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Anonymous
Dear /fit/,

Masturbation is a big issue in my life. I'm sure you have your opinions and you've already made up your mind by the first sentence, but maybe I can change your opinion.

Let me start by describing my situation. I'm 21, ronery, and very meek and shy. Thanks to anonymity, I'll admit that I'm pretty much afraid of anyone who acts dominantly or like a jerk - I kind of just fold automatically.

But there's a way I can combat this. I find that by not fapping, my aggression increases, and I become more assertive. The longer I go, the more assertive I become.

I've spent a long time trying to talk to girls ('cold pickup') on the street, subway, etc. I've come so close, but I'm just too shy. I'm hoping that by not fapping, I won't feel like a big depressed emo.

tl;dr Help me find ways to avoid fapping for about a week at a time. Not going to join the military either.
>> Captain Obvious
Play video games?
>> Anonymous
don't fap
its easy
you just dont fap
>> Anonymous
USE MASTURBATION TO IMPROVE YOURSELF:>>92934
>> Anonymous
Take antidepressants. I do and I masturbate about once a month.
>> Anonymous
>>93773
That's not healthy at all. Both the medicament and the masturbation scarcity.
>> Anonymous
>>93741

Just consider the health of your body and social life when you feel the urge to masturbate. Think of the effort you've put towards exercise, or maintaining your steady diet and energy levels (if you do those things). Think of how masturbation saps you of your will to do the things you want to do.
>> Anonymous
us a razor blade to make a very thin slice down the length of your PENIS. fapping will be too painful until it heals, about 10 days if you put neosporin on it and dont try to fap
>> Anonymous
Masturbations is healthy. Quitting it entirely is as harmful as overdoing it.
>> Anonymous
gtfo.
>> Anonymous
>>93805

Truth. I recommend once or twice every two weeks. Make sure it's sometime before sleep, and that it's in the knowledge you'll be fairly inactive and relaxed (i.e. nothing important planned) the following day.

/fit/: We take all the fun out of masturbation.
>> Anonymous
>>93773

I took them for years as a teenager. All I got was this lousy gyno. :\
>> Anonymous
OP

The best way to avoid masturbation is probably to just discipline yourself as well as start working out. I found when I started working out that I didn't feel like masturbating during the weekdays since I usually hit the gym M-F.
>> Anonymous
>>93804
this works, cut only skin deep, very shallow
>> Anonymous
>>93797

OP here. I was totally not expecting decent advice. I like this, and I think I will adhere to it. Thank you anon
>> Anonymous
Masturbate every day and just think of it as a regular bodily function, like eating and shitting.
>> Anonymous
you might think masturbation is the problem, but it's not. it's not because you masturbate that you are shy it's because you have mental issue. begin by attacking the main things that are holding you back. you shouldn't give more than 3% of your time to something that is only holding you back 3%.
>> Anonymous
>>93805
how much is overdoing it and what are the side effects of overdoing it
>> Anonymous
Cut it off and make a sandwich with it.
>> Anonymous
It might be less cause-and-effect between your fapping and confidence and more correlation. On the days that you do not fap, you are probably feeling like you have more self-control and therefore feeling better about yourself with more confidence and such. If you don't want to give up masturbation, find something else in your life that also gives you a feeling of control and do that instead.
>> Anonymous
>>94049
>> Anonymous
Ejaculating decreases my physical and mental willingness to do things. Not saying you shouldn't do it but you should very well be capable of not doing it if you choose to.
>> Anonymous
>>94005

Really?

That's interesting that it would have that effect on you. For me, it's the opposite. I feel sexually supercharged after lifting, especially after a chest workout, OR when I wake up in the morning and my abs are sore from crunches.
>> Anonymous
>>93804
>>94006

What the FUCK? Does someone wanna explain this?
>> moose
>>94308
Enjoy your infection.