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I must be a btard. I'm actually looking for legit advice. Timestamp, pics, whatever you want. Not trolling.
Anybody ever been involved in an abusive (in my case emotional/mental) relationship? I just broke up with my 2 year girlfriend 3 days ago. Its a viscious cycle. Break up, panic over the feeling of someone else with her (turns my stomach in horrible ways) and memories of us happier always makes me run back. We're ok for about...a day, and the nonstop fighting continues. Rinse, repeat.

I try desperately to allow her to control me, do whatever she feels she wants me to be. I lost my two best friends (who hate her passionately for the shit she puts me through -- and honestly, me for going back for more), had to move from my apartment (because a girl lived in the same development that I dated very briefly) and alot of other shit. She and my mother (only family I have left) hate each other unrepairably.She openly admits she will never trust me in any way, though she has no reason. She has bi-polar and PMSD, and her mood swings are severe and random. Ive tried to no end to help, but Im always the recieving end of her mood and irritability.

So, yes, I'm not stupid or masochistic. I realize the negativity of the situation. I know it can never work.Ive gone three days ignoring EVERY text. I knew she would, and shes desperate to make me respond. Im fighting it very much. I want to give in, and she's using every "button" she knows to push in me to get a reaction. I havent answered. I want to break this fucking cycle.
I'm a GREAT guy, I feel. Im 25, I'm attractive, I own my own successful business and am one of the sweetest, most romantic guys in the world.
Im just reassuring myself at this point.

Just tell me the stomach knots, the sleep deprivation, this sinking horrible heart racing feeling....fucking.....stops.....
>> Anonymous
You are a good man. Probably one in a thousand.

I know someone who goes through the same shit. His wife is crazy, bipolar, etc. and he takes care of her and her paralyzed father (despite the fact that his wife is a stripper and cheats on him nonstop). Recently, they got into a fight, where the wife lodged a fork into his head. Then, he went to jail, even though he did nothing back to her (and the kids watched, too.)

He's currently getting a divorce and a restraining order. If I were you, I would seriously consider finding another woman.
>> Anonymous
You also posted this on /b/. If you're this desperate for advice, your resolve is truly too fucking weak for anyone on the internet to put back together.
>> Anonymous
Stop being such a titty and cope with your dumbass decisions
>> Anonymous
I was in a similar relationship. You've just got to snap the fuck out of it and make the decision.
>> Anonymous
Fucking MAN UP.

>> I'm a GREAT guy, I feel. Im 25, I'm attractive, I own my own successful business and am one of the sweetest, most romantic guys in the world.

FUCKING MAN UP
>> timbo timbo
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hello
you need to learn the dance moves for the club.

basically u need something smooth hip hop style and then u just pick a hottie from the dancefloor and dry hump her some and then u get the numba

ps my friends call me timbo
cause i was in one of justin timberlake's videos
bustin some moves
in case u wanna say i can't dance n shit

i wish u the best but remember if u can't dance ur history buddy!
>> Anonymous
Why don't you block her number from your phone, fuck someone else, and get drunk with your friends. Do things that you couldn't do when you were with this woman.

Did i really have to explain that?
>> timbo timbo
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hey buddy here's another one.
let me give you a tip about the arguing.

u say she screams at u all da time?
u need to put your dick in her mouth basically , most bitches can't talk with something in there mouth

TIMBOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO out NIGGAZ
>> timbo timbo
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>>343912
if his friends can't dance they'll make him look bad in front of his hoes man
>> Anonymous
Speaking seriously here, if you really man what you say here -

"I try desperately to allow her to control me, do whatever she feels she wants me to be. I lost my two best friends (who hate her passionately for the shit she puts me through -- and honestly, me for going back for more), had to move from my apartment (because a girl lived in the same development that I dated very briefly) and alot of other shit. She and my mother (only family I have left) hate each other unrepairably.She openly admits she will never trust me in any way, though she has no reason. She has bi-polar and PMSD, and her mood swings are severe and random. Ive tried to no end to help, but Im always the recieving end of her mood and irritability."

then you actually need to file a fucking restraining order against her, get in contact with your 2 best friends and start apologizing, and move on. Don't dwell on the past either, everyone makes mistakes, and everyone can be led by cunts like your former girlfriend, no matter how strong willed you are.

Seriously though, even if you went back to her things would never ever get as good as they used to be, and you will get back to this stage within 6 months. A good way to look at it is that you've got through the first 3 days.

Hope you can stay strong buddy.
>> Anonymous
>>343925
*mean ><
>> Anonymous
>I'm a GREAT guy, I feel... I'm attractive, I own my own successful business and am one of the sweetest, most romantic guys in the world.

I might have sympathized if I didn't see this part

7/10
>> Anonymous
go to counseling or psychiatric services, i don't know if you're still in school but most schools have a counselor at least, many times they've got psychological services available and they've got referrals too.

you know, even people who are not mentally ill but are taking care or are in constant and frequent contact of a mentally ill person need counseling too so they can help deal better

my bf's brother just left his wife of 1 year bcuz he got tired of her always belittling him, she threatened suicide and tried to drown herself on the bathtub [i told them it was just bullshit and manipulation on her part, other than babies no1 really drowns in a bathtub!] but then her family got defensive and threatened the husband that he better not leave her cuz if she kills herself then they're gonna F him up. week later, she tries slitting her wrists, she failed, he left.. it's been a month so far

it's going to be like women who try to walk away from the abusive bf & relationship, hella hard to do. you need help. hell, go to the battered women shelter, tell them ur situation and ask them if they can refer you to someone. they'll probably look at you a bit weird cuz you're not... well, uh... a woman. so tell them u're not there to use up their services you just want them to point you in the right direction
>> Anonymous
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Grow a pair of these.
>> Anonymous
Any guy calling himself sweet is a douche
>> Anonymous
she can't fuck with your head if she's dead
>> Anonymous
>>344081
thats a vagina with nuts attached
>> Anonymous
Yah I was in the same situation, its a vicious cycle.

I missed out on a lot of good parties and drunken orgies because my girlfriend hated all my friends (for no reason really, just a hater) so she'd freak if I ever went out.

I broke up with her probably 20-30x over the course of a year, at least a couple times per month, and she'd threaten to kill herself everytime. She made a few superficial attempts like downing a 40 of vodka in 1 minute, taking a bunch of childrens tylenol, that kind of stupid shit.

First few times I felt bad/guilty that she was getting this upset so I'de run back but after realizing this is a bitches #1 method of getting attention/fucking with their partner I stopped worrying about it and just ignored her. She never actually came close to hurting herself and eventually it turned into self-pity and she finally left me alone.

Had to endure thousands of missed calls/text messages until i realized the best thing was to just change my cell # and email address.

Happy to say I've been without her for over 2 years and am now dating a brand new psycho!
>> Anonymous
I had crushes before that I needed to get over.
The main thing you need to do is stop thinking about the good times and realize the amount of rage she puts you through.

To further fix your life, get your friend's back and cut all contact to that bitch.

You're too good for her.
>> Lady !2dLYL36LP.
Drop all communication.
The feeling will stop, trust me. I know it feels like it won't but it will, and you'll be happier for it. Get in touch with your old friends. Apologize. Make right all the wrongs that you did, and most of all, don't blame your (ex) girlfriend for it. Man up and admit that you were being weak-willed and tell them you're fucking sorry for being a douche.

Block her number and get a restraining order if you find it necessary. Move on with your life. It'll be difficult at first but it's hardly impossible.