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/fit/

Anyone else settle for fat chicks not out of preference but because you cant spit game? Ive got the same body as this guy, and am not too bad looking either.

Have had hot chicks approach me. The only time i've gotten laid from a hot chick was in Vegas and i got the clap. 99% of the time they get bored and leave/stop talking. Fat girls jump on the chance for a decent looking guy to fuck them. I get them easy on craigslist. Is this pathetic?

I started working out for the chicks at 16, realized i need to do it for myself by 17 and have been keeping it up till now at 19. Asking in /fit/ since people are in shape and maybe they can relate.
>> Anonymous
I'm in the same boat as you, great body, zero game. My plan to fix this has been to walk up to as many girls as possible and just say 'hi'. That's about as far as I can get. When they wanna start talking more I get the deer in the headlights look and start stuttering like an idiot. Fuck
>> Anonymous
I have a similar body to that guy, am good looking and have monies, and haven't had sex in 5 months. U are not alone, I have no game and am way too nice. Currently training to become douchebag.
>> Anonymous
>>270989
I can approach but I just cant be interesting. Goes good for about 2 minutes then awkward silences happen and etc...
>> sage
Use the fat bitches as practice for the game. Get good at talking to bitches in general. Confidence and good looks go a long way.
>> Anonymous
Anybody know any good conversation topics to talk to random girls about?
>> Anonymous
>>270994
Not really a confidence problem. More of a being boring problem. Don't like partying, or etc...

Like things like Reptiles, Military, UFC, games. Dont talk with friends much either.
>> Anonymous
Jesus
>> Anonymous
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Not enough self confidence? Why do you guys get scared? Social fitness should be just as important as physical fitness. Work on body language, pay attention to the caricatures of successful people in movies, pay attention to confident well liked influential people. Learn what they do. Become more secure in WHO YOU ARE. Develop your own interests. Learn to talk about yourself. Practice with friends or family members that you trust. Don't develop a wrote script. Learning to socialize is like learning to ride a bike, or to swim. It takes time and practice.
>> Anonymous
I would be content to see every other poster in this thread to simultaneously die.
>> sage
>>271003
Me and you are one in the same. I can usually make girls laugh just from being silly, but that can only go but so far.
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
>>270993
i'm in the same boat as this guy.
>> Anonymous
>>271005
To add to that... go to places that people who YOU are interested in would be. People that you would hit it off with. Don't go to a bar and expect some random person who is huge Sci-Fi geek to be there.
>> Anonymous
+1 stop aiming for girls you have nothing in common with
>> Anonymous
>>271024
you cant tell before you try...
>> Anonymous
How does one stop hating people and being anti-social. I want to be around people, but when I am around them I get annoyed as fuck.
>> Anonymous
>>271028
It's a habit. You taught your body to react that way. Teach yourself the other way around. You might have to be sort of obsessed with thinking in a different way for a while until it becomes part of you.
>> sage
>>271028
You're destined to die alone. The sooner you realize that you're just as worthless (probably more so) than everyone else the better.
>> Anonymous
copypasta
>> TheCodester
Become an actor and lie constantly, once they get to know you well enough that your lies fall through, dump them and repeat.
>> sage
there was a series of paint comics on /b/ that were very relevant to this topic.
>> Anonymous
>>271035
i could do that with practice but id rather find a girl i can fuck reguarly and not have to act around. less effort.
>> Anonymous
>>271027
nar you can, i catch the bus every day and i can totally tell which chicks are somewhat retarded have problems with guys just by the way they dress.

protip: talk to cute girl that dresses unsexily, she will appreciate the attention.

maybe start with a chubby girl, just say hi, how are you? and say you dress just like my little sister, she spends so much time shopping it drives our parents nuts.

shit happens naturally from a benign opener like that, you will prob talk for 2-3mins at which point you ask her number.
>> Anonymous
>>271029

