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Anonymous
Does it hurt? Depends on the situation. If the girl is nervous/self-consious, she's more likely to tense up her vaginal muscles and make the initial thrust hurt more. Not only does the hymen tear, but it does so with more force because the guy has to thrust harder to get it in. If the guy has absolutly no technique and just sticks it in to the hilt with the first thrust, it's likely to hurt because...well, try taking a cucumber and jamming it in an orifice without warning or consideration for your own flesh.
It doesn't have to hurt a lot - assuming you take some time after breaking the hymen, the pain will fade after a while. The key is to remember to slow down, expiriment, and use lots and lots of foreplay. When *she* wants *you* NOW, it should be okay, as long as you take it easy in the beginning.
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