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Discussion thread lawl Anonymous
So, those among you who are into bondage and BDSM, do you consider yourself sadists, masochists or both?
>> Anonymous
masochistic tenencies run pretty deep in me...
>> Anonymous
switch
>> Anonymous
I'm more of a sadist.
>> Anonymous
more of an sadist than masochist
>> Anonymous
Masochist. Although I prefer porn with women as the subs.
>> Anonymous
Sadist through and through.
>> Anonymous
Ultimate sadist right here. total control over the submissive
>> Anonymous
male here , im a switch
>> Anonymous
Female submissive/bottom, total masochist.
>> Anonymous
>>766278

I'm sure I have seen this pic somewhere before...from some Hgame artworkbook? Anyone rember the book name?
>> Anonymous
>>766415
I think it was "Secret Lovers"
>> Anonymous
I'm more of a masochist, submissive. It just oddly turns me on.
>> Anonymous
I'm haven't actually tried it yet so I'll go with "switch" for now
>> Anonymous
What advice does /d/ have for a masochist who can't find a partner? Any way of making a whipping machine or the like?
>> Anonymous
>>766438
Male or female? As for the whipping machine: it's pretty easy to improvise something e.g. with a drill motor and some belts or something. Though you'd better be careful especially if you also plan on using self bondage.
self bondage + improvised contraption sounds like a good way to kill yourself and get an embarrassing obituary.
>> Anonymous
sadist, although when I'm alone I enjoy self-bondage.
>> Anonymous
>>766442
Male, and as for self bondage, I understand the danger. I always have control over the situation and many ways of getting out.
>> Anonymous
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Bottom, I'm not a masochist I mainly enjoy the power play. I have too many psychosexual problems to go find a top though.
>> Anonymous
I'm into bondage but not the S&M aspect.
>> Anonymous
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I am definitely a sadist, but just giving pain or humiliation does not get me off by itself. The real thrill is knowing that the person on the receiving end, even though they may be resisting or crying, is, in the end, enjoying the treatment they receive.
>> Anonymous
im into the bodnage, discipline, dominance and submission. not sadism or masochism.
>> Anonymous
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I've yet to decide whether my tendency is sadomasochism, or a torture fetish. I'm not into that humiliation shit, or being someone's slave. What I've dreamed about is plainly put this: I'm tied up helpless, and a woman whips, flogs or canes me. But no notable power exchange takes place, we'd still be pretty much equals. I'm merely giving her the permission to act out her fantasies with my body, and in doing so, I'd do her a favour which would please her, thus pleasuring me as well.

I'd like her to play with my senses. Knife play, needle play (no drawing blood though, don't like the idea of mess or permanent marks/damage), whipping with varying degrees of pain used and a tender aftercare afterwards. I'd like to feel it too when my hurting welts would be tended to. Sensory deprivation, (suspension) bondage, fire and ice play, nipple clamps. Kissing while she would firmly hold and pull me by my hair. It'd be like so in theory.

But in practise, no success in finding a companion so far, and tell you the truth, Anonymous feels pretty god damn inhibited at the moment, due to lack of faith in humanity. Sometimes I feel that an otherwise pretty awesome kinky person goes horribly to waste in me.

Erm... To answer the question, I guess all this'd make me the submissive party then, though if the girl'd tell me in detail what she wants, I guess I'd be able to top her too in return. But mainly I see myself as a submisive.
>> Anonymous
FtM submissive/bottom, total masochist
>> Anonymous
yeah, I'm into bondage. I'm a pretty big sadist, but that's only in everyday life, my sadism doesn't arouse me in the least. I like making the woman my slave, making her obedient; the power over her is the real turn on, not pain.
>> Anonymous
>>766889

you are me with scary fetishes
>> Deez Nutz
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>>766889
*pat* Where do you live? If you're in the states, try and find a kink or fetish organization near you. At the least, you'll get out of the house.

I'm a dominant female, in and out of bed. (in be4 no girls on internet, STFU, I could care less) I like cute sub boys and cute sub girls, and I have no interest in dominant men. I'm very interested in submitting to a dominant female, but have found none in my vicinity that I consider sane enough. Women are nuts! :P
>> sage !!SOJTvLiutsP
>>766976
>women are nuts
Duly said.

I'm not into heavy BDSM myself, light "artsy" bondage is the float to my boat. And in these instances I'm always a top.