Makes sense, thanks. It's what I've been suspecting for a while now, it just sounded like a bunch of new age crap before.
>> TheCodester
>>271040
I didn't say you couldn't like her, I just said that based on the personality type/interests/etc. that I would expect from fellow 4channers might have the girl not like "you". So if you want a girl, find what she wants and become it.
>> Anonymous
>>271040
just be yourself and keep trying to meet new people. eventually something will work out for you. or just get them really drunk. either way
>> Anonymous
THIS THREAD IS COPYPASTA, NEXT THE GUY SAYS HE PICKED UP HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND ON A BUS USING SOME RETARDED LINE, AND THEN THE OTHER SAMEFAG THAT HE'S PLAYING CALLS HIM OUT, AND EVENTUALLY HE SAYS HE DIDN'T REALLY FIND HIS GF LIKE THAT. STORY RUINED
>> Anonymous
>>271055
>Makes sense, thanks. It's what I've been suspecting for a while now, it just sounded like a bunch of new age crap before.
Well think about behavior. A lot of it is based on habit. And beliefs. Why do we believe things so strongly when we don't have all the information? Why do we say please and thank you automatically? Why do we like one thing over another? Why do we hate "them" and love "us"?
>> Anonymous
>>271063
>THIS THREAD IS COPYPASTA, NEXT THE GUY SAYS HE PICKED UP HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND ON A BUS USING SOME RETARDED LINE, AND THEN THE OTHER SAMEFAG THAT HE'S PLAYING CALLS HIM OUT, AND EVENTUALLY HE SAYS HE DIDN'T REALLY FIND HIS GF LIKE THAT. STORY RUINED
Does it even fucking matter if it's copypasta? Just pretend that it's real and it can be like a fun little play. I'm not going to pass up an opportunity to entertain myself, regardless of whether or not this has been said before. If OP wants to pretend to be this dude then I'm all for it! Fuck off.
>> Anonymous
>>271078
>OP
>> Anonymous
So on my topic. Who else is fit and settles for way less?
>> Lil Dreamer !UYwMl8CsAs
>>271098
i try not to. i mean, i'm pretty fit and sometimes i get tempted to just settle for some chubby chicks, but i think back to some of my exes who were really hot and i stop myself. granted, there was some pretty considerable gap in between each ex(like 1-2 years) but it keeps me from settling.
>> TheCodester
I was close to dropping my standards a few years ago, but decided to go to learn to act/lie instead and went to cougar bars for awhile for experience... yay for beach cities.
>> Anonymous
i met my gf on the bus, she sat next to me, as she was sitting down i said "wait, did you just fart?", she blushed and shook her head, i said "hewh, thats okay then, cos for a moment there i thought i smelled roses"- at which point i pulled out a rose from the overhead compartment and gave it to her.

shit was so romance i george clooneyd her that very same day.
>> SexySexySexy
>>271098
Not me.
>> Anonymous
>>271112
I can't stop laughing. I feel bad.
>> Anonymous
>>271112
That actually worked?!
>> Anonymous
>>271098
I've never settled for less. Ever.
Results in long dry spells, but the gf I have now I have had for almost 4 years and I don't intend to change any time soon.

Quality over quantity guys. 90% of girls aren't worth the time of day, hot or not, since they're either boring or stupid or uptight or fucking crazy.
>> Anonymous
>>271418

The hotter a girl gets, the crazier she gets. Rule of thumb.
>> Anonymous
>>271423
The more you need to be a shining example of male rationality to shut her up.
My gf can get pretty irrational sometimes, but if I can make it through the shitstorm to the point where she's crying because I won't yield a millimetre, we can stop her bitching long enough to sort out the problem in her head without interruption, and then it's all solved.
>> Anonymous
>>271028
Shit, are you me?
>> Anonymous
>>271028
you'll have to learn to fake that social shit to get people to do what you want
>> Anonymous
>>271431
If you're win enough, you can get what you want from people without fake social shit.
Don't go out of your way to be aggressive or particularly rude, but don't agree with stupid crap or bow down to anyone who sucks, and you're on your way.
Homework: next time you want to ask someone to do something, tell them to do it. Tell them as if they know they should do it. Also stop getting out of people's way in corridors.
>> Anonymous
become gay
>> Anonymous
>>271440
that was part of what i meant when i said fake the social shit
you have to learn how to manipulate people
sometimes telling them what to do is the right thing
sometimes pretending to care is the right way
>> Anonymous
I can't approach women, once I do have a convo going i seem to be able to keep it going. But the start part is what i can never do =/
>> Anonymous
>Anyone else settle for fat chicks not out of preference but because you cant spit game?

