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Anonymous
i have no idea where else to ask this. so here it goes.

how come i have such a great jealousy over my girlfriends drug use in her past?

she used to smoke weed practically everyday shes told me. shes also tried a bunch of other drugs including meth.

shes said that if it wasnt for me, she would have become a dealer.

she used to also party and drink a lot to the point of passing out.

this was before i knew her. but i have heard her drunk and i broke up with her once for smoking and drinking behind my back.

then her cutting and attempts at sucide dont help my jealousy.

so although im positive she wont do any of this stuff again. how come im so jealous of her past?
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>> Anonymous
any kind of thoughts, positive or negative, are greatly appreciated.
>> Anonymous
So you wish you could have done something as "cool" and dangerous as drugs? Not too unusual to think drugs are cool but remember that the reality is that meth will turn you into a dicksucking whore.
>> Anonymous
>>427109

Agreeing with this poster here. Do you want to do those drugs? Or, are you confusing the definition of rage with jealousy?
>> Anonymous
your gf is a dirty slutbag (meth lol) and probably gave you herpes and the clap, or soon will. once an addict always an addict, and long time addicts are very good at hiding.
>> Anonymous
I think your girlfriend is a crack whore.
>> Anonymous
>>427114
the girl is fine. nothing wrong with the girl as of now. just my own feelings.
>> Anonymous
>>427112
i suppose the word jealousy traditionaly might have been the wrong word. rage? i suppose. disapointment? maybe...
>> Anonymous
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>>427118
so lets say jealousy in terms of; disapointment, rage, sadness... maybe a hint of regret with unknown orgin.
>> Anonymous
>>427118

I felt the same exact thing about my ex-girlfriend. She fucked like six people before me and apart of me couldn't accept it. Although I denied it, I think apart of me looked at her like a whore for a month or so(this is the main reason I didn't sleep with her for like 3 months. i was worried that i'd give my virginity to someone who wasn't worth it). Over time, however, I saw that she changed her ways and I began opening up to her more. I eventually had to accept the fact that her past was shitty and her present/future was what I had to judge her by now.

In short, I know what you're experiencing. You're just going to have to judge her by her actions and slowly, over time, accept her past. after you've accepted it, leave it alone. Know this, however: A leopard never changes its' spots unless it REALLY wants to. After my ex-gf and I broke up, she began whoring herself out again. It was only until she caught an STD that she stopped.

Make sure your girlfriend has changed because -SHE- wants the change; not because you're dating her. Personally, that's the problem here. You know her ways have changed only because she's dating you. You want a girlfriend who will change simply because she wants to better herself and her life, not because someone entered it. Change has to start from within and not from the outside.

Hope I helped. Ciao.
>> Anonymous
>>427126
that realy opened up my mind. thank you.