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I just cannot get male humiliation. I can't get cuckolding. I can't understand why anyone would want to be tied up and supplicant and humiliated, and why that would be arousing. The logic of it completely evades me.

Can anyone here explain it?
>> sage
It's a fetish.
>> sage
"WHY U LIEK TIHS?"

OMG INDUVIDUALITY?

gtfo, troll.
>> Anonymous
Same here. For some reason I love strong women, but I can't stand seeing a woman being superior over weak men. I hate weak men.

But dude, it's a fetish. It can't be explained. Most people are just going to flame you anyways. However, 99% chance you're a troll and you're trying to get people to post male bondage images as a request tactic.
>> Anonymous
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Just keep posting male bondage. It'll make at least a few /d/eviants happy.

And it's a fetish. It could be argued that there's no point in sacrificing anything from your everyday life just to have sex with someone when you can reach an orgasm without the hassle; or what's the point of having an orgasm if there isn't going to be a pregnancy as a result.
>> Anonymous
Actually, I'd like to hear a rationalization, I don't like knocking other peoples' fetishes, I'm just kind of curious.
>> Anonymous
Well, Freud would probably say that their mothers were either too controlling or not enough. I'm not sure which...

It's not one of my fetishes though, so I won't venture an uninformed personal opinion.
>> Anonymous
It's a power thing.
>> Anonymous
I'm not too much for humiliation, but I love straight-femdom and I know why. Because the female wants your seed so much she'll tie you down and force it out of you.
>> Anonymous
>It's a power thing.
That kinda goes without saying. It is a sub-genre of bdsm.
>> Anonymous
>>1035665

Yeah, but OP doesn't seem to get that.
>> Anonymous
>>1035383
For me, sexual arousal is more relaxing than exciting. (Sort of like how a cigarette can calm your nerves or excite them slightly.) So sex feels better when I receive pleasure passively. This preference lends itself to submission and bondage, and sometimes mildly painful stimulation. It's also a break from my normal, more aggressive/dominant personality. Sometimes it's fun to NOT be in control.

However, neither I nor my girlfriend enjoy publicly humiliating the other (we switch dom/sub roles).
>> Anonymous
First off though, a big portion of it is really "just because", and almost every other fetish in the universe is like that. We just happen to like them, for whatever reason, and sometimes its not explainable. From a metaphysical perspective though, you could say that being submissive frees the mind. When you are being tied up and beaten, etc, you don't have to think of all the things in life that you usually think about, and your mind is blanked out and resurfaced so to speak, with pure, simple thoughts and emotions. This sense of carelessness and freedom is achieved because in effect you are transferring your care and well-being to your 'master' who then bears that for you, while enjoying herself as well. The overpowering desire that I have when I experience events related to this fetish, is the desire to escape reality, to leave the bounds of the normal and the average and transcend to a new level of consciousness nearly, ironic perhaps to call it higher when many of its core thoughts are of a primitive nature, but never the less its doubtful those with this kind of predisposition cannot feel the electric sensation and incredible bliss.

This is exemplified even more by the simple fact that when one mode of stimulus is removed, other stimuli appear much stronger. If you can't move, even better if you can't see, things touching you, and your own thoughts, are excessively prominent in the senses than they once were, adding to the arousal.
>> Anonymous
>>1035683
To bring it into biology as well, when the human arousal rate increases, there are various reactions that occur, and one of those is the changing of the neurological pathways that control pain. Through "gate control", your brain's executive functions nearly completely override the normal sensation of pain, even more so for masochists, and the remaining feelings amalgamate into a dull, pounding pleasureful sensation. This is relevant since masochism often goes hand in hand with male humiliation, and i've found that i've transitioned from the small bondage play mindset to the heavy pain paradigm rather quickly, and stayed that way.
>> Anonymous
>>1035685

Hope that giant wall of text helped. Since I eat bees for posting that because no one's fetish is walls of text, i'm posting lots of bondage pictures if I can revive my internet. Lets start with forced feminization.
>> Anonymous
>>1035684
>>1035683

and NOW we KNOW!!!
>> Anonymous
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YES More people who like male bondage there is not enough of this!
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>> Anonymous
love the pictures, hate it in real life. My girlfriend tries it, and she loves and, and it sucks. lol
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
I like it because
A: I hate myself
B: I love sex
C: I'm not gay

Ergo anything that is sexual, involves me being hurt, and a woman, I'm in. I just like the idea of being in pain, making someone else happy (I.E. the woman doing the dirty work) and getting off.

