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Dont tell me that masurbation is healthy Anonymous
I made a decision sometime in early september to stop masturbating for good. The problem is that after every few days i break down and give in. The thing is i see all these beautiful girls at school and when i come home i end up thinking about them and then that leads to looking at porn which in turn leads to masturbation. Iknow this is something i have to get over by myself but i guess i just want to know that it can be done. so for the males out there what was the longest you went without fapping?
>> Anonymous
I tried to give it up too. Went three months and then realized I was being a fucking retard.

Seriously, why do some guys want to give it up? What the fuck is wrong with jacking it? Hell, even during periods when I get laid regularly I STILL whack off.
>> Anonymous
i want to give it up as a means of discipline.
>> Anonymous
theres nothing wrong with masterbating
fap your god damn brains out to all those cute little highschool girls while you can
because in a couple of years, you're going to be a fucking pedo for doing so

only bad thing about fapping is that is can become time consuming, so just keep time in mind
>> Anonymous
Fapping reduces the risk of getting -
Prostata cancer.
So fap! fap all you can!


i love fapping , do you like it too?... o.o
>> Anonymous
Why would you do that to yourself? Cause you're ashamed? Everyone does it. I probly haven't gone a week without doing it since I was like...13.

I had a friend who had a contest with his buddy for how long they could go without doing it. He lasted 7 months. Shit is hardcore
>> Anonymous
any doctor will tell you to jack off
>> Anonymous
Masturbating may protect against prostate cancer
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3942-masturbating-may-protect-against-prostate-cancer.html

too bad, I'm telling you that masterbation is healthy

don't be such a fucking pussy OP
>> Anonymous
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I fap like 3 times a day minimum
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
op here. i really don't care if masturbating helps prevent prostate cancer. yes i am somewhat ashamed by the habit. i don't feel good afterwards. i just want to stop doing it. kind of like how vegetarians don't eat meat even though it can be unhealthy for them. isn't there anyone here that has overcome the habit?
>> Anonymous
>>412097
>isn't there anyone here that has overcome the habit?

Every guy jacks off. Seriously.
>> poor kid Anonymous
>>412097
are you a religious christfag prude? it sounds like you have a fucking warped view when it comes to sexual morality

there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating and other sexual things
>> Anonymous
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How old are you - 13? I used to feel that way. Just do it anyway. Fap = fun. I've gone 5 - 7 months at a time without fapping, and it just made me a bit edgy.

Pic related. I'll just leave this here.
>> Anonymous
>>412104

Shit, man. I'm pretty hardcore on the christian scale, and I just posted porn and told him to fap.
>> Anonymous
>>412103
i'm not religious. if anything i'm very nihilistic. I'm not 13, I'm 19. Like i said before i want to do it as a means of discipline
>> Anonymous
also nobody here is really helping
>> Anonymous
>>412109

That's stupid, fuck you.
>> Anonymous
fapping is fine if not done to excess.

If you've ever tried to give it up and couldn't then you have problems.
>> Anonymous
>>412109
Disciplining yourself must have a purpose. You don't give up something just to discipline yourself, that's retarded.

Doing your homework before video games takes discipline, and you're rewarded with good grades which lead to a well-paying career.

Eating healthy and staying away from junk food takes discipline and leads to a nice physique.

What does giving up masturbating get you? Nothing. There's no downside to jacking it. So why give it up? There are SO many other ways you can discipline yourself that would actually benefit you and yet you decide to apply yourself in one area that is going to do nothing good for you.
>> Anonymous
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>>412121
wisdom
>> Anonymous
>>412121

You and i disagree on the meaning of discipline. Discipline does not have to be rewarded.
Some men climb mountains just for the sake of conquering them. This is something that i want to conquer.
>> Anonymous
The honest truth is that you only fap when you have nothing to do and are bored as fuck. If you have shit to do then you wont really realize that you are horny & need to fap until you are doing nothing and think about girls and porn.

