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Anonymous
ITT: BDSM and what you enjoy, fantasize or engage in.

I'm a female slave currently living in a 24/7 relationship.
>> Anonymous
I'm a female interesting in being a slave, but scared to actually try it. It excites me to think about getting marked (pierced/branded) as a slave and being treated as such.
>> Anonymous
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>>1125903
I'd say go for it. I love my experience as a slave... actually, I've never felt so fulfilled in all of my life.
>> Anonymous
I fantasize about being a Slav. Is that weird?
>> Anonymous
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Male who is unsure whether he wishes to gain the loyalty of a female through immoral means, or just find a normal submissive girl who will submit willingly or just find a normal girl who might enjoy being submissive in bed. But my wishes are irrelevant. This is 4chan, it's not like I'm gonna get anything. At least I haven't heard of any methods to get a slave without leaving the house.
>> Anonymous
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Hmmm, fantasies... I wouldn't mind being the guy in this picture for a while.
>> Anonymous
>>1125903
>>1125910

You guys should get together. :3
>> Anonymous
Masochist
Thats me.
I like pain.
It likes me.
Yay pain.
>> Anonymous
Male dom and sadist. Currently without a slave, but I've had them in the past. It's teh win.
>> Anonymous
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Male here. I love tying my little slut up tightly... so tightly that she can hardly struggle. I love to drop hot wax onto her ever-sensitiver nipples and to whip her with my tools. Sometimes I have her sleep with my cock in her mouth... for those other times I have a penis gag.

I just bought some hemp rope and it's so nice... It had been backordered for three months but I'm finally retiring my nylon.
>> Anonymous
>>1125912

I wouldn't mind being one of the girls
>> Anonymous
does anyone know of any web sites to find bondage partners
>> Anonymous
>>1125979
www.fetlife.com
www.collarme.com
www.bondage.com
www.alt.com

Those are all free, though Alt's dating features are really only available for paid members. I just use it for the chat feature and for Get Local, which helps me be involved in my local kink community.

As for me: Male switch (mostly Dominant,) 29, always interested in chatting with fellow kinky people. I've been involved in real-time BDSM for five years now, though I'm currently single. If any of you want to talk, you can feel free to email me at the address provided.

And yeah, I'm the guy who did the AIM hookup threads on 7chan, Fapchan, and BBWchan if you remember those.
>> Anonymous
Most people who like to do this kind of stuff are ugly...like seriously. Be prepared for some serious ugly...of course if you are ugly too it won't be a problem.
>> Anonymous
>>1126185
Quite true, actually. I'm not out to knock it or anything, but outside of big-budget porn, BDSM-fiends tend to be fat and ugly. Don't misunderstand: BDSM can be fun, I grant, but these people are generally hideous looking.
>> Anonymous
>>1126204
Or maybe all the pretty people have found some other method of contact? It's a conspiracy! I tell you!

(seriously, with the number of people on 4chan who claim to be in to this stuff ... oh, wait. They're all fat guys living in basements. Never mind.)
>> Anonymous
>>1126185
All of them are? I thought it was just the people who make profiles on online BDSM communities ;_;
>> Anonymous
>>1126244
You might be able to find some hot girl/boy who is secretly into this kind of stuff but you might also win the lottery tomorrow. Generally the communities are full of HIDEOUS people...all the parties...bars...clubs, etc etc.

Finding someone beautiful who is into this stuff seems pretty impossible in my experience.
>> Anonymous
http://amd64online.am.funpic.de/

look there
>> Anonymous
>>1126249
I'm no Tom Cruise, Denzel or Brad Pitt....slightly out of shape with a very small beer belly but generally i'd consider myself slightly above average in the looks department. I went into the BDSM community looking for someone thinking well, it's not going to be super hot babes like in porn but maybe I can find someone equivalent to me. Slightly above average.

Boy was I wrong. I am ashamed of myself for being out of shape and know i'm not really good looking but fuck, I felt like a god damn supermodel at these places. Literally every other person there was either;
-Fat
-Ugly
-Fat and ugly

Asking even for AVERAGE to slightly above average is asking too much of the BDSM community. I'm a bit of a shallow person when it comes to looks and I just can't accept someone I consider to be ugly. I could be friends with them, sure but never anything more.
>> Anonymous
Weird. I've met two people who were a part of an IRL BDSM community, and both looked fantastic. But then again they were Scandinavians, maybe that had something to do with it?
>> Anonymous
>>1126257

yep.Scandinavia is like heaven. I live there too.

anyway, it's funny how a community of people who for the most part have the aptitude to implement Pain and Dicipline, aren't able to lose weight. Although dieting and exercising aren't inherently sexy or fun (although they can made to be), and not common fetishes, it should be something that we are able to do.

On the other hand, fat/ugly people are a majority of the population. Statistically, BDSMers might be more vigilant in getting their asses to social events and dating sites... If you compare fat/ugly BDSM'ers to fat/ugly non-BDSM'ers, it wouldn't surprise me that they have a greater self-esteem, and more to offer their potential partners. Personally, I find people infinitely more interesting if they're fat and into BDSM, than if they are just fat.
>> Anonymous
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>>1126257
Phew, maybe my situation isn't that bad after all then. Well, there's still the problem about there not being any BDSM communities close to me. But I'm a man, so it's not like I can't force the situation to go my way.
>> Anonymous
I don't really think too much about this stuff beyond fapping purposes. It would be some kind of heaven to find a girl who was into this stuff, even a little, but I can't even hold down a regular relationship.
>> Anonymous
Switch, full range expirience xD
I really don't have a preferred role,it's depend by the person whit i'm plaing....

Psichiatricaly speaking i got light signs of sadism...but i fired my analist and now i'm freee xD
>> Anonymous
I'm a very large pervert who is in a deep, loving relationship with a woman who means the world to me. Unfortunately for me, though, I have ruined the idea of sex in any way, shape, or form, so I must simply dream of all depraved things I desire so much.

