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Anonymous
emotional health problem

i know a girl who claims to like me and behaves accordingly, she even let me kiss her, but she has opted for another guy who she claims to actually like LESS than me on the idiotic pretext that she dosent want to "ruin our friendship".

i remember thinking of women that they are not worth any emotional hardship. please remind me of why i think that.
>> Anonymous
>>203025
Shrug it off with some SQUATZ
>> Anonymous
>>203032
women can be bitches, but squats will always be there for you. when you are the loneliest man on earth, they keep you compagny, throught the pain and loneliness, we get stronger.
''put more weight on me'', said the squat bar. squats would never betray you.
>> Anonymous
Because they are lying, cheating, whores.
>> Anonymous
>>203038
THIS
>> Anonymous
ive been doing some squatz. they are rather satisfying.
>> Anonymous
>>203053
Good man.
>> Anonymous
just ignore her. if she really likes you more she will go crazy over you. then you can break HER heart if you want or take her at your discretion.
>> Anonymous
>>203025
because whether or not you date her, lifer keeps on going.
>> Anonymous
>>203061

lifer just.. leaves you behind D:

keeps going, and going, and goooooingggggg
>> Anonymous
>>203058

oh jeez. i think it's funny how this can be done when you're a guy and it's all just fair game, but if a girl ignores you and then breaks your heart for revenge, she's a filthy dirty lying whore that doesn't deserve to live.

gosh 4chan sure is hypocritical.
>> Anonymous
You were giving her exactly what she wanted (attention and being made to feel special) without demanding what you wanted (sex). Now she thinks she can still get what she wanted from you, while also taking even more additional attention from a guy who was less easy to catch (he pushed to have sex).

Basically, forget about her. You ruined whatever chance you had.
>> Anonymous
>>203058
OP here. i agree with this man, but i need more motivation on why to hate the inferior woman.

>>203072
whatever, women like being treated like trash anyway. better for both of us. i regain my dignity and she gets to give me head.
>> Anonymous
>>203072
gb2/kitchen/
Men are discussing important issues here. Females will just end up hurting their heads trying to think hard.
>> Vul !!e95V2fmCESS
Solution:

1.) Forget her
2.) Climb over a wall of dicks
3.) Find women more compatible with you
4.) ????
5.) Profit

And based on your post, we can all see that you need a woman who can plow. Yep, so go visit some farms and go flirt with some hardworking women. You go get 'em, tiger.
>> Loser
Okay, well women are vampires that seek your money rather than blood. Possibly both.
>> Anonymous
>>203078
i know thats why im PISSED! i fucking opened up to her and now im her emotional tampon plus she gets her little fuck buddy faggot. grrmrmanraargk!
>> PetBot
Talk to her about it.
>> Anonymous
>>203094
no. ive decided to be the bigger man and make her suffer for choosing him.
>> Anonymous
>>203025


>>203037
>> Anonymous
She probably likes you for being nice, but you're also probably too soft for her. Honestly, girls don't want to date another girl in a man's body. Opposites attract, she needs a mentally stronger person as a SO and soft people like you as friends...that's how the world works.

And don't start saying "blah blah blah she's attracted to someone who mistreats her". That's crap. He probably treats her like a gentlemen, but he's strong emotionally and can support her.

I only say this because I've known guys like you who I honestly would JUMP at the chance to marry, but you're just TOO soft and it doesn't work in a relationship. Most girls need someone who will be there for them during hard times and be able to provide solutions, not just pat them on the back and keep agreeing and then offer to buy them chocolate.

I'm not saying you need to be a jerk, just be a more firm MAN, that's what WOMEN like. The "I don't want to ruin our friendship" thing is partly true, but it's also a reworded way to say "You're BETTER as a friend because you're too soft, I look at you more like one of my girlfriends than a potential lover".

Sure, you'll meet someone who is compatible with you, but she'll likely be the more dominant one mentally and emotionally. Two soft people don't make a relationship, neither do two tough people.
>> Anonymous
>>203143here

I also forgot to comment on this:

>she even let me kiss her

So what? That means nothing in today's society. This isn't 1945 where a kiss was practically first base. I kiss random guys and even other girls all the fricking time and I have no emotional attachment to them outside of being friends. Heck, I made out with a guy who was wet behind the ears and let him feel me up just to show him the ropes, but it doesn't mean I had deep feelings for him.

