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Sex? Anonymous
Mmkay /fit/ I didn't know where else to post this...

During foreplay I have no trouble getting hard as a rock, but when it comes down actual intercourse I don't stay fully erect for long... any ideas on how I can get hard and stay that way?
Exercises, medications, methods, etc... idk, whatever you got.
>> Anonymous
Have you tried this with more than one person? It's possible that she's \ /

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGjElvt4nP8
>> Anonymous
I had trouble like this - and it was all psychological.

I loved foreplay & fingering her, going down on her, etc. What I didn't actually realise was that basically I always wanted to be "in control" - all the above were things I could do to her. If this is the case then maybe you just need to chill & enjoy *her* doing things *to you* as well.

Otherwise, it could be that you lack the stamina and/or stimulation for your weiner to be hard the *whole time*. If that's the case then lay off wanking & the KUNGFU GRIP that you might be using.

I dunno really. It's hard to say if you can't give some descriptions of what you're feeling down there at the time. Could be a combination of things...
>> Anonymous
>>377804again. Just saw>>377774

lol, It could also be that the girl has a bucket biff. Sorry but these things happen, man. :(
>> Anonymous
try not to blow your load right away. this usually keeps me pretty hard
>> Anonymous
Same problem as OP. Then again I think I ruined my dong through years of abrasive, improper masturbation. I've been considering just going to a doctor and getting some old man pills for it or something. I can stay hard for a little while while fucking but it tends to lose MAXIMUM HARDNESS pretty fast and it doesn't feel very pleasurable to either involved. If I have to use a condom, which is most of the time, then forget about it, might as well call it a night.
>> Anonymous
>>377762
Are you mutilated OP? Mutilation causes lack of sensitivity in the head of the penis.
>> Anonymous
>>377890
Nope, I'm perfectly intact... I guess it's psychological since I get get it up easy enough.
I'm gonna just concentrate on what my hands are doing/touching from now on instead of thinking about having sex.
>> Anonymous
I don't know if its related, but you need to keep blowflow in your dick to stay hard. Maybe the physical activity is hurting your erection. I mean you ever try to go running with an erection, it drops like a rock.

I'm not really sure what you could do to fix this though. Try letting her be on top? see if that helps?
>> Anonymous
Most cases of erectile dysfunction come from anxiety.

Also, moderate your masturbation - if you've beat yourself off for years your dick is probably accustomed to that sensation and used to the upfront HC visual cues of porn
>> Anonymous
Anxiety. It will go when you get pro at sex.
>> Anonymous
I get this, though not so much..
I think it's psychological. Try looking at her, just being amazed at her body, her reactions to what you're doing... and just enjoy everything she does.
>> Anonymous
This happened to me after being in a long term relationship for a while, though not to as serious of an effect. I've found that my quick fix is the really corny shit that most long tern couples stereotypically skip, like putting some music on, kissing and touching the zones, and just taking it really slow in general. It may sound a little sit-com esque but when i dive right in it's not very pleasurably.
>> Nomad
are you blowing early or loosing your erection?

ether way youre getting too much or youre getting too little. jerk it too much= loose of sensitivity and boom wang goes down. if youre blowing your load after foreplay.. rub it out 2-4 hours early..

also anxiety can cause all sorts of wierd shit.. remember the end game is not just putting your dick in.. its getting each other off.. some guys think insertion is end game so mentally theyve reached their goal so they blow their load quickly.
>> Anonymous
try fucking a hot chick for a change.
>> Anonymous
try not masturbating.
>> Anonymous
i think theres a name for your problem:

Premature Ejaculation
>> Anonymous
performance anxiety most likely
>> Anonymous
I kind of have a similar situation while fapping. If I don't touch my dick and fantasize for a while I'll get hard as a rock. Then I keep the fantasy going and start fapping and I get softer. Does this mean I'm a woman? :(
>> Sex? Anonymous
I'm not sure, the more I masturbate the longer I last (3+ hours to an orgasm if i've masturbated the same day I have sex). Stopping watching porn and masturbating decreased my endurance, and made it far more enjoyable for me (who gives a shit about the bitch really, she should be happy with the hour I give her and stfu). Maybe you can do the opposite of what I do and start watching porn more frequently.
>> Anonymous
>>379322
yeah man, its pretty bad. you should get that sand out of your mangina.