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That whipping sensation... Anonymous
I'm someone with no real experience with any sort of BDSM activities. Yet, I keep having these fantasies where, for example, I'm stripped naked, my hands tied to a post above my head by the wrists, and then whipped/flogged/caned in some sort of punishment ritual. The force of the lashes hurts me enough to make me moan/whimper/yell with each impact. Then, afterwards, I'm released and somebody takes care of my wounds while I'm all teary-eyed. Not crying, but shedding tears nevertheless. I cum to this fantasy real hard.

But how is it in real life? What do real whiplashes feel like on the bare skin? And how long can one take such treatment?
>> Anonymous
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In my experience, real pain is not erotic, no matter how much you fantasize about it (and if you're like me, that's all the time). Light to moderate pain can be quite enjoyable, however. The best kind is just barely outside your comfort zone.

There's a continuous and pointless debate in the BDSM community about "thuddy" vs. "stingy" pain. An example of the former would be the paddle, while an example of the latter would be the cane. Different people have different preferences.

A single tail is the closest thing to a whip you might actually feel. But only seriously hardcore masochists can handle full-on whipping (that will draw blood). Most people can only take a light flicking with it. It's a very sharp, very stingy pain that lasts quite a while after it hits. The cane is somewhat comparable.

Floggers tend to be more thuddy, but with a bit of sting. The intensity of the sensation varies quite a bit depending on the material, the weight of the flogger, and the strength and sadism of the person doing the flogging. Rubber floggers are notoriously viscious.

The most important thing about impact play is a warm up. If your Dom start out with hard strikes, you won't last very long. There has to be a slow and gradual build up, so the endorphins get flowing. If you manage to get into "subspace", you can take quite a beating for quite a while, but not many people actually get there.
>> Anonymous
It depends a great deal on what you are being hit with. My switch who has more expriance than I do says real whips are a bad idea esp. For people that are new, they do real damage and take a lot.of practice to use. Most commen tools are floggers and paddles in there many forms, for ex. A few pair of shoe laces folded in half and knoted work well or a good ruler for a paddle..

Now for being hit start light it will take a few smacks for the sweet sting to take affect, it is adviseable to not taunt the dom at this point because the slow start is for your benefit.

Also in case you are redused to tears make sure you have a good dom there to hold you and make you feel better. Because that sexual high you are getting can be emotionaly and phycologicly damaging.

I will camp this thread if any one has questions.

Love anon~
>> Anonymous
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I don't see where it would be psychologically damaging, unless you were ashamed of it for some reason.
>> Anonymous
>>ashamed of it

I've actually experienced that. Bad fucking times.
>> Deez_Nutz
Being flogged can make you cry out with every lash, even with a flogger that's heavy leather with thick tails. I love being flogged with 'thuddy' floggers because it feels like a shiatsu massage, but much sexier! However, after a while, the sensation 'hurts' a little more, giving rise to the 'UNF' noise every time you're hit. It's a sexy way to fulfill your fetish without really hurting yourself. Good luck!
>> Anonymous
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you dont see how?i ended up beating up my dom...still dont forgive myself for it...
>> Anonymous
I'm not sure if a "good dom" is supposed to help you... or to tease you and continue anyway...

I always just kinda went into a blissful submissive state when my girl used to whip me with my belt. She was always amazed how easily inflicting almost any pain on me got me so hard.
>> Anonymous
A good dom - excuse me, "Dom" - is supposed to provide you with emotional support if the play takes you into a place where you end up crying. Sometimes the play can release emotions in you like that, sometimes (if you play heavy like I do) you end up crying just cuz it frikken hurts so much, sometimes you might end up crying and never know why. I've been through all three, but only about one play session out of ten or so. But as I said, my Dom and I play pretty hard.

Also, whips rarely leave wounds that need tending, unless you're playing REALLY HARD. Even I don't go there, I just end up with welts and "only" nearly-broken skin. Singletails really, really hurt, too - go with a flogger.