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Anonymous File :-(, x)
I know exactly what you mean. I had this friend who use to always go on about being teased and her family pressuring her into losing weight and so on, yet she would always say she was 100% happy with her weight.
The paradox here is that these comments still upset her and let's face it, she's like 5'5" or so and weighs fucking 130kg AT LEAST. Regardless of how she LOOKS (I wouldn't hit it) it's still very unhealthy and damaging in the long run. So I tried on MULTIPLE occasions to tell her to do something about it, that if she wants to lose weight she has to be committed, disciplined and also *realistic* about what to expect.
I told her about starting slowly, with walking, aerobics and dieting (NOT SHAKES! just eating less shit and more substantial meals) then moving onto jogging, more and weight training. In the long run, running, lots of cardiovascular exercise and some more weight training for good tone. But you can't win em all..
Unfortunately, my so called friend backlashed against my opinions and started saying I was accusing her of being fat and depressed (too true she was, however I never said such things) and useless. Anyway, anon decided to let her deal with her problems by herself, as it was FAR too much maintenance trying to motivate her and cop her shit too. Last I heard, she got herself a boyfriend and now believes that she need not improve her health or fitness at all. Enjoy your early life span, you fat retarded fuck.
Awaiting mis/fit/s thoughts.
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