Again, the guy she is with is obviously providing some vital support that you are unable or unwilling to provide. Whether this support is just a big cock and hot sex or if it's emotional strength...doesn't matter. He has SOMETHING that she loves and you lack, and that something is obviously enough to warrant not starting a relationship with you. Welcome to life, you're going to deal with this a lot, hence why we say there are plenty of fish in the sea. The WORST thing you can do is what you're doing now and that's taking it too personally.
>> Anonymous
>>203143
every guy is like that inside. i show it to one person and she is immediately repulsed? what the fuck?

and i dont know if i really want to stay her friend. i feel like the fact she even expects that of me is disrespectful and de-masculizing.
>> Anonymous
>>203025
simply tell her that she's running on the [mistaken] assumption that you'll still pay attention to her if she goes with someone else
>> Anonymous
>>203143

It's not so much how the girl above describes it, although she probably feels better about her own manipulations by coldly terming those she manipulates "not real men." That's just bullshit. You're probably not unmasculine in behavior. We all long to let down our guard from time to time, especially with the "weaker" sex.

The real fact is that women and, yes, men are both greedy. We always want more... although often the genders want entirely different things. Women want ever more attention and provisioning behavior from high status males. Men generally want ever more beautiful sex partners, even if they rationalize it by saying that they want a relationship. (A friendship would be a relationship, but... yegh, right?)

Normally, on a tacit level, an agreement develops in which the guy pretends to listen to the woman and brings her trinkets and buys crap for her (provisioning behavior) in exchange for sex. The problem is that you let down your guard before laying down the rule that your relationship would be sexual. Women want to optimize the number of guys panting to do things for them. If they can have five guys begging to help them even if they're banging another guy, and a sixth guy won't be interested in showering them with attention unless he's getting sex... well, who do you think gets the pussy?

You fucked up. She now thinks she can get what she wants from you without giving you yours. It will be hard to disabuse her of that notion. Forget her. Breaking off contact won't get you the girl, but it will save you the mental anguish.
>> Anonymous
>>203305
QFT, fukkin saved, etc.
>> lolWUT !!kczIJ2wJyBJ
>>203143

>I only say this because I've known guys like you who I honestly would JUMP at the chance to marry, but you're just TOO soft and it doesn't work in a relationship. Most girls need someone who will be there for them during hard times and be able to provide solutions, not just pat them on the back and keep agreeing and then offer to buy them chocolate.

My ex-gf would always cry about the stupidest shit, and I would always be there to comfort her and shit, but when I offered up real solutions to her problems she just told me to shut up about them and she just wanted to continue crying til I bought her fuckin chocolate or did some stupid shit like that.
>> Anonymous
Okay, all of you faggots. I am going to sum this up with the most excellent answer.

Okay, so I recently realized why women use multiple guys and why men are self-sufficient. There are 2 kinds of people in this world; one who uses others to overcome obstacles, and one who overcomes obstacles using their own strength. Women are just shit tons weaker than guys.

That's not at all a sexist answer. It is fact. We lack the tremendous estrogen levels that women possess, thus making us a lot less emotional and less susceptible to losing ourselves when it comes to incredibly emotional decisions like love.

That is why men are superior; our emotions do not get the best of us.
>> Anonymous
>>203305

I don't manipulate people. Is the concept that not every person is good for a relationship totally lost on you? I'm extremely honest and caring, I just know when a man is not my type and that's my personal thing.

I happen to prefer a masculine guy who can be dominant, but still kind and intimate, and can actually help me progress through difficult times instead of lying to me and telling me everything is "just fine". You can make all the excuses for the OP that you want, but the fact is he lacked something that the other guy didn't.
>> Anonymous
>>203161

You think the fact that she likes you as a person, but doesn't feel you'd make a good boyfriend is insulting? Yikes, you really need more social experience, hon. This happens all the time to everyone. You're looking at this way too deeply...let it go and meet someone else. She isn't using you, you aren't her little pawn, she doesn't want to come begging you for free dinners and then not call for a week, etc. All of these feelings are a manifestation of your own insecurity that you think you won't be able to find another girl who is interested in you.