Simple enough?
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>> halpercat
>>1035383

its just been something that ive fantasized about since i was small.
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>> Anonymous
I always tend to find the most kinkiest stuff to be the hottest as it is the exact opposite of what I consider to be normal and in good morals.

That being said, I can't get off on both maledom and femdom, but femdom being the most unusual, I end up being drawn to it more nowadays.
>> Anonymous
Here's a question...

How many of you with this fetish have had the chance to act it out or have an experience?
>> Anonymous
it's largely psychological. some people are in complete control over people in their lives and are always used to being respected and having everything done for them. In their sexual life they find it a turn off to be forced and reduced and humiliated because it is completely different.

another explanation is simply there is no real explanation.
>> Anonymous
>>1035383
The same reason women get off on it, i.e. the rest of the posts in this thread, I just wanted to point out that BDSM isn't gendered and anyone who makes it that way is wrong!
>> Anonymous
I like BDSM in general, but most of the Maledom stuff seems, overall, more misogynistic than BDSM. How can anyone like maledom with all the fat, balding, bearded, sweat-stained male performers on every single website? And Live Femdom isn't much better! The only place to see men tied up who arn't disgusting rancid ManBearPigs, frankly is hentai and gay bondage.
>> )eval
Personally, me and being submissive— I want to be teased, controlled, humiliated, and raped.

If a girl wants that she's a sex goddess, but if a boy? Apparently that's not as cool.
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
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>>1036557

There are some psychologist who argue:

IRL Dominant = sub in sex
and vice versa

while others say:
IRL Dominant = Dominant in sex
and vice versa

I think both are a load of crap and too general.

>>1036562
That is true

>>1035683
I don't think that something like that can be "just because", it's either genes, conditioning (either cultural or by association) or a sign of deeper psychological "issues".
>> Anonymous
they like the thrill of NOT being in control, not knowing whats going to happen, theres a freshness and thrill in being out of your element
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
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>>1036569

>I like BDSM in general, but most of the Maledom stuff seems, overall, more misogynistic than BDSM

>than BDSM

I think you mean FemDom since otherwise your post wouldn't make sense since MaleDom, just like FemDom, ist just a sub-category of BDSM.

Anyway, you could just aswell say that FemDom is inherently misandristic since essentialy the same stuff happens just with swapped genders.

However, if you ask me if I hate or devalue women because I enjoy MaleDom very much I would've to negate. In fact I consider myself an egalitarist in gender-matters.


If you want real-life BDSM with rather good-looking actors search for videos from "Sexual Submission".
>> Anonymous
>>1036587
No, I mean that, to me, it appears that Maledom porn is more concerned with degrading woman than with BDSM. Femdom just doesn't have the same vibe, if anything the focus is still on the woman pleasuring the man, a dominatrix sucking dick dosn't make much sense, unless the guy has a phobia of oral sex or something (which I do, but that's beside the point!).

>>However, if you ask me if I hate or devalue women because I enjoy MaleDom very much I would've to negate. In fact I consider myself an egalitarist in gender-matters.
Well then your obviously not the type of person most MaleDom sites are aimed at!
>> Anonymous
>>1035802
Loli femdom is the best!
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
>>1036623

>No, I mean that, to me, it appears that Maledom porn is more concerned with degrading woman than with BDSM.

Erotical humiliation is an integral part of BDSM, gender doesn't matter.

Don't try to tell me that a Queen fucking two "studs" while her effeminate tied-up boyfriend is forced to watch isn't about humilation.

What about forced feminization?
Only being allowed to move on all fours?
Being a living cushion?


>Femdom just doesn't have the same vibe, if anything the focus is still on the woman pleasuring the man[...]

In the FemDom scenarios were this is the case it's just about pronouncing the power over the sub: "I am the Goddess of your sexual gratification. You better beg!"

>Well then your obviously not the type of person most MaleDom sites are aimed at!

For some people misogynism is part of the fantasy, don't take it to seriously.
>> Anonymous
>>1036647
maybe it's because Maledom is aimed at tops, while femdom is bottoms, but the guys just seem, I dunno, meaner about it, they're always detached and clinical, they even still have their clothes on, it's like it's not about sex for them! The Dominatrices on the other hand are always really into it, sometimes too into it, but when that happens it's clear that they're just acting.
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
>>1036657

Only thing I can retort is that I don't perceive things like you do.

BDSM is always about acting but also about just showing that bit of your dark side. Women do this aswell as men.

>[...]they're always detached and clinical[...]

If you act cold and detached than this just pronounces that you're in total control.

>[...]they even still have their clothes on[...]

Humiliation is greater if you're naked before a well clad person.