Kinda. I don't disrespect myself by sleeping with fat chicks and sluts, and certainly not off the internet, but...

I'm a virgin at 25. Lol. Probably a little better than OP pic, at least around the shoulders, cause they're more capped.

>Homework: next time you want to ask someone to do something, tell them to do it. Tell them as if they know they should do it. Also stop getting out of people's way in corridors.

I don't think you're capable of understanding. We're not meek bitches, just not social.
>> Anonymous
>>271449
what do you mean you can't approach women?
are you afraid of them?
what do you think she'll do to you if you say hi or something, kill you?
stop thinking about it like this
>> Anonymous
jesus christ take this shit to the /fa/g forum or something, this isnt about fitness
>> Anonymous
>>271463
Because it relates more to fashion than mental health, amirite?
>> Anonymous
i met my gf on the bus, she sat next to me, as she was sitting down i said "wait, did you just fart?", she blushed and shook her head, i said "hewh, thats okay then, cos for a moment there i thought i smelled diarrhea"- at which point i pulled out a stool sample of my feces from the overhead compartment and gave it to her.

shit was so romance i dirty sanchez'd her that very same day.
>> Anonymous
>>271463
no, because all you guys are/will be fags

Plus, no one wants to hear about your pussy no confidence shit, its fucking pathetic
>> Anonymous
>>271470
being a loser is not a mental health problem
>> Anonymous
>>271470
isn't mental health. It's courtship, more related to dressing and grooming. Getting fit should be for one self not for da gurlz. Having a ripped body means jack shit if you are ugly, dress like a hobo and can't talk to women. Also unless you are going for dumpstersluts or you are a whale then your physique won't matter too much to the woman.
>> JESUS !vBOFA0jTOg
FUCK NO!
I aim high, but kinda reach there. Its still good enough.
>> sage sage
lol @ idiots who actually responded.
>> Anonymous
Hehehe odd, a few years back i was the direct opposite... All game, boring(normal skinnyfag) body. I had NOOOOO problem getting the hawt ladiez, at all.

Now that my body is really great, i find NO difference whatsoever.
Just proves my point that body = useless when it comes to get zee wimmenz.

No body - regardless how good - will ever get the attention of a decent woman for more than 5minutes.
>> sage sage
>>271630
unless you're a fatass. you'll repulse people then.

again sage for copypasta.
>> Anonymous
>>271632
age for the sake of copypasta
>> Anonymous
>>271112
lol i don't even care if this is real or not. So adorable yet so cheesy.
>> Anonymous
Honestly game is only self confidence, finding conversation comes when your confortable. if you don't click right away, learn a little about them, where they're from, where they work/go to school. or even just talk about surroundings. i find it best to make refrences to books and movies in hopes that they've read or seen them before and that can be a great conversation starter.
>> Anonymous
Guy in OP pic has a fuck ginormous head. I can't stand it. Make it stop. It's so out of proportion. Disturbing.
>> Anonymous
I just like fat bitches
>> Anonymous
In my experience, no one gives two fucks about you. People want someone who's easy to be around and who likes to listen. If you don't talk about yourself too much but still respond interestingly, chances are you'll stick in her mind and she'll start to wonder.
Just learn to be relaxed and confident. The only way to do that is to get out there and talk until it comes naturally.
>> Anonymous
>shit was so romance i george clooneyd her that very same day.
>> Anonymous
ITT, I'm a lonely 18 year old loser who doesn't know how to talk to girls. Halp!
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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Part 2, are you actually reading this yet?
>> Anonymous
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And the epic conclusion! If you have questions/comments keep the thread going.
>> Anonymous
>>271431
>>271445