Now in regular sex...
>> edo_hure !CY6ac/sjcI
>>766976
almost exactly the same.i have no interest in guys unless i'm the 'guy' in the relationship.but i'm pretty much willing to try whatever a partner wants.wish i lived near you, deez, but i live in bfe,texas...
>> Anonymous
Personally the idea of a women coming in and dominating me just for some reason turns me on. The whole leather outfit get me hot then her just having her way with me totally floats my boat at the moment i have never heard a suggestion to far for me to go to
>> Anonymous
Can anyone explain why the thought of a women dominant me.. hell one time she basically said just let me rape you and i liked it why is that
>> Deez Nutz
>>767006
Ooof, Texas is a hard one. You should move out to
Phoenix. We're nicer! I have a good female friend who moved out here from a lil texas baptist town and she likes it. :)
>> Treat me harsh
Hey still here does anyone know the thoughts that compels me to basically let a women rape me and do or use what ever she wants and enjoy it myself. if it helps the answer a guy here
>> Verfor99 !dW6ztBRlKA
Caring master.
I'll listen to my slave, help her with chores if she wants, be nice to her in general, and engage in pleasure/pain (whichever she likes) as rewards, but if she misbehaves or disobeys, I will be strict.
>> edo_hure !CY6ac/sjcI
>>767029
wish i could afford it.maybe once i finish college...
>> Anonymous
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Neither, I just like to be tied.
>> Anonymous
>>766518
Source?
>> Anonymous
Submissive sissyboy looking for an owner here, I am totally loyal to my owners and willing to move out to meet them
>> Anonymous
Either way, just depends on the girl.
>> sage !!SOJTvLiutsP
>>767084
*whistle* Congratulations, you're my second half.
>> Anonymous
>>766675
excatly me :)
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
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technically both. however, sadism doesn't excite me sexually; only viscerally.

dom/sub is a different matter.
>> Anonymous
switch.
I enjoy choking and stepping on girls :P
>> Anonymous
I've been tying myself up since I was a little girl. I don't really consider myself either, though. I prefer my bondage to be snug, but comfortable.

I'm a switch out of necessity, because my fiance is too.
>> Anonymous
Switch. Regardless of which side I'm on though, I don't really care for pain-play, though a little can be good. I prefer teasing and orgasm-denial.
>> Anonymous
>>767211
The Major?
>> MRL
Haven't actually played this out yet past anything very basic, but I'd say I'm definitely a masochist. I can enjoy sadism as well, I guess, but I much prefer being bound and hurt myself.

I can enjoy just bondage with no pain involved as well, though.
>> foxxy
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loyal slave to my Mistress
not so much a masochist but a sub through and through
>> Anonymous
>>766278
Masochist, I'm pretty sure, I'm too scared to check though.
>> Anonymous
Not into punishment games or working out "scenes" or such with the partner - its sex, and whatever gets my partner's mind distracted and the adrenaline going works.

Hence, I'm not sadist, but top.
>> Rapist-Kun
Completely dominant, confirmed sadist.
>> Anonymous
I'm not inherently sub/dom, but i feel more comfortable in control of the situation...

But i'm a pretty good sadist, i reckon. My gf is the sub of the century, and watching her extacy mixed fear, knowing that she trusts me is what gets me off.
>> Anonymous
Transexual masochist reporting.
>> Anonymous
80/20 sub/domme switch. Same ratio masochist/sadist.
>> eNon
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I employ what I call "soft sadism" -- creating frustration and/or embarassment with little to no actual harm or pain.

Such as with chastity belts or remote-vibes in public, I like to keep my pets highly aroused but forbid them to climax.
>> Anonymous
male here

I like Bondage, or well, bound women. I think I might like to be put into rope too, but then, the thought of breasts being sligthly squeezed arouses me SO MUCH (as an example), whereas picturing myself in some sort of bondage outfit just makes me feel ashamed. Since I also dislike pain and also dislike inflicting pain, I'm mainly into "forced orgasm" or "not allowed to cum" plays, not much else. Third, the whole verbal abuse thing really annoys me, I still love my partner, even if I'm a bit mean to her ;) I also like tickling, as long as it is not extreme. If my girl has pleasure, then I'm feeling well too.
>> Anonymous
I'm>>767525


>>767481Yes, that! :)
>> Anonymous
>>767353
I wish I was that guy. I'm definitely sub, though I'm not big into pain, much prefer being bound and sensory deprivation.
>> Anonymous
I'm a female submissive (and masochist)
>> Anonymous
depends on my mood
>> Anonymous
Male, Sadist, Dominant.
I like elaborate machines doing my bidding.
>> Anonymous
Male, sadist, dominant. I'm into almost anything, I like humiliantion as well as pain. Too bad I live in a frozen wasteland.
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
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>>767481
how remote are the vibes to which you are referring?