But let me ask a question you seem to dislike MaleDom but why do you even watch MaleDom videos? I don't get it.
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>>1035383
Hmm...
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
>>1036681
BTW, does anybody know from which of Carnelian's eroges OP's pic is?
>> Anonymous
>>1035383
im hard when i imagine standing/sitting/kneeling/whatever and fapping next to a animu girl busting another guy's balls
>> Anonymous
>>1036665
I like BDSM, and I generally like the female form. Although I've got some bi tendencies(as does everyone), so I'll settle for feminine guys.
>> Anonymous
>>1036587
>>1036159

I think my eyes fell out at these (in a good way)

Out of interest, how many people into FemDom are into SS, too? I used to be but it wasn't really Straight Shota, just... young males. 13-16 or thereabouts. Gave it up as part of a "be more normal" campaign which has been pretty successful so far - I consider over-age /d/ material my permitted fetish(es).
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>>1036824
I was actually into SS before I was into femdom, although my favorite SS had always been where the boy is "forcefully seduced" by the woman. (This was probably my gateway fetish into femdom.) When I started acting on my sexual interests at ~12-years-old, I wished I had discovered the pleasures sooner, so straight sex with boys younger than myself were a bit turn-on, especially if the girls were in their teen years (15-17) just a few years older than myself.

I still fantasize about myself as a younger boy having sex with older girls (not usually full-grown women), but I've acted out on the desire to be dominated by a woman. My girlfriend and I have been switching roles in BDSM play and have taken turns pulling the other around by a leash at themed parties (i.e. Halloween, Fetish Ball). I just love accepting stimulation and pleasure, and I love dishing it out. I've been very lucky to find a lover who is about as perverted as myself as well as a good partner outside of the bedroom.
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although it may sound somewhat ironic, one of the main reasons for my fondness of not being in control is that it makes me free: i have no way to influence what is going on which means that i have no responsibility whatsoever. my ever-busy conscience is allowed to rest and i can fully enjoy what is going on. plus, as about every other post in this thread said, it makes me horny for no apparent reason.
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>>1035383
It's like any other fetish: if you need it to be explained, chances are you won't get it anyway
>> Anonymous
>>1035383

its hot
>> Anonymous
>>1036916
Seeing how it's been explained multiple times in this thread, that's just an excuse for people who don't want to think too hard.
>> Anonymous
>>1036824
I like Straight(or not) Shota, but not when it's combined with a BBW fetish like alot of the mangas are. Too bad all the live porn featuring "boys" is either gay or mature.
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I let my girlfriend dress me up in girls clothes and have sucked cocks and gotten fucked by men for her while she watches because I love her and that's what makes her happy. She says she wouldn't be able to ever love a man who wouldn't be her sissy on demand. What we have is true love and I would do anything for her.
>> Anonymous
>>1036990
Net time she should take pics!
>> Anonymous
>>1036990
I wish I had a gf/wife like that. Only I wouldn't (s/f)uck another guy.
>> Anonymous
>>1037015
Male G-Spot!
>> Anonymous
>>1037022
Guy you quoted here.

What?
>> Anonymous
faggots. If you suck cock you are gay, and shouldn't be with her, and if your woman can't like you being what you are supposed to be she can fuck off too.
>> Anonymous
>>1037029

Gay, straight, it's all meaningless when you're in love. I love pleasing her and I love being a sissy. It feels natural to me.
>> Anonymous
>>1037030
I wish I was you without the getting fucked and sucking dick.

I would get strap-on fucked though. Can you post pics of your girlfriend? Is she a hot mistress or a fatty?
>> Anonymous
>>1037027
The pleasure from a male orgasm comes from the prostate, it just so happens that the prostate can be stimulated by a phallic object in the male ass-hole. For women, Anal Sex stimulates the back of the vaginal wall.
>> Anonymous
>>1037041
I know about the prostate and all that. I've tried to do it to myself but it's too much fucking effort.

Also, dildos were made for things of this nature. So straight guys could get fucked by woman.
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>>1035383
Because Some aggressive women are hot.
I prefer low pain porn/hentai myself
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Some sex acts are dangerous.
Sky Diving Sex,
Sex on an anthill and this.
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What is this from?
I don't understand why a girl would go to all the trouble to torture a guy, then give him a tit-fuck.
>> Anonymous
>>1036901

I want more of this. Name?
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I wouldn't mind being a prisoner here.
I get nice refreshments
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>>1037088
Pleasure can be as torturous as pain, as the logic goes.

Some women like to tease.
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>>1036696
>>1035383

Messiah.
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
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>>1036990

Okay, I'm not a relationship therapist but hear what I have to say nonetheless:

Have you ever went into yourself and seriously asked yourself if she actually loves you like you do her?

