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Anonymous
Hi /fit/, I've come to you for advice.
I'm seriously scared about my sexual health. To start on the story a few weeks ago I was extra horny and turned on because I knew I would soon be losing my virginity, because of this I ended up masturbating a lot, averagely 2 or 3 times for about 1-3 weeks, I can't really remember anymore.

Anyway when my first sexual encounter came this was my girlfriend feeling my penis just after I'd been feeling her up, I didn't get erect and I was scared and unsure why.
Next time there was more of the same, including oral, again I never got erect and I was more scared why, although I did manage to come I can't remember if I was hard towards the end or not, if I was not properly at least and I sure as hell wasn't when she started.

I assumed the reason for this was either because it was my first sexual experience and I was anxious, or because I had been masturbating too much.

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>> Anonymous
The day came and I finally got round to losing my virginity, well I say that. Again I couldn't get hard, and it was only until I started trying to force myself to I did and quickly got the condom and did it, even then I didn't last for long.

This was last Thursday, since then I have not masturbated, and I don't think I've been erect since either. Between all these times I still get aroused by thinking of her and doing these things but even when erect I'm never fully hard or it never lasts for long. And I come to you now asking for help, what's wrong with me? It's really scaring me because nothing like this has ever happened before, and it's only started happening since these first few sexual experiences, before this I was fine, getting erections fine, masturbating fine.

But help me /fit/, I'm scared I've got erectile dysfunction or something and what it's going to mean for me. No one knows about this and I'm too scared to tell anyone, but here I can remain anonymous. And I'm honestly really scared of this at the moment.

tl;dr I can't get erect while having sex or anything else, what's wrong with me, how do I stop it? =/
>> Anonymous
You GAY boy!
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
You're a virgin who's got nerves. Natural, deal with it, get comfortable, all that.

Don't worry about your girl not being satisfied, if she reads some of those 'girl mags' she knows guys have a hard time on their first try.
>> Anonymous
get over your insecurities
go see a doctor
come out of the closet
viagra
>> Anonymous
You could be gay. If your body isn't reacting to a woman's contact, it's possible that it's because women aren't your thing. Just throwing that out there.
>> Anonymous
>>21152
Thanks, I guessed something along those lines, but why haven't I been getting erections recently since? It's like nothing at all turns me on, or when it does it's not enough to make me want to do anything or even get much of an erection.

But I think because part of me is now scared of this it makes it worse, and it's happening because I'm scared of it, it's just going round in circles.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>21178

Don't jack off for about a week. Hang out with your girl but don't do anything.

By the end of the week you'll know if you're gay or not.
>> Anonymous
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OP, do you browse /a/ very much? If you're constantly being exposed to the perfect woman (read: 2D), it's kind of hard to care about the disgusting 3D kind.
>> Anonymous
I love being with her and have always been attracted to girls physically and mentally, if that's the right word to use.

To be honest I'm technically bi-curious but I've never been physically attracted to guys.
>> Kanader
>I'm seriously scared
>I was scared and unsure
>and I was more scared
>I was anxious
>I started trying to force myself
>what's wrong with me?
>It's really scaring me
>I'm scared I've got erectile dysfunction
>I'm too scared to tell anyone
>what's wrong with me

Anxiety makes the boner go away. This is normal. Resume masturbating constantly.
>> Anonymous
>>21191
Nope, I go through phases of watching porn/never watching porn and when I'm with someone I usually never do, but when I do it's always good real people lesbians.
>> Hammerknife !7ITukp3Pj2
>>21193

Ok fine, you're not a faggot, you're just a virgin.

What you need to do is for the next week

1. Not jack off.
2. Constantly read men's health or gun magazines
3. Hang out with her
4. Chow steaks every day

By the end of the week there should be a hardened gem of manliness in your prostate. Channel that into being MANLY during sex.
>> Anonymous
happenes to everyone.
you are nervous
>> Anonymous
Thanks this actually means a lot, I didn't realise how much I said I was sacred in that big speech there and I study psychology!

Anyway thanks you've actually been really helpful, and it's good to know it's nothing serious at least :)
>> Anonymous
>>21238

Don't become a sex health counselor.
>> BOwen !i7E4yRzZEQ
I used to get pretty nervous my first few times too. You're overthinking and worrying too much now though. Cut that shit out and you'll be fine.
>> Anonymous
>>21207
It has never happened to me, because I'm a man.
>> Anonymous
OP i never had this problem at my first time, but im almost sure you are nervous, try to relax, have a beer or too, try to imagine stuff that makes you really really horny, thats a common problem, two buddys of mine had it to, its no erectile dysfunction