Those who have someone, enjoy it, relish it, and do not squander it.
>> Anonymous
>>1126289

Same overall. I'm a bit awkward when talking about it, and i have pretty high standards. Also, i wouldn't mind dominating, but i would not go with being dominated over someone i don't know very well.
>> Anonymous
Being a 24/7 slave is a fantasy of mine that I may never be able to live. The only person I would want for a master isn't interested.
>> Anonymous
>>1125901
http://www.badongo.com/file/9522870
>> Anonymous
Im actually in a light BDSM relationship with my gf, i didnt met her at any bdsm club or anything, she just turned that way after a lot of love, care, and a my confession about how much i woul love to tie her and tease her until she begs.

I consider that the best luck struck in my life, since i loved that girl even before she become my petgirl.
>> Anonymous
>>1126318
I kinda feel the same way, as I'm a male who sees no hope in finding someone to submit to. And there's also the thing about submissive males being the least desired BDSM demographic. I'm pretty sure my submissive tendencies will remain a secret for the rest of my life, except when posting as anonymous. I just hope my dominant tendencies is not self-deception. It'd be most unsightly for a dom to suddenly break down and admit to himself and everyone else that he prefers to be dominated.
>> Anonymous
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Is it terrible that talk of uglies in these communities almost comforts me? I'm almost 5'10, average weight on the fit side, DD, and fairly cute. Ups my chances if the other girls are gnarly. I'm also 21 and haven't been to anything yet, so rather looking forward to it.

Especially because physical isn't as important to me when it comes to bondage-- I'm attracted to their physical presence, not their looks/gender, in that case (all my f/f experiences have involved some sort of power play/pain play.)
>> Anonymous
>>1126415
It's always good to know you are on the "upper" echelon of anything.
>> Anonymous
>>1126415
>Is it terrible that talk of uglies in these communities almost comforts me?
As long as you don't develop an entitlement complex because of it, it should be fine. It's in no way strange that you should enjoy hearing something to suggest you have good chances, but if you let it get to your head and allow yourself to act like a complete bitch just because you're slightly desirable, then it's all over. Just saying.
>> Anonymous
>>1126390
But prefer doesn't necessarily mean "only want". I'm a switch - I really, really like both sides, particularly switching - going from domming to subbing (or vice versa) within the same sequence.

Unfortunately, male doms are badly outnumbered by male subs, similarly to how female doms are badly outnumbered by female subs. Quite simply, subs outnumber doms by a lot. The "obvious" (although certainly not "simple", "easy" or "convenient") solution is multiple subs per dom.
>> Anonymous
>>1126251

Hot chicks don't meet guys through the BDSM community, generally speaking. They meet guys in other venues and then ask leading questions to see if the guy is into BDSM. Since hot chicks can have their pick of guys, they don't need to advertise up front that they're into BDSM, they just need to sift through the available male material until they find a hot guy that fulfills their criteria. Ugly chicks don't have much else going for them, so they need to advertise their special interests.

Hot chicks in the BDSM community are usually broken in some other, not-fun way that makes them unable to pick up guys in the normal manner. Sometimes you can find smart, sane, pretty chicks in the BDSM community, but much like the internet, it's usually a question of "Smart, sane, hot - pick two".
>> Anonymous
>>1126473
I'm not even sure what I prefer, sometimes I'm completely convinced it's being dom and sometimes I'm completely convinced it's being sub. The thing I'm scared of is that denying my sub side might be the only realistic solution in real life, and that denial might have some undesirable consequences.
>> Anonymous
>>1126473
I always find lack of doms really strange, because it's fairly easy to find guys outside of the community who are interested in at least light bondage/spanking etc. I also have a friend who is well on her way to becoming a dominatrix full time.

It could just be that 24/7 doms are rare, but since I've yet to be active in the community instead of just playing at home, I couldn't really say.
>> Anonymous
Maybe it's the whole "The BDSM community is made up of fat, ugly, nasty people" thing, but I've never had any interest at all in participating. I occasionally go out to an alternative club or two, but as far as my BDSM goes - it's all with friends and romantic interests. I just don't see why I'd even bother going to a BDSM-specific event (other than trade shows, for all the nifty gadgets!).
>> Anonymous
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>>1126559
Yes, I too see no other need for a BDSM community than to help people finding partners. BDSM just isn't the kind of hobby you regularly meet people to talk about. In fact, BDSM communities usually depress me due to their incredible dullness.
>> Anonymous
Personally a Dom myself, male , 26.

Have a female sub partner that i've been blessed to have in my life.

I fantasize about total power and control games.
Completely using someone for my personal desires, and watching them get lost in the act of being used and defiled.

And then i like making that fantasy a reality.
>> Anonymous
It's about a 5.000:1 ratio of ugly or fat : not ugly or fat in the world of BDSM.

Yeah, I did say /not/ ugly or fat, because good looking people are... well, let's be honest. Really fucking rare.

I have high standards, and am a sub. I'm fucked.
>> Anonymous
I'm female (underage), and I fantasize about being dominated all the time. Like, allll the time.

But it's not like I can go up to some guy at the grocery store and be like, "Hey, would you mind tying me up and gagging me with my panties? Thanks, you're great."

Hopefully someday I can find a dom who isn't fat and disgusting...
>> Anonymous
/d/ needs an anonidate section
>> Anonymous
i am kid of a hesitant dom but i had a kind of sub gf that made me find out i liked it but i guess i am bad at it because i would have a problem about not wanted to hurt her not restraining her
>> Anonymous
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It's been said a hundred times in this thread, but it's true. Attractive people are extremely rare in the BDSM community. I've been involved on and off with for about three years now. It's great to be able to meet and talk with people who share your interests. It's also a great way to learn. But if you have any standards at all when it comes to looks, you won't find your partner in the community.

I'm a natural Dom with no interest in vanilla relationships. For me, it's a lifestyle, not just a kink. Would much rather be alone than settle.
>> Anonymous
>>1126885
No, seriously it needs it. Its a shame that deviants have such big problems to find partners, i rage when i read about girls wanting to be dom by nice and normal guys. FUCK, im a normal and a nice guy, but i will never enter in a BDSM community because scares the shit out of me, and most of them are ugly and/or psychos. Its just unnfair! maybe some of the girls i know would love to be punished for being disobedient, but I WILL NEVER KNOW, and they will never know how much i would like to order her not to wear panties for a whole day.

