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Hey /d/, have you ever had an epiphany moment about your sex life?
Myself, after I was done grinding my girlfriend under my heel and having her worship my feet (New to me, but apparently she likes it. Whatever.) I realized something. I don't think I could ever imagine myself as vanilla. I've loved the kink life as long as I can remember, and while I love vanilla sex as much as the next guy, I can't imagine myself ever enjoying only that, as opposed to any number of fetishes I've built up at this point.
How about you, /d/?

Image related, because this is a fucking image board and we like content. Theme for my posting is going to be bondage/pet play. Enjoy.
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I keep having the revelation that my biggest fetish is relatively normal (thanks /d/) and then realizing that it's bullshit; most of the rest of the world still thinks that's hardcore when in my mind's it's become almost vanilla.
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>>1051103
Watersports, you mean? And how do you play that out?
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For some reason, I find the submission and blank stare in this picture totally hot. Thanks /d/.
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>>1051105
I don't get to, really. I had one girl let me watch her on the loo, but that's about all I get outside of porn and messing around with it alone. Most of them just sort of think it's weird, or are interested in a level that means they don't actually want to try it.
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>>1051112
Sorry Anon. :(
One thing to try is to get a girl that you know well enough to shower with, and try it there first. Nothing extreme at first, not the face. But just about anywhere else, and build them up. After you get them used to it, you might even be able to set out a tarp and a mop arrangement. Your mileage may vary.
Also, water sports picture for you.
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Last one for the moment, going to eat lunch. Will post more/respond if the thread is still alive when I get back. Enjoy.
>> The Debauched Gentleman (Musicfag/Prince)
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Well, if I should ever meet the Lady of my Heart, all around perfect but not comfortable with participating in my fantasies, I would be content with that and enjoy Vanilla Sex with her till my death.

Of course, it would be a little bit sad for me but there are things that are more important to me than that.
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>>1051113
sauce
please
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I have, I realized even if I wanted vanilla sex it just wouldn't get me off as much as bondage and dominating my partner. I'm glad that I have been opened to a whole array of fetishes, as it keeps things interesting.

Pic not related all that much.
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>>1051141
No idea, the internet. I have a couple other examples lying around. Guy does a lot of RO Hentai. If you find the source, let me know.
>>1051122
True enough. A girl you can get along with is much more valuable than a good girl in bed. But corruption is definitely an option.
>>1051146
Similar to mine, yes. I was just trying to imagine myself as vanilla, and just couldn't do it. I'd be very sad without my fetish fuel.

Also, moar images.
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Also, anyone with a foot or getting stomped on fetish, could someone explain it to me, or what about it is hot?
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Man, I wish I had a girlfriend like that.
>> Anonymous
My girlfriend prefers consensual sex in the missionary position. Or from behind (but then, I prefer front, feels better to me). I would like some (very) soft bondage, but she is quite strongly against that.
>> The Debauched Gentleman (Musicfag/Prince)
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>>1051175

Well, the only times I masturbate to single pictures is when it's BDSM.

Videos and Eroges with Vanilla Sex on the other hand still get me off good without fail but BDSM is always just that tick better.
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>>1051196

Try asking her why exactly she is agaisnt that.
Maybe you can work something out from there.

Also, ask what kind of fantasies she has and work on fulfilling her's first. She'll probably be a bit more open about yours too then.
If she is actually of the rare breed that only enjoys Vanilla than this won't work, of course.
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>>1051196
This sort of thing happens with moralfags and Mormons. It's usually because they've been hammered on that anything but vanilla sex is bad, and has negative connotations with it. Conversely, they could have had bad relations or abuse as a result of BDSM (or have some sort of weird association, hard to say without more info), and not want those associations again. Even if it's just the way she was raised, usually they do harbor some kind of secret kink. Find which situation applies.
>> Anonymous
One epiphany I had was that, although I really love bondage pornography, I actually don't like bondage as much in practice. I prefer just using my own strength to constrain a woman's movement.

I'd post a picture, but honestly I don't keep a stash of porn anywhere.
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If I ever were to get a girlfriend and was refuted by her at all of my attemts to act out any of my kinks with her, I'd most likley end up in a bell tower with a sniper rifle by the end of the year.

