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Anonymous
Don't even mind those guys telling you to dump her. Throwing 4 years down the drain just because of this is freaking idiotic.
I think your girl has some insercurity issues, which you should just talk about with her. I'm surprised that it took her 4 years to find out that you look at ecchi, though. BUT, Hiding your stuff is a definate no-no, though. I know, as a girl, I'd be hurt if I found out my boyfriend was hiding something from me. They say "omission is betrayel". ): Telling her the truth and making her feel more secure, will definately relax her. (Try not to say it in a dumb way, though haha. Be smart and CONSIDERATE with your words!)
Trust me, because I just had that talk with my boyfriend haha (on porn, though). I've always known that he watches it, and stuff, but it just feels like a smack in the face- like "I'm not good enough"-type feeling, because he does it so often (haha- Though I DO realize most guys masturbate crazy often). I did ask a couple questions, and his answers made me more secure. (Q: When you watch it, do you imagine fucking them or something? A: "No, watching a guy and a girl have sex just gets me off". Understandable. If it was a "Yes", then it'd be time to break out the Ball-Cutter :) )
So, point is, just talk to her about it. Keeping it hidden would just make things worse in the end. (If you think that she'll never find out... oh come on. You should know by now that Life always throws curveballs haha.)
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