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So if domination is not about sex is it sexually satisfying?

I'm a 25 year old male and I haven't been laid in years but think I may enjoy being dominated. I am trying to find a girlfriend and fall in love but in the mean time I think I should seek out a dominating mistress. I'm debating using a site like alt.com or bondage.com to contact a female dom in my area. I'm assuming the arrangement may not include sex (or intercourse) at all. If that's the case is the experience comparable to sex? Do you orgasm? Maybe I'm over thinking the situation and should go ahead and try it out.
>> Anonymous
try it out and go away. come back when you have more hentai.
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>>1006193I have more hentai
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>> Anonymous
if you're trying to find a girlfriend who shares your hobby, I think you're not gonna get too far.

if you're just trying to find a girlfriend, make sure you don't mention "oh I like bondage" on the first date :O some like it, but most don't...

since you're 25 you can think, hey, should I go have my fantasies done now, and search for a soulmate in my 30's or you can start looking now and probably have more success later on.
>> Anonymous
>>1006220
Most women are open to new things. It's not a great idea to start out by mentioning you're into bondage, but it's almost always possible to ease them into the idea over time.
>> Anonymous
I'd say to go ahead and try it out, if you find someone willing! Everyone has their own fantasies, and heck you won't know until you try... If you like it, you'll find something about yourself, if not well you weren't meant for it and that's the end of it.

I'm rooting for ya!
>> Anonymous
Go for it anon, but don't use sites like that. Most of the "mistresses" on those sites either require manning the harpoons, or their idea of domination is taking all your money, while living with you for free.

Come to think of it, that's not so different from a normal girlfriend, actually...
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You know, the S&M scene and clubs exist in most places, you could always try getting more involved in the 'community' in your holy search for a dom. Much better chances of convincing a girl to be suddenly into it, and find someone who knows what she's doing and will take good care of you. ;P
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>>1006295
Oh god, I love those ones so much. They are all like "you will treat me like a goddess and buy me whatever I want. There will be NO SEX and you will just be lavishing me with gifts and attention"

I always troll them and string them along then when it comes time to pay "Oh...I forgot my credit card, can you get this?" they go NUTS.
>> Anonymous
>>1006359
I am experienced in the BDSM world, you are here to spoil me, to make my life even better.

You pay for my time, there is absolutely no sex.

I will humiliate you in more ways than you thought possible. You are my little fool, you will always say yes Goddess to me.

You may write me at the email listed to see if you are fit to serve me, if you think the tribute is to high then you can move on, I am not looking for some broke slave to serve me, I only except generous wealthy slaves in my stable.

I have many executive slaves that are dying to give me all that I ask for.

Now prove to me that you are not a broke slave, a time waster, also a deposit will be required to show you are not broke and not wasting my time!
>> Anonymous
Why are there so many bondage discussion threads today?

/d/ IS NOT FUCKING MYSPACE.
Thread reported.
>> Anonymous
>>1006386
I'm already a financial slave to America, I don't need some bitch to fill that role.
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Oh wow, shit. Sounds like the "scene" sucks everywhere else too, and not just where I happend to live. Guess I'll be fwapping to images and fantasies for a good deal longer if it's like that everywhere.

To answer the OP question: To me, domination is all about sexual gratification. It arouses me when I'm being held in capticity and servitude. When I'm able to please my mistress, that's what does it to me.
>> Anonymous
not to rain on anybody's parade, but domination sounds like it just sucks ass. what part of it is supposed to be fun?

meh, i think i'm probably more the dominator type than the dominatee.
>> Anonymous
>>1006410
Dominators are pathetic little parasites that live off of someone else's disgusting masochistic urge, contributing little to the creation of wealth. They get off by degrading the dignity of their subs rather than becoming dignified themselves, and hence have no use in living.
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Being dominated is an amazing experience. Speaking as someone who roleplays often with my girlfriend for the past two years, alternating dom/sub positions I can say I definitely love sub more.

There's just something that turns you on about a woman who's in control, powerful, and degrading you. I think it has something to do with breaking out of the "traditional" submissive role women usually have in relationships and sex that it so amazing.

I've never looked into a mistress while outside of a relationship, although I often see people asking for recommendations on femdom communities for their area. My advice would be to probably look into those and ask there.

Also many dommes have websites (if she doesn't have her own personal website.. don't bother. She's not a professional or she's a scam) and I generally see rates around $100-200 an hour.
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>>1006341
My concern with clubs is that I'd be going alone and that doesn't sound like much fun.

So a large majority of alt.com female doms charge for their services?
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http://mzlisas-domina-guide.com/
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>>1006341
What is picture from?
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Source of Image?
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>>1006521
My experiences with anyone on Alt.com is they do not charge, that's silly - that's the few "financial doms" they're thinking of. Most folk there I have run into are just there to find others who share their kinks.

Going to a club alone may suck, but it's better than no chance at all.
>> Anonymous
>>1006809
what should i be aware of or avoid when using alt.com or a similar site?