Dear /d/, excuse my lack of a real offering, but how does one find out if their girl is into BDSM and the such?
>>634582and if she isnt into it I'll bet that would bring up quite an odd reaction
>>634571Does she like to be dominant? Like to hold your hands so you don't move?Try this: Cover her eyes with a blindfold. Then tease the hell out of her. That's a good way to start. Refer to Moonlight lady for very, very light S&M.
>>634586I'll try that
If you have any kind of an open relationship at all, I'd think you'd be able to simply ask if she's ever thought about it--at an appropriate time, of course.
But also, whats a more verbal way? Other then asking flat out
>>634594Soemhow get it so the two of you see some image/video of BDSM. Say "wow, that looks interesting. Wanna try it?Orbe ina conversation and talk about people who find pleasure in pain. This should be easy enough. Gauge her reactions.
start with that fun saying"sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me so shove me down and tie me and show me how you like it"
>>634601thanks.
Try asking if she's heard of it. If she hasn't, explain it to her a little bit at a time.Also do yer research first and don't rely on hentai to tell you how to do real BDSM.
>>634622( Not OP btw )I would like to try and start getting into BDSM and the like but I lack much knowledge on the subject( aside from gigs of hentai ) Would you happen to know some resources I can use to get started?