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Anonymous
I'm femalenot in a relationship currently, but when I was, I was on the submissive/masochistic side of the spectrum.
The first thing you are going to want to do is decide on a safewordif either party says this word, you stop what's going on and talk about things, or just stop altogether. It's important for either party to be able to stop things whenever they need to. She can say it if things go too far for herbut you can also say it, if you feel uncomfortable with something that you're doing.
Masochism and submission don't always go together, but they usually do. So I agree with the comment about "forced" blowjobsthings like that can be very arousing. Other very light ways for you to start out:
-Buy some clip-on earrings (your best bet is a tween store like Claire's). Get a pair of dangly earrings and clip them on her nipples. They're cute, and they don't really hurt, so you shouldn't feel too bad. But they do pinch a bit, and the "dangly" bits on the end pull and swing in interesting ways. There's also an element of submission with someone clipping/clamping things to your nipples that is very arousing. (Also, you don't have to go into a fetish shop to buy them.)
-If she is submissive/masochistic, there's a high probability that she would enjoy humiliation. This can also be super lightas simple as having her undress for you with the light on, or you undressing her with commentary. You can also try a collar/leash (a cloth or leather dog collar works great; they're cheap at walmart) if she's calling you Master, that's something she would enjoy.
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