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Sup, /fit/

My girlfriend and I are chubby (actually chubby, not fat and fooling yourself chubby). I'm starting to exercise more and trying to eat healthier. However, she's not. She's not motivated to exercise whatsoever, refuses to eat vegetables and pasta , and gets Burger King all the time (at least three times this week).

How do I motivate my girlfriend to lose some weight before she hits the point-of-no-return? Will getting healthy myself be enough to guilt her into it?
>> JESUS !vBOFA0jTOg
Snapsome steroid pills into her food, the testosterone will make her work out. Trust me I'm a doctor.
>> Anonymous
>>396916

Yeah, but I don't want beard-burn on my dick.
>> Anonymous
tell the bitch youll dump her if she doesnt fit
trust me it works wonders
>> Anonymous
>She's not motivated to exercise whatsoever, refuses to eat vegetables

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
>> Anonymous
Dump her. Upgrade yourself. Get hotter, fitter gf. Problem solved. Also secs will be better, trust me on this one. Fit wommynz = tight vag.
>> Anonymous
fuck motivation

lock her in your basement.

give her two crackers, one apple, one can of tuna and a gallon of water to eat a day. nothing more.

6 months later, open the basement door.

profit.
>> Anonymous
Dump her.

I married a woman who was a little chubby and a little nutty, thinking she would either stay even keel or improve. She shot off into psycho bitch fatty fat land. I wish she would just go away and leave me in peace. Instead she hangs around me like chains around my neck.

Past and present behaviors are the absolute best indicators of potential future behavior. You can't guilt your gf, that's for sure. You can try to encourage her in positive ways; but if nothing you do stimulates her shortly to find it within herself to make a change for the better, you need to get out. Otherwise she will drag you down.
>> JESUS !vBOFA0jTOg
>>396941
You should work on that and copy pasta it for all threads like this.
>> Anonymous
>>396936

Well granted 90% of them make her vomit. I know, I've tried.

>>396928
>>396939

I really don't want to, but it's kinda creeping up in the back of my head.

We've been dating for a year and a half, so I'd feel a little bad just up and leaving her because she's chubby. I should AT LEAST wait until I have room to bitch, I'm starting to get stretch marks on my ass.

>>396941

Better yet, I could slather peanut butter on my dick.
>> Anonymous
>>396950

>Past and present behaviors are the absolute best indicators of potential future behavior.

Wow, a wise Anon on /fit/
>> Anonymous
>>396950

My girlfriend likes to act tough, but I'm pretty good at pinpointing her emotions. I probably could guilt her into it, even subconsciously. If not, I'll>>396928
>> Anonymous
>Well granted 90% of them make her vomit.

Wow, I bet she'll die pretty young...
>> Anonymous
>>396968

hmmm... OP, is your gf rich?
>> Anonymous
>>396975

no
>> Anonymous
>>396963
dude, you can try, but I'm serious, there's very little chance she'll react well. even if guilting her does prompt her to start working out and such, she'll always hate you for it, for making her do something she didn't want to do herself. best of luck.
>> Anonymous
Tell her: "Your body reminds me of a walrus, but it dosen't matter, I like you for who you are." Then she will start to loos weight, and don't get hurt emotionally! (you can come here and thank me in some months, good luck)
>> Anonymous
>>396982

The thing is is that she's not comfortable with her weight, she's just too unmotivated to do anything about it. I'm hoping that if I can convince her to go to the gym with me and get her into shape, it'll make her feel better and motivate her to do other things like finish school or something.
>> Anonymous
What I would do is to work on myself, improve my looks and well-being - if that doesn't motivate her to at least ask me to help her figure out her exercise etc then shes dumped.
>> Anonymous
>>397009
So you have a fat GF, that hasn't finished school, isn't rich, whines and gets burger king three times a week, knows she's a disgusting fatty but doesn't even have the determination to do something about it? She must give some hella good blowjobs
>> Anonymous
Start dropping random comments about other chicks you see at the gym.

"I saw some girl at the gym today doing a crazy exercise! She... what? About 18 or 19, I guess. So she was... what? Brown hair, long, in a ponytail. Anyway she was bending over trying to... Yes, bending over. Shorts and a tank top. Nevermind."
>> Anonymous
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backhanded compliments FTW!!

listen to Tom Leykis

then DUMP THAT BITCH

????

PROFIT
>> Anonymous
whenever someone posts here about their gf, its alwayts about the chick doing things wrong. Stop letting them do it.

final conclusion

ditch the fat unhealthy fuck and let that teach them a god damn lesson.

stupid fucking women.
>> Anonymous
>>397009

when I started complaining about my weight, every time my boyfriend would say, in a very encouraging way "Ok, if you're unhappy with yourself, lets go work out."