Again, don't take the stuff so personally. Not everyone is supposed to be in a relationship together. If you don't want to be her friend, that's fine, but I'd say you're making a huge mistake and just cutting off social ties with someone that genuinely did care about you as a person. For all you know, she could be able to set you up with an AMAZING new girl. Never blindly cut social ties just because you're a little frustrated.
>> Anonymous
>>203332

Well, not everyone is capable of seeing the exit to a maze when it shows up, some purposely ignore it and walk in the other direction. All I know is that, personally, I got pretty damn sick of boys who used that faux romantic bullshit and just sat there stating the obvious during a crisis and then thinking it could be fixed by making me a mixed CD or bringing me my favorite food.
>> Anonymous
>>203418

Yes, men are superior, that's why they don't allow women to fight in the infantry. They obviously want to protect the inferior ones from harm!
>> Anonymous
>>203305
QFT
>> Anonymous
Girl here.

All the other girls in this thread need to seriously get the fuck back in the kitchen. Jesus fucking christ this is why I have to suppress my gender all the time.

Anyways, OP, that girl is a fucking whore. Plain and simple. Technically, I don't mean that word in the "sleeps with a lot of people" definition, though she could be that too- I mean she's just a jackass.

When my best friend (a guy) wanted to do me, I said no, I'm not interested, but I really like you as a friend. Because of bitches like her he took this to mean I was playing hard to get or some shit or was leading him on etc. FUCK. NO. I am not sexually attracted to you but you are my bff, end of discussion!

Fuck all these girls who give pussy excuses like "oh but i don't want to ruin what we already have :( lol gon' go fuck someone i like less than u" (WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SAY THAT TO SOMEONE? WOULD A GUY SAY THAT TO A GIRL AND NOT BE CALLED A JACKASS? I can't believe cuntrags are defending this bitch. FUUUUCK I FUCKING HATE WOMEN.)

And then letting you kiss etc. I don't get this bullshit "lol this isn't the 1950s" excuse. Um, a kiss means you are sexually interested. Kissing someone and then not paying out but then going to bang someone else while still stringing along the other guy = WHORE. None of this "oh women need a REAL MAN" bullshit.

Fuuuuuuuuuuuccckkkk women on 4chan make me RAGE.

in b4 "lol ur just a butthurt guy" excuse all women give when they hear one of their own kind call them on their own bullshit. I may be butthurt but I'm a girl who has to deal with all the bullshit idiot girls leave around for me in the hearts of other men.
>> Anonymous
I had a friend who said, 'man women are bitches, they only date those fat assholes with money, why did i started going to the gym'. And i responded 'Are you kidding me? You've never been without a girlfriend for the last 4 years, and women hit on you all the fucking time, you have no right to bitch about not getting any.', to which he responded: 'What are you talking about, getting a relationship is piss easy, anyone can do it.'

;_;
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>>203486

Jane?!
>> Anonymous
>>203486

You're an IDIOT, regardless of what your actual gender is. You're a childish, whiny little moron.
>> Anonymous
>>203486

Sup op?
>> Anonymous
Ambrose Bierce, Devil's Dictionary:

Mysogynist: A man who hates women as much as they hate each other.

Women always hate the way other women act, because they know all the bullshit behind the smoke and mirrors. Then they turn around and do the same thing. Lol.
>> Anonymous
>>203555

PROTIP: Men do the exact same thing. The most common example is those wannabe white knights who say shit like "He's no good for you, he just wants sex, he mistreats you", then they rage at the guy in question, only to be doing the exact same thing by faux pampering the girl in order to cure their own loneliness.

Everyone in the world is pretty much an asshole.
>> Anonymous
>>203595
Yeah, but all women, no matter how dumb, ugly, or fat have some modicum of Pussy Power. Even the hottest, richest, coolest guy has to work to get laid.

