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bawwww Anonymous
Alone.

How does it feel to have the soft lips of a girl on yours? To look deep into her eyes and tell her how much you love her, how she fills your heart and soul with warmth? Can you describe the rush of ecstasy, of adrenaline, that surges through you when she lets out a sweet laugh and smiles at you? If you were to ask me any one of these questions I wouldn’t be able to answer.

All my life I’ve been struck with extreme anxiety around people and because of this I’ve always been ridiculously quiet amongst even peers. As a result, I’ve hardly exercised my social skills and find it difficult to give a normal and natural response in conversation. It’s incredibly frustrating for me because I never know what to say. People find me detached and, well to be honest not the most fun person to be around. I can’t bond with others because of my lack of social skills and therefore can’t possibly hope of ever bonding with a girl and achieving an intimate relationship.

I walk along the streets and see so many young couples smiling and laughing together, eyes never parting, and it pains my heart to know that for me that beautiful kind of partnership is unachievable. I’ll never know the touch of a girl, the heavenly beauty of requited love.


Thanks for reading.
>> Anonymous
Uh... sure thing?
>> Anonymous
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Is that you, Depressedanon?
It's been a while.
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
OP

Stop being me

I think about this every day ;___;
>> Anonymous
and what the hell are u doing here?
go to a fucking psycologist or whatever
>> LargeDesuCollider
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>>784521
Hum, this is /c/, it's awwwright. Antisaging this thread.

Also, you now realize you are alone. Manually.

>>784436
We are with you in this, /c/omrade. We are alone... together.
>> Anonymous
naaaah its really boring
stick with call of duty i would
>> Anonymous
I know it sounds trite, but there *is* someone for everyone. Sounds like the main mistake you are making is you believe it can't happen, and maybe you are subconsciously making sure you are right in this notion.

Don't assume no one can be attracted to you. There are geeks and freaks and nerds and people with vast physical deformities out there getting some love and kisses. Present a positive, confident image, not obnoxious, but stop being negative...let who you are show. Don't be desperate, they can smell desperation. If you are lacking in social graces, get out among people and get some practice.

It'll happen. Or maybe not. But even if it doesn't, you'll be happier than you are now, which sounds like you are slumping around feeling bad for yourself.

Stand up, look people in the eye, smile, talk to people. Don't be fake.

Just like anorexic people defeat themselves by staring at their skeleton bodies in a mirror and seeing a fat person, don't defeat yourself by seeing yourself as not unloved, but also unlovable.

Everyone has some good qualities. Value yours. First thing you know, someone else will value them too.
>> Anonymous
relationships are overated.

DON'T GIVE IN TO THE PROPAGANDA!!

Anon 4evar!!
>> Anonymous
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3D Women are only attracted to asshole "bad boy" types.
Most women secretly have rape fantasies.
Been to /d/? Its mostly girls who post there.
Women just enjoy being treated like crap.
Nobody likes a Shy Guy
You are going to die alone, welcome to the club.
2D girls forever!
Just jerk it, man.
>> Anonymous
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>>784436
OP, your post has reached out and spoken to me. I wish you all the happiness a good heart such as your deserves.

Godspeed, Anonymous.
>> Anonymous
>>784604
Amen, brother
>> Anonymous
>>784436

I'm pretty much the same way. Though, for some reason, I'm able to express myself better while online.
>> KZN
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>>784436
>>784450
>>784563
>>784570
>>784610
>>784617
I hereby officially invite you guys to come join us on IRC:

#ronery-anons on irc.Rizon.net
You aren't alone in your loneliness.

Come hang out, talk. Share your sorrows and stories with us and we'll be glad to listen. :3
>> Anonymous
>>Been to /d/? Its mostly girls who post there.

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

Actually, the girls are on /cm/ and /y/
>> Anonymous
>>784604

1. Women are attracted to confidence, it just happens to be that most assholes are confident. It shows that you don't care what other people think of you.

2. Most women DO secretly have rape fantasies. Women are attracted to power, and nothing says power like pinning them down and taking what you want.

3. I believe you.

4. Women may like asshole types, but they DO NOT enjoy being treated like crap. True allot of women can't see what a shitbagger guy they have, but most of these guys are manipulative enough to make them think there being treated nicely. Even though there not.