Its our doom, and our bendition at the shame time...
>> Anonymous
>>1126879
I would like to put a nice kitty collar in your neck, blinfold you, restrain you, and tease/use you like a sex toy. Of course gagging you with your panties is a great idea, we dont want you going loud.

(No, im not fat or disgusting)
>> Anonymous
>>1126913

Ugly, yes. Psycho, no.

One thing you can say about the community is that it's generally very safe. A lot safer than, say, a singles bar. Trust and reputation are extremely important; those that aren't polite or do not play safely are ostrasized very quickly. People in the community tend to take care of each other, especially those that are new to the scene.
>> Anonymous
Female sub, bd definitely, I love being tied up, called a whore, and being told exactly what to do. But I'm not big into pain
>> Anonymous
Seeing stuff like this -
>>1126879
- gives my imagination a bittersweet vain hope that some of the girls I know are secretly as interested as I am. What I wouldn't give to tie up one of them just once...
>> Anonymous
>>1126931
It's not something you start a relationship over, is the stumbling block for a lot of people, I feel. Would you tell a brand new boyfriend or girlfriend about your kinky side right away? Let alone use it as an icebreaker?

It takes patience to build up the mutual trust to explore your sexuality with a partner, and a lot of people just never reach that level in a relationship.
>> Anonymous
>>1126929
You are right, excuse me. But i do think that sometimes some BDSM practises are just too sick.
>> Anonymous
>>1126950
Personally I think it's exciting to look at a whole crowd of people, pick one and find out they have similar sexual desires.
>> Anonymous
This thread made me cry. I'm a normal, good looking (self rated, but I'm not fat) guy who happens to get a turn on from ladies tied up and helpless.
I've pretty much kept this hidden, mostly because I don't want to become known as the 'crazy bondage guy'. I can certainly enjoy a normal relationship with girls, but I REALLY want to indulge in some of my fantasies.
Last Year, I started dating a girl who I fell pretty hard for. She was living with her sister while I was working a couple of hours away, but we'd talk on the phone every night. Mostly normal stuff, how the day was, plans for the future. One night, the topic of sexual fantasies came up. She asked me about mine and after stuttering and stammering for literally 5 minutes, I just blurted out "It excites me... to see people tied up." *Phew*
She thought it was cool and pretty much offered to let me do anything I wanted to her. From that day on she often made jokes about being my pet or being tied up for being naughty. She came from a hard background (her father abused her and her mother died her freshman year of high school) so I proceeded VERY gently to ensure I wasn't taking advantage of an easily swayed soul. But don't get me wrong, I WANTED it.
I saw her twice more, and neither time got to act this stuff out. I'm a patient guy, I could wait. Sadly, we attend different colleges. By November of that year, she broke up with me. Her halloween costume that year? A French Maid. My Cock almost exploded merely thinking about the possibilities.
Its been almost a year since then. She's with another guy now. He's pretty much a musicfag who plays guitar and paints his fingernails. Maybe he's got a dom personality inside, I don't know. I'm left with a memory.
>> Anonymous
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>>1127118
I alway wonder If I had pressed the dom/sub aspect of the relationship harder, would she have stayed with me? SHOULD I have taken advantage of her easily swayed will? Might I even now have a tightly tied girl sucking my cock if I'd have been more assertive?
Pic related, its her.
>> Anonymous
>>1127119

She's a little fat, homeboy.
>> Anonymous
>>1127207
I didn't want to be the first one to say it, but...yeah. And that look on her face...is not endearing, to say the least.

Plus, she sounds like a flighty bitch. Girls that were abused are trouble. If they don't get a regular dose of drama from you, they start it themselves.
>> Anonymous
>>1127220

Something I found out the hard way.
>> Anonymous
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>>1126913
1. What makes you so sure /d/ickgirls aren't psychos too?
2. A /d/eviant anonidate would suffer from the exact same things the real anonidate suffered from, just to a greater extent, since the male to female ratio is higher on the porn boards, and the overall population is lower, so the chances of someone compatible to you being close to you are considerably low.

But if I felt there was a decent chance of this working out, I'd consider doing it myself. To solve the problem stated above, it would be possible to extend the scope of the site to include other kinds of kinskters who are not necessarily from /d/, like people from other hentai communities or from BDSM communities. But then we'd probably have the same problem as discussed previously in this thread, too high percentage of ugly people. We could add a profile picture function to be able to know in advance, but then we'd be pretty much the exact same thing as any other kink/BDSM community, just with a map and most likely much fewer members.

But if anyone have any ideas that might solve these problems, I'd love to hear them, as even though I doubt it's possible, I can acknowledge that it'd be awesome if it was possible.
>> Anonymous
>>1127220
>Girls that were abused are trouble. If they don't get a regular dose of drama from you, they start it themselves.

holy fucking shit quoted for truth
>> Anonymous
>>1127207

Fat by some standards, perhaps. But it was made up, for me anyway, by everything else. Smooth skin, beautiful teeth and hair, soft, supple body. It was pretty much all there packed into one dynamic package. And the thought of tying her up, the ropes cutting into the flesh... ooohhh.
>> Anonymous
>>1125901
I fantasize about sealing away a girl in complete and total sensory deprivation.

Seal a girl up in a full, skin tight, one piece rubber suit that literally covers head to toe, zipping from the back at the top of the butt all the way up to the head where the zipper can be locked in place with a small padlock. Her ears would be covered in wax and foam earplugs before putting her in. The crotch would also have a zipper long enough to expose both anus and cunt, and also be able to be padlocked shut at the front. A small, 1-2 inch wide hole would be in the back of the head to allow for hair. No holes in front of the head except for small noseholes and a small mouth hole only wide enough to stick my cock in comfortably.

