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Anonymous
You my friend don't have "it". I don't either. It's a combination of an attractive face, tall slim/athletic body, smooth sounding voice, and good vocal inflection, pheromones, and finally pick up technique etc...
"Confidence" has little to do with it. All it means is you are sure of yourself enough to go out and say what you want to say. Being confident certainly doesn't imply you have anything good to say. The "be confident" advice works for people who have things to say but are to afraid to speak. But for those of us who don't have anything to say, or have a bad voice and other features, it does very little.
I have the problem of a bad voice. I sound very boring, dull, not deep, choppy, etc... The voice I was born with just doesn't sound sexy. Bad luck I suppose. I don't care enough to take voice classes and consciously change my voice every time I speak. Coupled with a completely average body ( a little short, and a little thin but nothing terrible. nothing good either) and an average face, I am not a catch. Which is why women have never gravitated towards me.
So get rich and get shallow whores or buy a hooker or some shit if you're good at making money. Play your strengths.
And to your question. Women are attention whores, they feed on it. They like to know men look at them, but then act all cold and frigid to not look like "sluts" illogically. They also want to attract the attention from a man who they like. Not from you or me.
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