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Anonymous
The problem with asking a question like this is that it's an incredibly subjective thing. It really depends on the woman, and there's no way you're going to be able to figure out how every woman thinks individually. A lot of sluts ARE abuse survivors or otherwise mentally and emotionally fuxxored, but many are not and simply like comitment-free sex and/or the freedom of slutiness. I think a big factor, though, is the respect issue. People respect guys who get laid a lot, but disrespect women who do the same-even during the act itself. No one likes to be disrespected, and a lot of girls who are potentially slutty get turned off by this.
The other factor is, of course, pregnancy, which is the big equalizer here since all women reguardless of background have to worry about it (well, not ALL women, since a number of women can't have kids for whatever reason, but the large majority.)
Personally, I think the idea that any woman who likes casual sex must have mental problems to be as insulting as it must be for a guy to hear that he "only thinks with his dick." In both cases, it may be true in many instances, but it's not a universal rule.
Oh, and finally, I don't think any woman is so without scruples that she'd fuck "anyone clean." Would you fuck a fat ugly 90 year skank with yellow teeth and leg hair if you were positive she was free of diseases? Yeah, that's what I thought. Everyone has standards, even sluts.
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