On top of that, another rubber mask would be put over her head, also with a hole allowing for hair. This would zip down to the bottom of the neck, and be padlocked (i would interchange between padlocking the main suit's head and this mask's). The mask would have no nose holes, and attached to it would be a large ballgag on the inside of it. The ballgag would go inside the girl's mouth, and inside the ballgag itself would be a centimeter-wide hole and tube for breathing. The outside of the mask would have the end of the tube exposed, with a screw nozzle sort of like the end of a garden hose, with a screw hole at the top. The purpose of this is that i could attach a rebreather *bag* (look it up) onto it and twist it / screw it on tight, restricting her breathing even further.....
>> Anonymous
>>1127628
Cont'd...

Once all that is in place, i would catheterize her with a foley catheter, and stick the other end through a buttplug or something like it in a similar way to the ballgag in the mask. Then stuff the buttplug up her ass. That way i prevent her from pooping and she drains her piss straight into her ass. Unfortunately i dont know if it's physically possible due to possibly pinching the catheter, pressure disallowing movement of urine from bladder to anus, or even if foley catheters prevent backflow.


The end result is a suit which allows the girl (i think rather skinny girls with a decent chest would look best in this suit) complete free movement, but she can't remove anything on her because it's all locked and screwed on tight. Her senses of sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch are all gone. She PHYSICALLY cannot piss, shit, or even breathe without my express permission. She literally cannot do anything despite only one chain and collar to restrain her with which i'd keep on her neck only to drag her around with. I can stick a dildo and clit vibrator in her, lock her crotch zipper away, and watch her write with full movement while she cums over and over while struggling to breathe. I can unzip her crotch, and i'd fuck her WHILE she has the buttplug and catheter attached.


This is a "permanent" suit, too. If i ever had one of these i'd keep the girl in it for days or maybe a full week before letting her out... i'd feed her a liquid diet either through enema or through her breathing hole.
I have played around with this fantasy for a year now, building up the perfect slave-suit, so... thats why its detailed.
>> Anonymous
>>1127631
And I would love to experience wearing that.
>> Anonymous
>>1127685

you live nearby?
>> Anonymous
not only are they fat and ugly they're all weirdos!!!

I'm a pretty attractive sub and I've been interested in becoming part of this life style since i was 17 but I feel like everyone in it would turn out to be like those socially awkward hot-topic wearing kids from high school!!

Anyone else out there who isn't a mutant wanna hook up? hahaha
>> Anonymous
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I wouldn't mind being this girl...
>> Anonymous
>>1127691

Don't look like a mutant. Just want some good honest bondage.
>> Anonymous
>>1127698
Sauce, please? Or, a download link?
>> Anonymous
22/m/Az/ strait
Good looking, clean and would definatly be into playing out a few bdsm fantasies as a dominate or submissive male.
Unsunnghero@gmail.com (females only)
>> Anonymous
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>>1127698

...or this one.
>> Anonymous
>>1127710

/rs/ Simon Benson

If the link still works, it's a decent collection of the guy's work.
>> Anonymous
>>1126185

>>Most people who exist are ugly.

Fixed that for ya.
>> Anonymous
cool let's hook up. im down for anything.
>> Anonymous
I'm a male. I dream about being somebodys pet. I don't want to be known as the weird guy though, so I keep this as a secret of mine. Except for when I post as Anonymous.

I think this will remain a secret all my life, for it's hard to find a girl willing to do this.
>> Yu^2
how do you find someone you can trust to have the same fetish as you without hurting you, even in those BDSM communities?

Like... how do you know they WONT try to do stuff you can't handle?

...curious :P that sort of thing DOES excite me, but I've only practiced it with a girl (ONCE) with a short rope. I've never tried anything else, but I think it would be fun
>> Anonymous
From my observations the BDSM community consist of avg people. i mean go to the mall and look around avg, you see all shapes and sizes and degrees, sometimes youll see an ungly fucker, sometimes youll see the godess of sex.
>> Anonymous
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Well...I don't imagine anything will come of this, but...
I'm a 20 year old guy in Tucson, AZ and I will do horrible, immoral things to any girl that's interested. And I'm definitely not fat.
Anonymous email related.
>> Anonymous
>>1127749
maybe try a timid woman? the inverse can work wonders from what iv been lead to believe.
>> Anonymous
>>1127762
On this image's note, anywhere know if/where you can buy ball gags like this? I really, really want one/some.
>> Anonymous
>>1127628
LIVE THE /d/REAM BROTHER!
>> Anonymous
>>1127759
Nope, BDSM communities have far more ugly people than average.
>> Anonymous
>>1127766
Problem is to make me her pet if she's too shy to do it. :/
>> Anonymous
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>>1127766
What are the ideal hunting grounds for timid women anyway? Wouldn't they be spending most of their time inside if they're timid, thus making themselves impossible to find?
>> Anonymous
>>1127774
Like this?
http://bdsmtoybox.com/2496alockingbreatherdroolgag.aspx
>> Anonymous
>>1127789
Yep, although I'd like non-white colors. Also, I'm a tad apprehensive about overall strength/tendency to collapse under pressure. I'm sure high-quality plastics can do that, but for <$20, I don't think you're likely to get them.
>> Anonymous
I want to be a dom; following made up on they fly

Id want to tie her up to where her legs are in the open position unable to be closed, folded up and bound in a way . Her arms folded in a similar maner and she herself would be tied down as well to keep her from moveing around too much. shed be wearing nothing but my bindings a gag to keep her voice down, and a blindfold

id slowly bring her around, gently massaging her brest and the inside of her legs, once she gets more into the mood id begin to run my finger up and down the outside of her pussy, taunting it making sure to pull away whenever she tries in vain to push up against her bounds. id gently caress the area around her clit nudging it testingly
>> Anonymous
continued from>>1127798

when she begins to moan and her body arches with my every passing movement id begain to kiss the ouside of her leg as i hear her beg for me to give her release. finally when she begins to sqirm with frustration id move in for the kill, rubbing her needy clit gengerly as she arcs her back in extassy, placeing my hand behind he half to give her comfort and wholeness half to fell the waves of pleasure from her shivering body.

