get the best is just so entrenched within me that it's hard to change. A lot of people have asked me how many girlfriends I've had, and I always reply I have had none - and they act surprised. I feel good like that. I'm a virgin, not because I can't get a partner, but because I believe in the value of marriage, and the value of a woman. If I believe I can't fulfill her needs as a boyfriend, even if she is among the best, I stay away and try to support her as a friend. Of course I have my quirks, but I'm proud that I don't need a girlfriend to prove my being a nice and intelligent guy (although I do want one sooner or later). I don't have social aspirations, I'm most often just a home-buddy, but I'm proud of what I know and what I am. ^_^
>> Anonymous
>>34409
>>34409
>>34409
>>34409

Friend zone nice guy chump
>> Anonymous
>>34408
The two times i asked girls out, one left because she had 'stuff to do' and the other one wanted me to meet her my friend.
>> Anonymous
>>34412
>>her my friend.
lol wut?
>> Anonymous
>>34409
OH MY GOD. WHO LET A FAGGOT ONTO MY /fit/????????
>> Anonymous
>>34415

It's worked for me, haha. I obey my parents, so yeah, for now it's the friend zone nice guy. :)
>> Anonymous
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>>34428
I just... I just dont understand.
>> Anonymous
>>34390
As a girl, I would have to second this. That's at least what's going through my mind. If nothing is said on his side, I will end the conversation and walk away.
>> Anonymous
>>34409

I'm the same way (standards-wise). I know I don't qualify for any girl I find thoroughly attractive (read: physically & mentally), so I don't even bother trying. Also I have no "weather talk" personality. I can converse, but I cannot strike up a conversation like many people can. Basically I have to be approached or else I look like a goddamned fool, and I have the "wouldn't want to meet that dude in a dark alley" face. Not terribly girl friendly.

BTW, I get approached by girls from time to time, but they all come across as desperate she-cows in whom I have no interest.

tl;dr. I'm going to be sans girlfriend for a LONG time (if not always) due to self imposed limiations. Doesn't bother me too much, though.
>> Anonymous
Pretty skinny, really tall, but got some muscle tone on chest and arms. Had two girlfriends in high school, both long and pretty serious, the second on only breaking off due to non-desire to have a long-term relationship due to college. Now in my second year of college, had a few flings of about a week or two, but nothing serious. I kinda wish I had a girl like that second one from highschool again- someone pretty, athletic, fun, funny, and smart- with a killer personality and even better body. Argh

Keeping my eyes open, but there are literally 0 attractive girls in my classes and the only ones I find attractive are just passing on the street. Ill wait it out though, to find a girl that is really perfect in my eyes.
>> Anonymous
>>34577

talk to those pretty girls on the street bro
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
You hook the girl by being fit and athletic. You keep the girl by actually being socially competent and not suffering from nice guy faggotry syndrome.
>> Anonymous
>>34670
And just what the fuck is nice guy faggotry syndrome?
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>34682

Being your girl's bitch. Buying shit for her, doing stuff for her that goes past 'politeness' into 'refocusing life around girl'.

It's not flattering, it's quite creepy, and you come off as an insecure faggot.
>> Anonymous
>>34253
I'm a skinny, nerdy fuck.
I've usually come off as a smartass to some people, but I'm still rather good looking. Just completely socially awkward.

During highschool I got asked out twice but freaked the fuck out and never went through with it, then when I finally found someone I seriously liked, I couldn't grow a pair and pussied out even though it was painfully obvious she wanted me to make a move.

Fast forward a couple years, 20 now, I have a girlfriend! I'm still a skinny nerdy, albiet more mature fuck, but I decided to grow a pair and ask the girl out. Didn't even fucking realize she had a thing for me for a couple months already, and shit went off.

So yeah, it's been about three months now, not a virgin anymore, love life and etc etc.

TL;DR: Keep trying.
>> Anonymous
>>34694
The way you worded it before, it sounded like "you've got to be an asshole to keep a girl".
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>34710

Given that a lot of 'nice guys' think supreme self-confidence is the same as being an asshole, you're not that far off.
>> Anonymous
>>34710
I've been keeping a running tally, and 98% of everything Hammer says is wrong.
>> Anonymous
>>34710
Not at all, lol I managed to find a girl who had been completely fucked up.

Parents divorced, first boyfriend struck her and nearly raped her right before she said she'd leave him, other bad shit...

Suddenly I come along and be a nice guy and BAM.
I seriously can't get her away from me now, she's absolutely stuck on me, but I'm just as stuck on her so...

In essence, find a drop-dead beautiful girl who's had a shitty life and be nice you're in!

She also fucks like a tiger lol
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>34716

Well, it's not hard to constantly repeat 'CREATINE GOOD PROTEIN SHAKE GOOD BUTTER AND LARD BAD'.
>> Anonymous
>>34722

Is a virgin with no girlfriend.
>> Anonymous
>>34731
>>Is a virgin with no girlfriend.

fix'd
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>34731
Agreed, girls don't work that way.
>> Anonymous
My last girlfriend left me for another guy nearly a year ago. I haven't seen or talked to her in months, but my blood boils every day. I suppose the best revenge is to live well, which is why I'm here.
>> Anonymous
>>34752

Could have atleast kicked the guys ass, pussy.
>> Anonymous
>>34752

wait, this is 4chan... shit.
>> Anonymous
>>34756
That's fucking stupid. Why are you going to get pissed off at the guy when the bitch was the one who took off in the first place.

Fuck that bitch.
>> Anonymous
>>34759

Because you look like a pussy by doing nothing and letting some dude take your girl, even if it's her fault, kick his ass.
>> Anonymous
haha, cmon. Isn't it obvious that you cant rely on laurels to attract women. This isn't a fucking anime. Girls aren't like "tee hee there's the star KARATE blackbelt expert, he soooo DREAMY but so mysteriously quiet which makes me want him even MORE"

You need to be an attractive personality. Some people have it some people don't.
>> Anonymous
>>34762
wow you're an idiot. Bitches that sleep around and cheat need to be beaten, not the person they cheated on you for.
>> Anonymous
>>34762
Oh boo fucking hoo, cry more about it. By that logic you're about as good as the dumb bitches who fight over a guy who's just playing the two of them.
>> Anonymous
>>34769

I'd atleast want to know the dude is fucking my girl with two black eyes and a broken jaw
>> Anonymous
>>34773
Yeah, but he's still fucking your girl.
GG
>> Anonymous
>>34774

Yeah while laughing at how much of a pussy beta male you are, atleast show him your alpha and that if he wants to fuck your girl he has to earn it
>> Anonymous
ITT Internet tough guy virgins
>> Anonymous
This argument is making me sad
>> Anonymous
>>34765
So we are screwed to be virgins 4 lyfe?