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ED Man Problems
any men in here had trouble with maintaining an erection

i had sex with my gf just fine one day then a few days later she was unable to have sex with me so i masturbated twice. then 2 days ago i couldn't maintain an erection, i would get hard but not hard enough, then the same thing happened last night?

anyone had something happen like this, is it a temporary thing or is it something i should have a doctor look at?

also i had read about cock rings but i couldn't even get hard enough to use one of those

thnaks
>> Anonymous
take a break from fapping.
>> Man Problems
>>145127
OP here
That was what i was thinking,

when i broke up with my last g/f i sliped into depression and fap'd ... a lot, but i don't remember ever having this problem (although you don;t need to be as hard to fap)

i have decided to cut caffeine out of my diet and cut faping (although it is hard since it is like an addiction now)
>> Anonymous
>>145131

diet shouldn't be doing anything. no need to cut caffeine.

as for the depression -- almost all depression meds can fuck up your erections.

finally, since you call fapping an addiction, i'm nearly certain that over-fapping is your problem. stay off it for 3-7 days. you'll be back to normal in no time.
>> Anonymous
>>145131
Yeah, caffeine is addicting.
>> Anonymous
Sex God Method
>> Anonymous
OP here

thanks for all the advice

I am not on any meds at this time, i am with a new g/f that isn't a bitch and i was feeling good about my life till this happened, but i agree i need to cut fapping (caffeine is just something i want to cut so i can start sleeping properly again)

I am trying to figure out if it has to do with me resuming my exercise routines again (some weight training 3 nights a week and 30-60 sit ups almost every night)
>> Anonymous
>>145146

i don't know if this is any help, but don't worry about it. it happens to everyone. you over-fap and your penis goes limp. it's no big deal.

the more you worry about it, the more likely you are to overthink things while you're with this girl -- and that's just as likely to keep you from getting it up
>> Anonymous
>>145151

OP here, yeah the few people i have chated with about this have told me the same thing, "don;t worry the body is good at recovering just give it some time and don't worry or do anything sexual for a while"

Its now just a willpower game for me
>> Anonymous
>>145146

Hey man, its been proven by some guys in white coats that all ED (except for old age) is caused by mental problems. I'm guessing its because you are with a new girl that you are either nervous (looking to please the new girl) or maybe still have lingering feelings over the old one. I freaked out when it happened to me once or twice, but the reasons were mainly because of some serious fucked up personal problems, once those were gone I was fine. My advice just relax, play around with her, massage each other - get comfortable with her. Oh and if it does happen again when you are about to fuck her... DO NOT freak out. Girls don't really mind it if you laugh it off or make a joke (guess I should have taken the blue pill like Morpheus said eh?) but if you make a big deal out of it, so will they.
>> Anonymous
>>145155

OP here

We have had sex a few times already, its just been these last 2 times, but i agree with it being mental, i guess i am just stressed and over used, i am going to let time heal and just not fap or anything .... i did laugh it off and continued to pleasure her so it was fine, but not the same ... time will tell