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/b/ failed me (i know should have expected it)
So heres my issue.

I have a real problem. I have had a huge bondage fetish since I can remember and I feel that because I fap so often to bondage that it kills my ability to enjoy being with a woman in any other way. To add to the fail of the situation I have also been unable to tell 99.9% of the women I have ever been with because I assume they would just go "omg what a sick fuck u are" and run.
So /b/ the question is what the hell do I do about this? Since I can't seem to get over this fetish but I would like to have a successfully sexual relationship with a woman at some point in my life.
Also I know that I could just tell them that I like bondage and see what they do, but I am going under the assumption that they would not. But if anyone has any suggestions for how to pose this to a woman successfully without it ending it with some abbreviation of the above quoted text I would be all ears.

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>> Anonymous
You know its not as though there aren't women who like it too... And bondage being fairly common. You sound as if you've given up hope of ever finding a girl who enjoys it too...
>> Anonymous
>>1111879

Agree. However I have problem of posing the idea/ getting over fear of the moment of posing the idea. See it being one of those really bad moments.
>> Anonymous
If I were you I would just tell them. Because as it seems now, you're just /assuming/ the women would freak out about it instead of even asking.

There's no way to tell if they're kinky unless you ask, and if they freak out and run off... Well, so what? Vanilla chicks are obviously not for you, anyway.

Optimally, though, what I would advise is, if you're actually in relationships with these women, after a few times having sex switch it up and suggest some LIGHT bondage and see how she reacts.
>> Anonymous
>>1111882

OP here.

Suggestion considered and noted.