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>>303015 What I don't get is how this friend zone operates. I've seen it happen, with myself and with other friends, but then there are also a large pool of stories of friendships becoming relationships, so while the friendzone obviously exists for some people, it obviously works completely opposite for other people.
My thing is, I want to create friendship before a relationship. I'm one of the faggots who cares more about personality and mind than looks, though looks help. So I don't really want to start relationships with girls I don't know. The girl I like is a long time friend, and even though I've been rejected and friendzoned, I can't get over her until I find someone I like as much, or more(Which I currently doubt is possible, I'm pretty obsessed.). And like the faggot I am, I don't want to start a relationship with a girl I don't like because I'm still in love with this other girl. I know its as easy as "go get laid casually, pick up some chick and then get to know THAT chick." but that just is something for whatever reason I can't get around to doing. Physical attraction alone isn't enough for me to be interested at all in a girl.
It seems like the only course of action I have is to make other female friends, and hope they are of the friendship to relationship camp, and not the friendzone camp, and that I could like that girl as much as the aforementioned girl, as me being a faggot, I wouldn't want to start a serious relationship with a girl who is "Second best" who I'd be comparing with the girl I love.
Any advice?
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