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Anonymous
>>1187029 I disagree.
But you kind of seemed to miss my point of there is a difference between genuinely enjoying something you don't like to do, and being forced to do something you don't want to do - and saying you don't want to do it, before, during, and possibly after - then later justifying it by saying "Well, he's my Master, he can do what he wants." That's just brainwashing. Not literally MC, but that sort of, "oh, my husband hits me if I don't do the dishes, but he loves me, he does!" mentality. I don't think it's right. And I do think it is my place to tell my friends if I think they are in an unhealthy relationship.
Example: I hate diapers. Hate them. Absolutely fucking loathe them. But if I am getting punished, I am made to wear them. I am not joking when I say it is a miserable, horrible, awful experience, and I do not enjoy it. I fight getting into them and bitch about it as much as I dare until I'm out of them. However, I consent to getting punishent. BUT if there is (as there has been) a time when I don't want to be in diapers and if I was in diapers, I would feel 'abused,' - such as when I was on my period, and stewing in menstruation was just not going to happen - will tell my SO, no. I know I am being punished, but no. I know you are my Mistress, but I am telling you, I am not accepting diapers on me, and I am serious about it. And therefore, no diapers. Same for any sex. Yes, she's my Mistress, but there is a line between bdsm play and abuse, and I think it is crossed far too often and excused as "he's my Master, he can do what he wants."
I don't think we'll ever agree on this, I just wanted to express my opinion.
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