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/fit/, I need advice. Please....
tldr: when is the right time to ask a girl you're interested in out?too short and I think I'll freak her out; too long and it's friendzoned.
Now for a semi longstory.

I'm 18 and have never had a serious relationship. I think this is due to my lack of self confidence. Someone told me I should act confident, but how can I, when I myself don't believe in it? I'm not horribly unacttractive, I think I'm ok. I have a nice face, a nice build, nothing like brad pitt but nothing like Chris farely either. I've been told I'm funny, and I have tons of attractive female friends.
So why can't I ever get past that?
I think I'm too nice so I'm trying to stop that. But to be honest, I don't know HOW to ask a girl out.
I mean, like this girl who I'm interested in right now, I've only seen her once cause I visited her at In n out where she works. she seemed genuinely happy to see me too, but we didn't talk because she quickly turned around and started working. We're friends on myspace, so should I say something along the lines of "Hey, you want to go see a movie?"

I mean, isn't there like, a certain when you should ask someone out? Like, don't you know a person first, be friends with them for a little, and then ask them out? Cause I feel like if I were to ask her out now, shed be like " I don't know you that well" or something. Am I just plain wrong here?

Another problem I think is that I tend to fall in love too quickly with girls. Like, I start imagining me dating them, and stuff like that, so I always get crushed HARD when I get rejected. I have a couple of other girls I'm interested in, so I was thinking it might be better to ask them out now, where I won't be as hurt since I'm not TOO into them.
Can any of you guys provide me with advice please? I swear....I'm lost. I'm tired of wishing, I want it to be a reality this time.
Pic very much related, as it's the girl from In N out
>> Anonymous
1. Get an EZ curl bar

2. Put a shit-ton of weight on it

3. Go to the girl you want to ask out

4. Just start doing curlz infront of her

5. ???

6. Profit!
>> Anonymous
Just walk up to her and SQUAT her.

If she doesn't slap you, you are now in a relationship. Well done.
>> Anonymous
>>411118
>>411139
Op here,

I lol'd pretty hard.
But nah seriously, any advice at all?
>> Anonymous
seriously. next time you see her, ask her when shes off or her schedule.

im too lazy to give advice. just go fap OP. confidence is key, well not confidence. more like guts to actually say 'hi, hey how long you been working here'. do some bullshit.

fap OP. go fap. iono. fuck t.
>> Anonymous
>>411145
So you're saying I should ask her out right away?
I think I might just do it. I mean, what have I got to lose right? worse thing she says is no, and then I can just forget about it...

maybe I'll stick to fapping.
>> Anonymous
>>411113same dilemma, help?
>> Anonymous
Find out her situation first. You're going to instantly fail if she's already in a relationship.

Second of all (in my experience) girls aren't really like guys in that they won't judge you solely on your looks. Even if they think you don't look good enough for them, chances are they'll still give you a chance so they are more inclined to give you a date just to see how it turns out. If she says no, it doesn't really matter, it'll just give you an idea of what "league" the opposite gender considers you in.

Lastly, you may as well get it out of the way, it's only going to get harder to do once you get older, and it's still the guy's job to do the asking out.
>> Anonymous
no one?
>> Anonymous
>>411159
I know for a fact that she's single. I think I will ask her out, but it sucks because I NEVER see her at school ( we have different schedules) and its not like I can talk with her at In N out because she has to...you know...work. So I guess that leaves...myspace? Kind of lame, but maybe I 'll keep an eye out for her in school.

So just a simple, "hey, I was thinking...would you like to go see a movie with me" line? Or should I say something else.
Thanks by the way.
>> Anonymous
>>411176

there's no real tactful way of asking a girl out, chances are you won't get an opportunity to do it subtly, and even if you do then you might be going out with her one what you think is a date, and what she thinks is an outing with a friend (people can be dense sometimes). Just ask her straight out, get it out of the way, if you don't see her often otherwise then it's not like you're going to have to awkwardly face her every day if she says no.
>> Anonymous
>>411176

oh, and one last thing, I don't know what you're like, you could be a creepy fat stalker and that plays a big role in your chances, so I can't really speak for your odds, but either way if you don't ask her out you'll be kicking yourself for not at least trying when somebody else does and she agrees.
>> Anonymous
>>411183
>>411186
see thats my fucking problem, I don't know how to make it clear that I want to date her without scaring her off. No, i'm not a fat creepy stalker guy, like I said, I think I'm pretty decent.
But I mean...wouldn't she want to get to know me MORE first, before she begins officially dating me? this is the part where I'm confused! arggh.
So should I say, want to go out on a date with me to the movies?
>> Anonymous
>>411176

last time i checked, In N Out wasnt a sweatshop, they get these things called breaks...

