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Anonymous
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Get a book.
I can't stress this enough. There's been plenty of fine advise from people on this thread, but please, get a book. Bondage for Sex by Chanta Rose is an excellent choice with great diagrams. I think there are some good Japanese style rope-bondage books by a woman called Midori. All of these and many others should be available on Amazon if no where else. That's where I got mine.
If you're really lucky, you live in a metropolitan area (Like me near NYC) where there is a BDSM or Fetish club/group you could get membership in. Nothing will teach you better than learning in person from someone who knows how to do this stuff.
Also, even if it's light bondage always make sure to have some sissors (preferably medical sissors) to cut the ropes off in an emergeny. DO NOT USE A KNIFE. It's a good way to cut your girlfriend in a bad way. (And yes, there is a good way to cut your girlfriend but its advanced stuff and way beyond my expertise to give advice on).
Never leave a bound person alone, no matter what. Even if it's only light bondage. Not even for bathroom breaks. Untying and retying is good practice anyhow :).
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