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sex Anonymous
So I have this health problem...

My girlfriend and I are having sortive problems in the bedroom. I think through chronic masturbation as a teenager I have really lengthened the time it requires for me to climax, but for her she apparently climaxes within 10 minutes or less (which I find hard to believe, bitch is probably just lying)

Anyways its gotten to the point where if I don't ejaculate within the time she has an orgasm it becomes uncomfortable for her and tells me to stop because apparently I'm too big (I'm barely 7' and I think thats plausible but sounds like an excuse). We've tried lub and several positions but it dosent seem to help. She dosent like oral sex at all and thinks it is disgusting when I drop a load on her (not that I blame her) if I dont finish in time.

Now dont get me wrong, I have a great time during sex with her but I dont have any urge to cum within the first few minutes of intercourse like she apparently expects me too. I dont want unsatisfying sex effecting our relationship but it is reasonably important in a relationship I think and I dont want to be cock blocked after every session just because I havent blown my load yet and shes done.. So what are some things I can do to make myself more sensitive? What should the average time of sex be, and is this normal or do I just have a really picky girl?
>> Anonymous
>>407758
7 foot dick?

Want to be more sensitive? Don't wear a condom, or wear a thin one.
Remember to pull back foreskin to behind the head of the penis if you aren't already.

Go faster.

Average time of sex. Since I'm a virgin, I'd say minimum 3 minutes max is up to you.

>or do I just have a really picky girl
I don't think you have a girlfriend. Enjoy your hand.
>> Anonymous
I'm in a similar situation, but my girl is multi orgasmic, so she doesn't mind that it takes me ages to finish, but she isn't on the pill, so by the time I'm ready, and I go for a condom, she's all dry and that's the end of that for the evening.

Your girl is picky. Sucks.

Breathe hard, and fuck as hard and fast as possible, with lots of cock movement i.e. all the way in, all the way out, and you'll finish quick. Plus get her doing kegels - if you've used a deathgrip wank technique, that'll help.
>> ­gay
you're not aroused enough. Doesn't matter how much you masturbated, if the girl does something hot that you like, like licking your ears or whatever you like you'd come instantly. But i don't think you have a girlfriend, enjoy your palmela handerson.
>> Anonymous
>>407762

Uncut. And yeah I feel like shes being kind of a bitch about it but well sex is a two way street I suppose

>>407765

Sorry, barely seven inches. Just slightly above average. And she refuses to go on the pill and well sorry but I'm a stickler for wearing protection simply because I'm not going to risk unwanted pregnancy or STD because sex wasn't satisfying enough for me. I do use the really thin ones though
>> Anonymous
>>407771

She is very attractive and well I am aroused, but well maybe you are right.

Right about now only Palmela Handerson and her five friends really care about how I feel. :(
>> Anonymous
>Anyways its gotten to the point where if I don't ejaculate within the time she has an orgasm it becomes uncomfortable for her
just kiss/hug/massage for a couple of minutes so she can recover and go back at it again?
>> Anonymous
>She dosent like oral sex at all and thinks it is disgusting when I drop a load on her (not that I blame her) if I dont finish in time.

stopped reading here. fuck her a last time, blow a load in her face and then get a new girlfriend.
>> Anonymous
>>407778
Honestly I tried that. We do extensively long cuddle sessions but she never is in the mood for a second romp. =T

>>407808
lol
>> Anonymous
When she makes you quit, pull out, finish with ole lefty....come all over her/her side of the bed, then roll over and go to sleep. if the bitch won't let you do it in her, then do it on her...the rest is her problem.
>> Anonymous
>>407844
He wasn't joking.
>> Anonymous
>>407844
Maybe the problem isn't your attraction to her, but that she's just not attracted to you? It sounds cruel, but she could just be using you to get herself off and doesn't want anything more than that.

In other news, you can take solace in the fact that at least you aren't a premature ejaculator like most men. That, friend, is a blessing, and your woman should damn well treasure it.
>> Anonymous
>>407868
Oh I no, I love hanging around male chauvinists because I dont have the back bone to be one myself because I care too much about damaging others feelings.

>>407875
You know... that sounds about right. If its true than its game over for the relationship. Its hard enough not being selfish for myself, fuck other people who do that to me.
>> Anonymous
uh yea. She's being a selfish bitch, and you're letting her get away with it.

