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Anonymous
dear /fit/,

I lost my virginity the other night. The accomplice had a great time with my better than average foreplay and mailed me the next day asking to meet again.

PROBLEM: I didn't come. At all. It hurt if anything. I tried to pick up the pace and plow the shit out of her but eventually I'd be left with no energy and lie back on the bed as we moved back to slow grinds that I have trouble even standing up to.

So, I'm assuming I've got to work on my abs to get some more stamina out of them, but what else should I be doing to maintain a pace and possibly achieve my own pleasure? Can anyone step up and give me some 'pro tips' on how to fuck?

Stuff I'd like you to keep in mind:
-I'm 19. She was 25 an had a kid so it was loose (3 fingers in right off the bat).
-I was really drunk and she was too.
-I'm a little on the overweight side. Nothing you could notice without taking my shirt off though. In fact I look pretty hot with clothes on.
-I live in Japan. She was Japanese and had a much smaller body than me (185cm). We also only had a futon for the event so it was basically all missionary with a bit of cowboy and stint of doggy.

Depending on the answers I get from this I may go gay if this all sex is hyped up to be.
>> Anonymous
lololol OP is such an awesome troll I'm gonna reply to this seriously

1) Don't be drunk. It makes your penis much less sensitive and makes it a lot harder to come or even stay turned on.
2) Foreplay is not just for her, it's for you too. When you're really turned on by her and the situation sex is much better. Work up the heat.
3) If she's loose try to fuck her with her legs close together, or push it in her slightly to the side. Like this:
Entrance to vagina -> [/ <-your pen0r (the slash)
and go fast but not deep (or it will hurt). Works for me.
>> Anonymous
>>400066

being really drunk is the likely reason you couldnt cum, same thing happens to me, when sober I can usually come somewhere between 10-20 minutes more if I hold back. Really drunk I can fuck for over an hour and not cum. I am reasonably fit so can maintain a decent pace for a long time, just dont go to hard the whole way, but you might have to lift the pace to get you over the line when you feel you are about to come.

First few times sucked for me and I wondered what all the fuss was about, but it gets better and eventually you will want it all the time.

Asian girls are really no looser or tighter than white girls every girl is different, gettin her doing some pelvic floor exercise to strengthen the muscles around the area. A problem you may have with an asian girl is that you are just too long for her might not be able to go full depth in some positions.

Also cocks are you just trolling weeaboo's by saying you are fucking a Jap girl
>> Anonymous
>>400077
>>400094

Thanks. I'll call her tonight after work and get some prac.

Not trolling btw. I'm living in Shimoda, Shizuoka-ken of Japan where I work as a bar boy, basically a bartender who also has to develop relationships with customers to make them drop cash.

Due to the nature of my work and the fact that I'm a tall, blonde, blue-eyed Aryan, speak Japanese at a University grad level, young (19), as well as being the only foreigner in town make me pretty popular with women. Popular enough that they'll come to the bar I work at to see me and mail me in the day, but not enough to participate in a one-night-stand [gossip circles will tear the shit out of you in a small Japanese towns...], hence the only recent loss of my v-plates.

I'll answer any questions about moonspeak culture/life if you want, just add some more to the main topic of me trying to fuck.

Oh yeah and I forgot to add I'm not really that attracted to her as a person, she's pretty dumb and useless. Body isn't special either but I need to learn from something right? Could that be playing a part in me not having fun?
>> Anonymous
>>400127

Ok I lost. I can't tell if this is god-level trolling or real.

How did you end up there? Half-Japanese I guess?
>> Anonymous
OP, don't worry. Sex gets better and better. I didn't cum the first time either, but I put that down to nerves.
Since then I've got to really enjoy even one nighters, the trick is to enjoy the girl you're with, to relax and if your dick does shrink and not want to play, replace it with your fingers or mouth. That works for me, and it also lets me last ages before cumming, as it allows my dick to rest and not pop too early
>> Anonymous
>>400094
>>First few times sucked for me and I wondered what all the fuss was about

This is where I'm at. Did it for the first time two days ago, the only cool sensation was putting it in, the rest felt more or less like jerking off :(
>> Anonymous
>>400066
>Depending on the answers I get from this I may go gay if this all sex is hyped up to be.

i actually kinda panicked after my first time, it seems so fucking good in movies and shit and everyone talks about it, but it really didnt feel special at all
>> Anonymous
Not being able to fuck long enough was one of my main reasons for working out.

You are going to want to work out mainly your legs and abs. This isn't a balanced workout, and you should probably do more. But those are the muscles that you really use a lot, so make sure to include them
>> Anonymous
NO ONE LIKES IT/COMES THE FIRST TIME

also try cocks.
>> Anonymous
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Vegitto here.

Exercise moar, keep fucking her, improve your diet (healthy makes happy peen). If you don't mind the embarassment, get on your bed and practice your fucking positions, read the kama sutra.

Frankly, I'm disappointed. You fuck 1 Japanese chick and wonder if that's all there is to sex. Wait till you get a chick that knows what she's doing. Get your world rocked a few times, then come back and tell us your going gay.
>> Anonymous
enjoy your hand, tubbing bartending fuck ass

gb2america
>> Anonymous
Since you are a weeaboo you deserve to be fat.
>> Anonymous
summary of cause: alcohol and nerves
>> Anonymous
>>400852
Speaks the truth. A girl who knows what she's doing and what she wants makes it a truly amazing experience. And the more you do it, the more you learn about what you like and what you can do.
Also, pron is a good teacher of positions and technique.
>> Anonymous
So I got her pretty drunk last night (at my bar, lol) and had another go with it. Wasn't so bad, except I had to resort to just pulling out and wacking it for a minute to shoot.

Thanks for all your advice and tips, I'll get a sort of schedule with her going until I learn all the ropes. After that I'm not going near the bitch, she be crazy.
>> Anonymous
copypasta
>> Anonymous
>>400066
need glutes not abs
>> Anonymous
a japannese girl living in japan who has one kid and is single?

wow, you fucked the absolute white trash pariah of japan.

and you had to get her drunk?

that's like getting a fat drunk to give you head.


fail!
>> Anonymous
>>400885
you're clearly a virgin. Anyone who says "porn is a good teacher" either doesn't know how to fuck or ha never fucked before. Porn is nothing like real sex unless you're watching home made. If you're talking about jenne james porn or some shit with models and actors/actresses then you're fucked. Have fun thinking flapping your tongue like fan on a girls clit is a good way to give oral sex.
>> Anonymous
>>402560
you mean it's not?!