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Nature in all its reproductive glory Anonymous
My female friend turned 21 recently and was already pregnant. She lives in a 10x10 foot bedroom in a crackhouse with about 15 other people, including her boyfriends' babies' momma and their children who lives right above them.

I can't visit her as much as I'd like to, but I want to somehow help her be a better mom (her mom died of cancer and she slid into the ghetto afterwards, never came back).

She's 4 months pregnant and doesn't seem to care at all about it. I fear she is still smoking ciggarettes and meth, possibly more.

I'm somewhat well off and intelligent, but single.. I dont know how to communicate to her to care more about what she's gotten herself in to and make her feel like she's not alone.

I'm visiting her tomorrow and probably going to take her out and maybe get her some baby clothes.
pic isn't her, she's white (but just as ghetto)
>> Anonymous
Tough situation. Basically, you need to invite her out and give her the lowdown. Tell her point blank "If you don't put forth some effort and get out of that shithole and start taking care of yourself, you're going to fuck up the life of your child forever."

You might lose her as a friend, but she needs to hear it. A future child's life/well-being is at stake.
>> Anonymous
gb2/b/ faggot
shitty copypasta is shitty.
>> Anonymous
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whaa? this isn't copypasta... it's pathetically real, unfortunately. Of course, if /an/ knew anything about children, they wouldn't be paying child support payments... aghah!

And I do believe reproduction is a necessary part of nature.
>> Anonymous
the only way to help her is to ditch her as she's obviously doing well off enough given your pathetic interventions. in short, she's not receiving the full force of her stupidity given your fagacious meddling. moreover, fucking contact DCFS and the police regarding their criminal activity. hey, it'll make more room for her crack babies. and I'm fucking serious about all of this, especially you leaving her to either shape up or just implode under her own pathetic epic fail.
>> Anonymous
>>189311
I forgot to add "merry christmas and happy holidays" :3
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OP again

no worries 311 .. you're advice is quite solid. I haven't actually tried any interventions with her, even though I've known she's been preggies since september. I've been friends with her for about 4 years and I wish I had more of a base as of recent (like visits and whatnot) to support her with

For those of you not interested in "babys mamma" talk and such, I have a suggestion to put forth:
is picture related or not? Is it of a human embryo or no? I answer after guesses
>> Anonymous
I would guess centepede? wait.. centepedes dont have embryos.. or do they? sheeeit