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Anonymous
Not sure if this belong in here, but here goes.

Been with my girlfriend for 6 months. We're going to both be sophomores in college this fall. We were asking questions about each other tonight about our past and she said that I need to work on being more assertive.

Back in high school I was drawn into a series of fights by my friend. I had no problem kicking ass with him by my side, but I didn't really like it.

I developed this whole non-confrontational attitude before I hit college, and while it got me laid a lot fall quarter, my girlfriend clearly doesn't like it. To my defense, I put on an act of being super non-confrontational around my girlfriend because I'm her first boyfriend, and she's my first girlfriend. I wanted to be the kind, nice, gentle lovin boyfriend that I thought all girls like. Obv she wants me to be a little more ballsy. She also says that she wants me to be a bit more aggressive in bed.

Can I get some advice from people more experienced to what this girl wants from me?

Pic unrelated, but damn this girl is hot.
>> Anonymous
OH FUCK OFF.

There's been a spate of relationship help threads lately

FOAD
>> Anonymous
She wants you to treat her like shit, like all young girls do. Turns them on.
>> Anonymous
>>251423
Why do you post if you hate this type of thread so much? I'm asking for advice, not some asshole bitching.

Thanks for the time you spend bumping this to the top of the page though.
>> Anonymous
>>251425

Sadly, this poster is half-right but also half-wrong. Girls like guys who have a lashing tongue from time to time(like sarcastic/take no shit type of attitude) and those who aren't nice all the time. Even if you're being courteous or just genuinely nice, they don't like that. We're not even talking overbearing nice, but just being 'a pretty cool guy and doesn't afraid of anything.' Most chicks also enjoy playing the submissive role in bed and feeling the 'man take control'. It's apart of nature, I suppose you could assume. Men, biologically speaking, are built to be more assertive and physically overbearing. We even have the chemical(testosterone) to prove this. Then again, what woman don't understand is that while we're naturally hunters/aggressive individuals, we can also be nurturing and soft individuals as well. They only like to see increments of this shit, but not big leaps and bounds.

In short, she wants a guy that'll be a bit more assertive, speak his mind about topics and take no shit. In bed, she'll just want you to use a bit more force. I.E, if you're having sex with her missionary position, bound her wrists to the bed and bite her cheeks/ear lobe -GENTLY- while going at a moderately high speed on her pussy. It's showing affection and also showing her, 'take this fucking cock, you dirty slut.' Weird, I know.

However, do not start half-raping her in bed or slapping her the fuck around. If she digs rough sex, then progress into that shit slowly at your speed. Rough sex can either be ridiculously hot or fucking weird, depending on the party.

tl;dr, just don't take her shit, speak your mind and try to impose your will upon her a bit more. do not confuse this with punching her in the fucking jaw, muay thai jump kneeing her in the fucking face or raping her asshole. do not do any of that shit.

Hope I helped.
>> Anonymous
To paraphrase Anon above, she want's a man. Try being one. College is full of pussy non-cofrontational types. Show her you're no 16 anymore.
>> srage srage
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>>251426

SRAGE GOES IN EVERY FIELD
>> Anonymous
>>251426
Fuck you, bitch. Don't be getting confrontational on me.
>> Anonymous
>>251421

OP: "being assertive" does not mean you have to "kick ass" or get into fistycuffs. If your g/f thinks so, then she is a ho tramp and doesn't deserve to be your g/f.
>> Anonymous
>>251437
Well, female heterosexuality is so messed up these days. Women want something they don't exactly say in a coherent way and come off as contraditory. This Anon is pretty much right, try to adapt a little, but don't go all caveman on her. If she asks you to change too much or change things you really can't/want, just dump the bitch.
>> Anonymous
OP here. Thanks for all the advice on this. I think I know what I have to do. I'm just going to state my mind, be more dominant in bed (aka just grab her, sweep off feet, lots of passion, etc).

Also, I'm going to make plans for her. I always thought that was kinda an asshole thing to do, but I'm just going to start doing stuff like "Tonight we're going out to this restaurant I like at 8:00, I'll pick you up at 7:30. Dress business casual"
>> Anonymous
>>251911
wat
>> Anonymous
Go ahead and let other people change who you are, faggot.
>> Anonymous
fuck her asshole
>> Anonymous
>>251933
nevermind this dude.
girls like to be treated like shit, just dont over do it. i came to know this a bit too late... shame on me
>> Anonymous
bump
>> Anonymous
BEND HER OVER AND SHOOT YOUR GOO IN HER ASSHOLE. THEN SLAP THAT BITCH AND MAKE HER SUCK YOU OFF.
>> Anonymous
>>251911
yeah that sounds good. us girls are fuckin dumb. as for being more assertive in bed, just pin her arms down, don't necessarily stop when she asks you to and make her get on her knees and suck your cock.

we love that shit.
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
beat her up
>> Anonymous
Go for your basic fantasy bondage. They love the idea of being raped.....without the actual rape part tossed in.