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Anonymous
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I have a probrem. I can't get it up when I have to stick it in my woman. I'm ofcourse a virgin. I have no problem getting it up while I'm jerking off, or when we're making out, but when it comes to sticking it into her it just goes floppy.
And that makes me a saaaaaaaadddd panda.

Halp?
>> Anonymous
limp
>> Anonymous
i think youre gay
>> OriginalContentGuy@gmail.com
>>387630
Viagra.

Or, work out why you don't want to stick it in her, possibly with the help of a therapist.

Or it could just be something physical, you getting enough sleep/food? You feel pressured to preform etc.?
>> Anonymous
>>387644maybe pressure, but not sure though, I do feel a bit akward all in all. Food and sleep are not a problem.

I will have to think about seeing a therapist, it's really bugging me because we've been trying for a while now and it just doesn't go so I finger her and then we just go to sleep.
>> Anonymous
>feel pressured to preform
OP is probably this.
>> Anonymous
what about blowjob or handjob? or you could rub your cock against her pussy
>> Anonymous
>>387654

handjob does help, but she's bad at it
>> Sponge !!5qxfxHYSQxJ
>>387658

how can your gf be bad at handjobs? does she lack hands? what the hell
>> Anonymous
Yeah, you're gay dude.
>> Anonymous
>>387669

For some people the sheer novelty of having someone else's hands around your cock isn't enough to overcome the fact that she doesn't know your cock as well as you...

Actually, let's look at this a different way. I worry for you since it seems your girlfriend or the women you've slept with are as good at beating your meat as you are... That makes me wonder how many men they've fucked.
>> Anonymous
>>387651

It's a common problem. Something that both amazed me and pissed me off, though it shouldn't have, is that women can be bad at sex. Yes, the novelty and pleasure from having someone else touching you is great. However, god... a penis does not work that way woman!

I swear, sometimes I'm glad I fuck guys too, that way I know how to get my dick properly sucked. Though it is satisfying to feel a woman's curves and make them squirt.
>> Anonymous
>>387669

By not beating it enough or too slow.

>>387673

Any other way besides meds? I do have anxiety problems in general, but I wouldn't imagine having them in bed.
>> Anonymous
>>387683

>Any other way besides meds?

The only quick fix is meds. A longer term idea is therapy. It's ultimately your emotions getting in the way. So either you take a pill as a temporary measure until you build up plenty of confidence to fuck her sloppy without the meds. Or you go into therapy to basically just have someone tell you to become more comfortable with sex.

> I do have anxiety problems in general, but I wouldn't imagine having them in bed.

Why not? Sex with another human being in one of the more stressful things someone can do. You probably suffer more stress being intimate with your girlfriend than you do at work, or dealing with a tough test. You care about it more, and you're worried/obsessing over potential failure. Obviously it's enough of a problem you're not getting hard.

So... your options are pretty much see a therapist about it, or get some meds and see a therapist. The meds are a good idea to get things rolling in the sack right away, while the therapy will help you in the long run. You shouldn't be dependent on a pill if you don't have to, but as long as there's a need for the meds why not use them?
>> Anonymous
I never knew of OP's problem until i came to /fit/. now we have 4x of these a day. i guess so much for /fit/ having 'random selection'

why are you all such dysfunctional fucks? whats that say about me?
>> Anonymous
>>387695

There is no perfect person. We all fucked up piles of problems, trauma, and unfulfilled desires. Congratulations you now know what most modern psychologists are all too jaded about.
>> Anonymous
bumpan!
>> Anonymous
>>387688

Do you think general anxeity meds might help? I mean, I think they might help me along in college too, they are requiring large ammounts of creativity and while I'm able to be creative I am not when needed and I just can't get an idea, I get nervous, I make a clusterfuck and just crash and burn. Five minutes after the embarrasing lesson I finally get an awsome idea and, well, I'm just too late.

The reason why I find it strange that I'm anxious with my girlfriend is that I'm relaxed around her, I don't feel pressured neither put under any strain.
>> Anonymous
heya all, differentfag with similar problem. i think what>>387673said about the meds is right, just need to build up confidence, but where the fuck can i get viagra? i live in aus, and also don't want family/friends to find out. how do you get viagra? need to go to doctor?
>> Anonymous
plz pzl plz help. sam poster as above

is a sucka gonna have to rob a pharmacy?