~id like to do something like that...
>> Sarah
Always been interested in it, never really managed to find a good, reliable dom though.

Seems like most folks I've been with have trouble maintaining the right levels of sadism and caring. A shame. :<
>> Anonymous
>>1127778
>>1127784
library?
i suggested it because they are timid you can "bully" them into being in a dominant position.<asking for them to make important decision for you both, or putting yourself under her intentionaly by way of actions and words.> She would theoretically get the added bonus of being in charge for once so its win/win IMOHO
>> Anonymous
>>1127805
im a sadist but i have a tremendous amount of empathy, i dont think i could hurt my partner unless they wanted it.
>> Anonymous
>>1127759

nigga what kind of malls you visiting?
>> Im nao kalling myelf kat Kat
>>1127811
the awesome kind?
>> Kat
>>1127798
>>1127804
shameless self-querry but do women find this hot?
>> Anonymous
Male, prefer to dominate and objectify women. I love the idea of a woman voluntarily surrendering control; I consider it a strong expression of trust and love, something that should be accordingly reciprocated.

Not fond of pain; IMO implements of pain are anathema to what sex should be about.

Rather fond of trussing up a girl and then eating her out, massaging her, waiting on her hand and foot.

Am something of a switch, primarily because I enjoy some bondage myself now and again.
>> Anonymous
>>1127814
No. Shitty grammar turns me off and it reeks of 17 year old kid in a basement who thinks he can be a dom.
>> Anonymous
>>1127826
hmm im torn between
Tread softly, for you tread upon my dreams,
and
fuck you cunt.
>> Anonymous
>>1127830
aw, hit a soft spot? Also, you don't need
to make a new
paragraph
every few lines
it's something only 15 year old
weeaboos
do.
>> Anonymous
well, i'm male, and I have problems, specifically with paranoia. I guess the idea of bdsm turns me on, because the girl can't get away, CAN'T betray/hurt me

at the same time, the idea of someone else trusting me that much...hoooottt..

gotta agree with sum other people, pain doesn't turn me on. uncomfortable, yes, but not in real pain.
>> Anonymous
This is why I love 4chan so much...
I'm a male 22yr old switch (dom heavy) that is dating a 23yr old female switch (sub heavy). We do so much in BDSM that it's not even funny anymore. You should hear the excuses for the things we buy at the store. "What do you need 20 ft of chain for sir?" "German shepard puppy..."; "Sir, can I ask why you are putting on our collars?" "Our German Shepard has about the same size neck as I do for now..." (There is no dog...) We've got at least 60 ft of nice silk rope, another 30 of the softest nylon rope I could find, and 30 more of repelling cable. We do knife play (we line the walls with the knives, no joke), have a 6ft bullwhip, 2 cat of 9's, enough candles to light the whole house, Police issue handcuffs, enough blindfolds to make 6 people sightless, a ballgag, clove clamps, 2 plugs (one vibrating), 3 vibes, about a dozen toys, and I forget what else. I've made her wear the vibrating plug while out at dinner and at the mall (It's remote controlled, so I had too much fun...). We're pretty much 24/7, and it's the greatest. We met in person, not on the net or through a website. Once I found out she was into this, the deal was sealed. Now I'll admit, I'm no catch. In fact, I think I'm rather ugly and fat, but she is hotter than a lit candle. No clue why she's with a worm like me, but I love it. Really, just give it time and you can meet someone. After all, we all have a little freak in us dying to get out...
>> Anonymous
>>1127830
I open up and express myself freely and you just mouth off the first thing that comes to mind, well forgive me if i didn't copy and past my fantasies that i happen to have written up and checked by a certified english professor. I'm sorry if my sense of grammer offends your delicate need for everything to be prim and proper. it wasent a document up for examination on my personal characteristics. i wrote it to express myself and you matter of factly dismiss it out of hand, as if your shit smells sweeter, would you like to pop out your desires for me to spit on , or do exist only to criticize?
>> Anonymous
>>1127844
Basic grammar, especially on the internet, helps you not look like a dumbass. They're called apostrophes, and it's called capitalization. "Grammar" = Grammar. I even spelled it out for you in my first comment. C'mon, now. Your brain is a muscle - use it or lose it.
>> Anonymous
>>1127865
I would also like to humbly suggest that not acting like an intellectual elitist is of immense help, should it ever fall within your intentions to avoid acting like a douchebag.
>> Anonymous
>>1127865
you really are a terrible person aren't you.
>> Anonymous
>>1127865
>> Anonymous
>>1127884
Guess you lost the muscle, eh?

If suggesting that people type like, you know, barely mentally able beings -- even the most retarded, bubblegum blowing retarded-from-skullfucking cheerleaders in my classes type better and more coherently than you -- is "intellectually elitist," I seriously fear for the world.

However, enjoy fapping to your 17 year old fantasy of being a "dom" and having girls "gengerly" rub their clits in "extassy," while I crush slaveboys under my boots for money.
>> Anonymous
>>1127897
>>1127889
Could you two stop this insipid argument so we can get back to the BDSM?
>> Anonymous
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>>1127844
>>1127865
>>1127884
>>1127889
Thanks for fagging up the thread, guys.
>> Anonymous
>>1127865
can you get banned from /d/ for being a bitch?
>> Anonymous
>>1127897
There's a difference between suggesting someone type coherently and being a complete and utter cunt. Surely even someone as dim as you can grasp the concept of tact; it's not a complicated idea.
>> Anonymous
>>1127903
>>1127905
fine BDSM get it is
>> Anonymous
>>1127905
can you get banned from /d/ for fueling an internet argument between a cunt and a teenager that can't spell?
>> Anonymous
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>>1127908
>> Anonymous
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>>1127913
i am the teenager who cant spell
and im posting to make up for the drama
>> Anonymous
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>>1127906
Cry more... someone will care, I'm sure.
>> Anonymous
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>>1127917
>> Anonymous
i'm a sub, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to be into BDSM at all. :( he's rough with me and when he hits it, he goes hard, which i like, but sometimes i just want to be tied up and gagged and fucked up my ass without lube while being told what a slut i am. alas, what to do. i do love him, but i don't think he would ever actually do anything that seemed to hurt me. why must he be so sweet? ;__________;
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>>1127884here.
Sorry, I'll just post porn instead of fueling the drama.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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I want a relationship where the domination can go either way, but we don't necessarily plan which way it will go. We're just always trying to catch each other off guard. Like a big, sexy game where the loser gets raped.

