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Missing my bf... Anonymous
Hello /fit/

So, after 6 wonderful months of dating, I'm away from my boyfriend; I had to go back to school.

Anyway, I'm missing him really bad. I would like some tips about dealing with a long distance relationship, and ways of getting through it.
>> Anonymous
Um... Squat moar?
>> Anonymous
masturbate furiously
>> Anonymous
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KILL YOURSELF
>> Anonymous
I'm in a long distance relationship, shitsux. Phone sex gets old, most of the time I'm not even playing just pretending. We have a deal where dating other people casually and kissing and touching is okay but no sex or oral. It's been 2 months and I don't think I can hold out. Met a girl I like and I want to fuck soooooooooooooo bad. If I do I'm not going to tell.
>> Anonymous
>>307931
>>307934
>>307938
fuckin assholes

anyway, just do things you like 2 get over not be'in around him
>> Anonymous
post pictures of your cock
>> Anonymous
>>307942
PHON SEX IS FOR HIGHSCHOOLERS

REPORTED
>> Anonymous
>>307942
Your relationship sux
>> Anonymous
Seriously, is anyone going to help me?
>> Anonymous
>>307948
I'm 21, in high school I had real sex. : /

I still love you even though you reported me anon. Call me I'll pretend I'm jacking off.
>> Anonymous
>>307949
Kind of the point. All long distance relationships suck.
>> Anonymous
>>307958
Yeah, they do. Guessing you've been in one, and how did you deal?
>> Anonymous
I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, and for the first two, we went to schools 300 miles away from each other.

What can I say, OP, it sucks. Do whatever you can to make each other a part of your daily lives. Call each other, talk online, send affectionate e-mails, keep him involved in the important aspects of your life, and take an interest in what he's doing. Nothing can take the place of physical proximity though, so visit as often as you can, and when you do visit, squeeze in as many orgasms as possible. For the first year, I literally had no idea what my boyfriend's campus looked like, because we'd spend the whole weekend in bed whenever I visited.
>> Anonymous
>>307927
shut up cunt
>> Anonymous
I feel your plight. My boyfriend is stuck in the UK for his studies for at least another year.

I suppose you'd first need to evaluate how strong your relationship is. My BF and I are very close and always let each other know we're the best things that ever happened to each other. I don't see him cheating at all, but we're both also extremely open about sex and have added third partner of either gender into the mix in the past, so we both have a "I don't care if it gets too hard for you, you can fuck someone else, just stay IN LOVE with me" policy.

You probably aren't so open and fear him finding someone new, though. Don't let paranoia overtake you if you do feel this way, 90% of what you conjecture in your mind isn't going to happen at all.

Other than that, my best advice is to talk with him often. Online chatting has the benefits of being able to send newly taken photos or web camming, so it helps retain the personality of the relationship. I mean, web cams are cheap, you should both agree to buy one so you can have video chats. Talk about good memories and make exciting plans for what you'll do when you see each other again. It's hard at first, but soon the time starts flying by and you're together again. Even if it's only for 10 minutes a night, make sure you talk WHENEVER you can. If you don't communicate often, things will likely become distant and that's when long-terming fails.

Some more tips would be to set aside your free time to watch streaming movies together online. Here's a list of sites me and my BF use:

www.alluc.org
http://www.watch-movies.net/
http://www.onlinecinema.org/
http://www.tv-links.co.uk/
www.movie6.net
www.mogulus.com
You can buffer them together and then count down so you start at the same time, and chat with him on microphone or text while watching. If you both have the same movie/show/anime downloaded already, watch those together (obviously better quality and no waiting for buffers).
>> Anonymous
Fuck another guy and let him cum inside you. If you get pregnant then you wont be lonely and it will be a true test of whether or not your boyfriend really loves you if he stays with you.

IF YOU DON'T DO IT NOW YOU'RE BASICALLY SAYING YOU HATE YOUR BOYFRIEND AND WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE YOU DON'T THINK HE REALLY LOVES YOU
>> Anonymous
>>307969

Furthermore, play online games together if you both are into gaming. Doesn't have to be some /v/ related serious stuff, just go to http://www.shockwave.com/gameroom.jsp or yahoo and play some casual multiplayer games with him.

Just communicate often. Incorporate visual things into it a lot so it keeps feeling personal. This isn't the freakin 1850s where all you can do is send snail mail. We can send and share any type of data these days, so make use of it all. Just cause you can't physically touch each other or go out in real life together does not mean the fun is gone.

I know the lack of romance is tough, but it will get easier in time.
>> Anonymous
My relationship has been long distance for two years now... it's a pretty geeky suggestion, but you guys should play online games together. My GF and I play WOW. Any game will do. Some sort of activity you can do together, you can't just talk on the phone for every hour of every night.
>> Anonymous
>>307969
>>307971
>>307972
Thanks your guys, very helpful info. I know one thing that we are both into and have played together in the past is Runescape. We are nerds together.
>> Anonymous
Fuck you and your relationship.

Go cheat.

You're gonna be cheated on

gtfo my /fit/
>> Anonymous
I have to be away from my girl for long stretches of time (Marine) and it is rough. If its "the one" you'll put up with it and make it through. Don't do the bullshit "how was your day" talk every night. The less we talk the easier it is. Also, letters, write them. Or just go visit?

If not, then go fuck some other nerd on campus, probably one of these guys, and everybody wins.
>> Anonymous
>>307994
Lol thanks.
I don't know if he is the one, but fuck, there is no one here that is even close to how he good and nice and stuff he is.
Anyway, I would vist, but him being on the other side of the country makes it hard.