and yeah, for asking her, just say something like "we should hang out sometime, maybe a movie or something" just kinda say it casually, if it goes good, it's golden.

good luck brah
>> Anonymous
don't mention a date, just ask her to a movie, and although right now I'm sure you're only concerned with having a girlfriend and getting laid you need to realize that you'll have to get to know her as well, she could be a complete piece of shit
>> Anonymous
>>411193
Well I don't want to seem like I'm stalking her or anything, but I guess it is better if I ask her in person. I guess I'll try harder and look out for her in school. I mean, I'm trying not to get too attached in case she rejects me, but I think it might happen. that being said, I'll mention a movie and ask her that way. hahaha, I just hope she's not thinking something like "oh yeah! I'm going to a movie with my FRIEND"
That being said....thanks.
g night

P.S. if I see her tomorrow, I'll ask her on the spot. I doubt it though, I haven't seen her once since college started.
>> Anonymous
>>411202
I understand what you mean, but the few times I've talked to her she seems like a real sweetheart.
and at my age, of course getting laid and everything is on my mind, but it's not the ONLY reason why I'd want to date her. She makes me happy...

Goddamit, I get too sensitive sometimes. Thats what fucking happens when you grow up with 4 females in the house.
>> Anonymous
>>411207

well I hate to be a pessimist, but once you get to know people the sheen wears off and you see them for who they are. On the upside, odds are you've always seen yourself as who you really are, whereas you probably project yourself with that sheen as well.
>> Anonymous
>>411213
hahah yeah I get what you mean. Like some people who seem nice turn out to be asshole, and vice versa. Hopefully it won't be that way with this chick, but I guess we'll see.
Anyways, to those of you who gave me advice, thanks. G night
>> Anonymous
>Like, don't you know a person first, be friends with them for a little, and then ask them out?

Thats your big problem right there. You think that once you become friends with them, you got a chance.

Haven't you ever heard of the FRIENDZONE. Women only have female friends, and when they have real friends who are male, to them, they're FEMALE FRIENDS. neuters.

There's a saying with women that within the first few minutes of talking to someone, they pretty much have figured out if they'd want to sleep with them, or file them under other.

When you meet someone and you're interested in them, and they seem like they might be interested in you too, thats the moment to start making your move.

stop willingly putting yourself into the friendzone.

women only become friends with males they feel safe around, who are irrelevant sexually, like little brothers.
>> Anonymous
How the fuck are you going to get to know her if you hardly see her already?
Answer: Ask her out.

Afraid of seeming like a stalker kind of guy?
This is the first time you will have asked her! If she goes with you to the movies or whatever then just follow her lead, don't be too forward but don't be too conservative.

Go with your instincts!
>> Anonymous
>>411113
Advice from a 25 year old with enough dating and life experience to know that you should not be wasting your time (or raising your blood pressure) freaking over whether some girl you like likes you back:

1) call her or go up to her
2) ask if she wants to see a movie/play putt-putt golf/whatever you crazy kids are doing nowadays
3) THE END

basically, there are four options at this point:
1) she doesn't like you and you don't ask her out: enjoy continuing to freak out with bullshit about "ZOMG WAT DO I DOOOOO /FIT/???"

2) she likes you but you never ask her: good job fucking up -- think she'll ask you out soon, buddy?

3) you ask her and she says no: congrats, you're NO WORSE OFF than you were a week ago--in fact, you're BETTER OFF because you don't have to bullshit around the issue anymore

4) you ask her out and she says yes: you win

GODDAMMIT HOW CAN YOU LITTLE SHITS BE SO FUCKING INCOMPETENT
>> Anonymous
>>411207
LADDER THEORY, BITCH

READ IT AND LRN
>> Anonymous
just randomly start sending text messages to her, they can be about work at first but then you can start talking about random stuff and at some point ask her to go see a movie with you. when you see her IRL spend more time with her than other people.
>> Anonymous
I don't think you're going to get the girl this time.

