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>>1052856 As with any sort of relationship, communication is key. Be very clear with your lover that you might have problems, but that you're trying to work past them, preferably with their help.
To cite a personal example, one of the first girls I ever dated didn't clean herself properly down below. Furry, garlic-y smell, the whole shooting match. As a result, it ruined me for giving oral, and I had a real hard time going down on girls because of that. Thankfully, my current pet was very understanding, and even helped me out in that aspect, getting flavored lubes and dental dams (which, incidentally are one of the best things ever), and generally being understanding when I couldn't do it. I've finally worked past it, but the trust that such communication builds is great. In your case, I would advise my lover to try to be gentle, to re-acclimatize you to normal sex, then work on rape fantasies and whatnot from there. Build back up to that level, don't start there. Depending on how deeply it affected you, you might also want to look into sex therapy. That's about all I can recommend without knowing more about your specific case, but feel free to elaborate if you'd like. :3
Also, picture related, just for you.
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