>>767243
Kusanagi? no, that's one of the Cutie Honey girls, but I don't know enough to tell them apart yet.
>> Anonymous
Switch female- I like being tied up & being my partner's pet, but there's nothing quite like the look on his face when I top.
Also great: submissive jailbait girls, especially ones who haven't been with a female before. I can't do that anymore or I'll get v&, but it was fun while it lasted.
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>>767579
submissive jailbait girls, huh? reminds me of when a younger girl tried to cyber me.

good thing she and I never got together - she probably wouldn't have enjoyed it. she has a bitchy controlling personality, but to me she's just begging to be dominated.
>> Anonymous
male, switch
>> Anonymous
Female. A year ago, I would have said submissive, but I guess now I'd have to say switch. My current boyfriend is too timid to actually do anything to me (yet), so I've been trying to "lead by example"...

I mean, being in control is nice enough, and I love the little sounds and gasps and moans he makes. But I do miss being tied up, pinned to the bed, teased and kept from cumming...

My former beau was a jerk in a lot of ways, but man... he loved tying me up, and I loved it when he did.

Sigh.
>> Anonymous
Lol this thread is full of females and lies.
>> Anonymous
Why do people enjoy being tied up, whipped, ordered around, etc?
It makes no sense =/
>> Anonymous
>>767665


I think i will speak for most of the people in here when i say we dont understand it either, and we are the ones who enjoy it
>> Anonymous
>>767669

Oh, im male switch btw

about 70/30 towards top though
>> Anonymous
>>767665

Why do kids like rollercoasters even though they know they'll puke afterwards?

It's one of those "Oh god oh god, make it stop please, oh god fuck no! ... Okay let's do it again" things.

Also, explaining fetishes is dumb, because nobody who doesn't have that fetish themselves won't get it anyway and it will just sound creepy.
>> Anonymous
total sadist
>> Anonymous
>>767373
To elaborate further, I'm fascinated by all sorts of submission/masochism type stuff...

rape, pain, being on the receiving end, being used, being watched, forced feminisation of various sorts(including full gender change), group submission...

but I have a lot of issues keeping me from ever giving any of it a try.
>> Anonymous
S,male. I prefer little to moderate.... the extreme is too much for me.

What i want is a Tsudere type of M girl.... the resisting type outside but likes it inside :)
>> Anonymous
I'm unsure about the definition of sadism and masochism. The dictionary says it's about the enjoyment of pain, either giving or receiving, but I've seen the word used to describe acts focused more on control than any kind of physical contact. I don't really care much for pain, though I have one exception. My sadism is connected to my sense of justice. The sight of tears on someone's face would in most cases overthrow my sadism, unless they're the tears of a sinner, in which case it would only make me feel much better. May sound corny, but divine retribution is one of my sexual fetishes. Receiving pain is not an area of interest for me at all ....well, unless I deserved it, possibly.

If we use the terms submissive and dominant instead, which are always used to describe the whole aspect of BDSM instead of just the pain, then it's another story. I could enjoy taking on the role of a dominant, but I imagine this would be reserved for less romantic relationships. In a close long-term relationship, I'd see myself more likely to take on the role of a submissive. The thought of serving a cute girl is just too appealing to deny, no matter how impractical it is.
>> Anonymous
Masochist, male.

I've got a ton of fetishes(diapers, crossdressing, s&m, hypnotism) that can be mixed very, very well. I've got a strong willpower, so hypnotism can never get too extreme for me. I've been hypnotized to think I was a five-year old girl with no bladder control once and I had the TIME OF MY LIFE. I've still got a few scars from then, but I would do it again in a heartbeat.
>> Anonymous
Switch any day, but what I really need is getting the sub in me to play. I love humiliation play, but it's not necessarily tied to my masochism. Although I love pain. Yum.
>> Anonymous
Male sub, but none of the more hardcore stuff. I can't stand pain. Mostly just like humiliation. And pegging, that's hot.
>> inconspicuous
Switch leaning Domme, but definitely more masochistic. Pain = yum.

I agree with>>767481on "soft sadism." Mind games and power balances with little bits of pain scattered in as power checks are more enjoyable for me as a sub. As a Domme, rope work, sensory deprivation and tactile play (light knife play, scarf play, etc.) are my specialties. Watching them struggle and hearing them whimper is far more satisfying.