5. Some women are attracted to shy people. It's just a minority.
>> Anonymous
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And this, my fellow anons, is why I'm such a fucking crybaby IRL.

I've had a girlfriend before, but I never truly loved her. She was rude, unattractive, and evasive. I still say hello to her when I see her in the halls, but she just runs away.

Thanks to my Asperger's, I fail at interacting with women, which pretty much kills my chances of getting laid. Ever.

I'm also bisexual, but I'm pretty sure I have better chances of being struck by lightning than for a guy to want to go out with me.

I need to stop fooling myself. The only pretty girls are taken, lesbian, mean, or fictional characters (see pic). I'm doomed to ugly girlfriends and roneryness forever.

/angst
>> Anonymous
>>Been to /d/? Its mostly girls who post there.

Wait a minute, I thought /d/ had dickgirls and femdom. That shit certainly isn't allowed on /h/.
>> Anonymous
I have a different ronery dilemma.

I feel as though there are two kinds of people capable of being in love:

There are some people who fall hopelessly in love. Blindly, nothing else is important anymore but the person they care about it. They'll be happy. Ignorance is bliss.

Then there are the people who will see everything for what it is. Appreciate differences, accept what they must accept and be there for each other. They will be fulfilled and happy.

And I'm somewhere in the middle. Too smart to just drop everything for an emotion, too stupid to just take things for what they are.

I'll always second guess my actions and doubt the intentions of everyone. Maybe not always, I have some hope.

I'm just a blank fucking slate emotionally.
>> Anonymous
>>784636
>Thanks to my Asperger's
stopped reading here
>> Anonymous
What you experience is the completely natural consequence of our current post-modern condition. We're past the time when communities were a vital network that ensured your livelihood and security; nowadays people are atomised into individual units of consumption, because when alone, people are more likely to follow orders and lead an unimpressive, unthreatening life while others make amounts of the country's wealth.

This is quite an assumption, but I can imagine that your parents, when asked, will tell you that life was a bit better back in the old days? Not so much in terms of the quality of their home entertainment system or the efficiency of fast food delivery services, but in a more normative and less tangible way. The truth is that before the 80s, neighbours talked, communities stood as pillars of authority for local residents and, more generally, there was a culture of solidarity and cooperation among people.

What you feel is a natural consequence of policy decisions taken in the late 1970s. People naturally need to socialise in order to function, but when the links between people are severed, and their responsibilities centralised and sold off, the natural condition of humans is grossly warped, alienating people.
>> Anonymous
I'm going to take some crap for this, but I don't really care.

OP, are you able to get to an anime convention/club in your area? I found that, in general, the kind of girls who are into anime are friendlier and easier to talk to than others. (There are always exceptions.) Be aware that many of those girls are prone to be a little off-the-cuff, by which I mean talking in non-sequiturs, having sudden jumping, squealing outbursts, and the like. I personally think it's cute, but it bothers a lot of guys.

The problem I tend to have is that girls assume that because I look at someone, I'm only interested in their breasts or buttocks, which are disgusting. The concept of being attracted to something other than naughty parts seems foreign to many girls (and, sadly, boys.)

Girls need to know that they are liked for their personality, not their sex. Actually, some don't, but those aren't the kind of girls you want.
>> Anonymous
Maybe you're just not attractive And your crappy personality just makes it worse. Be a man and get over it. No point in feeling sorry for yourself.
>> Anonymous
>>784653
Cock in your mouth.
>> Anonymous
>>784641
>Thanks to my Asperger's
>stopped reading here
Fuckin' A,
I've got no problem with Anons admitting ticks and quirks, but self-diagnosis of psychological disorders is a free ticket to the pretentio-train. Declaring bisexuality is another melodrama flag.

I reccommend you anons get ahold of a really soft pillow or something, imaginary girlfriends are awesome.
>> Anonymous
Bitches, I have MS and I still have someone who cares enough about me to give me my shots.
>> Anonymous
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1. get a body pillow
2. buy pillow cover with favorite woman
3. hump vigorously every night
4. ???
5. PROFIT!
>> Anonymous
1) Have Confidence(or atleast act like you have it)
2) Apply it to women
3) Relationship Achieved
4) ??????????
5) PROFITS
>> Anonymous
Ugh. they're just women.

They're more trouble than you think.