Granted that's where I'm headed anyway, but it would most likley speed the process up if I'm honest.
(tl;dr: I'd go batshit crazy(ier).)
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>>1051305

A very unhealthy attitude, I must say.
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>>1051116
Thanks for the advice, good sir. We'll see if I can make this happen at some point.

Also...I love this thread.
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>>1051323
The second I give a shit over what you think, I'll let you know.
>> Anonymous
Epiphanies...

...oh, THERE's the g-spot! Pfft. I was looking *way* too deep. 2-2.5cm is all it takes.

..."You like what I'm doing? You want more? Then you're going to do what I say, aren't you?"

...it's a lot easier to just stay all the way in and rub my pelvic bone against her clit. I can last for hours like that while she gets off over and over again. also it leaves my arms free to hold her down, lightly choke her, stroke her sides, etc.

...she WANTS to cry. If she didn't, she'd use her safeword.

..."Where are you?" is a great way to tell how high she's flying.
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>>1051417
When I figured out the g-spot bit, I was pretty surprised myself. And I'm a woman.

I'm really waiting for the day that I need a safeword. It's been too long since I've had anything that even approached that level of hardcore.
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>>1051424
try collarme.com, you can find any number of dangerous assholes on there. also, a few genuine tops (notice i didn't say "real doms") who can give you what you want.
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My epiphany was: safewords don't work through a gag. Obvious in retrospect, but it didn't really occur to either of us beforehand...
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>>1051430
Thanks; I've heard of that site, but I'm not really looking for something like that hard enough right now to use it. I've always been more the type to find it when I can get it with the person I'm with, and survive without otherwise.
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After 3 years with my gf, i finally confessed her that im into BDSM, much to my surprise she was too but was afraid to tell me.

I supouse that is hard to admit that you like to be humiliated and dominated in sex. We started with simple things and then moved to harder ones. Our sex-life was good before this but then it just got awesome, and our relationship stronger. To be sincere with you i could never had imagined that i will own a submissive catgirl whos also my lovely girlfriend, i tought that all that shit was just porn and fantasies.
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I don't have a sex life yet. But when I do get a great one (hopefully), I plan to make sure that we're both open and that we trust each other completely. One of the things I'd like to try is like the OP's pic.

Anal/Oral is a must, I absolutely would like to fuck a girl in the pooper.

I also have a huge cum fetish, and I'd like a drug to be developed so I could ejaculate a fuckload.
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Epiphanies:

- She doesn't want you to focus on pleasing her. She wants you to use her body to please yourself (NB: obviously not true for everyone).

- Orgasm is not the point of sex, nor strictly necessary for it to be enjoyable. No, really.

- Every girl works differently, and inconsistently so. Technique must adapt accordingly.

- The girls that are best at giving head are those that truly love doing it.

- Submission and masochism are not the same thing, and do not correlate. It's relatively rare for both to be strongly present in one person.

- You can't spot a submissive just by looking at them, no matter how much you'd like to think you can.

- Most girls will try most things. But if they don't enjoy doing it, you won't either, and you can't really change that.

>>1051430

Seconding the general shittiness of collarme. Kink social groups are a much better way to meet sane, experienced people. Look for local munches, especially in larger cities. But don't expect to meet anyone under 30 that way.
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>>1051495
>>- She doesn't want you to focus on pleasing her. She wants you to use her body to please yourself (NB: obviously not true for everyone).

-Ideally, this cycle should be a feedback loop of pleasure. If using her like a doll/slave/cumdumpster is her thing, by all means. Just try to establish a cycle of give and take, and never balance it too much on one side.

>>- Every girl works differently, and inconsistently so. Technique must adapt accordingly.

Inconsistent also applies within a singular person. You have to be able to figure out what her switches are, be they location, types of clothing, or even just the way you talk to her.

>>- The girls that are best at giving head are those that truly love doing it.