Enjoy your hand.
>> Anonymous
if you didn't have enough confidence to ask her out in the first place, you're pretty much screwed anyways
>> Anonymous
start small talk...
continue small talk over period of about few weeks...
every day increase amount of time you talk to her..
eventually youll know her enough to ask her out
common sense...


if you REALLY cant get in touch with her to make small talk once a week AT THE VERY LEAST then look for someone else that you can
>> Anonymous
>>411481
I think he's right.
>> Anonymous
It's not good to ask a girl out at work, they're cornered and in work mode. Just message her at myspace like this: "Hi cutie, it's anon, hope everything is good. I've been thinking about you, send your phone number so I can ask you out sometime."

shows you're polite and a gentleman
>> NiggerCock !Ep8pui8Vw2
never do it. she will just stomp all over your balls, anyways.
>> Anonymous
no no no, you've got it all wrong.. just go see her while she's working and say something like "hey babe, i want to stick my dick In N Out of your hot love hole"

works every time
>> Anonymous
>>411394
Oh damn, that's really good advice..... can...not...comprehend.... this is still 4chan right???
one internet to you sir
>> Anonymous
>>411394
thanks for the good advice, but.....she kind of already stepped all over my balls.

I decided to send her a message along the lines of>>411615
and I just said how it was nice to see her, how my friends wanted to go to another In N out, but I convinced them to go here cause the girls are cuter, blah blah blah... and she didn't respond. It just says read and thats it.
I guess it was over before it began.
Anyways, thanks again for the advice, I'll keep it all in mind for the next girl. Now, I'm gonna go enjoy my hand.
>> Anonymous
>>411658
give her some time to respond she might have checked it from her phone or something. also you might've said something that didn't warrant a response, sounds like you just made a long comment instead of asking her something. like for her phone number. if she doesn't write back in two days send another note: "I want to ask you something but not over the internet, can I call you?"

girls like to be pursued, don't give up so easily
>> Anonymous
In my experience, party type situations are key.

It might just be me, because I kind of thrive in those type of social situations. But that always works out great. If there's something going on, invite her. Initially it takes the pressure off of the whole situation. Once she gets there, you have friends and such to play off of.

Then there's always the chance of being alone by moving into another room. Doesn't have to be a party. Like 5 friends watching a movie, whatever. If there is alcohol involved, it's usually better.

Good luck.
>> Anonymous
Bitches are dumb. You probably are perfect bf material, they are just too dumb to even look at you in that light/situation. Just confront this girl and tell her you like her. Dont seem desperate and don't seem like your crazy for her.

Maybe have a drink or something before you do it.. If you do ask her to go out or whatever, just watch a movie or something together, that way there isn't much pressure on you to make conversations etc... and you can get close etc etc
>> Anonymous
>>411701
I'm hoping you're right. I sent it early in the morning, so I'm hoping she saw it, and was like oh crap! I have to get to class/work or whatever. but I'm trying not to get too hopeful. But if you say girls like being pursued, maybe next time I'll send her another message, CLEARLY stating I'm interested in her. I don't know...I don't want to creep her out.
>>411763
heh alcohol doesn't sound like a bad idea, and this might sound gay, but I'd like it better if she like'd me for ME, and not cause she was drunk.
>>411792
I'd like to think I'd be a good bf. Well, more than the typical guys who are only interested in sex and shit like that. But, I think you're right about how I should confront her. Sometimes I think I don't make it clear enough that I'm interested. again, this was due to my lack of confidence, but fuck it, I need to grow a pair and just do it.
>> Anonymous
>>411876
I see nothing wrong with trying one more time, but this time just be up front about it. Don't make stupid comments--either ask her out or ask for her phone number.
>> Anonymous
>>411963
You're right. I'm gonna give it a few so in case she does respond back. But if she doesn't, I'll give it one more shot and if she ignores me again....I'll just give up.
thanks.
>> Anonymous
Remember adrenaline. You're bricking it before hand so you're too afraid to ask her out, but once you start talking, your adrenaline kicks in and you are one smooth operator. Once you're over that first psychological hurdle, the rest is a straight jog to the finish.
>> Anonymous
>>411876
Nothing turns a girl off more than a needy, insecure, "hurr- what do you want me to do" kind of guy. Get confident and learn how to take charge. They want someone to lead them.
>> Anonymous
>>411792
once you start acting gay talking about your feelings and shit you pretty much throw away all your chances right there. and i know that it seems like saying "i rly liek u" is the most genuine/real thing to do, but she's heard the exact same lines before over and over again. and guess what happened to those guys?
>> Anonymous
>>412039
they killed her. with a knife. a fucking knife.
>> Anonymous
>Another problem I think is that I tend to fall in love too quickly with girls.