All the love crap only last a few months, then reality starts to sink in.
>> Anonymous
>>784668
lol growing up sure does suck

you lose your naivety
>> Anonymous
>>784668
Somebody's butthurt. Did your girlfriend dump you, poor Anon?
>> Aro !!tth/tv+hsYe
lol, unrequited is fun.
>> Anonymous
I love these threads. They're great. It makes me feel better, knowing that there are people just like me out there.
>> Anonymous
Nothing you can do about your problem if you don't face it head on. Just walk up to a friendly face and start small talk. Talk about interests and kitties or whatever. But anyway, intimate relationships really aren't that great. Try to appreciate your freedom.
>> KZN
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>>784704
Not really. ;_;
>> Anonymous
When did this thread turn into /b/?
>> Anonymous
Dude... I've been a fugly nerd, geek bitch and I have got a bagning girl. Confidence is key. Stand straight and tall. Never slouch and smile. Those things can get a girl to like you, talk to you, warm up to you, ect. Trust me, I was there, and in some cases I still am.
>> Unnewfag
feels good man.
>> Anonymous
>>784790
wut
>> Unnewfag
>>784801
Yeah, that's it...
>> Anonymous
Women sure are stupid. I mean, can you even name 10 female scientists off the top of your head? Whats a woman ever invented?
>> Anonymous
6/10.
For a moment there I thought you were serious.
>> Anonymous
Ah, oops.>>784825is referring to>>784823
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
>>784627
I'll be there.
>> Anonymous
>>784646
See quoted post for great info.

Also, why are you people speaking to him like he has a confidence dial which he can turn up? OP, this is a vicious circle and you must do something about it... I get it in my depressive periods and its a downwards spiral that gets me even worse as time goes by. Thinking about it will make it worse: take action. Even if that involves a psychologist (do try to find a smart shrink though... not easy!).
>> Anonymous
>>784629

Seriously, they have discussion threads where they talk about how they want to raped by alien monsters or be blowjob slaves for a large group of guys and shit like that

women are all whores
>> Anonymous
>>784436
go here, it really helps www.depressionforums.org
>> Anonymous
Your time will come when you stop looking and you're granted the unexpected. You've just got to be prepared for it. I never was. I'd look and no one would come. I'd give up, and someone would come and try to pierce through my now-lack of motivation, and I'd let them....Each and everyone.

Maybe that's why I have no experience with hitting on girls because it was always the girls that I went out with that started everything.

/wrist
>> Anonymous
>>784823

>Whats a woman ever invented?
credit card debt?
>> Anonymous
>>784983
haha, oh wow.

come on, people. this is /c/. what's with all the misogyny?
>> Anonymous
>>785081
>misogyny
4chan.
Courtesy sage.
>> KZN
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>>785180
Perhaps, but /c/ alone is known for it's kindness and ability to respect others.
>> Anonymous
Women are all lying when they say they want a sensitive, romantic man. all they want is a jock with a huge dick and lots of money

If you post on a board called "Anime/Cute" no woman will ever sleep with you

/thread
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
>>785312
At least here we can DREAM
>> Anonymous
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>>785312
go back to /a/
>> Anonymous
LOL, OP and all people that feel sorry for him are fat. And yes, kiss a girl is better than fried chips... enjoy your chips.
>> Viaggiatore !lDZfmmdTWM
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>>785312

It would be incredibly tragic if you weren't in high school anymore but you still had that attitude.
>> Anonymous
OP, I know how it feels.
Some events in the last 2 years or so let me realize that I will never ever hold a loving girl in my arms. It's just so sad.
>> SpoonFucker
Being unloved is a great blessing to ones who can understand it. As soon as you start draining power from yourself, all of the earthly delights will just be a passing nuisance. And no, there is no alone crap. You just can't be alone.

So once when you realize, like I did, that you are an omnipotent demigod, yet undiscovered, that your soul is immortal and godlike, earthly pleasures will automatically fade out as you seek to yourself/god. I am not pouring out bullshit. Outside world is. They want you to feel that you are a single drop in a warterfall, and not the waterfall itself. If you still consider this a pile of shit, go visit some buddhist monks in Tibet and ask them about loneliness and emotional disstatisfaction.
>> Anonymous
>>785423

What the fuck are you doing on 4chan?
>> Viaggiatore !lDZfmmdTWM
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>>785423

Oh, no. It's a scientologist.
>> Anonymous
>>784627
Can you get on IRC without actually downloading it? Help Anon, recently dumped otaku femanon is ronery... ; ;
>> Anonymous
bamp
>> Aro !!tth/tv+hsYe
>>785468
/c/ is not 4chan.

