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So, a girl said yes, she'll go out with me. What the fuck do I do now? Where do I take her? Dinner/movie? how does one go about doing these things? Do I ask her for her address and pick her up, or do I state a time and demand she be there? do I just "talk" to her about this, or is that being too much of a wussy? what questions do I ask her as we are going on the date?

/f/it, you've helped me so much in the past. hear my plea. help me make it through my first date alive.
>> Anonymous
Oatz
>> Anonymous
Squatz
>> Anonymous
Oatz
>> Anonymous
feed her oatz and squat her weight? to be honest, I'm not ready. She's a big one, but I still lured her in with my sweet charms.
>> Anonymous
Dump her and do more squatz.
Dump her, you'll lose testosterone if you don't.
Bro, dump her bro.

Oatz.
>> Anonymous
>>445095

I hope that someday I can squat her weight, however she needs liposuction first
>> Anonymous
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Talk to her about Beets, Bears, Battlestar Galactica.
>> Anonymous
Pick her up is my recomendation. You should be able to talk to your date about logistical arrangements. Don't ask questions as to what you'll be doing on said date. Have a plan set. Only tell her if she asks, if not, just follow through with set plan. Have some topics for conversation ready, but avoid topical issues like the news, the economy, Obaga, etc. Talk to her about yourself, adn ask her questions about her.

Don't go to a movie, go to a casual restarant like Red Robin/whatever they have in your state. Afterward, take her to a local tourist attraction/downtown/mall, etc where there are open air shops and you can grab some snacks and walk around and talk. Gives you a chance to guage her tastes.
>> Anonymous
Hard without specifics. Some advice depends on the circumstances. Here's a one size fits all:

Dinner, movie does not allow too much interaction. Somewhere nice but not too nice. 30$ for two tops. Ask questions to find common grounds. Depending on how well you know her this can be easy or hard.

Easymode: If you're around the age hopefully you're facebook friends (inb4 facebook is gay, all the women who are 25 years or younger have it, so it's a good enough reason to have one) and you can look at some of her shared movie/music/whatever interests and ask questions leading into those.

Hardmode: you asked her out semi-randomly and/or don't really know much about her. Ask how she got to know mutual friend X or how she likes class Y, or whatever experience/tie you might share.
>> ArsenalFC !3aV0WyLT9Y
bake her a cake
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>>445109
>>445112

Thank you anons of /f/it. You may have just saved me from half of the road rash of said date.
>> Anonymous
>>445109
>>445112
both would be good to follow
>> Anonymous
>>445122
Good luck sir
>> Anonymous
As>>445109, I'd like to say that this guy,>>445112, knows what he's talking about.
>> Anonymous
>>445129
As>>445112I give you an internet highfive
>> Anonymous
>>445087
>what questions do I ask her as we are going on the date?

Keep to no-thinking questions as far as the first date is concerned.
>"What kind of music do you enjoy?"
>"Have you lived in Dumbfuckistan all your life?"
>"Where are your parents from?"

Gotta have an inventory of these to make sure there are no uncomfortable silences. There are no /comfortable/ silences on your first date. Self-depreciating humor about your inablity to keep a conversation going is usually a good way to start a conversation if you get caught in a jam.

Oh, and I'm assuming you have a car
>..and pick her up..
Don't listen to the radio, listen to CDs, and listen to CDs you can ignore. Jim Noir, Joe Purdy, Geneva, Greg Weeks, etc etc.
Something you can ignore, and talk over easily. You're not at that level where you can just listen to music together, it's your first date.
Also, don't jew out on ride comfort. Put on the a/c/heater, depending on the night. Don't ride with the windows down, because, again, makes conversation harder.
>> Anonymous
>assuming you have a car
>listen to CDs
If the date is going well when your driving her home throw in a Barry White cd. It has worked for me
>> Anonymous
Let me tell you what not to do on a date.

1. Don't have any plan.
2. Be drunk
3. Act nervous
4. Be boring as shit, and when she asks what you want to do say "I don't know" or EVEN better, "I don't care"
5. Make a rape joke.
6. Unintentionally insult her every few minutes.

Thats about how my last date went..... I think i've learned a few things. Shame though, the girl was fucking hot.
>> brambles !!VRXAN//FWJC
on the really off chance that this isnt a troll:

talk to her, but defintely have an idea. see what she likes etc. but also keep something planned that is "spontaneous" (wont be, but she thinks it is). it is really easy to do the cliche things, like dinner and a movie. try to go to a movie first so that if you suck at talking you can talk about the movie over dinner. then hit up a fun dessert place, like a cookie or cupcake shop if your town is lucky enough to have one of those.
dont reinvent the wheel.
>> Anonymous
>>445549

thanks for the advice bro, but once the girl looked at my facebook/myspace accounts she stopped talking to me. Dunno why, I don't have stupid shit up. Oh well.
>> Anonymous
WTF is this shit. Going Oldschool always works for me,

My first date I went to see a movie, we met at the train station, talked about random shit the whole way up on the train, as we walked to the cinema I grabbed her hand, made her laugh a bit, and insisted on paying for the tickets 'n shit. She was cold so I gave her my jacket, we were holding hands all the way home too. Then at the end I looked her straight in the face and said, "so.... you wanna be my bird?"

she cracked up laughing and accepted. INSTAGIRLFRIEND.

My advice? Relax, be yourself (to an extent, no rape jokes), and don't use stupid shitty predetermined conversation topics. Talk about her a lot as well.
>> Anonymous
>>445561
>>445561
You British?
>> Anonymous
Leykis101 use it
>> Anonymous
>>445561
yes
>> Anonymous
ITT, 4chan goes Train Otoko
>> Anonymous
>>445561


I like it man. Straight forward courtship FTW.