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Anonymous
First off though, a big portion of it is really "just because", and almost every other fetish in the universe is like that. We just happen to like them, for whatever reason, and sometimes its not explainable. From a metaphysical perspective though, you could say that being submissive frees the mind. When you are being tied up and beaten, etc, you don't have to think of all the things in life that you usually think about, and your mind is blanked out and resurfaced so to speak, with pure, simple thoughts and emotions. This sense of carelessness and freedom is achieved because in effect you are transferring your care and well-being to your 'master' who then bears that for you, while enjoying herself as well. The overpowering desire that I have when I experience events related to this fetish, is the desire to escape reality, to leave the bounds of the normal and the average and transcend to a new level of consciousness nearly, ironic perhaps to call it higher when many of its core thoughts are of a primitive nature, but never the less its doubtful those with this kind of predisposition cannot feel the electric sensation and incredible bliss.
This is exemplified even more by the simple fact that when one mode of stimulus is removed, other stimuli appear much stronger. If you can't move, even better if you can't see, things touching you, and your own thoughts, are excessively prominent in the senses than they once were, adding to the arousal.
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