Now, I ask you, what are you doing on /c/?
>> Anonymous
Looks like the /b/tards came out and found a thread they could prey on. Saging to prevent it from continuing. Hope op finds some help in the channel or elsewhere.
>> Anonymous
>>785547
But.. this anon wants to help.. And other parts of 4chan are too mean to answer the IRC question... And it confuses me too much to download... ::Sigh::
>> Anonymous
>>785423
Wow...that's actually the first I've ever read something like that...
Whenever I hit rock bottom (which is sure to be in a few months, probably), I'll try to apply that.

As for right now, I've met a girl, who is an anime lover, vidya gamer, not really bitchy, though a bit controlling, and is at a healthy weight! I think she has a thing for me...but it could just be my incompetence reading people showing. On the other hand, she gave me her phone number... Bah, as for as I know, I could've been in the friendzone since day one...
Ah well, unless she suddenly develops a boyfriend, I'll be asking her out in a month or so...long enough so I can build up my courage.
>> Anonymous
>>785496
I think there are websites which connect you to IRC channels without downloading mIRC, but I'm not really sure how all that works. I've had mIRC forever, so I just use that.
>> Anonymous
Women are not worth even a second of bawwwing. Consider yourself lucky OP.
>> Shocklate
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I love my romance manga and anime. 80% of the series that I keep track of have some amount of romance in it. It's mostly shojo, but I will not deny a shonen or any other sort of anime if it's good and the characters are endearing and there's a hint of romance.

What's perplexing is that for some reason I can't fathom real relationships disgust me. I've been asked out by guys and I told them frankly that I don't want a relationship and it's too much trouble. I just want guy friends. ( I realize many of you guys have the 'just friends' issues with girls. It must suck :/ )


Also more ronery bawwww inducing pics plz
>> Anonymous
feels good, man.
>> Anonymous
>>785566

a month or so is too long (friend zone)
ACT NOW!!!!
Really do something (ANYTHING) now

even if she is not interested you can still be a friend
(though it may be awkward)

Just Try
the sooner the better
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
>>785496
>>785556
Download ChatZilla for Firefox (If you do have FF, that is)
https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/16

Simple, easy and it works
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
Hey, OP here. Thanks everyone for your helpful comments and kind words. It’s nice to know that there are people who can completely relate.

>>784570
I’m not assuming that no one can be attracted to me; I don’t have any issues of that sort. I also believe that there must be someone out there just like me, someone to compliment my flawed self, but seeing as I have so much trouble meeting people I somehow doubt I’ll find her (anytime soon anyway). I know that confidence is the key to attracting women - no woman would want an overtly timid, wimpy guy as a real boyfriend - but if I can’t hold a conversation with her I really doubt she’d want to stick around. The only thing keeping me from getting close to people is my social anxiety and poor conversational skills (I can *not* small talk to save my life) but this is something I’m trying to combat, and hopefully I’ll slowly improve them in time.

>>784647
Actually, I just went to an anime club thing limited to fans in my city last week. The girls there were very approachable but they sure talk a lot. Their speech is very offbeat and non-sequitur, as you mention and, because I’m so used to dealing with ‘normal’ conversation, I get dumbfounded and find it even more difficult to think of how or what to respond with.
>> Anonymous
OP again. Field too long error...


In real life I’m not really depressed (though only if I think about my lonely life which I try to avoid doing... Friday nights alone can get to you sometimes). I find humour in a lot of things and live for the small things in life, like a mug of hot chocolate on a cold Winter’s day, smiling at a cute cashier when you buy something and have her smile back at you, walking home under a beautiful sunset (but then you realise that you’re walking alone and not sharing the experience with your girlfriend…). I’m not going to give up though, I’ve been trying to improve many aspects of myself over the past couple of months and I’m going to continue doing so, but it can be such a struggle too. I just can’t hope to find someone in the near future in my current state. But I’ll keep trudging along and I’ll be thinking of /c/ every step of the way.
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
>>785923
You're not alone.

