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So /fit/, how do you get over someone?

I'm starting to get depressed over a girl. We've been friends for years, went out for about 6 months and were hooking up for about 4 months after we broke up. It's hard as hell to forget her as nearly everything reminds me of her (from music, movies, and the vidya) and we hang out a few times during the week (though we haven't hung out in a week).

I still like her and she says she still likes me (though that was a while ago, so I don't know if she still does). The problem is she doesn't want to be with anyone over summer, but I think she is with someone. She might not though and I don't want to ask and make things weird between us.

So far I've tried staying off of MySpace for three days (just got on today), haven't masturbated in 3 days (I think it kinda helps, but I feel full of rage when I was working out every other two days), been working out every other day, and have been studying for school. It has helped but sometimes I drift off and think of her.

Do you guys have any other advice?
>> Anonymous
kill self
>> Anonymous
sounds like something i'm going through. too bad this is a probable troll post
>> Anonymous
>>246947So /fit/, how do you get over someone?

Answer: Find someone else

/thread
>> Anonymous
keep you mind occupied is the best i can tell you, do something that make you constantly think, and not something repetitive. Aside from that, theres nothing you really can do....fact of life dude.
>> Anonymous
>>246956

Thirded
>> Anonymous
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WOOORRRKOUUUUTTTT!
>> Anonymous
>>246955
Probably in a few years
>>246956
>>246962
It sucks huh
>>246960
I try to but everyone out here sucks and are going nowhere in life. Also everyone is my classes are at least 10-20 years older than me and I'm only at school one day a week
>>246961
I try to but I get distracted easily
>>246963
Did it yesterday, so today is my off day, but I think I'll try that 100 push-up site
>> Anonymous
The best way to get over a girl is to get under a different one...
>> Anonymous
>>246971
I'm going to try and go out on Friday with a friend, probably get some chicks or watch him smoke
>> Anonymous
>>246971


this is actually a really good idea. It helps a great deal, unless it totally backfires and the girl reminds you of ur old girl then ur fucked... (happened to me)
>> Anonymous
NIGGERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
>> Anonymous
just chill,accept reality. it will go away by itself, and stay away from the sweet self-loathing.
>> Anonymous
Normally I'm one to make fun of others relationship problems but I'm in the exact same boat as you. If she doesn't share the same feelings for you it makes no sense in torturing yourself over something that could never be. If you still want to be with her but she doesn't, treat her as a friend and edge towards the possibility of you two being together, and in the end she could turn around and like you back.
>> Anonymous
>>246947
drink, preferably with some bros

>>246971
or drinking with a girl works, but your on 4chan so option 1 would be the only choice.
>> Anonymous
>>247014
That's the thing I've been doing, just I don't know if she still likes me since we haven't brought it up.

I want to tell her that I'm trying to get over her as I think she doesn't like me the same way I like her. But that might backfire on me. Plus she is hanging out with other guys that she said she likes or like her. And in a month she'll be moving an hour and a half way for school, so we'll be hanging out less.
>> Anonymous
It's harsh, but it seems she's uninterested and is only saying she likes you for your sake, and not to hurt your feelings for it seems you've been friends for a while. Her moving away pretty much seals the deal, if i were you I would just stop thinking about her, there's no point on hanging on a dying thread, it only digs you deeper.
>> Anonymous
>>247027
I'm trying to give up and still be friends but it is hard. Though I know eventually I'll be over her.
I loved in the beginning of our relationship, she was totally in to me (she broke up with her boyfriend of almost two years to go out with me) and would pleasure herself in the shower thinking of me when I wasn't around.
>> Anonymous
Ok redundant unneeded info. No shit it's hard, it's hard for everybody, just take up a hobby that occupies all of your thoughts and time, soon you'll be over her. I took up MMA and it all went from there.
>> Anonymous
>>246967I try to but I get distracted easily
Don't be.

