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A question for the inhabitants of /cm/ Z3r02007
Since /cm/ appears to the the only board on 4chan that is capable of intelligent discussion, I have a fairly serious question that I could use some help with.

It really involves my sexuality. I am bi-sexual, or so I think. See, I mostly like anime boys. There aren't many real world men i would consider attractive. I do no want to have sex woh another male beyond spooning or possibly kissing.

Am I actually bi-sexual, or do I like effeminate anime boys too much?
>> Anonymous
You aren't bi-sexual unless you are sexually attracted to both sexes. Sounds like you're just bi-curious.

I'm a bi female, but irl I am very picky about my partners (both males and females must be very pretty and not be a dolt etc.) I like my guys to look like girls, and my girls to look pretty but tomboyish, but I am equally attracted to cock and pussy. If the thought of touching another man's cock repulses you, you are either straight, or have a branded mental hang-up which translates into repulsion (ie: same-sex relationships being wrong was constantly hammered into you so unconciously your body is saying "NO" even though your mind says "YES". This kind of imprinted sexual dysfunction is very common, sadly)

I know several lesbians who like bishounen and yaoi, but they don't like real guys sexually. Just how a lot of guys like dickgirls but are only attracted to pussy irl and people who look at shota/loli are totally repulsed by real children.
>> Z3r02007
>>118930

I have no problems with same sex relation ships, but the idea is a little disgusting to me.

I am interesting in yoai as well, but I don't like actual images of male sex.

Sounds like bi-curious seems to be the most accurate in my case...
>> Z3r02007
>>118930

Thanks, Anon. It was a confusing issue for me. You cleared it up nicly.

I think it may have been hormones kicking in again.
>> Anonymous
Yeah.. don't confuse sexual deviance with sexual orientation.

The mind is a strange thing. We can get off on the idea of doing certain things or having them done.. but when it comes to actually having it happen the idea can become repulsive.

Fantasy is different than reality.. blah blah blah blah.
>> Anonymous
>>118955
Oh and this wasn't the same person you talked to.. just so ya know.
>> Z3r02007
>>118955

Noted.

The mind has a unny way of thinking in principle, not reality.
>> ada
no, you might not actually be bisexual. i think to actually be bisexual, one ought to like having sex with both sexes. some things are very attractive to people in fantasy- stuff they masturbate to- but they would never do it in real life. like most women i know, including myself, fantasize about being raped by faceless, brutal strangers. it's hot in the imagination when you can control it, but i can safely say none of us would actually like that.

i like adolescent lolicon-type girls. very much. but in real life? hell, these are girls of the age i would babysit for or tutor... i could never do that, not in a million years, and while-- since i'm being totally honest-- i may get the occasional rise out of cp, after that initial instant it makes me totally sick. so in other words, nice idea in fantasy or image, but the real thing is another matter entirely, something i'd never do. might be the same way with you and same sex.
>> Z3r02007
>>119025

Again with the priciple and reality theory.

Reading and looking at some yoai raises ideas in my mind, but thinking about it in real life is a little disturbing. Maybe it's because I have yet to find a truly attractive man, or something.
>> Anonymous
>>118925
you sound like me(the exception being, i'm a girl). i haven't found any guys outside of anime that even seem to be worth a one night stand...i keep saying i'm bi, but i'm beginning to think i'm lesbian.
i say, go with the flow. whatever makes you happy, you know?
>> Z3r02007
>>119041

Of course.

I'm perfectly content with the idea of just simply being bi-curious. I actuall really shouldn't be thinking about any type of sex right now. I'm starting collage in a year, so I outa get out high school before I deal with my instincts.

Serouisly, thanks to all of you. It is a tough issue, and this has helped alot. Really.