But why sage your own topic?
>> Anonymous
>>785925
I dunno... I always thought that it was more polite to sage your own threads. Just a habit of mine :P
>> Morgie Mew
Dude, never give up :) You have the right attitude and, speaking as a girl, you are moving in the right direction <3
>> KZN
>>786113
Agreed!
>> Anonymous
What a lot of Anons don't realize is that girls they're interested in aren't as different as they think they are. Girls can have the bad habit of falling for whoever is kind to them, just as boys do. They can be just as scared to talk to you as you are. The point is never give up hope: there will always be someone out there who will find you cute, funny and charming just the way you are.
>> Aro !!tth/tv+hsYe
>>786349
I know for one this Anon speaks the truth.

Now I shall go drink orange juice and brush my teeth.
>> Anonymous
I've felt just like you... Until about 2 months ago, when I started dating a girl for the first time. I really love her but I know, deep inside, it's not going to last and it's not a "happy" relationship. In my case, the moments you're asking us to describe last no longer than 2 or 3 seconds, in between that it's just fear of losing her. But, uhm, back to you: Don't try to label yourself as a loser or someone who's unable to be in a relationship. I spent entire years of my life bawwwwing about it and now I see it's not that hard. Don't give up.
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
Bumping for the justice of love
>> Another Zombie.
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>>786696
Seconded.
>> Observer !!oQKgqXLXBBJ
Observer reporting in. It seems like I always peak back into 4chan at the right time to catch one of these.

Anyone think it's partially luck? Taking tally of the people that post in these threads: we've got shy people, not shy people, fat people, skinny people, all sorts of folk that are alone.

Btw, anons, try and seek out a friend of the opposite sex to talk to about this sort of thing. Although you have to worry about people being gossips (in both genders), having the advice of the opposite sex can be useful, at least I think. Still hasn't helped me all that much, but it hasn't hurt.

Btw OP, going for making friends first can help social skills, or failing that, use the Internet. I'm Observer for a reason, between watching and studying people on the net and in life, I'm gaining a lot of understanding that I didn't have before. It might even be enough to successfully get together at some point.

And failing general attention, I am around on the boards KZN linked, and I can try to help whoever needs it.
>> KZN
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>> KZN
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>> KZN
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I love this picture more than words can ever describe. I don't know exactly what it is about the picture, but it's just beautiful.
>> Anonymous
>>784698

no hes right. ive been engaged more then once and let me tell you...

ive been single for 3 years and couldnt be happier.

But then again, you could say that previous to that there wasnt a week that would go by without sex....

Maybe I just needed a break. lol
>> KZN
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>> KZN
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>> KZN
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>> KZN
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>> Anonymous
it feels fantastic... Thanks for asking.
>> JD !!ZP5U34y0zKo
>>787251
>>787210
>>787209
>>787206
>>787140
>>787134
>>787131
>>786865
oh god stop making me cry
>> Anonymous
I was starting the same kind of threads about 3 years ago. I'm so glad to see I grew out of it... You just need to take action and do everything you can to make yourself a better person, whether it's working out, brushing your teeth more regularly, smiling more at people, spending less time online... I'm not beautiful either but I've learned it's not everything. It really isn't. And the kind of girls who matter are into sensitive boys. Thank god.
>> BioMild Distress
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I know the feeling too. It used to drive me nuts seeing couples looking so happy, but I'm sorted with someone now. Just hang in there, someone will come along. Just be upbeat, Say something funny (Like I used to crack jokes about myself falling off my board.) Although they just laughed because I'm fat. Still, here's something to cheer you up in the mean time. Don't give up.

BioMild Distress

P.s. It took me 6 years of lying cheating bitches and a hell of a lot of name calling behind my back before I finally found the right one.

