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Anonymous
I got into the whole role reversal/pegging from first being facinated by DG pics. I had experimented with anal play prior with just a finger and then later a small (3 inch) pocket dildo because i had heard about prostrate stimulation to be the best orgasm a man could have. Which then evolved into cross-dressing and more DG emulation. Later, i met my wife who was very submissive and liked the tying up, but it was never quite as gratifying for me as it was her, plus i had to hide my fetish...so i finally confessed my addiction to anal play and x-dressing and it really turned her on simply for the fact that she could be dominant and make me squirm and make noises and thus play me like an instrument. Now, I am an anal 'pro' and can take a 12 inch long, 2" diameter wide dildo (granted, it takes working up to and makes me cum in about 10 seconds) and she loves grabbing my arms behind me and using them to thrust into me. Its the greatest bliss in the world.
All in all it think its about finding what each partner can get out of it. The X-dressing thing doesnt really do it for her cus she doesnt like women (pity, yes); however, if it makes me wimper and moan when she toys with me, she doesnt care. A large part of it is trust. We were together for about a year before i confessed; by which point we already knew we were going to be together. Younger relationships it may be a bit harder. If you really want to meet the freaks, look on various kink sites and find the nearby fetish clubs. Alot of them are safe and controlled places to meet people of similar interests, plus a lot of the people in those circles are more open minded to sharing thier partners or arranging private meetings.
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