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Sub, dom, or switch, /d/?

I am most definitely sub (every once in a while I fantasize about being a dom, but I do feel like it's enough to call myself a switch).
>> Anonymous
switch so hard
dom most of the time
>> Anonymous
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Sub, feels better for me
>> Anonymous
>>1131279

Man, that's pedo-tastic. Also, what's with the amount of "tell us about yourself" threads lately? Seems like there've been more than usual.
>> Anonymous
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Sub
>> Anonymous
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Sub.
>> Anonymous
dom. I feel embarassed if I'm in a sub position. Don't mind fighting for it though~
>> Anonymous
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switch
>> Anonymous
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Sub
>> Anonymous
ITT: Subs
>> Anonymous
Dom almost all of the time.

Used to think I was a sub, but then I realized that even when being pegged up the ass or tied up, I still give my partner a lot of directions.
>> Anonymous
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Dom.
>> Anonymous
>>1131331
moar eureathra insertion!
>> Anonymous
Switch, prefer to be dom
>> Anonymous
im a bitchy whiney sub/calm collected dom

so switch
>> Anonymous
>>1131389
>>1131331
sorry i don't have any
>> Anonymous
Dom all the way.
>> Anonymous
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Usually sub but dom feels kinda good too. I almost come when he promises to be a good boy.
>> Anonymous
Sub 'til i got disgusted with it. Shame made me dom! How 'bout that?
>> Anonymous
Switch. Dominating isn't my thing, but I love seeing women dominated so I'm more than willing to do it, but I'm really a sub.
>> Anonymous
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Dom.

I've though about being a sub to a girl, but then I realized that she probably wouldn't act how I wanted her too and be dissapointed.

I've tried it before and felt ridiculous.

Being a dom, on the other hand, is more work, but feels awesome. I love tying girls up
>> Anonymous
>>1131520
You took the words right out of my mouth
>> Anonymous
Sexually submissive
Otherwise Dominant
I guess i'm a switch
>> Anonymous
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>>1131526

I had a feeling I wasn't the only one...
>> Anonymous
Sub, like almost everyone else ITT.

It's so hard to find a good Dom.
>> Anonymous
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Sub, especially crossdressing/forced fem.
>> Anonymous
Dom. Doing anything sub like would seem wrong to me.
>> Anonymous
>>1131620
This, though I've been known to dom at times.
>> Anonymous
>>1131622
Also male and very calm and apathetic irl

>>1131527
That is not the meaning of the term "switch."
>> Suichiro !KingLeNyuo!!u8W
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Absolutely switch. That's where the 'suichi' in Suichiro comes from.
>> Anonymous
Switch, I find it hot to tie someone up/etc, but also find it hot to be tied up/etc.
>> Anonymous
Middle.
>> Anonymous
>>1131643
Assuming you're who I think you are, that doesn't surprise me
>> Anonymous
Switch. I prefer to dom, but I also enjoy getting bound.
>> Anonymous
Totally sub, see>>1131737
>> Anonymous
Dom, never even thought about switching for a second.
>> Anonymous
>>1131367

Same. Top from the bottom. Switch in terms of positions and kinks, but dom in terms of control.
>> Anonymous
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Dom
>> Anonymous
Dom, but I'm not very forceful.
She doesn't respond, so I get a lot of frustration most of the time.
>> Anonymous
>>1131292
Well, /d/ coming together as a community isn't a bad thing, I would think.
>> Anonymous
Dom here, I'd give my left nut for a good sub, not just a chick who likes being tied up once in awhile.
>> waffle goes in every field in every field
sub, im into pet people alot
>> Anonymous
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>>1131775

Dom Funf is better!
>> Anonymous
>>1131789

It's all fun and games until someone gets raped.
>> Anonymous
>>1131910
Actually, that's when the fun and games start.
>> Anonymous
bi male (lol gay) dom, though i fantasize about being a sub occassionally. never done anything bdsm-esque in real life and being a dom seems difficult, but i'm imagining the satisfaction and overall feeling is better as a dom.
>> BondageKitten
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Sub.. Meow
>> Anonymous
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26/m/Dom
>> Anonymous
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20/m/switch

the best doms sub first, it gives you a feel for what a sub wants and need.

plus strong girls turn me on like nothing else.

i still havent found one that i dont have to ask to dom me. it be great for a girl just to slip ome hand cuffs on and say my turn :).

on the other hand theres nothing quite like have a girl walk around with a wireless vibrator, or blind folded and tied down as i torment her until she begs for whatever it is that im denying her.

decisions decisions
>> Anonymous
Sub. Something feels better about being sub
Dont know what, but it does.
>> Anonymous
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sub
>> Anonymous
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Switch.

