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Anonymous
Hey /fit/, maybe one of you can help me with this problem.

I've been hooking up with this girl who ive wanted to be with for so long, and shits going great. The only problem is, for some reason when we're fooling around, I cant get hard for shit. This hasnt really happened before, but its embarrasing as fuck because im pleasing the shit out of her but I cant get hard for whatever reason. Its not that she's ugly, shes ridiculously hot. What the hell is going on? Fapping too much? Hopefully I can get some insight.
>> Anonymous
Medication? Alcohol? Nervous? Any kind of recent illness/injury? Need more info.
>> Anonymous
>>135409
No medication, I booze pretty regularly but thats never really effected anything. Maybe nerves? I feel like shes the only one I'd try to impress. No injuries or anything.
>> Anonymous
Whiskey dick?
Need more info.
>> Anonymous
>>135413
Try cutting out the alcohol if possible. I heard the average guy can't rise to the occasion after 4 drinks, it's possibly bullshit, but I believe it.

Nerves is definitely another possibility.
>> Anonymous
>>135419
Whiskey dick is real.
It's probably just nerves, relax and get used to being around her and you'll be fine.
>> Anonymous
>>135415
Wtf is that?

>>135423
Thats the thing, she's been my best friend for awhile and im so comfortable around her. We've had a lot of repressed feelings toward eachother but never got to say it. Now it's actually happening, how do I relax and let the thought go? I feel like its always going to be in the back of my mind
>> Anonymous
>>135419
That's what I figured, I just didn't want to state something as fact without any kind of source to point to.
>> Anonymous
>>135425
Hmm as for trying to relax that part is up to you. The bad thing is that since you're thinking about it you will be self-conscious and it'll just get worse. I guess you could possibly try to talk to her about it.... Better idea might be to order some viagra online or something. I don't know.
>> Anonymous
>>135425
When you drink too much, you can't get it up. AKA whiskey dick.
>> Anonymous
I've never got it up after drinking, yes I've been humiliated

Happens to most of us buddy
>> Anonymous
OP here, does anyone have any ideas on what I can do to calm my nerves when I'm with her and we're hooking up?
>> Anonymous
>>135885
smoke weed
>> Anonymous
>>135432
Whiskey dick means you can't cum. You have to be REALLY loaded to not even get it up.
>> Anonymous
>>135888
smoke weed and your dick will rise indeed
>> Anonymous
Maybe you're into dicks.
>> Anonymous
>>135885

Fap a few hours before you meet up, you wont be as horny, therefore you can relax. Though if she isn't a complete moron, just tell her you're fiinding it difficult because she is so beautiful and being your best friend makes it slightly awkward the first time. If she doesn't understand even the most basic foundations of a relationship i.e. honesty, she isnt long-term material.
>> Anonymous
>>135888
>>135900
yep
>> Anonymous
I had the same problem with this one chick.It always felt like fapping to me,since she didn't want to do a damn thing except cum on me,so I had a hard time keeping it hard to fuck her for half an hour with no effort from her.
>> Anonymous
whiskey dick is when you can't get it up. cumming would take forever if it evens happen. it has happened to me, but then again i have performed while hammered before as well