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Anonymous
Honestly, you have lost the game. You have no winning scenarios here.
When you started dating, she was probably working as hard as her lazy fat ass could to keep her weight from ballooning. When she found you and you loved her 'sexy' bod, she thought she was in heaven since she found someone that accepted her for her.
And then she started to let herself go a little. Over 4 years she now has the droopy hangish fat arms and rolls on rolls I am sure.
If you tell her that you want her to fix herself, she will rage that you don't love her for her.
If you gently try to finesse her back to a size 18, it will take forever.
I don't want to hurt anyone, but maybe the best course for both long term is to dump her hard. Give her the choice to figure out that she needs to thin out for you to consider getting back together.
Sorry OP. Assuming this isn't a huge troll, you have difficult choices ahead.
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