Damn, that's hot.
>> Anonymous
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I stoped getting pissed when i realized she was prolly a sex starved english teacher, who wants to dom her students, but cant due to looks.
>> Anonymous
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>>1127924
Just tell him, faggot. Chance are if he enjoys hitting you, it wouldn't be much of a leap for him to tie you up (in fact, bondage is pretty vanilla compared to hitting). You don't have enough to lose anyway.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
>>1127931
Or even better, don't just tell him what you want; beg him for it. I think that's more likely to elicit the desired response.
>> Anonymous
>>1127924
Just bring it up, and if he agrees to experiment start slow, gradually working up to the good stuff.
>> Anonymous
My boyfriend ties me up (and vice versa) for some play, some spanking, rough sex, we've used gags and vibrators a few times. But most of our major turn-ons aren't able to be done realistically - ex: giantess, machines, milking outside of pregnancy, tentacle sex, etc etc.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>>1127929
I remember once discussing with a friend how we should arrange a game where every participant would agree that all the participants are free to rape each other when they feel like it. But it'd probably work better for a couple. Waking up to learn that your partner has decided to tie you up while you were sleeping, then having revenge by ambushing them when they come home from work. That would indeed be the ideal life.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
>>1127939
I'll just add that to the growing list of things I'll always dream of but never get to try.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
I roleplay (cosplaying as characters) with my boyfriend, and we use BDSM elements in our RPs. Though my biggest BDSM fantasy is less "bdsm" and more rape/fetish fantasy, though.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>>1127952
As a man, you shouldn't accept that. If there's something you desire, no matter how unrealistic it is, it's your duty do to everything in your power to achieve it.
>> Anonymous
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hope porn has compensated for flame war w/ troll/cunt
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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Check out these awesome Russian nesting dolls
>> Anonymous
one of my biggest fantasies is to be tied spreadeagle (but standing) at a party, where they can do whatever they want to me... vibrators, feathers, ice, clamps, dildos, etc, all laid out on a nearby table for them to use.

One of my other fantasies is to be tied up in a bathroom at a party with a ring-gag to be a piss-slave or blowjob-slave.
>> Anonymous
>>1127967
I'm not sure that always works out so swell in real life, but your enthusiasm is still inspiring, anon.
>> Anonymous
There's a reason that BDSM folks are on the ugly side, and I would expect Anonymous of /d/, of all people, to be able to work out why.
>> Anonymous
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>>1127985
Uncertainty never gets you anywhere.
>> Anonymous
>>1127983
>One of my other fantasies is to be tied up in a bathroom at a party with a ring-gag to be a piss-slave or blowjob-slave.

Done this. Indescribable.
>> Anonymous
>>1127989
How is the real life compared to the fantasy?
>> Anonymous
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>>1127987
Because the social rejection that comes with ugliness is what usually leads to deviancy?
>> Anonymous
>Done this.
I just blew my horny little mind contemplating the mere possibility that you're telling the truth.
>> Anonymous
>>1127989
my penis is harder than tempered steel.
>> Anonymous
I'm female. I love orgasm denial and tease and denial. Sometimes I make myself go without orgasms for a few weeks, just to get the urgency up. I love "webteases," although sadly they're hard to find for girls. I found a (I assume) guy that made a program that was... ugh, amazing, because it told you what to do and had punishments for if you slipped up. It also "made me" (obviously didn't really make me, but I love when webteases/people online tell me what to do) do stuff that I wouldn't normally do, like put clamps on my nipples (they hurrrrt) and put ice on my clit. Just. Ugh. My fantasy would be to have a master/dom (or female mistress) who would make me wear a chastity belt and bring me to the edge of orgasm with the threat of punishment of I came whenever he or she pleased. I would have to beg for orgasms that may or may not be granted.
>> Vyse
was in a relation with a girl that loved to tie stuff up(me) and get tied up herself so i fantasize and partake of this cake
>> Anonymous
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>>1128007
Now this is the kind of woman I one day intend to marry.
>> Anonymous
>>1128010
Why thank you. And that picture is amazing. So amazing I ended up masturbating until I came. Ffffffff. Which kind of defeated the point, but these threads always get me bothered, if you know what I mean.
>> Anonymous
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>>1128021
Why, that's no good at all. Well, self-denial seems dull compared to the real thing, so I can sort of understand. Tried looking for an online master?
>> Anonymous
>>1128024
It's bad, I know. I lasted a week, at least, which was tough considering there have been some nice stuff posted here and elsewhere that gets me wet. The only online master's I've found either weren't into orgasm denial or were... ummm.. how to put it nicely - basically interested in talking to me until they'd gotten enough material to make them orgasm and logging off, only coming (no pun intended) back if they wanted me to get them off. Which I suppose wouldn't be a problem if they actually acted like master's, instead of guys that just wanted a quick fap.
>> Anonymous
>>1126879

I'm not ugly but I'm a deadbeat 27 year old. I would gladly make you crew on those dirty panties of yours. :)
>> Anonymous
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>>1128026
Hm, didn't imagine finding a decent one was that hard. Willing to give someone from /d/ a try?
>> Anonymous
>>1128041
If you'd be willing, then sure! I'm wary of giving out my email (even my 'anonymous' one) on 4chan, though, even if it is /d/...
>> Anonymous
Male, a bit on the young side (21) and normally BDSM is a side-dish fetish for me. But when your main fetish (in my case: inflatable outfits) involves someone becoming almost immobile the BDSM aspects tend to come along for the ride. I think I'd prefer being a dom (I have a phobia here and there that prevents me from enjoying thoughts of sub), teasing and denying brings out the kinkiest in me. (My only weakness: puppy eyes and whimpering)
>> Anonymous
>>1128051