So just get a job or volunteer to keep yourself busy when you got free time and you hsould be able to cut down on the # of times you fap.

During summer and shit I fapped throughout the entire day while on the comp. Probably every 30-120 mins. But now that im in college I fap when I come home from 6-12 while taking a break from doing shit.
>> Anonymous !Nigger/OcE
Goddamnit OP, you are one stupid son of a bitch.

10/10
>> ­gay
when i was an underaged, and religious, fag i was ashamed of masturbation also. But i grew up.
>> Anonymous
>>412121
The only reason I think for quitting jerking off would be for a religious reason...

stupid fucking catholic
>> Anonymous
Not OP, but I am in the same position. It is more of a mental health issue rather than a physical health issue. Sure, it really doesn't do anything bad to the body, but it does to the mind. To some people, like me (and maybe the OP), it makes us feel worse, it distracts us, takes motivation out of use, etc.

So anyone here have any real advice?
>> Anonymous
lol americans

seriously, are you going to let the far-right morals in your country dictate what you can and can't do, even if it means giving up something ridiculously common and natural?
>> Anonymous
>>412200

I'm american and I love masturbating. Masturbating responsibly does no harm, it's in fact beneficial.

Don't say "american morals" when you're talking about religion you fucking piece of eurotrash.
>> Anonymous
It is healthy to regularly clear your tubes, I think its when your doing it 4 times minimum a day like me it becomes a problem.

Hell, bitches in porn are hotter then my girlfriend, I actually enjoy the porn more then her, wrecked my relationship.

It curves your dick if you don't switch hands.

The porn itself gives you unrealistic expectations.

If you have a girlfriend, fuck the shit out of her instead.

If you don't then limit yourself to about 2 times a week, and when you do jerk off, don't try to get it over with ASAP, build resistance so you don't look like a newfag when you get around to fucking.
>> Anonymous
The longest time I've gone without fapping is, far as I remember, 4 days... ever since I discovered orgasm... in an odd and embarrassing way...
Why the hell would you give up masturbation? I didn't fap for 4 days because I were away from home, without my porn. Without ANY porn. However, I fapped on the 4th day because I couldn't wait to get home.
I fap about 2 times a day. Sometimes 4 times a day, but 2 is the average amount.
Today I fapped 2 times, first time at around 10:30pm (GMT+1) and second time around 1:00am.
>> Anonymous
>>412218

Sounds like porn didn't mess up your relationship; you didn't really care for her. I'm in a committed relationship and I find that even though she may not be as gorgeous as some of the girls in porn, I feel way more attracted to her than the porn star, which makes sex and the like infinitely better.
>> Anonymous
Personally I try not to do it more than once ever 4-7 days.

You fuckers are all "LOL U MUST BE ASHAMED LOL GET OVUR UR CHRISTIAN GUILT LOL", but there are two valid reasons I don't do it everyday:

1. I lose motivation. Maybe you don't, but I do. I don't talk to girls at school when I've fapped the night before, because I just don't give a shit about them. At this point in my life I have almost no shared interests with the average high school girl besides a desire for sex, and I'm not a talkative person by nature. However, if I restrict my fapping I get horny as hell and become much more social. I seek out social situations in order to get closer to women. I don't look at them as retards, I look at them as objects to give me pleasure. Of course there are the exceptions, I do enjoy socializing with some girls without sex in mind, but for the vast majority I don't give a shit if I'm not thinking about fucking them. And I enjoy being horny.

2. If I fap once a week as opposed to everday I cum 100 times harder and enjoy it 100 times more. Maybe I just have a low sex drive compared to you guys. Don't know. But I can't deny fact. If I fap everyday I don't even feel much pleasure until about the 15 seconds before my orgasm and then the 3-5 seconds my orgasm lasts. Of course, I don't always have time to edge properly and let it build, but still. It's much better for me when I have a whole week's worth of sexual tension and images of girls in my head.

