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Anonymous
>>1143007 I wrote a mini-essay on this a little while back. I think the best thing that you could do in this case, is to think about why you have this fetish. I spilled my story about a week ago (older brother abusing me, etc. etc.) and I have found that to be my psychological root of my fetish. Armed with this information, I was able to discern many things about how I feel about it, interact with it, and so forth.
In a nutshell, when (not if... you'll not always clean everything up perfectly and hide everything perfectly) he finds out, you'll want hard evidence and information behind it. People respond well to information, as long as you don't drown him in it. Write it down, think about your history, your personality, everything. So that way, when he asks "Why?" You have a solid answer for him.
Don't wish that you could wish it away. For me at least, that led to extremely depressing and sometimes suicidal thoughts. "How could anyone love me if they knew about this?" etc. You have to understand yourself and be at peace with yourself. I know it sounds zen and stupid, but it's the truth.
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