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This is a sad and unfortunate fact I've struggled with as well. I've been involved in the scene, with various groups in various states, for about three years now.
People in the social scene are incredibly nice, friendly, intelligent, and experienced. They also tend to be more overweight than the general population, less attractive, and have nerdier hobbies (trekkies, RPers, and wiccans abound). I don't know why this is the case, but it's enough to wear on one's soul.
Average age tends to be about 50. In TNG groups, which are harder to find, it's closer to 30.
Basically, if you're looking for young, attractive people who are into kink, you're shit out of luck. No group like that exist, as far as I can ascertain. Get involved with the scene to learn and to make friends, but don't expect to find your smokin' hot soulmate.
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