THAT'S CALLED OBSESSION YOU CREEPER
>> Anonymous
ah Op ask her out to lunch instead of a movie, i mean you is doing nothing but sitting next to each other and not talking. With a lunch you can talk and shit and then ask her out to a movie afterwards
>> Anonymous
Ha ha, I'm one of those dense chicks. I went to a movie with one of my guy friends, and apparently he thought it was a date. Oops?

You need to be pretty straight forward and make it obvious that you're asking her out as more then a friend.
>> Anonymous
which in n out does she work at? ima swoop in and confidently charm the shit out of her, then post noods on here
>> Anonymous
hey guys, you see those two things down near your hips, inside that sack are balls, you have those for a reason. Take your chances don't be a pussy, look her in the eyes, she sees you no different then you see her so just talk to tha bitch.
>> Anonymous
>>412039
This.

Don't tell her how you feel about anything. Showing too much emotion is a sign of faggotness to women.

Just be a complete dick.
>> Anonymous
>>411159
wrong, women see a man on the level that he sees himself on. By how he reacts to others and how others react to him. girls are fucking dumb
AND
OP is already finished, there are like 3 billion girls on the planet, and you are worried about how one stupid girl sees you?
lrn2beaman
also this :
www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-398998/How-feminism-destroyed-real-men.html -
>> Anonymous
You're all a bunch of faggots.
>> Anonymous
>>412031
hahah I'm hoping you're right; once I push myself past that nervous point I think I can do pretty good.
>>412037
Thats kind of what I'm afraid of, which is why I'm hesistant to send her another message/wait for her shift to end at in n out>>412039
So should I just express interest in her, but show that she doesn't mean THAT much to me?
>>412143
So confidence huh? Also, your link didn't work for me.
>> Anonymous
I think the real succesful way to ask out a girl is if you already catch her in a playful and fun mood, *Shrug, or if you do something so crazy she's bewildered and interested.

my problem with getting girls is being romantic lol, but I'm gone on dates with basically every girl I've liked so far.
>> Anonymous
>>412221
op here
hmm....I've never thought about asking someone out that way. and haha yeah I get what you mean, I'm a total romantic person (go ahead, call me names) but I like that idea you stated.
>> Anonymous
>>412198
>So should I just express interest in her, but show that she doesn't mean THAT much to me?

Yeah that's fine just don't say anything like "I really like you." Save that for when you're actually in a relationship
>> Anonymous
>>411113

Bump cause i'm just like OP.
>> Anonymous
>>412311

Truth. It only make things awkward. Show rather than say.
>> Anonymous
Op here.
I decided, "fuck it". I'm going to forget about this girl and focus on another girl. I'm gonna man up, grow a pair, and ask her straight up to a movie. It'll be easier than the chick in my picture, because with this other chick I actually have class with her AND I talk to her a little while too. Not too much where I'm friendzoned, but enough to a point where I think she's comfortable with me.
If priscilla (girl in pic) comes along,then maybe I'll look at my chances. Until then, I'm gonna forget about her.

Thanks to everyone who replied.
>> Anonymous
I think everyone told what needs to be said and done here but I just gotta add some stuff:
Going to the mall or lunch is more interactive than a movie
Confidence + Personality + Humor = Profit?
Appearance and being a smooth talker is a plus

You are this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrnK-qPARYI
>> Anonymous
>>412701
I have the personality, I have the humour, what I don't have is the fucking confidence.
and wow...that vid is like, fucking story of my life. hahaha.
I'm the op by the way.
>> Anonymous
good luck op she's really pretty.
Damn I miss being young
>> Anonymous
>>412745
Its still not too late to build confidence, there's a bunch of stuff like articles, books, etc. Don't lose hope.
I could so fucking relate to your life and the vid I showed.
because I am one too.

Good Luck OP.
/endthread?
>> Anonymous
GIRLS DONT WANT TO FUCK VIRGINS.
>> Anonymous
1. Grow Balls
2. Stick it in her pooper
3. ????
4. PROFIT!
>> Anonymous
>>413587
Any specific books, websites, clips etc to building confidence? If I can get recommendations, then I'm pretty sure this thread is over. If not, I'll just google some shit, but I'd prefer people with recommendations.
'
and thanks for the good luck.
>> Anonymous
>>411113

Since i was 15 I have been head over heels for a girl I went to school with. I am 21 now. I never told her how I felt; to my knowledge she never knew. She moved away a couple of years ago, and I have no idea what is going on with her. I still love her as much as I did then. I have to live with the fact that I was too much of a pussy to ask a girl a question.