You're everything wrong with the world today, OP.
>> Question !lHomOU0ldU
>>407765
>minimum 3 minutes max is up to you.
>minimum...max
>> Anonymous
>>407808

he's not kidding, gtfo of there
>> belo
my last couple of g/fs always had a hard time getting me off during sex but they were all happy to have me finish jerking off on their tits/face

OPs g/f sounds selfish ;P
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
Why don't you sit down and talk to her about it btw? If you know her well enough you should know if she is lying or not, unless you aren't good at reading lies.
>> Anonymous
>>407981
Excellent advice.
>> Anonymous
>>407981

Ya I'll give it a shot. Whats the worst that could happen
>> Anonymous
>>408113
She could whip out a knife and cut off your dick.
Good luck! ^.^
>> Anonymous
Cheat on her. It's the only way.
>> Anonymous
>>407888
l2englishfaggot
there should be a comma after "minutes" but fuck it. Anyone with a high school diploma would understand what I meant.
>> Anonymous
Your gf sucks.
>> ­gay
>>408218
OP said she thinks it's disgusting
>> Anonymous
I don't know that she's necessarily a callous bitch, but you're definitely not sexually compatible. There's nothing unusual or wrong about her not wanting to continue after she comes (some people are more sensitive to that than others- would you like it if she kept jerking you, even long after you came?) but refusing to help you finish in another way is pretty low. You need to talk to her about this, and if she's not willing to change, you either need to accept that you're stuck with someone who you're not compatible with sexually, and who won't ever change, or dump her. I guarantee, if she doesn't want to change, your sex life will only get worse.

Other than that, you can try getting yourself pretty close to orgasm (or have her help you, if she's willing) prior to the actual intercourse, so when you do start, you're already halfway there.
>> Anonymous
>>408218
actually it sounds like one of the problems is she doesn't suck.

but i mean even normal internets "fuck them bitches" aside, she's being a selfish cunt. ditch the bitch.
>> ­gay
>>408211
lol, reminds me of a quote from the simpsons

she danced well into her seventies
she danced, well into her seventies
she danced well, into her seventies
>> Anonymous
>>408218

This.
>> Anonymous
teach her to milk the prostate
>> Anonymous
As other anons stated, she is selfish. If you were a 3 pump chump and were done within seconds, I am betting she would expect you to finish her off one way or another.

Maybe you could try to pull that test on her. Mount her, and fake an orgasm after 30 seconds - whatever is before she orgasms. You could tell her beforehand that you researched items online that should help you orgasm sooner. Then see how she deals with the change. It will be telling to see if she's a keeper or not.

Or you could put your foot down and tell her she has 3 holes with which you can cum in - the choice is hers. She's already disqualified oral...
>> Anonymous
Same thing happened to me. I just went faster and got more 'in the moment'.
>> Anonymous
>>408251
This doesn't sound like a bad idea...
>> Anonymous
OP u will need rope a gag-ball and some lube then really just go to town it doesn't matter
>> faggot !kzxLmJyzX.
Forgot to mention...

To get around oral, you could try flavoured condoms or adding whipped cream or something into it to make it more fun for her. If it turns out she just doesn't want to give you any pleasure, then i think you know where it goes from there. Like you said, sex is a two way street.
>> Anonymous
op, dump the bitch
if she doesnt want to give you oral after SHE cums then wtf?
thats not fair at all. bring the hammer down and tell her to straighten up and stop being so selfish.
>> Anonymous
get a better girlfriend.
>> Anonymous
I hope you dump her in the way that 407808 pointed out.

More specifically, cum on her face when you're done fucking her and then scream "YOU'RE DUMPED, SUCKAAAAAH!" as you point at her with both fingers, then jump off the bed, put on your pants and exit quickly.
>> Anonymous
>>I think through chronic masturbation as a teenager I have really lengthened the time it requires for me to climax,

This is bullshit, in that case the same thing would apply to every single man in history, as we all fapped furiously at that age. It's in your head.
>> Anonymous
try some different positions
>> Anonymous
>>408251
HOW THE FUCK CAN A GUY FAKE AN ORGASM!???
>> cunt !iiA80eLVpY
>>408543
go doggie and spit on her