So fuck you assholes. I can't help the way I am.
>> Anonymous
>>412226
You do have a point.
I just wasn't sexually attracted to her, shit happens.
I just figure if I didn't have so much free porn to choose from I wouldn't of been jerking it as much and possibly would of felt like fucking her more often.
>> Anonymous
>>412230
No one one in the thread said you had to do it everyday. The OP wants to give it up permanently. As in never do it again. You said you still do it. Therefore your self-righteous rant does not fucking apply and you really should shut the fuck up.
>> Anonymous
>>412230
You MUST try fapping twice one day at least ONCE.
I try to masturbate a second time within 2 hours after the first time I fapped on days I've got time for it.
Perhaps it's just me, but it seems that my prostate is EXTREMELY sensitive for about 2 hours after I've fapped so the second orgasm can not be compared to a normal one.
I need about 20 minutes before I can go a second time, but it's hard to come again only 30 minutes after the first time I fapped (takes some time to both get in the mood and to come), so I usually wait at least one hour.

Once I only waited about 10 minutes before I gave it a second try and it hurt a little when I came so I aint doing that again.
>> Anonymous
>>412230
bro, i got news for you, you're gonna be in a mental institution by the time you're 30.

and you must have very little testosterone and big bitch-tits.

sorry bro
>> Anonymous
every other day is good for me
>> Anonymous
7 years
>> Anonymous
What a bunch of cunts
>> Anonymous
>>412332
>7 years

are you lying? why?
>> Anonymous
>7 years

are you lying? why?
>> Anonymous
>>412367
from age 10-17
something i tried and didnt bother to keep doing

continued when i was 17 and now im 19
>> Anonymous
I like to wait about 2-3 days in between ejaculations. Seriously, it feels much better after a wait, and, I shoot more cum than doing it every night.
>> Anonymous
Okay OP and guy whos in OP's position, assuming this isn't a bullshit thread that got a lot of responses and therefore gained pseudo-credibility, I'm actually going to try to reason you through this. Caring or not caring about my response is your choice as always; its 4chan after all. I just feel a few things need to be said. And it will be a tl;dr post, in case you need an early warning in order to avoid involuntary education and self-growth.

Firstly, I get where you're coming from about "discipline" as in "a test of your willpower" or "meeting and overcoming a challenge" and etc, but in all seriousness I don't think the actual masturbation is your problem. From the opening post and the ones that followed, it seems like you don't feel good about jerking it because either:

#1) You're getting your rocks off by "cheating" rather than using a good old fashioned woman, therefore masturbating makes you "less of a man" somehow.
#2) You're using porn to do it, and therefore feel that...
#2a) ...you're cheating like in #1
#2b) ...using readily accessible porn as a substitute is stunting your normal sexual growth and attraction to girls your age
#2c) ...relieving yourself with porn is interfering with your ability to have a relationship when you do find that special camwhore next door
>> Anonymous
Now all of that is fine, and given your youth (yes, I'm older than you, by how much doesn't fucking matter) its even understandable how you'd reach those conclusions. But the simple facts are:

#1) Jerking off doesn't make you less of a man. It actually confirms you are indeed a man. Truth is a healthy male needs to release more semen in his lifetime then would be found acceptable by most women intending to bear your child (which is solely who would be concerned by what comes out of your dick circa 1970 and earlier). This is usually why most men cheat on your partners; especially when women use closing their legs as some sort of punishment for you forgetting to take out the trash last week or whatever. Times have indeed changed though. Nowadays it's socially acceptable that if you're not going to get what you need from her, you're going to get it from somewhere else, including Reliable Righty.
#2) Using porn as a substitute shouldn't be seen as shameful because porn is effective for the very same reason your parents had you: men are sexually activated by visuals of an attractive female body. Pornstars have fan bases just like the hot girl at school has many admirers: because we want to fuck them and their hot bodies to pieces. If using porn somehow makes you feel stunted, just turn off the monitor, close your eyes and use your fucking memory to recall how deep that Jane's cleavage was that one time at band camp instead. You'll get the same orgasmic result and won't be able to blame it on anything except your healthy heterosexuality. And if you feel the need to blame that, just /wrist now and gtfo of the gene pool.
>> Anonymous
#3) Once in a relationship, you should absolutely endeavor to expend your sexual energy on her rather than into a Kleenex. But understand not all relationships are rainbows and blowjobs. Sometimes she goes away on vacation. Sometimes she "has a headache". Sometimes you'll get into one of those aforementioned fights that lead to leg-lockdown. All men who've had relationships know these are inevitable and must be dealt with since they're unavoidable. And all men deal with it cause thats what we do: we get shit done. If you believe porn is stopping you from enjoying a healthy sexual relationship, by all means re-organize your priorities. Get that finger off the left mouse button and inside her instead. Blaming porn for standing in your way is just an immature way of rationalizing your lack of willpower.