I'm talking seriously. Shut the fuck up with that attitude right now. This is how you poison your brain. Repeat this shit ad nauseam and you're going to fuck yourself royally. Shut the fuck up. Tell yourself something positive, something possible, like I can do this.

or I'm going to beat the shit out of you.
>> Anonymous
Shes obviously seeing someone else, and your lucky because she still considers you a potential mate. Now if you ever want to fuck her again, you have to completely and fully ignore her to the fullest. Seem uninterested in her, and hang out with some other people. If she asks you to hang out or whatever, kindly deny, but don't say why, and don't keep talking to her. When she feels the same way you do right now, she will come crawling back.
>> Anonymous
The same thing is happening to me but on a different way. I know this girl since we were like 7 yrs old I´m almost 21. I always loved her, but really never had the courage to date her. We were friends and all but I never asked her out. I was chubby when I was a kid so I was always afraid to ask her out. After ending junior high I was 16 and we went to different schools. Now after 5 years of not seeing her I find her at facebook and we started chatting . Now I'm fit, still trying to lose some pounds I gained after my father died, but I'm in my best shape in years, in my whole life in fact. Well after I started chatting with her, I felt the same thing I felt when I was a kid. Now I can't take her out of my head, she recently broke with her boyfriend, and i have this urge to ask her out, but I don't want to live in the past. :( Don't know what to do.
>> Anonymous
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best advice that has ever worked for me: just go on with your life. I dont mean ignore her, but think of it like something that doesnt bother you. It will eventually become like that, a secondary issue.

Also masturbate man, its natural and activates many hormone processes that make you feel better. The usual "guilt" society wants us to feel when we do it is nothing but a control tool.
>> Anonymous
Yes. What would Clint Eastwood do? He would get the fuck over it. That's it. Simple as that.
>> Anonymous
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>>246967

you might aswell think about it until you get tired enough to get that crappy attitude away and start behaving like a man
>> Anonymous
>>247404
Do it, faggot. Fortune favors the brave. Girls need stable guys they're comfortable with after a hard break-up... Here's the part where you get your dick wet.

As for OP, he's just a bitch. Over means over, and if it doesn't, then that girl is a mentally-fucked psycho.
>> Do it.... Anonymous
What's the worst that could happen?
>> Anonymous
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>>246956here

looks like trollpost wasn't actually a trollpost.

i got the same deal from this girl I had been seeing for most of the winter: she suddenly broke it off in june, saying that too much was going on in her life and she wasn't looking for a boyfriend right now.

To be fair, she did leave the city for summer so I wouldn't have seen her much anyways. She does call to hang out whenever she comes back for the weekend though.

It's rough, but really the best thing to do is move on. What's more likely than her seeing another guy is that she just needs some time. Is she going through something in her life right now?

Give it some time for her to sort out her feelings and in the meantime find something else to occupy your thoughts and time. Going out and meeting new girls is one of the best things you can do.

Whatever you do, don't become the freakish stalker type who calls/texts/emails/myspace-posts every day. That will DEFINITELY turn her away from you. When you do contact her, make sure its for a good reason (like to actually do something together instead of "hey, wats up?"). Don't expect quick replies, and don't get upset if her communiques with you come back later than expected or are more terse than you'd like.

All this doesn't mean she doesn't have any feelings for you, it's just that she might need some breathing space.

Any femanons in this post? We need you're input, ladies
>> Anonymous
>>246947

GTFO
>> 04 !!LtgOgT0wJFN
Suck it up. Else, realise that even though there are plenty of fish in the sea and you're in the middle of a desert, alone, a freak rainstorm might dump some fish around you.
>> Anonymous
>Any femanons in this post? We need you're input, ladies

Input of cumdumpsters is never required. No exceptions. Not even in a bitching and lying contest, where they'd win too easily.
>> Anonymous
Stop being a wussy. I use to do that too, until I grew up. Also stop hanging around her, there is no point. You are never going to have what you once had, and friendship after a relationship NEVER WORKS. Do not even listen to what romance Hollywood, books, or what anybody tells you. Friendship after relationships never work, unless its just like a - "Yeah I know who you are and its cool to hang around you when we are around 10 other friends, but thats about it".