Try a AIM account its basically anon. Also typing is hard :)
>> Anonymous
18 male sub here, im into just about everything especially crossdressing, the lack of doms in my area (AL) is disturbing
>> Anonymous
>>1128058
hm, I don't have AIM right now and my internet is slow... it's 5:30 am here so I have to go to bed (wonked up hours right now) but if this thread is here tomorrow, I'll see if I can get an AIM account up and running. :)
>> Anonymous
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>>1128051
I can give mine, as I'm not particularly worried. Though I prefer instant messaging. Do you use MSN, YIM or AIM?
>> Anonymous
>>1128075
I mainly use YIM.
>> Anonymous
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>>1128081
Okay, ThunderbirdEnema@yahoo.com then.
>> Vyse
>>1128085
careful when puttin that kinda info on the chan
>> Anonymous
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>>1128108
There's not much harmful that can be done to someone from just having their YIM screename.
>> Vyse
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>>1128110
yeah i guess maybe im just being too cautious
>> Anonymous
this thread...wow.........
I'm not into most of the stuff described here, but I like how you discuss it freely and seriously here.
It really is interesting, how the most perverted board seems to have to most mature discussions without trolls or spam.
>> Anonymous
I knew I liked BDSM ever since 80's TV shows as a child, when the women always ended up kidnapped and gagged.

Fortunately my wife lets me do nearly anything to her. Once she got drunk and passed out, so I cuffed her, taped her mouth shut, and fucked her ass.

Basically I just want a rapeslave, but I'm sure lots of men want that.
>> Anonymous
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>>1128007
There is a book out there written by Jeff Gord and illustrated by Benson, it's called Cuuriosity Tamed the Kat. It's a great book, I let my then girlfriend read it and she couldn't put it down.
I liked it so much, I bought all the books written by Gord. They are all great!

Now we are married and she is my part time slave, and I never run out of ideas to have fun with her.
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
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Can anyone tell me the manga site that goes like g-hentai or w/e? pic related
>> Anonymous
>>1127935

Lactation outside of pregnancy is possible,

1. Look up Motilium. It increases prolactin.
2. Regular breast pumping.
3. Massage.
4.??????
5. PROFIT!
>> Anonymous
>>1128232

You know of anywhere to find that online? I have damn near every other Benson book but that one...
>> Anonymous
>>1128234
This?

http://g.e-hentai.org
>> Anonymous
>>1126473

Shit, now I feel bad for belonging to two masters (They're partners).
>> Anonymous
>>1128276
Ditto
>> Anonymous
>>1127924
Love, guys will do that if you ask. I'm the sweetest guy on earth, and a freaking pacifist at that, but I'm>>1127840. She asked, and I delivered. It's the sweet, kind guys who really want to release that inner freak and be oh so bad behind closed doors. Am I saying he'll ball up a fist... no (neither would I), but he'll probably slap around your breasts and start with something light like a belt, but if you offer him rough anal, he'd have to be insane to pass that up. Try opening up to him. He may just listen.
>> Anonymous
>>1128007
Let me tell you, this is freaking incredible. I,>>1127840, did this to her and kept on denying her until she couldn't hold it back anymore, and still didn't let her. I guess that a vibrator, an egg on her clitoris, and nipple clamps (vibrating, of course) were too much. lol. She did cum, and actually, that's what sparked the whole mall incident. lol. Trust me, if you can find a guy that will do this for you, you will be the happiest woman on Earth.
>> Anonymous
I like rape fantasy

but until now I'm still not sure if I want to rape or get raped.
>> Anonymous
>>1128314

This anon is right. Orgasm denial is the second best thing I ever experienced. It will never be as good as the fake rape, but it's good...yeah. Good.
>> Anonymous
I used to be into BDSM. I had kinky sex for years and fulfilled all of my realistic sex fantasies. Now BDSM and kink just doesn't do it for me anymore. At best, it doesn't turn me on anymore, at worst, it turns me off a lot. The only thing that turns me on now is romantic, loving sex in the missionary position. I don't know what sparked this change, but it depresses me.

Has this happened to anyone else? And if yes, how did you get over it?
>> Anonymous
>>1128332
Its a cycle, i bet. Too much of a good thing. You like the kinky stuff SO much that it becomes vanilla, to the point where the actual vanilla stuff becomes odd and almost kinky in itself.
>> Anonymous
OP here!
Wow, I'm amazed at how big this thread got! You guys & gals are awesome. I'm really enjoying reading what you have to say!
Keep on posting! :3
>> Vyse
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>>1128316
its surpriseing how arousing it is i think it has to do with the lack of control. If your worried do it with someone you really trust and take precautions such as make sure they know or both of you can signal to stop or ease up. Its a fantasy rape so its your choice to take that precaution.
>> Anonymous
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>>1128316
Try both!
>> Vyse
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>>1128367
yeah you never know what you might like if your submissive or not can't hurt to try something knew
>> Vyse
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>> Anonymous
Has anyone here had success making or buying a chastity belt?
>> Anonymous
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>>1128372
And there's really no reason you should have a strict preference. Sex isn't an Olympic sport, there's no need to find one area and dedicate the rest of your life to it.
>> Vyse
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>>1128380
the girl i was with made a make shift one she just bought panites a size small and padded the waist so it didn't bite into her side too much, she didn;t seem to mind it riding up way up. won't go into what she did to my dick but that was an interesting week and when i think about it i would do it again
>> Anonymous
>>1125907
hahahaha

<3
>> Vyse
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>> Anonymous
>>1128380
Um... Well, since this is anonymous.. I bought a cheap Chinese copy of a CB3000. But I wouldn't call it a success. First of all, I can fit my penis in it, which is kinda strange, as I'm not that big. Secondly, since it was a cheap Chinese copy, it fell apart pretty quickly and had to be glued together. So it was a total waste of money. Kinda wish I had gotten something of more quality, but I'm not dedicated enough to the idea to spend the money, especially since it'd only be for solo-play.
>> Anonymous
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>>1128380
here. I mean a female chastity belt... I've made a device out of some belts I took apart and I'd like to see if anyone has had better success (mine is OK I made itmostly for holding in a troublesome butt plug).