A sociopath is among us.
>> Anonymous
>>271876
>>271884
>>271886
how abouts you post a gay version?
>> Anonymous
>>271886
>>271884
>>271876
This is bullshit, sorry to tell you but girls looks for qualities of a sociopath(or just the bad boy) as a mate.
>> Anonymous
>>271918
one night stands: yes.

not for actual relationships. there's studies on this shit.
>> Anonymous
>>271921
yea, women look for the bad boy then have the nice guy raise the kid
>> Anonymous
Lol. I was all about the quantity bout a year ago. fucked everybody i could get to fuck me. That year i had like 16 sober days. One day it kinda snapped. and i haven't had a drink since. And now i really really regret sleeping with practically all of them just cuz i found my current girlfriend. when you find that one girl. all the other girls til this day see fucking retarded.
TL;DR ; Protip : Never choose quantity over quality. Just do whatever you do. hang around in communities. when you finally find the one normal girl. Don't ever give up... ever
>> Anonymous
>>271876
>>271884
>>271886
I'd love to see this crap posted in a PUA forum. They'd laugh so fucking hard.
>> Anonymous
doubleyourdating.com

sign up for the free newsletter. Half of it is a huge sales pitch, but there's a ton of good information that can help you guys out. Just incorporating a few of the things he talks about did wonders for me.
>> Anonymous
>Asking in /fit/ since people are in shape and maybe they can relate.

Not really, most people come here to get advice on how to stop eating burgers.
>> Anonymous
Read The Game. Great stuff on flirting, and a damn good story too.
>> Anonymous
>>271909
The gay version is only three steps:

1. Work out. A lot.
2. Go to a gay bar.
3. PROFIT

No missing step, either. You don't have to do shit. If you did step 1 properly, the fags will find you.
>> Anonymous
>>271884
>>271876>>271886

this. this amuses me.
>> Anonymous
>>271987
You can even skip step 1 if you're a twink.
>> Anonymous
>>271972
Or just rapidsearch, torrentsearch, or even fucking emule search for his books. Fuck the videos, they're interesting but the books are most of his philosophy anyways. You can find them fucking everywhere.
>> M3K333??
>>270981

"I started working out for the chicks at 16"

You're fucking pathetic.
>> Anonymous
>>271980
Gimme some rapidshit, ho.
>> Anonymous
Its all about confidence in the game. Looks will get the conversation to start, though once that happens you have to talk not just think "i have abs shes in my bed already"
>> Anonymous
>>272059
Would also like
>> Anonymous
ugh..if you faggots want to get "game" take an improv class. It'll teach you how to be interesting.
>> Knitting Kneedle !C2eJJPwS7M
You're all retarded.
>> Anonymous
Sort of like this. I can talk to women but only in a friendly kind of way. I can never get it across that I'm interested in them though.
>> Anonymous
>>271886
>>271884
>>271876
That was pretty awesome.
>> Anonymous
You fucking fail at life if you work out to impress the ladies. Fuck off.

/thread
>> Anonymous
I liked hot chicks when I was fat. Now I look like pic in OP and I love the fat girls.

Call me crazy.
>> Anonymous
>>272177
no
NO
NO FAT CHICKS
GOT IT?
SQUATZ ONLY
>> Anonymous
i once met a girl at uni by doing this-

she was walking by and coughed, i made eye contact and said "hey, you know thats the first sign of herpes"

she gave me a funny look- and started to keep walking, and i continued

"wait don't leave, we have so much in common!"


chalk this one up to needed a punchier direction.
>> Anonymous
Women are mentally retarded.
>> Anonymous
I learned by tagging along with guys that hit on women well and with pretty women who got hit on by experts. Basically, they're friendly and chatty on general interest subjects and make you feel comfortable talking to them. But I finally decided 'general interest' wasn't for me and used eharmony to find someone with my EXACT same interests. I feel like she's a female me, which is incredibly hot.
>> Anonymous
>>270981
>>270981
>>270981