That you're not just a toy she'll throw away when she becomes bored of it?

Because it seriously sounds like it, to me.

Yes, sex is nice and all, even better if the partners fulfill eachothers fantasies but you can't build a working love relationship on it.
>> Yaoi Warning Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
>>1037158

Since I loaded it now I might just *warn* other people that, while the chap is getting dominated, it's by a man, most of the time.
>> eidolon !BtKVsIU6mQ
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>>1037088

I know it's Mion (or more probably Shion) from Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, but I don't know what set it's from.
>> Anonymous
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I cannot get female humiliation, yet that's what 99.5 of mainstream het porn and hentai is.

Sometimes a change is as good as a holiday.
>> Prince (The Faggot Formerly Known As Musicfag)
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>>1037391

While not correct examples the mindset is important.
>> Anonymous
when you learn how to love a woman you become a boy toy.
>> Anonymous
>>1037391
and a cat is fine too
>> Anonymous
>>1035383
I don't get feet. Care to explain that one?
>> J3wboi !zion2XlhYw!!Uup
>>1037501

No, you can go to Wikipedia just like everyone else.
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>>1037391
Sauce?

I think this one also belongs to this set.
>> Anonymous
>>1037391
>>1037502
don't want that shit on my browser nigger
>> Anonymous
For me, my attraction to femdom is mostly based on the concept of reversing the trend of "girls choosing a partner by hoping they get hit on by a guy they want".

It's not about humiliation or loss of physical control, it's about girls taking equal reign in a potential relationship, mostly because I'm really not interested in the concept of having to put myself out there and basically play out to the expectations most girls seem to have, which frequently leads to the toxic one-sided relationships we all know and despise.

tl;dr, relationships are inherently maledom in US society and femdom can be seen as a comforting balance.
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>>1036990
I can understand your girlfriend wanting you to be a sissy for her, but I cannot understand how your girlfriend would want you to have sex with another person (boy or girl). I'd be too worried that you might like their sex better or something. That's more or less why I'm skeptical about getting a strap-on for my boyfriend. I'm afraid he'll like getting pleasured anally more than fucking me. Maybe he'd like it so much that if I didn't do it enough for him that he'd go gay on me or something. I don't know if I'm overreacting but it seems plausible... I'd just like the best of both worlds, to reach the best means of pleasure for either of us.

P.S. Have some fem dom.
>> Anonymous
It's nice to let the girl take on the burden of starting a sexual advance. When you make a move on a girl, you have to ask "does she want this". But when a girl makes a move on you, you can just sit back and enjoy it.
>> Anonymous
>>1036901
sauce?
>> Anonymous
>>1038653
Artist is Po-Ju. Not sure the name of the manga, but I once found a website that had sources for all of Po-Ju's stuff. So try Google.
>> )eval
>>1038631
It's important to remember, that it's still you and him having sex. Just because you're trying a new way, doesn't mean he's going to skip out on you. That's something entirely different.

And if he does like being pleasured anally too much, maybe you just need to handcuff him to something and show him what you can do ;) :P
>> Anonymous
>>1036569
SECONDED

why the fuck isn't there more femdom porn with cute skinny guys. Too much fat middle aged men.

Of course the dream would be some true feminization porn with a hot trap
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>>1036879
You sir are my hero.
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>>1035383

I'm no therapist or anything, but here is how I rationalize it. I am such a dick to everyone in my normal ever day life, and I am always placed in a position where I am either forced or asked to lead. Although I personally am not a control freak I assume that I like the sort of "freedom" that I get from the woman being in control.
But then again I also kinda suffer from multiple mental disorders (social anxiety, anti social behavior, ect.) so sometimes I just wanna grab the chick and be in total control and do some shit like this. Yea... this would be the first time I openly admit this also.
>> Anonymous
>>1035827
Shut up. Get out.
>> Shadow
>>1035827
You lose. And what's more, you've told /d/ about your loss. Masochist.
>> Anonymous
Whats hot about it is it's nice to finally see a girl make a decision about something. And yea, this is also the firsted time I have told anybody about this, ever!
>> Shadow
>>1038863
Indeed, I adore assertive women.

The passive ones simply annoy me--no matter how attractive her body is, I'm simply not interested unless she has a useful personality. (Intelligent, assertive, creative, etc.)
>> 7eAL !!tllRoBnU1Sb
It eventually become boring when one is always the person initiating things.

There are only so many ways to get the other into the mood, after all. If the other person gets started first, that problem just about disappears.