I tend to be more sub but mainly out of laziness. When you're domming you have to think up new situations to keep up the illusion of domming.
>> Anonymous
Fantasise like mad about being a sub girl.

Though in my current relationship, dom.

SO i guess im just confused.
>> Anonymous
>>1132055
Want to have an online dom?
>> Anonymous
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>>1132055
>>1132067

How about a Rick Dom (II)?
>> Anonymous
switch

the best of both is always a good position to have, no?
>> Anonymous
>>1132068
*fapfapfap*
>> Anonymous
Dom.
I don't mind switching if she digs that, and the whole 'fighting over who's domming' thing's been a fantasy of mine for a while, but I dig domming most.

Something about making a girl-especially a shy or normally hardassed girl-get in touch with her sexuality like that really does it for me. Like, having a partner become comfortable enough to make up her own fantasies instead of just relying on me to be the creative one? Yeah.
>> Anonymous
21/m/switch
my gf is mainly sub though

>>1131910
She asked me to rape her.
>> Anonymous
>>1132068

To you sir i award 10000 internets.
>> Anonymous
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Switch.

But I'd say it's more 60/40, dom/sub
>> Anonymous
I've never had the pleasure, but I can't imagine myself being anything but a dom. I've had a fetish for tying girls up since I was too young to understand what a fetish was.
>> Anonymous
>>1132097
then that isn't actually rape...

any very sub, though the do thing kind of does interest me I tried being dom, before and I just can't do it, so I am not a switch
>> Anonymous
28/m dom

have live-in sub
>> Anonymous
Dom, giving is too much fun
>> Anonymous
>>1132202
Oh, and male
>> Anonymous
23/m/sub

i couldnt see fun in forcing a girl into anything.

i was (still am i guess) too much of a goody-goody, and so over time, i could ONLY fantasize about sexual stuff, IF the girl was the one who started everything... which later lead me down the path of wanting top be more and more of a sub.

all my past GFs wanted me dom, and literally dumped me when i wasnt being "dom enough".

ive given up on the idea, but still fantasize about it.
>> Anonymous
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>>1132055
I find it really sad when a sub ends up as a dom in a relationship, as that usually means the partner is submissive (or so much of a pussy) that they can't even try switching to satisfy their partner. It's like seeing a house pet take charge and responsibility of the household because the owners are unable to.
>> Anonymous
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>>1132095
So you basically like active subs, as opposed to passive subs? You'll actually add a lot of depth to the description of your orientation or preferred orientation in a partner by simply adding the word "passive" or "active". For some, a sub who only obeys you completely and never acts without orders is more appealing, while for others, a sub who is either a little rebellious or who constantly thinks of new ways to serve their master is more appealing.
>> Anonymous
What the hell, a lot of you are able to find girls into this BDSM shit?? All of my ex-girlfriends were disgusted at the idea of bondage.
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>>1132292
I can understand that not everyone are into hardcore BDSM, but bondage is pretty vanilla. What kinda girls are you dating? Catholics?
>> Anonymous
I'm a sub and a sammie most of the time but I do have a puppy boi I top from time to time.
>> Anonymous
Love going switch, but predominately dom just because very few girls I've met can dom well.
>> Anonymous
>>1132294

Probably protestants rather than catholics.

male/23/ most likely sub, though I wouldn't mind dom. I think it would be interesting to find a girl who would try to tame my strong personality.
>> (anon)
nice subject over all.. but i has question:

i've heard that all (good) doms started as subs, right? did they have to be a sub in the bedroom (or dungeon) or just in general?
my reason for asking? all my life (atleast since i was about 4) ive been bossed around by just about everyone. i was always bullied (your standard mini-fag), did what others said, and never complained.. im still kinda like that now but i keep getting the idea that i deserve to boss someone else around, kinda like enforcing karma, you know? if i ever got started in the BDSM world, should i still start off as a sub?
and my biggest question: do i have a official problem here or am i just being a fag about it?
>> Anonymous
>>1132367