How does craigslist work? In the way you use it? I dont care what kinda women I fuck Ill fuck anything that mooooveesss
>> Anonymous
Ugh why are you banging chicks?
>> Anonymous
>>272475
viral marketing for eharmony
>> Anonymous
Get a fat girl that has a nice face and personality, exercise together = sexy bitch
>> Rage. Anonymous
>>270981

>> I started working out for the chicks at 16, realized i need to do it for myself by 17 and have been keeping it up till now at 19, and will fail astronomically and come to the astonishing realization that looks and CURLZ FOR THE GURLZ aren't everything in life, therefore I might become an hero by the time I'm 20

Fixed.
>> Anonymous
naw fat bitches are dope man, thumbs up 2 u anon for taking 1 for the hometeam
>> Anonymous
alot of mad niggers itt good god
>> Anonymous
Jesus fucking shit this is the worst thread ever. I'd've thought the healthy fucks on /fit/ at least had a trickle of confidence based on the fact that they can at least respect themselves, but you're all still ignorant socially retarded dumbshits who are no better than anyone else on 4chan

Fucking fuck.

Fuck you all.
Bitch out.
>> Anonymous
Just because we are striving for physical perfection doesn't mean we know how to talk to people. God.
>> Anonymous
>>272551
Fuck it's not hard to speak to someone.
Kill yourself you lonely fuck.
>> Anonymous
Probably better off with the fat chicks in my opinion. Unless you can find a pretty girl thats not a bitch.
>> Anonymous
I can slightly relate to this, I was friends with everyone in high school but was diagnosed with a chronic pain disorder my senior year which caused me to take time off and not graduate on time aswell as time off college

and due to the pain I wasn't interesting anymore or funny so I decided to cut off most of the ties with my friends until I was better so I wouldn't lose them for good for some stupid reason

but again that's living with agonizing chronic pain 24/7, if you are perfectly healthy and cant flirt with a skank i dunno what to say >;[
>> Anonymous
>>272562
I was told to go for Cho's high score, but its kinda hard to do with a sniper crowbar. Besides, I'm not THAT lonely... right? Right? And no, I'm not OP. OP comes across as a horny yet stupid guy.
>> Anonymous
>>272571
>if you are perfectly healthy and cant flirt with a skank i dunno what to say >;[

well built, muscular, fit, and good looking too

what some of them claim anyway
>> Anonymous
>>272548

And you know what's ironic?

I thought the primary reason to become fit is to become confident and comfortably happy with yourself.

And turns most of the dumbfucks out there are doing for all the wrong reasons, and feel like they've hit a brick wall when they go "HURR I'M FIT BUT I CAN'T MUSTER THE BALLS TO APPROACH PEOPLE AND MAKE FRIENDS DURR"

An epic fail that is well deserved for all those who pursue "physical perfection" for all the wrong reasons.

/end rage
>> Anonymous
I used to have a personality, but I don't know what the hell happened to it.
>> Anonymous
Fuck everything, I just want to be strong
>> Anonymous
>>270981
Fuck you guys. I gotta work for that kind of body. I'm skinny as fuck. Why waste your potential fools!!
>> Anonymous
how is this surprising to any of you at all?

please tell me it isnt, I can name sooo fucking many people back in high school 2 years ago who wrestled or played football and were fit as fuck and had incredible bodies but had AWFUL personalities and were totally anti social or were social with other nerds who happened to be fit yet get 0 wimmin
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
>>272587
That makes me really glad that I'm doing this to live for as long as I can with as few problems as possible. Secondary to that is to look at my body and approve of it. Third is to have other people look at my body and approve of it, and thus have an advantage over other people. I'm developing a very assertive personality to go with this body.
>> Anonymous
Basically you're a good looking guy with no personality....well then
>> Anonymous
>>272743
"bi" means "gay" and "discreet" means "flaming fag queen"

then again, it's probably just some fat 17 year old.
>> Anonymous
There's no such thing as having a shitty personality. Unless your a misanthrope your shitty relations with women are because you're not confident in your abilities in the first place.

Grow some balls.
>> Anonymous
>>272817
Really. Don't apologize for shit.
>> Anonymous
looking out for #1