If you really do like her then don't make the same cunting mistake I did. Seriously don't.
>> Anonymous
>>411113
fuck...

reading that is like reading a mirror...

yes, reading a mirror.
>> Anonymous
>>413640

same poster.

Let her know. Before its too late.

trust me, you will be kicking yourself if you leave it, and she'll never know. Yes, you might always have that 'bit of hope' if you dont ask her, but then again it will never go any further. dont make the same mistake as me, and wait. if you want something, go and get it.
>> Anonymous
>>413634
>>413645
Op here.
damn....thats some good advice. I'll keep that in mind. It's been too often where I don't tell a girl how I feel and I always wonder...
>> Anonymous
How does one get confidence?

Get really, really, holy shit amazing at something and take pride in it. Music/art and something athletic is great for attracting women.
Stop over-thinking things when talking to people. Just be relaxed and light-hearted so that they will too. Think of everyone, above or below your "league", as your equal.
If you don't like something about yourself, change it. If you want something, take it. You deserve anything you're capable of achieving. Tell yourself that you are the absolute shit and don't need to prove it to anyone.
>> brambles !!VRXAN//FWJC
ask her if she is doing anything for lunch, if not, that is an easy date.

if she is plan something else.

done, you have a date. congrats.

dont act like a weirdo while spending time with her.
>> Anonymous
>>413634

Continuation of this.

I happen to have a very lucky career in the music industry. I compose music, and everyday I work is better than the last. If I work harder I am more happy. Most people would do anything for this...

I would seriously consider trading this for getting a second chance of asking her/telling her how I felt, and her saying no. You will never understand the experience of not knowing until it is too late. I doubt I will ever love anyone else.

But hey! at least I can help others because of this :)

Good luck OP.
>> Anonymous
>>413662
Man thats fucking sad man :((
>> Anonymous
>Cause I feel like if I were to ask her out now, shed be like " I don't know you that well" or something. Am I just plain wrong here?

yes. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER ON THE DATE IDIOT.
>> Anonymous
>>413662

Get over it dude, that was 6 years ago when you were a little 15 year old. When you're 15 you don't know shit
>> Anonymous
>>413653
>>413662
Op here.

Thank you fucking very much. I can't express how much you're helping me.
>> Anonymous
>>411191
YOU AINT GONNA SCARE NOBODY BITCH JUST ASK HER OUT
>> Anonymous
Why the fuck do we have relationshit threads on /fit/

WHAT THE FUCK.
>> Anonymous
>>413682
everyones told you what you probably already know.

You gotta stop living of hope man, just go for it. it's the only way, otherwise you'll regret it.
>> Anonymous
>>413662
she's not on facebook or myspace?
>> Anonymous
>>413713

No, fucking vanished...I Don't like to think about what could have happened.
>> Godspeed You! Chinese Communist !!VKHtgYbiSfh
Let there be bump. The thread was bumped and it was good.
>> Anonymous
Health & Fitness
>> Anonymous
>>413713
if he posts her pic in /b/, they'll get her facebook/myspace AND phone number, house address, college, email address and social id number. believe it.
>> Anonymous
>>413653
THIS.

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS
STORY OF MY LIFE.
>> Anonymous
>>412701
The vid is accurate until the end, where the nice guy gets the girl.

In real life, that never happens. Never.
>> Anonymous
>>412701

god damn video is basically the last 2 months of my life, except not asian

and im not at part 3 yet
>> Anonymous
well first

1.kill that spic thats mackin up on your broad

2. say "ey baby lemme git cho digits"

3. ???

4. Profit!
>> NPC452
Hey OP,
Just ask, ask her is she would like to get together sometime. Test the water, if it seems good, go for it again. Repeat.
If things get serious, let them. If you get nowhere, look elsewhere.
Go back where you started.
If you luck out and she is the one, congrats
A winrar is you.

I am srs, You never know until you try. I too made the mistake of not asking. A woman's feelings are truely like Schrodinger's Cat.
So open the box and Find out.
For great justice.
>> Anonymous
>>414300
Op here,
Yeah, I'm learning that my previous ways of dealing with girls was shit. Seriously, to everyone who has replied with advice, fucking thank you. It's exactly what I needed. I've come to realize what a pussy I was, how I need to man up, and just ask a girl out.

and......my god fit, FUCK ME.