I'd like to make one like this (pic related) and also pick up one of those expensive (read: out of the price range of a student) poly-steel models
>> Anonymous
>>1127983
HAWT! Especially the bathroom one. Who wouldn't want you at their party. I'd do my best to uninhibit my guests, maybe put you in a bathroom away from the main party or leave an optional blindfold. The best part would be checking on you after the party and seeing what a mess they made. I may or may not clean you up before having my way with you - or I might just leave you until morning.
>> Anonymous
>>1128420
The one in the pic doesn't really look that hard to make. You'd just need some leather or pleather straps (I suggest the fabric dept at Walmart, you can buy yards of it, with or without steel grommetts, for way cheap. You can also get those rings there for cheap. After that, I suggest sewing, staples, or however you can thing of attaching the pieces together after that. That, or you can make the whole thing out of the same rope people use for clotheslines or repelling cable. Not as cool, but cheap and functional.
>> Anonymous
>>1128420
Well, female ones are a bit more problematic, as you usually have to pay a lot for passable quality. Though you can get some in this style>>1128010>>1128024pretty cheap, but they're easy to destroy and doesn't allow using the bathroom. As for holding buttplugs in, I'll mention that good quality chastity belts can have buttplug attachment sold with them, and that there are plenty of self-bondage methods that would secure anything inside you with a rope under your crotch, and lastly, there's this
http://www.extremerestraints.com/female-butt-plug-and-dildo-harness_1295.html
>> Anonymous
>>1128437here.
The rope thing I talked about happened to be on the first page.
http://orz.4chan.org/d/src/1225207160394.jpg
>> Anonymous
>>1128433
I'm new to /d/, so I just looked up a 'ring gag' ...Be right back, fappan to the mental images you've given me.
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My hat goes off to you my fellow /d/eviants. This threads only further confirms my opinion that once you admit that everyone (yourself included) is a bit weird you end up a better and friendlier person for it.

21/M/Sub
>> Anonymous
And thus thread goes on auto-sage, on it's way to be lost forever.
>> Anonymous
>>1127983
I have always wanted to do this *sigh*
>> Anonymous
>>1128455
Threads from /d/ can't be archived?
>> Anonymous
Enjoying the thread a lot

Firstly, I consider myself a nice guy, and find it paradoxical that I find it offensive when a man mistreats a woman, and yet whip mine in the bedroom regularly. I think that having that dualistic viewpoint makes me a better dominant, because i keep myself in check, though at times it makes things difficult when engaging in edgeplay.

The thing to keep in mind is, your partner WANTS this, badly and cannot experience it without you at the head. So for those of you who are afraid to try anything kinky, don't fret, that fear you have is a good thing. It will keep you and your partner safe.

I rape my woman and it is as sweet as making love to her. Causing her pain can be as sweet to her as caressing her hair. When you're excited the lines between pain and pleasure are blurred. I am very sensitive to pain myself, but when im into it, i can get deeply scratched and not feel it as a negative sensation at all.

Things that I love to do:

Rape play (forcing her down, and taking her against her will)
Gags
Spanking
Discipline
Tit torture
Marking
Piercing (i'm going to have her pierced soon)
restraints
collars and leashes
stockings and sexy outfits (can't always be naked, half the fun is ripping things off, and panties make great gags, the taste of her own wetness makes her hotter)
orgasm denial / control
blindfolds
whips / floggers
clamps, chopsticks
knife play
wax

ugh i need to go now.. im getting ideas....
>> Vyse
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>>1128483
you aren't alone i hope evening gets here faster
>> Anonymous
>>1128465
are you male or female? Just curious, in my fantasy I assumed it would be a female.
>> Anonymous
>>1127628
>>1127631
i would -love- to do that
>> Anonymous
>>1128509
I am both.
>> Anonymous
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ITT awkward silence
>> Anonymous
Female in a steady relationship. Would love to be a slave, but I've got some problems that keep me from being able to go after it, including immense amounts of college work and... some... personal things.
Like...
I've never "finished." Plus I'm so hypersensitive that just a little bit of personal stimulation feels like so much at once that it's almost painful.
So, yeah. More hentai for me.
>> Anonymous
>>1128816
It's not about what you want though...
>> Anonymous
Male Dom prefers fake rape and hitting (both hitting and getting hit back, makes the fake raep more enjoyable/real)

Anything else is me simply humoring my bitch.
>> Anonymous
>>1128816
Women not being able to orgasm is a weirdly frequent problem. It almost makes me want to help out, and I generally do not like vag.
>> someone
"Women not being able to orgasm is a weirdly frequent problem. It almost makes me want to help out, and I generally do not like vag."
It's not critical to the survival of the species.
>> Anonymous
>>1127762
Hey, Tucsonfag! Come up to Phoenix and visit TNG. We're hotter.
>> Anonymous
Jesus christ, longthread is LONG.

This is probably the biggest... And potentially most intellectual thread in the history of /d/. Not trying to blow something out of the proportion, but there's a real lack of maturity and... openness in other sites.

Great to see more anons willing to discuss things so openly. I don't have the desire to speak for myself and I doubt I could get into something like this, but it's still an interesting thread where I think I could relate to the people here.

Oh well, just wanted to comment. Probably could use an anonidate on a site like this but the potential abuse anon's would ensue with it... Just aren't to my liking.
>> Anonymous
>>1129851

Hey! Go fuck yourself, Pal!
>> Anonymous
im feeling the same thing as you, buddy. Even though i enjoy the fantasies of BDSM, i dont actively participate... So lets keep this civiliced and in line.
>> Anonymous
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legendary thread
>> Anonymous
>>1130014
Seconded. I loved being a part of this discussion, and I believe that we anons actually made progress with discussing this thing that we are all into at some degree, whether it be full time participation or just fapping to hentai.Nice work anon, way to make /d/ classier and thus 4chan classier.
>> Anonymous
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Anyone gonna archive this?