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Hello /c/.

We're all ronery here, right? So I'd like to ask a question for the benefit of science:

How was your relationship with your mother/how was your mother as a person?

I'll start us off: Not good on both counts.

You?
>> Anonymous
Fine, but then I'm not actually ronery. I gots me a GF at last, but that doesn't mean I don't like cutesy pics every now and then which is why I'm here. :3
>> Aro !!tth/tv+hsYe
>>791932
>:3
ONLY ONE PERSON IS ALLOWED TO USE THAT

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
>> Anonymous
honestly, my mother left our house when i was 7. she ran off with some guy, the last i heard she was in LA and the guy had dumped her...
>> Anonymous
I love my mom. We get along great, and she's a good person.

My DAD, though...
>> Anonymous
>>791979
But are you ronery? Have you ever had a GF?

This is relevant to my sciences.
>> KZN
>>791943
Calm down, Aro.

Also, my relationship with my mother is pretty good, I'd say. She's a good parent and I don't often fight with her, but lately there's a lot of shit going on so we've had a few verbal spats here and there.
>> Anonymous
Really, really bad.

Let's just say college is quite a relief.
>> Anonymous
>>791985

Never been on a date, never kissed, virgin, etc. etc.
>> KZN
>>791989
That being said I'd like to add that I love and respect her very much and always have, but like>>791979, my relationship with my father is terrible and he was always an awful parent. He's done some less-than-ok things to me and my siblings, so...
>> Anonymous
>>791996

D'awww, KZN D:
>> Anonymous
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>>791989
>>791993
I'd also like to know your ronery factor, guys. Like, maybe you could rate yourself on 1-10.

I'd rate myself pretty high (never had a gf, held hands with a girl, been friends with a girl ever etc.) plus I've had a nasty relationship with dear old mama, so I'm wondering if there's a connection.

I'd rate myself about an 8, I know there's something missing even if I don't FEEL it emotionally. What about you guys?

Also, more /c/.
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once you leave your parents house relationships with them tend to get better. you know fighting a lot with someone you are in close contact with all the time is expected it even happens when you get a GF/BF and live together. people just need thier space sometimes. so cheer up /c/ and haz a kittay
>> Anonymous
>>792001
Haha, I think you underestimate how bad things can get. I haven't lived with the woman in years (I was removed from her custody as a kid) and now have to attend therapy for anxiety.

I won't go into the details but let's just say it was more than "I don't wanna' clean my room, mom".
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>>792000

>>791979again... I really dunno how I would do that. I'd rate myself high up there, 'cause I've also never held hands / flirted / etc. and I don't have friends outside the inrabutts, but I have a great relationship with my mom.

9, maybe? Does mommy play a role in this?
>> ? !!b6wdmiiASLY
>>791920
>benefit of science
wat?
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Had a good relationship with my mother, we stood through hard times together. Father left when I was too young to remember, so <\3

Ronery? I'm in a long-term relationship with a beautiful girl, and have had relationships before that? So...not ronery at all. THANKS FOR THE KITTAY.
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>>792000
I don't think I could rate myself, but pretty bad. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. My roneriness is sorta my own fault, though...I'm pretty social phobic.

Though at this point my roneriness is one-person specific. I still feel it, though.
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>>792005
I guess you could say a good relationship with mommy helps roneriness. A good relationship with ANYONE helps roneriness.

I was sort of trying to see if there's a correlation between roneriness with women and poor early experiences with women, for example poor treatment as a child by your mother. I wanted to see if ronery-/c/ shared any common psychological basis.
>> Anonymous
>>792012
Lol at blatant intelligence.
>> Anonymous
>>792011
See, that's interesting. You've had a positive relationship with your mother but a poor relationship with the parent of the opposite sex and currently complain of an unsatifying love life with the opposite sex.

That's what I'm interested in hearing about, whether or not there's a trend of roneriness and negative experiences with parents of the opposite sex. Can early negative experiences with men/women negatively colour a person's advancement with the opposite sex?

That's what I want to know.
>> Anonymous
>>792008
>>791932

From these two posts it seems that positive relationship with mother = positive relationships with women for men.

Except this guy>>791979,>>791994puts a dent in my theory...
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>> ? !!b6wdmiiASLY
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relationship with my mother was more of acquaintances
really nothing i could say was exceptionally bad or
good about it

have had a few relationships, but those didn't last
long

not really ronery but i also don't have much desire
to do anything beyond want in necessary for my own
sanity