I just found a very good reason why she never replied to my message.

"f your a friend of mine and i havnt talked to you in a long time if you noe or dont noe life has been hard for me at this moment and many ppl cant understand what im dealing with


so it not you the loss of someone important to me has made living seem worthless but im pulling forward"

It's her bulletin. I guess her best friend died or something.

Damn.....now what the hell do i do? give her space, try to counsel her (even though I don't know her that well?)

Fucking great timing on my part. hahaha

So I understand this thread has gotten long. I understand if people are tired of it and want this shit deleted, but it's helping me out (and a few others it seems) so yeah...I'll just let it die naturally.
>> Anonymous
>>414222
you finish part 3 yet?
>> Anonymous
general advice:
The more selective you are with your kindness, compliments and gestures, the more important they become.

You should also be trying to fuck as many of your female friends as possible- its very simple, all you need to do is put it out there that you want to spent time alone with them, if they throw the ball back to you, pick it up and play.

Step by step
1. Pick random female friend, who lives close enough to you
2. Hey X, what are you doing tonight? How about I come over and give you a massage? (cheesy, and said as a joke) But seriously I have this new movie I thought we could watch together...
3. Rejected? No problems, go to step 1. Accepted? step 4
4. When you greet her, don't be afraid to make physical contact, go in for a hug, then as you break run your hand gently down her back, or hold her hand, smile make eye contact. Bring the movie, sit close to her. Pick a comedy, puts you both in a good mood, gives her a chance to touch you during it, and vice versa. If she seems to be into you, simply go- how about that massage? smile, and after some boring foreplay fuck her. If shes dirty she will prob let you stick it in her ass.

The confidence comes from knowing what to do naturally in any situation- not from rote memorising moves, I wrote this up randomly, and used the massage line as a fall back opening joke, you can use anything that pops into your head. Eg- dont be all creepy, and rub her ass when you meet her, unless she likes it. Naturally the first 10 or 15 times you try this, you will get further and further to sex, but fail terribly. You might get lucky the first time, but fail on consequent tries. Nobody is a natural, just keep doing it until you become good enough to pick up on peoples body language. OP are you a single child? Most of the 4chan socially retarded fall under the single child category, having no sister to grow up with means you have no idea how to interact with women.

protip: they all fart.
>> Anonymous
>>414481
oh shit almost forgot- do not, DO NOT do this with any girl you genuinely like, this is reserved strictly for cumdumpsters because you are trying to level up your sex and pre-sex skills. Think of it as grinding whores until you find the princess. You need to get over your mentality about sex, its nothing- there's hundreds of thousands of people fucking right now- its as natural as taking a shit or eating a taco. When you find that right girl, good sex will be a bonus for her and yourself- but the moneyshot is enjoying being around her.

For now it's just a game, I understand not everyone wants to be a "playa" or whatever, but if you don't do it at all in your life, you will end up with a manipulative bitch who will control your marriage, your children and make your life a complete and total misery. And sex isn't the be all or endall, you can follow your own routine, just experiment with the people around you- be an asshole, just try it for kicks, hot and cold, ask for favours etc.

Think of all the porn you've seen, all the hot chicks out there- and you want to attach yourself to one already. It's fine, but its not forever, all my 20 something friends who were in long time relationships are breaking up now, why? because holy fuck, it was dumb to make a long term commitment when you're only 16-19.
>> Anonymous
>>414371
Op, that is the perfect moment.

Message her back, tell her you
Wanted to ask her to a movie but decided not to because of the loss of her friend, tell her how it's gonna be ok, blah blah blah basically comfort, and bam! Now she'll realize you're

a.) Interested in her

b.) A sweetheart by comforting her

If all goes well you'll be replacing that foo in that pic.
>> Anonymous
There's no such thing as the fucking friend zone, if a girl is attracted to you then she's attracted to you. This "Friendzone" bullshit is for delusional guys to convince themselves that they ever actually had a chance in the first place.

If a girl likes you, she will let you know
>> Anonymous
>>415004
but then you get friendzoned! just ask her out when she's done with that shit.
>> Anonymous
>>415020
>>415449
I loled
>> brambles !!VRXAN//FWJC
how about just moving on to some other chick? you dont have to have "the one" as your first and only girlfriend.