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Anonymous
Like the previous poster said, wrists only the first time. Take it easy, and get to know what you're doing.
I honestly would spring, if I were you, for a pair of fur-lined cuffs. They're much softer on the sub than most materials, and I found it makes the entire process much more intimate. You also need to be careful if you buy handcuffs that they're double locking, or they're going to get tighter if you start getting rough.
But yeah, going for shibari the first time is ridiculous, and it's good that the OP knew that. Most people can't do it period, and it can cut off blood circulation in a myriad of places if you do something wrong.
I also wouldn't use a gag the first time either, though I'm repulsed on the whole by gags while making love. You never know, as the previous poster said, how someone's going to react, and you want to make sure they won't start asphyxiating on it.
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