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Anonymous
i got pshyched out of a hardon last week. everything was fine until she asked 'are you soft or something?' and it sent me back to an erectile dysfunction nightmare i had had with a girlfriend. she wanted me to fuck her in the ass and i couldn't get it in because she was so small and tight, and eventually i got more frustrated than horny, and she flipped out, saying i was gay and not attracted to her and she tried to leave. i had a huge panic attack and cried like a baby.
ever since then, whenever my mind drifts to the possibility of losing an erection, i almost always lose it.
what the girl can do: tell you it's okay to get psyched out, that it's not a big deal, and stimulate you with her hands or mouth. she has to let you know she understands it's psychological and it's ok.
when i lost it for the girl last week, she took it okay and i rubbed myself back to hardness while i sucked her tits. i finished fucking, smoked a cig with her, and fucked her again with no problems losing it.
what a nightmare though, when the girl freaks out and stops the sex.
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