P.P.S. For those who have given up hope for ever finding love. Don't feel bad, At least you don't get nagged or threatened with diets.
>> Anonymous
femanon here:
Guys, I know how you feel; all I want is a guy to hold my hand and hug me. Even through high school I didn't find anyone, I wasn't sure if they were interested or not. I still wanted to be their friend, at least. (For the record, I'm not fat and I'm really outgoing with people.) =-=
I can't speak for the world's female population, but a lot of girls just want a guy they can talk to, who'll listen, who'll be comforting. Girls usually will want to be with someone they've known for awhile or are close with. Let a girl get to know you, and make sure you get to know the girl. Like mentioned before, women do want to be overpowered, it's written in us. So sometimes, girls want you to make the first move if you're genuinely interested.
Girls can really be mean to underdog guys, no doubt about that. Sometimes they won't have the same ambition as other guys, but don't fret. Disney has showed us that the underdog will win--sometimes.
Seriously, if you think you can't get a date the way you are now, then see if you want to change something about yourself. Girls really do love confidence, as mentioned above as well.
>> Anonymous
How do you ask a girl you like out, though?

I've met many that I've liked throughout my life, but I'm an utterly shy and passive guy. How do I take the initiative long enough to ask her out (even if I might get rejected)?
>> KZN
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>>787818
I couldn't tell you; I have the same problem.

I guess, just...when you have the opportunity, don't let it go. Just do it and go through with it. Trust me, you'll regret it later if you don't. ;_;
>> Anonymous
Speaking from the perspective of someone who literally JUST got over his shyness and managed to ask someone out for the first time last week (I'm 22, freaking late)... It's a matter of just doing it. Screw the consequences. Turn red in front of her. Stutter if you have to. However, just throw it out there that you like her.

As for conversation, I'm awful at smalltalk as well. Pick something that you're well versed in, and hopefully something that she'll enjoy as well. For example, if you like anime, talk about a series you like. Yeah it's hard, but being dead silent isn't going to win you anything. Another strategy is you could wait long enough to become really desperate, and it'll pop out naturally, haha.

I'm only one week into my brand new relationship. The butterflies still come in pretty strong when I'm around her, but we've already held hands together. Best feeling in the world I tell you... I'm still trying to figure my own things out, and hopefully not screwing things up either. However, just know that the payoff is every bit as good as you've imagined, if not better. Hopefully it'll get you off your ass and into the scene.

Good luck to you! From a formerly ronery Anon...
>> Anonymous
>>787932

As a female I'd just like to say that I think it's cute when guys stammer and blush. Hell, even when they're fat and ugly you get tempted to date them just out of pity.

Never underestimate the power of pity. Seriously.
>> Anonymous
Learn to rape.
>> Anonymous
Bad at reading signs?
-check
Socially awkward?
-check
Emaciated with dark circles under eyes?
-check
preparedness to die alone?
-check
Eastern European background?
-Czech
>> Anonymous
never underestimate the power of the interwebs.
I'm a generally shy chick, but I've made some really close friends by connecting through myspace or facebook and talking online with them before hanging out in person. It's a lot easier for me to carry on a good conversation online and can make you more comfortable with the person for when you actually meet up with them.
Just get an artsy b+w image for your profile pic (to look "sensetive"), write a friendly non-creepy message to someone's myspace. It works.
>> Anonymous
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>>How does it feel to have the soft lips of a girl on yours?

It can be GREAT! But seriously, the first time it happened, it was highly disconcerting...like somebody was pressing gooey little fish against my mouth...fish that had been smoking and drinking lots of red wine and black coffee. I was already way too drunk/stoned, and minutes later, aided by that peculiar sensation, I heaved into a wastebasket. "You all right?" my friends asked, gently kicking me in the head.
>> Anonymous
>>787968
I'd rather stay single than have somebody date me out of pity. Good relationships are never born out of pity.
>> Anonymous
Ronery people, get over it. Society is trying to brainwash you into thinking you *need* romantic love, but that isn't the case. There are quite a few famous people who never got laid. Also, romance, if successful, tends to lead to marriage and kids, and you'll never have time for yourself again until the latter move out.
>> Yeah... Anonymous
Anime screws you up. Really. Ain't no good feeling sorry for yourselves cause you prolly ain't gonna move into an all girls dormitory and an angel probably ain't gonna magically come along so you can wish for her to follow your sorry ass around forever.

Trick is to be a fountain not a drain, If people have a better time when you are around; they will want you around. If people do not have as much fun while you are around; they will not want you around... If it be charisma that ails you, then there are ways of improving it... You can find most anything on the internet these days if your willing to look for it. That's bout as much hinting this anon can give...rest is up to you
>> Anonymous
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>> Anonymous
I'm alone, but not ronrey.

Deal with it.
>> Anonymous
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You just lost.