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Anonymous
OP...I am in a very similar boat, or perhaps was in a similar boat. Out of High School, had kissed maybe 2 girls, never gotten laid and I was scrawny as fuck. Now, I've gained about 40lbs of muscle, have a six pack. I'm in my last year of college and I have had girlfriends, gotten laid a whole bunch, and still work out 5 times a week and eat healthy.
What worked for me was just not caring as much. I'd talk to girls, but just not care and not make a big deal out of talking to them. It's like fishing, keep trying and trying and some will bite and some won't. Just don't make it mean anything about YOU...you're fine, they are the assholes. So, in all honesty, keep trying. Some will be takers and some won't. Just don't make a big deal out of any of it.
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