Eventually, it worked. Mostly because he was being supportive. Try that... EVERYTIME she complains, tell her you'll go exercise with her.
>> Anonymous
>>397107
that only works when the woman herself wants to lose weight. In op's case, the women doesnt give a shit about herself.

keyword phrase >everytime I complain about my weight.
>> Anonymous
>>397107

Not OP, but im getting the impression that she is one of those abominations who look like shite and like it. Good tip tough.
>> Anonymous
>>397068
Leykis is an amazing troll. I love that son of a bitch.
>> Anonymous
OP here.

She's actually really cute, just has a bit of a belly. Not being modest, I've dated fat-fat girls before. She's good looking, I just want her to lose some of her pudge.
>> Anonymous
>>397110

well, she might get tired of being fat one of these days and just do it... sometimes all it takes is a little possitive encouragement from him. Like I said, it should go like this:

"Uh, my stomach is all blech"
"Well, if you don't like it, you can go with me to the gym next time, if it's really bothering you."
"OMG ARE YOU CALLING ME FAT?!"
"No, but if you're unhappy with yourself, I'm willing to help, as I'm trying to get fit myself. I love you just the way you are *fake smile*"

>>397112
Meh, it's worth a try.
>> Anonymous
OP here. I got her to agree to start going to the gym with me (which I just got back from signing up for). All I told her is that I really need the motivation and someone there to make me do it.

Reverse psychology ftw
>> Anonymous
>>397137

come back in 2 weeks and tell us how often she gone with you to the gym
>> Anonymous
>>397145

Aye aye
>> Anonymous
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>>397145

oh and>>397131......silly woman, but you made me smile, thank you.
>> Anonymous
>>397131
lol women
"positive encouragement" hahahaha
>> Anonymous
>>397137

You're 1/8th of the way there. A much harder and equally important thing now is to get her to eat less/better.

Maybe try cooking for the both of you on a regular occasion. Girls love this kind of thing, and it lets you control what goes in her body, at least for a couple of meals.

If that fails (which I just remembered it probably will), tell her you need motivation/eating practice and a partner increases efficiency.
>> Anonymous
>>397153

She doesn't eat a lot quantity-wise as much as she eats a lot of shitty food.

It's difficult cooking healthy foods she'll actually eat. Vegetables make her physically ill (I've tried, it's not just a bullshit excuse), but pasta fills her up after just a few bites, which is what I might have her eat.

She eats a lot of dairy, especially cheese.

Does /fit/ have any advice on what can be fed to her? She doesn't mind fruit, but I have to find a way to make her eat a lot of it.
>> Anonymous
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Her when we started dating...
>> Anonymous
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Her now. Like I said, it's not a make-or-break issue, I just want her to lose a little belly
>> Anonymous
she's pretty ugly bro
>> Anonymous
she looks insane too, like the type that would start yelling at you for leaving a ziplock bag open
>> Anonymous
she'd be likely to cut your penis off while you're asleep.
>> Anonymous
>>397185

My best recommendation to you (especially as it benefits you as well as her) is to really focus on learning how to cook delicious healthy meals. Unfortunately I can't let you know too well how as I make functional meals that aren't very impressive but I enjoy a lot.

It's even a great way to bond if you learn how together. If you make it dreadfully apparent that you are passionate about the matter, she will support it, and integrate it into her lifestyle, or she'll fob it off and you've already heard enough about what happens in that case.
>> Anonymous
>>397186
>>397189

She seems laid back and she's not too shabby.

Let some douchebags on the internet say whatever, you know whether or not you think it will work, just make the decision.
>> Anonymous
>>397190

Granted she's not blind-you-with-beauty, but she's far from ugly. Fuck you.

>>397193

She can get a bit testy, but granted her mom is dying of cancer. Besides, when she gets like that I just give her a big "fuck-you" sandwich, and leave for a few hours (usually for a few drinks with the guys). When I get back I usually get an apology blowjob and everything is right in the world.

>>397196

She said she'd do that if I cheated on her, but then I told her that if she cheated on me or did that to me after cheating on her, I'd just plain kill her.
>> Anonymous
>>397185
She's feels full because she eats all that burger king shit before, all sneaky-like.

No really. If she eats so little, even if shitty, she wouldn't be putting on weight.
>> Anonymous
>>397189
this haircut is better
>> Anonymous
>>397211

Wrong. The fact that she eats maybe once a day makes her body think that if it doesn't store all of that immediately then she will starve to death. The fact that it's sometimes BK only makes the problem worse. If I can get her to eat three to five small, healthy meals a day, it'll keep her metabolism up and the pounds will come off themselves.
>> Anonymous
>>397211

I actually GAINED weight on eating shitty while starving myself (as in just a few hundred cals a day and not healthy either). And I worked out.

Sounds wonky? You bet it does, but somehow, I managed to.
>> Anonymous
>>397217

Your body held on to every last bit you fed it as a reaction to the malnutrition. Happens more often than you think.
>> Anonymous
>>397212

You think so? I liked the long hair better, but her mom lost all her hair when she went into chemo, so she cut her's off, too.