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So /d/... I came to you guys for help because this is probably way beyond any /h/ topic.

I have a masochistic girlfriend.
I am not a sadist.

How do I shot sexual satisfaction for my significant other without me feeling guilty about hurting her?
>> No Man
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>> Anonymous
How rough does she like it? Are we talking spanking/nipple pinching/hair pulling, or face slapping, gagging, whipping, etc?

My girlfriend is into the lighter stuff, and I was kind of uncomfortable with it at first. When I saw how much she liked it, though, I started to enjoy it. Now, I love smacking her ass and listening to her cry out in pleasure.
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>>656961

the former, and she may be beginning to dabble in the latter.

also, she kind of likes to roleplay in the pictured fashion. minus the snake parts.
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oh, and plus calling me 'master,' and other... I guess you'd call them titles? anyway...
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>> Anonymous
>>656958here. Dude, you are gonna have a BLAST with her. Start slow: next time you're making out with her, work your fingers into her hair and then close them. Nibble on her lips a little. You should notice a positive response.

Next time she's going down on you, do the same thing with her hair, but then move her head up and down instead of letting her bob. My favorite way to get head is with my girlfriend in the fetal position on her knees on the bed to my right, with my left hand in her hair and my right hand free. I alternate between spanking her and teasing her asshole. When your fingers are closed, your hand should be right up against her head. This way you can push as well as pull.

You may also want to invest in some soft velcro cuffs. They're very comfortable, and very effective. If she's cuffed in front, in an emergency she can undo them with her teeth.

Most importantly, be sure to keep up communication without roleplaying, at least at first. This is true of any kind of sex, really. The only way you'll know what you're doing right or wrong is to talk about it.
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>> C h a n a n a
someday you're going to wake up

and hey, your penis is gonna be in your mouth

enjoy the crazy bitch
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
You should take her to therapy because she was almost certainly raped, probably by her father.
>> Anonymous
>>657096
Because all masochists are rape-victims, amirite?
>> Anonymous
Asking 4chan for assistance with sexual situations is like asking Al Gore what it's like to be president.
>> Treefire !sOEPmGyDXo
>>657109
In other words... they would probably do a good job if they were offered the opportunity, but unfortunately, they never get the opportunity :)
>> Anonymous
>>657120
That would be correct.
>> Anonymous
I'm female—not in a relationship currently, but when I was, I was on the submissive/masochistic side of the spectrum.

The first thing you are going to want to do is decide on a safeword—if either party says this word, you stop what's going on and talk about things, or just stop altogether. It's important for either party to be able to stop things whenever they need to. She can say it if things go too far for her—but you can also say it, if you feel uncomfortable with something that you're doing.

Masochism and submission don't always go together, but they usually do. So I agree with the comment about "forced" blowjobs—things like that can be very arousing. Other very light ways for you to start out:

-Buy some clip-on earrings (your best bet is a tween store like Claire's). Get a pair of dangly earrings and clip them on her nipples. They're cute, and they don't really hurt, so you shouldn't feel too bad. But they do pinch a bit, and the "dangly" bits on the end pull and swing in interesting ways. There's also an element of submission with someone clipping/clamping things to your nipples that is very arousing. (Also, you don't have to go into a fetish shop to buy them.)

-If she is submissive/masochistic, there's a high probability that she would enjoy humiliation. This can also be super light—as simple as having her undress for you with the light on, or you undressing her with commentary. You can also try a collar/leash (a cloth or leather dog collar works great; they're cheap at walmart) if she's calling you Master, that's something she would enjoy.
>> Anonymous
There's a lot you can do with collars/leashes, too. The simplest is just looping the leash around some part of your bed, so she "can't" leave. You can also tell her to kiss you, and direct her ministrations by pulling the leash around to whereever it feels best for you.

You might also look into some rope bondage. Google 'shibari' tutorials to find instructions on how to tie the kinds of things you see in hentai. These can be done over or under clothing, and if you get some nice clothesline rope, it won't hurt her—but the feeling will be weird and she'll probably get off on the humiliation. Plus, it looks really pretty. The only downside is that a lot of the harnesses take a long time... so you'd want to start out very simple.

This place has a couple examples:

http://www.nawashibari.com/techniques/index02.html
>> Anonymous
Don't try breast torture, boobs loose their shape if they a crushed or slapped too much.
>> Anonymous
I don't know about you, but if I thought my SO would get off on being slapped in the face, I think I'd like doing it.
In a power-roles relationship I think the hottest thing would be getting her to say embarassing things. Get her to masturbate in front of you, and ask her if she's a slut with a horny pussy. Presumably she'll say yes, so then you tell her to say it. And then you smack her across the face, and make her say it again. I wouldn't feel guilty because she is probably reveling in the whole thing.

Sooner or later, you'll develop your own rituals. You'll have expected roles for one another and certain things will become habits. Just be bold and you'll be sure to please each other.
>> Anonymous
>>657133
only if you are doing really extreme stuff.
>> C h a n a n a
>>657133
pics...or it didn't happen?
>> Anonymous
>>657148
Well, you ought to know her limits, first. If I slapped my girlfriend across the face, she'd leave me in a heartbeat. However, I can basically slap her anywhere else and she loves it.

But I'll agree that getting her to say embarrassing stuff is hot. Especially if she's rather fetishistic. Then you've got an excellent pool of things to work with.
>> Anonymous
Safewords are good if you're getting really rough. Biting is a good way to start, as is butt-smacking. And just remember that she'll be enjoying it; the pain doesn't feel bad to her, so there's no need to be guilty. You'll get into the groove of things after a while and it won't feel weird anymore, and you might start enjoying what you do to her.