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Anonymous
Personally I find it disturbing how many girls have a rape fetish, or at least an interest in being forced a lot, in comparison to how many women in the general population HAVE been raped.
Rape fantasies sexualize the act, and I don't think that's a good thing for society. Rape is about power and to sexualize it just suggest that there is nothing wrong (not necessarily date-rape, but yeah).
On the other hand, I'm reminded of the early CSI episode where Grissom becomes friends with that dominatrix, and they discuss who is REALLY in control in those relationships. Grissom suggests that the clients of the dominatrix are the ones really in control; after all, they are paying her, and she does all sorts of crazy shit for the man's gratification.
So maybe girls with rape fetishes just have a center-of-attention complex. Or maybe they feel that a woman is improper for enjoying sex and thus like the idea of being "the victim". I don't think any one explanation works for every actor. Anecdotally, I know that two friends who developed a rape fetish had sex in junior high school with older guys they shouldn't have been around.
But either way I don't think it's helpful for anyone. (Yes, a girl and a women's studies student. What of it, /d/, I like futa.)
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