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Anonymous
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There's not much to say because there was no planning to it, but here's what happened. I was late to a meeting with my friends and when I arrived they had already left without me. I walked around looking for them for four hours before going back home. I felt really miserable and low and almost suicidal (not in an emo 'oh nobody likes me' way, more because nothing was going right for a long time) , and in desperation I just acted completely different to the people that I talked to and met on the way home. My usual way of communicating with people is to pause before speaking and then slowly respond without confidence. When someone asked me a question, I immediately responded loud and clear without even half a second of hesitation. The way people acted differently towards me was astounding; they respected me and smiled and were happy. People always look at me kind of strange like they aren't too happy to see me, and this was a complete shock because I always thought it was because of the way I looked or something. I could definitely work on my improvement, but the secret to people's hearts and minds has been revealed to me. It's all in the attitude, confidence, and personality. I am currently in the beginning of experimenting and developing the best possible way of presenting myself and communicating with people.
The people in this thread that said that some people just aren't attractive to women and that it's hopeless, well that is kind of true, but my facial features aren't that bad and with improvement to my looks and perfecting my communication/personality skills, I know I will prevail.
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