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Anonymous
Is this the "how can I lessen the impact of my /d/ related fetish" thread? Rather, can we make it that? It seems reasonable, seeing as how we're talking about how our real life effects our sex life.
I have asked /d/ about this before, but the thread was at an inconvenient time and there were very few replies, although some were quite helpful. OP, I hope you do not mind if I ask for help for my problem as well.
I have a huge infantilism fetish. I've never acted on it (I had only masturbated to it), and hell, before recently I had never even dared talk about it even here on /d/. Well, usually it is the only thing that can get me off. I felt like I had to keep this a secret from my significant other. Luckily when I told him, he was shocked but wasn't upset, although we are not going to incorporate it into our sex lives (or talk about it ever, ever again). I want to lessen the impact of this fetish in my sex life. I've tried to expand the things that I like, but the only other fetishes that seem to get me off are pet fetish and other forms of extreme humiliation. My boyfriend, however, is so completely vanilla that incorporating restraints is extreme for him. How do I make it so I don't need to think about this fetish when I'm getting off? I know that many /d/eviants have this or a similar affliction, but I know that some of you can deal with your /d/ fetishes and get off to other stuff. I had never even looked at porn of any kind before I found what now constitutes my fetish, I wasn't interested.
So, tl;dr: how can I come from something other than my creepy fetish?
psychology interested /d/eviants: after I examine why I like this fetish, what is the next step in making it not as big a deal to me?
Is there any middle ground I can find sexually with my SO? Many, many thanks and my apologies for intruding in your thread, OP.
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