This applies to most actions. A lot of sex is mental, and therefore certain mental things have to happen. A girl who has negative associations with penis taste is not going to enjoy head. Therefore, try to build positive associations, and before trying anything new, RESEARCH. For a basic example, Anal should ALWAYS involve lube in the tryout stages. A simple Google search will be able to unveil most rudimentary advice you'd need.
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>>1051495
CollarMe sucks, especially for guys. Girls on the other hand receive untold amounts of attention. It's much like how Anonidate worked, back when anyone cared about it. Local munches are great, but are more likely than not going to be a learning experience for when you pick up your own master/pet, rather than a place for meeting one. Then again, you never know...Bigger cities generally have better luck with these, as they will have better demographics.
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>>1051495
>>- Orgasm is not the point of sex, nor strictly necessary for it to be enjoyable. No, really.

I have very recently re-experienced this particular epiphany. Heartily seconded.
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>>1051456

Garlic will increase your load amount but too much will make it smell/taste...different

2 cloves, chewed up not just swallowed per day, see results in 2-3 days.
>> Anonymous
God damn, I want to fuck each and every one of you.
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>>1052116
Op here. Thanks? Why?
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During my first sexual experience, it totally surprised the hell out of me to discover that biting felt GOOD. I mean, logically, you'd think .. biting. Ow. Your natural reaction should be "Shit, that hurt!"

But no--instead it's like redirecting half the pain nerves into pleasure ones, just because the person doing the biting also has a hand down your pants.

This was probably the first sign that I wasn't going to end up totally satisfied by vanilla sex ..
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>>1051240
Of course if you're in it for the long haul you could break down the moralfags system of thought starting with the fact that they are having sex out of wedlock
>> Anonymous
I've always sought out crazy bitches that have tended to be into all flavors of kinky shit.
These days, I just want a cute girl to gently fuck and lay with. I've gone soft.
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>>1051097
> have you ever had an epiphany moment about your sex life?
Yes, I realised I'll never get one
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Up until about now I've been on /d/ to fap, but never needed any crazy fetish to get off when actually with a girl.

But recently my best friend (female (With benefits!)) and I have been talking about my next visit back to the state and it turns out, she's into a bunch of kinky shit too. It's awesome, but I also found out she's just as submissive as I am.
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Don't give up hope yet D:
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>>1052662
That's just silly.

>>1052679
Man, I'm used to fights for dominance...sub-fights must be even more interesting.
>> iceica@gmail.com Anonymous
Oh man guys, this is all so hot! I really wish I could just find some guy that I felt safe enough with to really experience my fetishes with.

I actually have developed an issue with sex in the past year and a half. I was raped and found out what I really enjoy that sort of dominance, because I'm so submissive in the psychodrama area. I don't like pain for the most part.. but God! The fear was so wonderful... I've pretty much been ruined ever since.

Any suggestions?
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>>1052709
Encouraging posts on 4chan, maybe there is hope :/

Different poster btw.
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>>1052856
As with any sort of relationship, communication is key. Be very clear with your lover that you might have problems, but that you're trying to work past them, preferably with their help.

To cite a personal example, one of the first girls I ever dated didn't clean herself properly down below. Furry, garlic-y smell, the whole shooting match. As a result, it ruined me for giving oral, and I had a real hard time going down on girls because of that. Thankfully, my current pet was very understanding, and even helped me out in that aspect, getting flavored lubes and dental dams (which, incidentally are one of the best things ever), and generally being understanding when I couldn't do it. I've finally worked past it, but the trust that such communication builds is great. In your case, I would advise my lover to try to be gentle, to re-acclimatize you to normal sex, then work on rape fantasies and whatnot from there. Build back up to that level, don't start there. Depending on how deeply it affected you, you might also want to look into sex therapy. That's about all I can recommend without knowing more about your specific case, but feel free to elaborate if you'd like. :3

Also, picture related, just for you.
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>>1051417

I have shortish fingers and I thought I just wasn't reaching the G-spot. Turns out I was past it by a good two inches!


The day I realised that she liked me teasing her more than I liked her teasing me (And I like it... a lot)! Cock-tease is a pretty common term, though it seems a lot of girls like clit-teases!
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>> Anonymous
You're so very right.

He fucked me mind, body, and soul. He forced himself on me and I was so scared, but so turned on all at the same time.
Part of my mind flashed to the fact that I've always been teased by my online friends that I could never be truly raped- and they were kinda right. I enjoy being touched too much. It didn't help that he was so damn sexy, though!