Just suck it up, hang out with friends, find a hobby to pass the time, as sappy as it is, I picked up guitar after one break-up.

Also if she ever starts saying she has the hots for you, even after hanging around 10 other friends, ignore her. You're better off. Ex's are ex's for a reason, and it will just fail all over again.
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
>>246947

Didn't read the rest of the posts but can you tell us why you broke up, i'm genuinely interested.
>> Anonymous
>>248670
>Didn't read the rest of the posts but can you tell us why you broke up, i'm genuinely interested because I want to find a single dude to jizz in my tea..

Fix'd.

(I say there, chap. Jolly good thing I was here to fix'd that sentence for you, eh? Served you out good and proper. Right then... cheerio!)
>> Anonymous
Go find this guy of hers and show him what your /fit/ induced muscles can do.
>> Anonymous
Don't wait around. She doesn't really care about you.
She doesn't want to be with anyone over the summer because she wants to 'see other people'.

However, if you really do like her, ignore her. You start 'seeing other people'. When she wants to hang out with you, tell her you're going to see someone. She'll probably be oozing out of the cunt for you.

If all else fails, just forget about her. Chances are there's someone else who is twice the woman she is.
Perhaps literally.
>> Anonymous
>>248694
what if he doesnt like fat chicks?
>> Anonymous
hence, the perhaps.
>> Anonymous
I've hardened my heart and filled it with hate, there's no more room for love. You should do the same OP.
>> Anonymous
Op, I recently got through a similar situation lasting 17 months. Talk about it with another person that can be responsive to how you're feeling. If you think a friend of yours has gone through anything similar to your situation, talking to that person is the best course of action you can take. Preferably a girl because not many guys I know are going to be sensitive in the way you need. Also, besides talking... running was the only thing that helped in the long run. Alcohol and drugs were just temporary fixes - they leave you frustratingly exhausted with yourself.
>> Anonymous
>>246947

Just forget about her, there's no point obsessing over her. If she ever comes back, then she comes back, but you're only wasting time hoping for that to happen. Thinking about her 24/7 won't make her want to be with you, it will just make you feel like shit. Then do a shit ton of squats.
>> Anonymous
>>248777

>> Thinking about her 24/7 won't make her want to be with you, it will just make you feel like shit. Then do a shit ton of squats.

Best fucking advice I've ever read on /fit/.
>> Anonymous
When someone breaks your heart

Cry a river, build a bridge and get over it.


Fag
>> Anonymous
>>248696


i was waiting for this type of comment.

seriously just go after random girls....you'd be surprise how fast the girl you used to obsesse over disappears from you're thoughts.
>> Anonymous
This is how you need to be, have a list of bitches lined up of who youd want to nail/be with.

Ask the girl who is #1 on the list if she says no then move onto the next one on the list. Dont waste time since every relationship you have till your late 20s is never going to work.
>> Anonymous
>>247404
Fucking do it. You'll regret not doing it. Hell, that's what happened to me... i didn't take my chance and life fucked me over royally. Even if she doesn't want it, at least you'll know it for sure and you will be able to move on.
>> Anonymous
>>247404

247404 Brain not found.
>> Anonymous
Drinking for a couple days and or weeks. The following that by hitting the gym hard, go in there with some anger not to the point where you want to throw plate weights at people but some anger will help. Getin shape and start looking better, go out to the bars that you know she is at and hit on and get drunk with other girls there. Profit.
>> JESUS !vBOFA0jTOg
Squatz fixes everything.
>> Anonymous
Run more. Squats as well.
>> Anonymous
>>249566
Fucking right, that solves everything for me.
>>249077
I'll try this week, thanks for the sincere answer jaja