Not afraid of doling out "discipline" if necessary though. Sometimes, there's nothing like a good firm smack to get your point across. :3
>> Anonymous
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I loved Hitomi My Stepsister for some of its sado/maso themes and I guess I'm somewhat of a sadist. But I'm not into bondage stuff though.
>> Anonymous
Totally masochistic. I love bondage, pain play, suffocation, water play, and being someone's bitch. But my bf is rather timid, so our play is somewhat boring to me.
>> Anonymous
>>767353

sauce on this pic?
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
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>>767819
dom/sub and sadomasochism tend to walk hand in hand, so many people let the meaning of the terms blend. your means of thinking of them as separate terms is correct.

keep in mind we're talking about BDSM - bondage and sadomasochism, not dom/sub. dom/sub is a matter that can cross all relationships to a greater or lesser degree without even involving BDSM.
>> Anonymous
>>767991
That is a great game.
>> Anonymous
>>768105
sauce?
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
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>>768107
G.J. - "Ane to BOIN"
there are ten girls, only this one has any BDSM scenes. also, you can set the size of each girl's breasts. compare this pic with>>768105

so what are the extreme limits of what you sadists and masochists are willing to do?
I can't engage knife play, strangulation, or anything that potentially leaves serious bruising, scarring or other mutilation without the fear of causing permanent damage. therefore no nosehooks.
>> Anonymous
>>768118

Thanks.
>> Anonymous
It's actually very hard for me to say. I can certainly get off on that kind of stuff in porn but I don't think I even really fantasize about any of it.

I'm just really really vanilla when it comes to real life, I certainly don't like being hurt or hurting people I love. Frankly I don't know why I even enjoy pictures of it.
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
>>768132
do you imagine yourself experiencing it when you look at the pictures, do you just enjoy the looking part?
>> Anonymous
From browsing around here I know I'm a sub into being tied up and having control taken away and so on.
But for me it would only be in the bedroom, outside of that in a relationship... well let's just say I'd tell you to 'make your own damn samich ya lazy bum'
I think I'm a little nervous of getting into the scene because I don't want to get attached to anyone who wants to 'live the lifestyle' so to speak
>> Anonymous
Female, submissive, exhibitionist, metal/plastic fetishist and addicted to bondage, especially shibari. Pain is not my cup of tea, neither is humiliation.
>> Verfor99 !dW6ztBRlKA
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>>767577
You're right actually. That's Kisaragi Honey as Cutey Honey, as depicted in Cutey Honey The Live (curr. 15 eps, and goddammit Uncle Go wins again).

But yeah, I'm a nice guy at heart (yeah yeah total-sap yuri-fanboy weakness-for-cute-girls), so I really couldn't do anything really hardcore unless she was into that herself, except for a strict punishment.
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
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>>768203
is that sum Maid in Heaven? (I never found an hcg before ...)

I too, am a romantic at heart, but that doesn't stop me from relishing dom/sub & bdsm ... or from coming to /d/.


by the way everyone is responding, it's obvious that real masochism (pleasure from pain) is mostly a black and white matter
>> Anonymous
Very submissive, mild masochist. I like humiliation, bondage, non-consentual situations, sensory deprivation, force, ect. I don't have a very high pain threshold so aside from slapping and smacking I'm not much for anything more painful. I'm interested in knife play but I'm not into anything that could leave a permanent mark.
>> Anonymous
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I'm only a sub, and only because I like the feeling of being tied up. Nothing like some rope digging at my breasts.

I hate pain and common S&M scenarios.
>> Anonymous
Switch. And found with my current gf (also a switch) that such a combination led to constant daring the other to do more. I'm almost fearing my next time as bottom.
>> Anonymous
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tis better to give than recieve
>> Anonymous
I get turned on planning total world domination. does that make me a sadist? Not like I wanna torture every other person. Just those who defy my power.
>> Anonymous
>>768105

Hard to talk about one without the other though, given the nature of BDSM. It's just as much about Dominance and submission as it is about sadomasochism, perhaps even more so. Some people involved in BDSM practices don't carry the sadistic/masochistic tendencies and are only into the aesthetic of bondage or the power play of a D/s relationship.

tl;dr In a thread about whips and chains, handcuffs are bound to come up.
>> Anonymous
I'm a masochist, but so here all the girls I've dated/fucked around with. Since someone had to take the initiative, I've been sado when the situation calls for it. Feels strange though.
>> Anonymous
masochist
>> Anonymous
I'm a sub whose into CBT as long as it's not too rough
>> Anonymous
I'm a male masochist and a friend of mine casually told me she wants to be a dominatrix. I wanna try it with her, but how should I ask?
>> Anonymous
>>767481
>>768353
Wish I had something like this going on in my life :(
>> Anonymous
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Up and down, side to side. I'm pretty untrusting, and I tend to vary from simply dom to sadistic preferences depending on my mood. Don't go for physical pain, but verbal/mental domination and physical control.

Every so often I feel really sub and want to be led, though.