After it was all said and done he took me to the kitchen and cooked me breakfast. Then he told me we were going to get married. He disappeared for a month after that but then moved in with me when he reappeared!

He lived with me for a couple of months and even had me sized for a ring. Thankfully he ended up cheating on me with my best friend and I managed to get the balls to get rid of him a month after that.

I just enjoy being used and abused when I know the person doing it loves me.. but this guy really fucked me over.
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My epiphany was that I've dated two girls with little to no sex drive, and weren't even close to letting my try any kind of kinky stuff with them. That won't work for me at all, because my sex drive is very high, and I want to try all kinds of kinky shit (not actual shit).
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Sauce?
>> Anonymous
My epiphany was that public sex is possibly the best thing ever. That, and watching my ladyfriend walk around in micro bikinis at movie theaters/beaches/parks is a fetish that she's willing to help out with.
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>>1052930
I read that as "two little girls with no sex drive"
CURSE YOU /b/////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
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>>1052996
Er... that IS what it says
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>>1052997

You missed the "little" part.
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>>1052997
/b/'s work here is done.

My own epipahny was that the amount of visual attractiveness a woman has really doesn't affect my abililty to have amazing sex with her. That surprised me. I still love me the hot chicks, understand; it's just that I have just as much if not more fun fucking the plain ones.
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I also had the "biting feels AWESOME" epiphany.

Another thing that surprised me was that I'm obsessed with foreplay and making my partner horny. I had no idea what a tease I was: leading her along and making her stew in her panties is a fucking blast.
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>>1053055
See, in theory I like this. But in the end, I don't have enough control to really resist for long. The girl I've been with lately responds really insanely to anticipation- whines and moans when you get your fingers just inside her panties, etc. I tease a little, and I want to more because it's so hot, but goddammit, I just can't resist that pussy.
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>>1053066

Get her as worked up as you can, and then make her pleasure you before she gets any for herself.

It will be the most enthusiastic blow/handjob ever, and once she's finished you'll find it a lot easier to string her along without caving. Thank me later.
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>>1053066
Ahaha, seconded. Girls who don't take well to teasing are likely to react by jumping you the first chance they get and fucking you silly like the animals that they are. Yay for hidden vibrators. ;D
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>>1053097
>Girls who don't take well to teasing are likely to react by jumping you the first chance they get and fucking you silly like the animals that they are.

Which is also hot given what an easy switch I am. Win-win situation!
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>>1053077
I'll think about it, definitely. The sex is pretty amazing as it is because she's been pretty fearless in terms of trying new things anyway...
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>>1053104

I'm a 'seducer'-type; i.e. a dominant bottom.

This is exactly the reaction I'd hope for.
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>>1053110
A win-win situation, then?
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>>1053110
and your gender is?
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Coned to reduce spam.
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>>1053110
> i.e. a dominant bottom.

So how does that work?
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gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay
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>>1053155

A dom wants to be in control. A bottom wants to have sex acts done to them (or be massaged, or groomed, or spanked, or have their feet or genitals worshiped, or cleaned with their partner's tongue: any of that counts as being on "bottom").

Put them together and you get someone who likes to direct a sub to do things to them. "Bottom" isn't the same as "sub": you can be on bottom and still be the one in control.

The stereotypical dom/bottom is a female, and controls the scene with very stern, precise verbal direction. I'm a male though, and also a bit more subtle (controling them with their lust is my game).
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>>1051097

You don't have a sex life. Enjoy your hentai.
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>>1053179

not OP but a hentai is fine too
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I liek stockaids.
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I would like sauce on this one if at all possible
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ROW ROW FIGHT THE POWAH
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What the fuck happened to /b/
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>>1053217
I think its Himekishi Lilia

could be wrong though
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>>1053349

Thank you. Now comes the impossible task of finding torrents, rapidshares or uploads of said hentai online.
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>>1053408
Damn, I remembered wrong, oh well it has some worthwhile pics anyway

http://rapidshare.com/files/110878587/himekishi_lilia.rar.html
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>>1053545

No worries. Thanks for youe help Anon :D
>> Anonymous
>>1053553

Thats 'Thanks for your*** help, Anon :D'