Seriously guys, all potshots at your manliness aside, masturbation is a pleasure best taken in moderation, just like any other pleasure in life. As you grow into adults, I assure you you'll wonder just wtf you were thinking willfully choosing sexual frustration and blue balls over relief and practice increasing your sexual endurance (which the women appreciate by the way).

If you absolutely must do so, every time you feel bad after jerking it use the shame as motivation to have a woman's hand do it next time and then take steps to make it a reality. However don't think you're broken because you feel the need to do it, don't think that its killing your motivation to socially approach women and definitely don't think it's anyone or anythings fault but your own when you choose pictures and video over the real thing.

If you want to be a repressed rapist in training, stop fapping. If you want to be a healthy male who chooses to reward The Powers That Be's incredible gift of the female form with your approval, unzip, relieve, clean up, and get to work chasing Jane's cleavage.
>> Anonymous
WAAAAAYYYYY too much fucking reading to get to the parts i needed

>If you want to be a repressed rapist in training, stop fapping
>> Anonymous
>>412723

great wisdom comes in great packages
>> Anonymous
bump once for wise words
g'night
>> Anonymous
>>412707
>>412708

BUMP for great fucking justice.

Goddamn. Take those two posts, spread them across 300 pages, get published, and make a million bucks.

You deserve it, anon :) .
>> Anonymous
>>412708

Just FYI... sex is beneficial for a woman's headache. Don't listen to that bullshit.

Cumdumpster: "I can has hedache!"
/b/ pimp: "You gonna get raped!"
>> Anonymous
fapping is only bad when you do your weird ass fetish things to yourself and then when your with a girl and your just having vanilla sex - you cant get off :(

THEN you need to stop fapping

otherwise
fap away
>> Anonymous
hello fappers

How long does it take for wet dreams to occur. I hardly ever have them any more. My guess is maybe four weeks?
>> Anonymous
oh facepalm.

channel your fucking discipline to accomplish something real. Not masturbating is not something real.

You may think sheer self discipline is intrinsically rewarding, but FUCK you're an idiot to think in such a limited way. Study a martial art, do bodybuilding, pick up girls, invent time machines, get something out of our life.
>> Anonymous
itt: murder yourselves
>> Anonymous
Max: 14 days
Result: Found a cute girlfrend.

Sum: build up your hunger to find great food
>> Anonymous
>>413414
Although i find the idea of quitting masturbation completely fucking retarded, i'll have to agree with this guy. I fap once or twice every day and i've just about lost all motivation to pursue females. My shitty social skills don't help either :P
>> Anonymous
If you quit masturbating you're going to start blowing wads in your sleep. And then you'll have to deal with semen being all over your sheets/underwear/pajama pants.

It's not worth it.
>> Anonymous
The longest I went without fapping was 3 months while I was in Iraq. And masturbation is healthy.
>> Anonymous
When I was 14-15, I got it in my head that masturbation was OMG EVIL and WRONG and managed to go the entire summer without doing it. Meanwhile I was keeping Playboys under my bed as a way to learn self-control, discipline, all that bullshit.

Needless to say, I gave into temptation eventually; and after I was finished, my bedroom had *literally* heated up. That's how much tension I'd built up.