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How does I get confidence? Anonymous
Okay, I know this isn't really about fitness, but I guess it's more about healthy living. How does one improve one's Confidence? So far working out doesn't work, just thinking you're a bad-ass all the time doesn't work, apathy seems to be the closest I can come (IE I don't really care how this date turns out, either way when it's over I'll be lurking 4chan lol) but how does one improve this most coveted of qualities?
>> Anonymous
I'm not sure how to explain it other than you don't feel you have to justify any one of your actions to anyone but yourself. It is easier to be funny and talk well. You just feel you can do it, so it isn't a problem regarding anything in life.

It isn't just fitness for me though, I also have a 4.0GPA, made it on the dean's list, and play guitar. I feel like I'm the shit, even without my looks.
>> Anonymous
start flirting with girls, that's what i do.

my girlfriend constantly cuts down my self esteem so i flirt to bring it back up.
>> Anonymous
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_win_friends_and_influence_people
>> Anonymous
>>84693
>girlfriend cuts down self-esteem

Time to dump her for someone you were flirting with.
>> Anonymous
>>84693
>>my girlfriend constantly cuts down my self esteem

Tsundere?
>> Anonymous
Listen to people.
Like, don't just look and hear, but listen.
Respond, don't reply, don't just make words in their direction.

Start off by talking to friends you work with (prefferably femanon) who you're a wee bit awkward around, ask them what they did on their weekend, LISTEN, look for things to continue talking about, to make jokes about etc...

The how to win friends and inflence people book thingo is meant to be really helpfull, a friend of mine's always raving.

I'm more a 48 laws of power man.
>> Anonymous
>>84949
this feels more evil. on occasion i savor in it but usually mostly like the nicer first book.
>> Anonymous
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Just try not to think about the things you do, just do it, because if you do something without hesitation you won't have to worry about the confidence of doing it or not X3.
>> Anonymous
>>85447
I was expecting a funny fakeout with that shitty gif. Fuck you, Anonymous.