alright so I have this problem. I am with a girl who has a problem cumming or reaching orgasm the first time we had sex she explained this to me and I told her I would try my best she says its a problem with relaxing. She said she feels more relaxed with me then any other guys shes been with and its just a matter of getting the feel of each others bodies more. Now heres the thing I also have a problem getting off because I masterbate to much and the pussy just doesnt feel as good as the hand. So i've stopped masterbating and I worry that now only I will be able to get off I was wondering what are some of the best positions and maybe if we drank alittle alcohol before it would help us relax more and make me make her cum
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The pussy feels at least 20X better than my hand, so does the mouth. What's going on with your hand? I'm not gay but if it's better than pussy I sort of want a tug or two, just to see how it feels.
as for the drink alcohol, don't do that.smoke a little (seriously, just a little bit, maybe a hit or two each.) of weed first. Sex feels so much better, and chances are you'll last longer.
It has to do with how you fap, not how much. If you get off to something that doesn't feel like pussy, then you're going to have a really hard time getting off to pussy or mouth.as far as advice, i have none.
Can she get off on her own or is she frigid?If the latter, you'll never get her off. Dump her or buy her a handheld shower massager.If it's the former, cunnilingus. It's not just for white people and will help her relax.You'll get off once she stops imitating a 2x4 during sex.