It's not, like, a requirement or anything. Having experience as a submissive just means you have a better sense of what your sub is going through and feeling. You can still be a good dom without having ever subbed.
>> Anonymous
>>1132023
Any nice stories to share?
>> Anonymous
Sexually, a switch. I get off easier on playing sub, but most females either don't dom or suck at it, so I'm usually dominant by default.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm 100% dom, to the point of seeking a slave.
>> Anonymous
>>1132302
I'm a catholic and I everyone else I know that's catholic is into BDSM : (. Only christian people who I'm pretty sure aren't into it are mormons and jehova's witnesses. Though they hide it well if they do... Now I kind of want to find out... >:3
>> Anonymous
I'm such a switch for virgins... If they want to try anything on me I'll oblige and compliment how good they are or if they want something done to them I'll indulge in their fantasy as best I can. That's more submissive though since I'm submitting to her will isn't it?
>> Anonymous
Catholic Dom here, one time my now ex-GF was sleeping on my bed. I began to tie her down ever so slowly as not to wake her. Unfortunately she woke up about halfway through. When she realized what I was doing she said "Aren't you going to finish tieing me up?".

Needless to say fun times were had that night.
>> Anonymous
Switch perfer sub
>> Anonymous
Dom and Top. I'll switch some of the time, but only to bottom. Not a submissive bone in my body.

Also, I have a buddy who says her BDSM desires never clashed with her Catholic upbringing. :) Raise 'em Catholic!
>> Anonymous
Dom. All of you needy cumdumpsters and fucktoys in need of a firm and experienced master to put you in your place and make you enjoy every second of it, feel free to contact me.
>> Agrias !Oaks5IX1XI
Dom. Switching doesn't really work for me.
>> Anonymous
I am sub like Red October.
>> Anonymous
>>1133058
I like you, Agrias, because you have the balls (or do you?) to post as your tripfag self regardless of where you are.
>> Anonymous
>>1133068
Oh, also: Dominate me, baby.
>> Anonymous
>>1132734
My own clone! Now neither of us will be virgins!
>> Anonymous
switch, but like 90% sub, 10% dom
>> Chao !!eFZ1anCCqZ2
Male Sub.
>> Agrias !Oaks5IX1XI
>>1133075
>>1133068
Bend over.
>> Anonymous
people don't realize that in a safe scene the sub is in charge.

If you are a dom just to treat people badly, go die now.

The sub is a sub by choice.
The dom is a dom to care for and bring out the sub.

Anyone who thinks the sub is a victim and the dom is cruel knows nothing.
>> Astro
18/f/dom
>> Anonymous
>>1133196
gb2/co/, Astro
>> Anonymous
>>1133194
But there's also "topping from the bottom" which is a huge annoyance.

The dom is in charge of the fantasy. The sub is in charge of the *existence* of the fantasy. I've found that to be a healthy rule of thumb
>> Anonymous
Sub, though the thought that I like that makes me feel like a bitch.
>> Anonymous
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>>1133194
see
>>1132240

Some doms like caring for their subs, while others like being cared for by their subs. None of these preferences are right or wrong.

>>1133228
It might work for some. If the sub starts doing it when the dom doesn't want them to, it can be annoying, but if both are okay with it, there's no reason it cannot work.
>> ???????????????????????????­­Anonymous????????????
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20/n/Dom

Into humiliation and degradation particularly. I like girls who kneel, crawl, wear collars, and do as they're told.

It's hard to find a devoted sub wo isn't a neurotic wreck though.
>> ???????????????????????????­­Anonymous????????????
>>1133287

I meant 20/m/Dom
>> Anonymous
Switch, I can be anything as long as my partner is getting off.

