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Anonymous
'Sup, /fit/

Virgin here. I'm going to be having sex soon, and I have some concerns, obviously. I cum relatively fast when I masturbate. Usually around 3-5 minutes if I'm really going at it. Am I going to cum this fast when I have sex? How about from a blowjob?

Will it slow down over time?

Help me out.

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>> Anonymous
>cum this fast

Protip: it's all about you
>> Anonymous
I'd rather not be a selfish lover.
>> Anonymous
Just eat her out for the majority of the time or some shit
>> Anonymous
Probably depends on the mood. Many guys can't come at all the first time, without a helping hand.
>> Anonymous
>>232252

Virgin detected.
>> Anonymous
ITT: Virgins calling virgins-virgins.
>> Anonymous
No, you'll come faster.

Enjoy your patronizing post-coital consolation speech.
>> Anonymous
>>232252
If OP's a virgin, what makes you think he'll be any good at oral? That shit takes practice.
>> Anonymous
>>232244
Odds are you'll be so nervous that you'll have trouble getting it up. After that you'll be lucky if you last 3-5 minutes.

I'm not trying to freak you out, this is honestly what to expect. My first time was me being embarrassingly flaccid then nervously humping (I think I got lucky and got past the 5 minute mark).

Tips: If she's not gay, a penis in her vagina will feel good, even if it's not for that long. So don't be too nervous.

Eat her out before hand. That way she gets her kicks no matter what happens. This also makes it easier for entry, if you catch my drift. This should help you last a bit longer since she'll be thoroughly lubricated by now.

Don't say any dumb shit like you're so beautiful, etc. My experience is that girls surprisingly hate that during or immediately after sex. Don't say thank you or something stupid afterwards and don't say I love you unless your sure of it. Just making sure to calibrate your brain, since it won't be working very well later.
>> Anonymous
surprise her with a cockslap. chick secretly love this.
>> Anonymous
>>232261

what the hell are you talking about, girls love it when you say "thank you" and offer them tea
>> Anonymous
>Don't say thank you or something stupid afterwards

Don't listen to him. It's polite to thank a girl for sex afterward and she will be waiting to hear it.
>> Anonymous
>>232261

My biggest fear is that the girl I'm going to have sex with isn't a virgin. She's used to having good sex by now.

Ah. Nervous doesn't cover half of it. Haha.
>> Anonymous
>>232260If OP's a virgin, what makes you think he'll be any good at oral? That shit takes practice.

Just because you've never had sex doesn't mean you haven't done other things.

Tips for oral:

It's a good idea to wet your fingers in your mouth before rubbing the vajayjay.

Rub the vagina in circular motion with your hand. Doesn't matter where right now, just start rubbing... GENTLY.

Find the clit (at the top) and start to focus your rubbing on it.

Stick your face down there and lick away. Start to focus on the clit by making the circular motion with your tongue.

Start to finger her. One finger may work, two is normally the way to go, if she needs 3 or more you should leave. *BONUS TIP!* If it's your first time fingering, finding the entrance to the vagina cave can be tricky and embarrassing. While you're rubbing down there you should feel around for the entrance and make a mental note. Make sure she and your fingers are wet before you attempt to finger.

Continue tonguing her clit and make a "come here" motion with your fingers as you pull them back. Start slow then speed up as she seems more into it.

BONUS TIP! If you're doing well with this, you can substitute the circular motion with others. Back and forth, up and down, etc. Circular is just normally the good way to go. The same way that up and down is the good way to go for a hand job.
>> Anonymous
>>232260

Actually, I have given her oral. I'm good enough at it.
>> Anonymous
>>232287
Then you're not a virgin. Oral sex = sex.
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
>>232312

On a technicality i guess so but i don't think its really losing your virginity until its proper sex.
>> Anonymous
>>232272
Bullshit. Thanking a girl for sex is one of the most pathetic things you can do.
>> Anonymous
>>232323
That's why a lot of high school "virgins" have HIV, herpes, syphilis, etc...
>> Monsterthod
>>232347
what should he say then
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>232399

"dont tell anyone or i'll kill you"
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
>>232399

"Get out."
>> Anonymous
Try rubbing one out beforehand, that way when you actually get to the deed you should be able to last longer.
>> Anonymous
>>232399
Well, we know what he SHOULDN'T say.
>> Anonymous
Relax the muscle that you use to hold pee in/push cum out. You can last a really long time if you do that while fapping, so maybe it works with the real thing?
>> Anonymous
>>232399
Just fucking say how you feel. "That was great" is the only correct answer, unless you don't mind not seeing her again. Then say what you REALLY feel
>> Anonymous
>>232261"and don't say I love you unless your sure of it"

no, don't even fucking say i love you. good god that's a trap
>> Anonymous
>>232261
after you're done slap her and tell her to go to the kitchen and make you a sandwitch

>>232274
so basically you don't want her to know how good sex feels like so that she won't notice that you suck?