That's why the comparison is never fair.
>> Anonymous
>>203601

Keep making excuses like that. No wonder you're still a virgin.
>> Anonymous
>>203418

I'd much rather be in tune with my emotions and possibly unable to control them then constantly be tied to raging testosterone and typical male egotism.

A woman's life is much more humble.
>> Anonymous
>>203606
Humility is the opiate of the weak.
>> Anonymous
>>203609

1/10 for effort. You should try sending some of these genius taglines to the Marine Corps recruitment HQ. We could always use more dumbasses out of the country and dead in a pit of sand.
>> Anonymous
>>203610
What does that have to do with anything. Everyone, and I mean everyone, should feel like they're the most awesome person to ever exist and that they can accomplish anything. Nikola Tesla never once got out of bed and told himself he couldn't. I don't need some no self-esteem having (or not having?) faggot trying to retreat into a sense of his own powerlessness.
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Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks, lick on the nuts and suck the dick.
>> Anonymous
>>203025
Hey man, what are you trying to get out of your sexuality? Permission or cumshots?

If you talk like that to her you already gave up your force card in the glorious hand that is social poker. You can only pitch your hand one time, the question is do you flush the girl or go straight for the 4 of a kind on her face? :P

Just sounds like you need to relax man. Be upset at us, but go be awesome for the people around you.

We can only touch you with words so give us your worst. :)
>> Anonymous
>>203621

/thread
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>>203533
>>203535
>> Anonymous
>>203615

Geez, someone is REALLY insecure in themselves. Ever consider some psychotherapy? Seriously.

Also, Tesla failed to achieve his most desired goal and that was creating a global network based on the transmission of data through pure electricity. The guy was a failure, as are you, Mr. Tough Guy.
>> Anonymous
Ladder Theory, google it. She's just not that into you.
>> Anonymous
fuck this shit OP. go get drunk and exercise your mysogynistic muscles. its an age old method of healing after being hurt emotionally by a girl. if you can, get some bitch to fuck like there's no tomorrow, don't worry about her pleasure, only yours. and then never see her again.
>> Anonymous
>>203655

ladder theory is a joke. not as much of a joke as the basement dwellers who actually believe it though.
>> Anonymous
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No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover
http://www.megaupload.com/se/?d=4idxghim

The Game - Neil Strauss
http://www.mediafire.com/?tydldixxmbw


To OP and all you butthurt guys like I used to be, read
these, you can thank me later.
>> Anonymous
>>203671
Sharklaugh.wav
>> Anonymous
Ignore everything you're being linked to in this thread. The core of it is shes not attracted to you but accepting that shes not would go against her morals as you're a good guy. Ignore this alpha male bullshit you will no doubt be told and just accept that shes a retard and you don't want girls like her. Move on, find a girl who isn't a cunt.
>> Anonymous
>>203675

Yes, because we should all walk around with egos so large that was instinctively refer to anyone who isn't interested in us romantically as cunts and assholes.

HOW COULD THEY NOT LIKE MEEEEEE? IM SO FUCKING PERFECT IN EVERY WAY! JUST ASK ME HOW PERFECT I AM!

God, you people seriously need to get over yourselves. There are more than six billion of us on the planet. Nobody is special.
>> Anonymous
>>203677
not the one you were replying to

but it's not like everyone who doesn't like you is a douche

think of it as buying clothes you don't feel bad for the ones that don't suit you right? same with people, nothing personal if we don't have fun together, why force it?
>> Anonymous
>>203677
That's not what i'm saying, i'm saying that if a girl says "I LOVE YOU BUT I CAN'T BE WITH YOU BECAUSE I VALUE YOUR FRIENDSHIP :A:" is a bullshit line. I don't condone any of these self help books that say you should go into denial and become an egotistical superdick, i'm just saying don't get strung along.
>> Anonymous
>>203685
the first book NMMNG actually doesn't set me on edge like most self-help books

you guys should give it a shot
>> Anonymous
>>203025

Move on she doesn't want you. Be her friend if you want, but dont act like a beaten puppy it wont help.
>> Anonymous
Save yourself before it's too late:
http://www.laddertheory.com/

This isn't really a solution, but it thoroughly outlines the problem enough so you should be able to change your thinking.