I've also found that this extends to all porn, I can enjoy anything as long as the girl is getting off.
>> Anonymous
19/f/switch

it gets too boring being in one position all the time. let someone take over, then take your revenge and really relish in it.
>> Anonymous
Sub, especially humiliation and degradation. I wanna be pushed to my knees and called a whore. :O
>> Anonymous
Sub-switch

Actually I make for a very bad switch all things considered. I always feel very bad for hurting people but pretty much want to get hurt myself.

I think I need some really mean girlfriend that I want to do a little damage to.
>> Anonymous
>>1132054
anyone got a source for this?
>> Ryu Gabriev
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hehe 25/m/Dom all the way. Tried thinking as a sub but didn't work out.
>> Anonymous
Switch with a dom tendency. Depends on the mood.
>> Anonymous
Mostly Sub, but I'll switch a bit depending on my girl. I give just as hard as I take. ^_^
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>>1131775
Does Rick Dom count as a Rickroll? o.0
>> Anonymous
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>>1133634

Rick Dom does not appreciate you mistaking a Dom for it.

Prepare to be bazooka'd.
>> Anonymous
Mainly Dom (23/m)

I subbed once for a girl who was really good at it. One of the best things I had, but like most people say, good female doms are rare.
>> Prototype Dom
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There are female Doms? pix plz
>> Bish
18/m bi sub. extremely good looking bish type.

any interested doms should email me at g3hcncj7dh@sxipper.net
>> Anonymous
In this thread, assholes who think they are doms. Specifically, those who post images that don't belong on /d/. Being an asshole does not make you a dom.
>> Anonymous
Very very submissive, i'm very submissive male, which of all the things to be is the worst of all cause there are so few female doms.
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>>1133645

In this world, is the destiny of mankind controlled by some transcendental entity or law? Is it like the hand of God hovering above? At least it is true that man has no control; even over his own will.
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>>1132294
i'm currently playing with a girl who studies catholic theology... she's sub all the way and enjoys pain... wake up, this is 2008 not 1960!
>> Anonymous
>>1133194
Don't be such an absolutist. Yeah, there is and should be safe words to stop a fantasy if it goes too far or if something goes wrong, but that doesn't mean that the sub is completely in charge. You can be aggressive while still going, 'Oh, gosh, baby, I'm sorry!' if you accidentally take things too far.

...course, one time that happened, and an hour later she wakes me up and gives me that pout of hers, asking if we can try that thing I almost did again.
>> Anonymous
>>1133677
I lol'd
>> Anonymous
While I like bondage hentai, hence the reason I'm in d/, I don't think I have the right to classify myself as sub or dom. I really don't have a strong desire to do much bdsm in real life except for a bit of light bondage. Honestly I just enjoy being somewhat dominate sexually, when it comes to everything else I don't mind not always being in control.
>> Anonymous
Dom, even when letting my partner "control" me, I still say what, how, when, etc. I`m definitively too control-focused.
>> Anonymous
Dom, being a sub is too boring
>> Anonymous
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Would love to sub to a nice girl, but alas, I've no one to play with.

Theoretically, I think I could also switch to a dom gear IF the girl could tell me what exactly would she like me to do.
>> Anonymous
>>1134064
I think what you mean is that you could top, rather than that you could dom.

Topping/bottoming and doming/subbing are independent, although there is a general tendency for doms to prefer to top, and for subs to prefer to bottom. General, mind you.
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>>1134030
>being somewhat dominate
Fuck, why must so many people say that? Dominate is a verb. You can't be dominate. It's like saying "I'm write" instead of "I'm a writer". It makes absolutely no sense at all!
>> Anonymous
>>1134090
NO U! I'm write, you're wrong. Just except it.
>> Anonymous
im a switch.
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>>1133263
You don´t have to feel like that at all. I´ve met excellent persons that enjoy being sex toys, to say the less, and that doesn´t makes them worse, only more happy,also they have enough self-steem to know what they want. Something that makes me admire them.

Sometimes i see doms proud to be that as well, wich for me is just the same mistake, we are not special or better, we just should be grateful to have found someone that enjoy being a pet in their sex life. A dom only has the power that his sub gives him. There are less things as rewarding than a sub who has enjoyed a bdsm session.

22/m/dom i´m a nice guy so If someone wants to share some ideas, just add me:

wish986@hotmail.com
>> MOAR Anonymous
19/M/Dom, but not much of a sadist,